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Fedicate Project break3.social fedicate@break3.social
Joined: 2026-03-01
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What made you choose your Fediverse Instance?Why did you choose your Fediverse Instance, does it have a bigger meaning than it was a bigger instance or was it for a certain reason? Did you have to be on your instance you chose?---@asklemmy@lemmy.world @asklemmy@lemmy.ml @asklemmy@sh.itjust.works#AskMastodon #AskFedi #AskFediverse #Fediverse #Instance #Question #FediQuestion

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「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) sh.itjust.works DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-23
#2 · Quote Reply

Cuz shit just works

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neidu3 Moderator neidu3@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-11-03
#3 · Quote Reply

After reaching out and proving I was human, the admins agreed to activate my account manually so I didn't have to enter a valid email address.

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Iconoclast feddit.uk Iconoclast@feddit.uk
Joined: 2026-02-05
#4 · Quote Reply

I needed to make a new account when lemm.ee shut down and feddit.uk was the first one that came to mind. I'm not even from the UK.

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FiniteBanjo feddit.online FiniteBanjo@feddit.online
Joined: 2025-12-23
#5 · (edited) Quote Reply

Its a decently sized Piefed Server that allows me to talk about Politics.

I used to use Piefed dot World and before that Lemmy Word but they explicitly and openly support the misogynist, transphobic, pro-war, pro-genocide tankie Lemmy Developers, so I don't go there anymore.

EDIT: The hecks this little fedicate bubble?

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reksas sopuli.xyz reksas@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2023-06-11
#6 · Quote Reply

maintainer is from my country, rules are good and reasonable, nice local content, no local drama

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TotallyNotSpez startrek.website TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website
Joined: 2023-12-17
#7 · Quote Reply

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Stern lemmy.world Stern@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-14
#8 · Quote Reply

Kbin was my first, shit was fucky with it for a bit so I changed. No complaints about world (Yet anyhow)

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TheWeirdestCunt lemmy.today TheWeirdestCunt@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-03
#9 · Quote Reply

I was on lemmy.ee and when it shut down I wanted to join an instance that wouldn't defederate unless it absolutely had to, .today was the first option I saw and it works well enough for what I need it for

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FistingEnthusiast lemmy.world FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-02-18
#10 · (edited) Quote Reply

I didn't give a shit

My account on the old nsfw stopped working because apparently someone shit the bed or stopped doing something or whatever

It's not something that I care about, so I just did whatever

I have no idea what instance I'm on

I don't even know what instances are, or what difference it makes

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adhd_traco piefed.social adhd_traco@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-10-23
#11 · Quote Reply

I heard people I respect talk about it in ways I enjoyed :)

The public feed, rules, etc. also looked like a good match for me. And I'm absolutely grateful to be able to post from here!

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Ada piefed.blahaj.zone ada@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-06
#12 · Quote Reply

It would be weird to host an instance without using it...

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LeapSecond lemmy.zip LeapSecond@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-11-12
#13 · Quote Reply

Very small blocked list and doesn't block NSFW. Users should make their own choices. Also awesome stats every month.

This is probably the first sharkey post I see on lemmy. It looks really good, nice.

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lasta piefed.world lasta@piefed.world
Joined: 2026-01-21
#14 · (edited) Quote Reply

I chose from the general purpose instances because I don’t know enough about or align myself closely with the more niche instances. The stability of the instances and number of instances it blocked/was blocked by was also a factor, since I wanted a neutral experience - here’s where I found that data.

After lemm.ee shut down, I wanted to try PieFed, and the name piefed.world made me imagine a world fed with pie. Thought that was cute.

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amzd lemmy.world amzd@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-08-05
#15 · Quote Reply

Kbin went down so I choose the biggest one to not have to deal with it going down

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Bazell lemmy.zip Bazell@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-11-12
#16 · Quote Reply

Its name.

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Ace feddit.uk AcesFullOfKings@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-07-23
#17 · (edited) Quote Reply

Very small blocked list and doesn't block NSFW. Users should make their own choices. Also awesome stats every month. This is probably the first sharkey post I see on lemmy. It looks really good, nice.
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daggermoon piefed.world daggermoon@piefed.world
Joined: 2026-03-01
#18 · Quote Reply

I hear piefed is the new better thing so why not try it out?

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NorthWestWind lemmy.world NorthWestWind@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-11
#19 · Quote Reply

wetdry.world is an awesome name and fun instance.

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thethrilloftime69 feddit.online thethrilloftime69@feddit.online
Joined: 2026-02-12
#20 · Quote Reply

I tried out Lemmy.ml for a while but then I kept getting accused of being a tankie, so I gave up. Piefed showed up in my reddit feed and feddit.online was the first one I saw.

