Damn that's troublesome, terrible, unbelievable, where can i avoid this, an address would help

The only negative I see on here is “history of cheating.”

I could also see how “Girl Boss” can be negative, but not in a way he means it. He just means women who believe in working outside the home.

Edit: ok, smoking too - if we are talking cigarettes or meth. Smoke all the weed you want.

"Sir, I'm going to need you to introduce me to some of those women you claim to know. Get your keys, we're leaving right now."

Yeah the only women this guy knows live in his head

I know you're right, but must you crush my hopes and dreams like that?

red flags, liberal, girlboss.

not a red flag but, how does she has multiple baby daddies+family court while also not being a mother?

That line continues 'Not Mother / Wife Material' which means he thinks women should care for him as though he were a child.

Depending on how "refuses to cook" comes across, that's a negative in my book. I won't want to cook every meal, I'd burn out. It's a requirement that they are at least willing to do it sometimes. (I like cooking, but some days are just overly draining and I need help)

Isn't that Ruby from the game Wet?

Whats her @ tho...

Viewing “uses family court” as a negative is such a self report for that guy lol. ‘I can’t believe my ex is making legally binding agreements that I can’t unilaterally change!’ energy

To be fair though he is a child, I just think he should be put out to pasture or something. Don't worry little Timmy, hes playing on the farm with old yeller.

High bodies count : 5 ? What the fuck 🤣

No female friends isn't really negative but is never positive, to be fair.

5 is a high body count??? What a bunch of enormous fucking losers lmao

Cooking because it's your "traditional role as a woman:" no

Cooking because it's fun and the Food Network made you overconfident: yes

"Toxic relationship with father" and "dislikes God / Jesus".

Gee, I wonder why this combination would appear anywhere.

You aren't Adam Savage. You do not have the ability to substitute your own reality.

I'm Asexual and mine is higher than 5.

lol of course this is the kind of misogynistic dork that hides behind a picture of Ryan Gosling online.

Yeah, he told on himself. I'm surprised he didn't include "calls 911 to report domestic violence."

The OP is totally baiting… right?

"History of leaving me for a safer and more loving relationship."

All of this translates down to "she doesn't act like a combination mother/servant/virgin/nymphomaniac specifically for me and only me without ever complaining or asking for anything"

What a godamned cry baby

5 is a high body count only if you’re a woman. If you’re a man it’s basically nothing and you should aim for at least 100 body count.

If she’s murdered 5 people, I’ll honestly probably want to stay away.

Tbf, smoking is a no-go for me. And depending on the amount, drinking might be too. For the rest? I'm pretty sure if I found a woman like that, I'd find her extremely hot.

Thank you for the encouragement! Ah, it's been a long time since anybody gave me a compliment like that.

Wait. You said "aren't" and "do not".

Oh. What a terrible day to possess reading comprehension :(

I dated a rich girl for a while who didnt cook, none of her family could. They had a part time maid who would cook for them a bit but mostly ate out and brought home extra meals. Like literally, every time they went out they'd order a couple extra meals to go.

At one point the mom was sad she couldnt get shrimp scampi anywhere in town. So I cooked dinner for them, because NBD. They thought it was magic, doubly so because im a guy. I litterally had to remove the plastic wrapping off the inside of the oven door to make garlic bread, and all the pots and pans still had stickers in the bottom.

At one pojnt I also had to teach my 38 year old GF how to operate a washer and dryer.

Ouch, Friday I am going to try something because seriouseats made it seem reasonable, and I'm feeling called out

Feels like when you remember there are somehow still basically pre humans that exist in very very small numbers in extremely isolated geographic pockets on earth.

I got, "I am insecure in my masculinity and I need a subservient creature that I will not respect to feel powerful"

Serious question out of curiosity, is it like a mental arousal only thing, or occasional sexual arousal thing? If I'm out of bounds I'm sorry. If you prefer not to answer or if this makes you uncomfortable, please don't bother answering.

"History of cheating" doesn't necessarily mean "cheater." To those on a trajectory to make a mistake, far better lessons come from those who made mistakes and can explain how to avoid them than those who can only say, "don't make mistakes." I'm sure there's a better way to say this than the clumsy words I've chosen.

Two of these are stereotype lies. The "no female friends" and "daddy issues".

Most women I know have lots of female friends. And have decent relationships with their dads. If they don't then the dad was a loser or toxic.

The rest aren't really insults, so. 🤷

Dude. Me too. Not saying some of those were from feeling pressured when I was younger , but a handful was from genuine (tho fleeting) interest.

My logic is, I rarely (very rarely) feel that way so when I do and there isn't any obvious reason why I shouldn't (i.e they are in a relationship, or they are a co worker ) I go for it.

My perspective: . Life is only once. Enjoy yourself (or someone else) when you can.

Oh he’s batin’ alright

Sexuality is a complex thing for anyone. Regardless of whatever identity they use for themselves.

I have actually a lot of friends who are asexual-ish. Once you are out with yours, you find that other people are more open with you about this.

For some people they still want a romantic partner but have little to no interest in sexual acts with others.

For others , like myself, I have no interest in romantic partners. And very little to no interest in sexual acts with others.

Some asexuals have normal or even high libido but don't feel that emotion directed towards others. I would describe this as like wanting a snack but you open the fridge and there isn't anything in there you want.

Some have very low to no libido.

Some people who are very picky about partners and take a long time to feel comfortable, to be sexual, also sometimes call themselves asexuals.

I'm not here to gatekeep but that really does sound like average sexual identity for most people. But if someone wants to use it for that, it's their choice.

There are like 10 sub terms for asexuals but I personally find that superfluous. Everyone is different. I don't need a special label. If I want to explain myself, I will.

Labels are limiting. And they sometimes make someone else think they get your whole deal when they don't.

Too many chaotic traits lmao

Literally chose the worst arguments he could find

I would describe this as like wanting a snack but you open the fridge and there isn’t anything in there you want.

How does one dislike something they don’t believe exists?

This guy dreams of the times where.women were barefoot and pregnant, basically trained to be slaves to men.

Obviously, this loser sees his only chance of female companionship in someone submissive, as he seems incapable of a real partnership.

i can dislike fictional characters and their fanbase just fine

these places have weird names like miss piss ippi or something like that

That perfectly illustrated my feelings.

OK, "uses family court" killed me.

These fucking wannabe dictators..

Same, except multiple baby daddies seems like really shit planning and poor responsibility to me. Yeah, it takes two, and you can’t help divorce sometimes, but multiple kids from different fathers on the surface seems irresponsible AF. If the kids make her happy then NBD and I can just sit down and shut up.