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cloudskater piefed.blahaj.zone cloudskater@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-02-25
#21 · Quote Reply

Its a decently sized Piefed Server that allows me to talk about Politics. I used to use Piefed dot World and before that Lemmy Word but they explicitly and openly support the misogynist, transphobic, pro-war, pro-genocide tankie Lemmy Developers, so I don't go there anymore. EDIT: The hecks this little fedicate bubble?

Wait, are you talking about .ml? I wasn't aware of .world being really bad.

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hexagonwin lemmy.today hexagonwin@lemmy.today
Joined: 2026-02-07
#22 · Quote Reply

i used to use lemmy.sdf.org since I liked sdf.org, but it sadly isn't maintained that well. lemmy.today seems to have no instance blocks, have good stability and support for the old reddit style frontend

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lambalicious lemmy.sdf.org lambalicious@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-07-26
#23 · Quote Reply

I'm using sdf half because they are part of a service I already paid for and half because I'm too lazy to make myself more accounts somewhere else.

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FiniteBanjo feddit.online FiniteBanjo@feddit.online
Joined: 2025-12-23
#24 · Quote Reply

Wait, are you talking about .ml? I wasn't aware of .world being really bad.

World is not as bad, but they financially support developers like Desalines who OWN AND OPERATE ML.

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cloudskater piefed.blahaj.zone cloudskater@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-02-25
#25 · Quote Reply

World is not as bad, but they financially support developers like Desalines who OWN AND OPERATE ML.

Oh fuckin shit. That's why I just joined PieFed here. I'll be sure to block .world too

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Endmaker ani.social Endmaker@ani.social
Joined: 2024-07-10
#26 · (edited) Quote Reply

I started with lemmy.world, the biggest generalist instance, for an easy starting point. I thought I would be interacting in programming and anime threads.

In the end, I end up discussing mostly weeb stuff, so ani.social looks more appropriate.

Also, I don't know the specifics, but if ani.social triggered lemmy.ml enough for lemmy.ml to defederate from ani.social, it must be doing something right.

In my experience, the instance and community moderators of ani.social are based. I barely see any drama unlike some other instances. I'd say I chose well.

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ShellMonkey piefed.socdojo.com ShellMonkey@piefed.socdojo.com
Joined: 2025-09-09
#27 · Quote Reply

Because the admin lets me post semi-random thoughts on it, plus it makes a nice space heater in the winter and background noise in the summer.

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Jo Miran lemmy.ml JoMiran@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-29
#28 · Quote Reply

Main dev instance.

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Otter lemmy.ca otter@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-06-05
#29 · Quote Reply

maintainer is from my country, rules are good and reasonable, nice local content, no local drama

I made accounts on a few instances, but I stuck with this one (and eventually joined the team) for the same reasons

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ddh lemmy.sdf.org DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-06-10
#30 · Quote Reply

I've been an SDF member for about 25 years. They created a Lemmy server, I tried it out, and here I am.

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Hossenfeffer feddit.uk Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-06-14
#31 · (edited) Quote Reply

When I was on Reddit, /r/CasualUK/ was my spiritual home, so moving to Feddit UK, home of !casualuk@feddit.uk, was a no brainer.

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calmblue75 lemmy.ml calmblue75@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-10-06
#32 · Quote Reply

This was the first stable community on which I was able to make an account on, after many failed attempts at other instances. I had a lemmy.cafe account before, but I was not getting recent posts. Another reason is that I am mostly ok with this community's moderation policies.
When I was yet to choose an instance, I saw a lot of fearmongering in the fediverse about ml, hexbear and lemmygrad being very toxic communities. I put off for long till I got convinced that ml was actually a decent community. There will be some toxic users in any community, offline or online. But certain bullshit is not tolerated on ml, like ableist language, apathy to people outside the US, hate speech etc. So, here I am.

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LeapSecond lemmy.zip LeapSecond@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-11-12
#33 · Quote Reply

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NSFW is a very generic tag. I usually browse subscribed so porn popping up is not a problem. I still want to see NSFW-tagged footage from conflicts or the occasional mild NSFW art. Photos are blurred by default so it's not like someone will see it by accident.

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meejle piefed.world meejle@piefed.world
Joined: 2026-02-08
#34 · Quote Reply

Because I already started using Mastodon.World years ago, then Lemmy.World, and now Piefed.World. 🤷‍♂️

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disregardable lemmy.zip disregardable@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-12-26
#35 · (edited) Quote Reply

I saw a post recommending lemmy.zip for beginners, and, while it doesn't cater to my interests at all, it is a casual, well run, and nicely designed instance. I didn't understand what an instance was, but now I like the design of blorp.lemmy.zip

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Skavau piefed.social Skavau@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-03-18
#36 · Quote Reply

I didn't give a shit My account on the old nsfw stopped working because apparently someone shit the bed or stopped doing something or whatever It's not something that I care about, so I just did whatever I have no idea what instance I'm on I don't even know what instances are, or what difference it makes

You are on lemmy.world

You can see the instance others are on by the @ after their name. If they don't have one, they are local to you.

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ea6927d8 lemmy.ml ea6927d8@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-07-19
#37 · Quote Reply

Main dev instance.

Same reason I use Jerboa.

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InvalidName2 lemmy.zip InvalidName2@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-07-10
#38 · Quote Reply

Literally every single instance I've ever joined has either died/shutdown or had weeks/months long outages.

Hate, hate, hate.

Anyway, I almost didn't make it on to lemmy dot zip -- There's a glaring bug and major UI malfunction on the web version of the sign-up form. I tried signing up, got some generic error message "InvalidName", but not indication about what was invalid about it. Tried several variations of the name I wanted, no dice. Tried "InvalidName" itself, didn't work. So I tried "InvalidName2" and that finally worked.

After all that effort to join, figured I'd stay a bit.

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sveltecider lemmy.world sveltecider@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-03-01
#39 · Quote Reply

Just whatever’s most popular in English. So lemmy.world. And lemmy.ca because I’m Canadian. Any suggestions from others?

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cally [he/they] pawb.social callyral@pawb.social
Joined: 2023-09-14
#40 · (edited) Quote Reply

pawb.social because furries (kbin.social was discontinued i think so i had to leave there)

moved my mastodon account to furry.engineer because it was run by the pawb.social team. also i'd never seen a .engineer domain before lol.

and i have an account at waf.moe because i like how it looks and wafrn is different and cool. there's also custom css on profiles.

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kn0wmad1c programming.dev kn0wmad1c@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-21
#41 · Quote Reply

I am a programmer.

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gigachad piefed.social gigachad@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-07-04
#42 · Quote Reply

I wanted to check out PieFed because the Lemmy devs suck

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Grail multiverse.soulism.net Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-01-14
#43 · Quote Reply

I made it! I'm on MULTIVERSE, the antirealist instance

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mnemonicmonkeys sh.itjust.works mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-17
#44 · Quote Reply

I migrated during Reddit's API debacle. I picked sh.itjust.works for several reasons:

  • No email required to sign up (at the time)
  • Hosted the only NonCredibleDefense community on Lemmy (at the time)
  • Had almost no defederated instances (at the time)
  • Consistent uptime (was 99% at the time and still not far off)
  • Hosted in Canada but accepting of US citizens
  • Powered by 98% renewable energy
  • TheDude abides

While some things have changed like defederating from more servers, it's left up to a vote by users of the server and the vote doesn't get proposed unless there's a good reason (such as a server being Nazi-friendly or constantly harassing/trolling users)

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HakFoo lemmy.sdf.org HakFoo@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-06-14
#45 · Quote Reply

I figured SDF were the sort of people who would consider uptime a badge of honour.

I should probably be on Hexbear but I didn't know of its existence at the time. Very problematic, my Xibuck direct deposits keep bouncing.

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tacosanonymous mander.xyz tacosanonymous@mander.xyz
Joined: 2025-06-30
#46 · Quote Reply

You are on lemmy.world You can see the instance others are on by the @ after their name. If they don't have one, they are local to you.

I think that it depends on how you access lemmy. Iirc, voyager and some others allow you to toggle user instances (at least for comments)

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tacosanonymous mander.xyz tacosanonymous@mander.xyz
Joined: 2025-06-30
#47 · Quote Reply

I used lemm.ee bc of their defederation policy. When it died, I chose mander.xyz for the same reason.

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Sharkticon lemmy.zip Sharkticon@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-12-21
#48 · Quote Reply

Disgust over .world an piefed's neoliberal crusade.

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sveltecider lemmy.ca sveltecider@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2026-03-01
#49 · Quote Reply

Supporting Canadian because I am Canadian.

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Libb piefed.social Libb@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-06-04
#50 · Quote Reply

Smurf pie is the undisputed best ;)

Or maybe I liked Piefed features better than the previous I was using?

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leavenotrace feddit.nu leavenotrace@feddit.nu
Joined: 2026-02-07
#51 · Quote Reply

I chose it because it's the biggest Swedish instance, even if there are only ~100 active users.

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