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FlashMobOfOne lemmy.world FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-12
#52 · Quote Reply

It's true.

Just try having a discussion about Age or ID Verification or the Brave Browser and see how quickly you get dogpiled and downvoted to hell if what you think isn't the accepted orthodoxy.

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silosong lemmy.zip silosong@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-02-19
#53 · Quote Reply

They banned me for asking if fascism with human rights could be possible. The interesting part is that it could be that despite the west's support for human rights we could already be in a form of fascism. But that discussion could't be had because the question already triggered a ban. So I think banning helps to keep an instance clean but it also prevents interesting discussions.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZ7wB4rm5Hw

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chosensilence pawb.social chosensilence@pawb.social
Joined: 2025-05-08
#54 · Quote Reply

i think itโ€™s okay to be authoritarian on your own channel lol. Absolutely. But don't pretend to be an anarchist then. Be actually honest about your views and people may then (as per anarchist thought) choose for themselves if they want to get on board with that or not.

i don't see those as incompatible. you can be an anarchist and very controlling over your own online space.

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Voidian lemmy.dbzer0.com Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-10-16
#55 · Quote Reply

i don't see those as incompatible. you can be an anarchist and very controlling over your own online space.

Again, as long as you're very explicit about it. But don't call it an anarchist space. It's then a space, run by an anarchist, that doesn't follow the rules of anarchism.

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chosensilence pawb.social chosensilence@pawb.social
Joined: 2025-05-08
#56 · Quote Reply

Again, as long as you're very explicit about it. But don't call it an anarchist space. It's then a space, run by an anarchist, that doesn't follow the rules of anarchism.

shrug i mean i guess but there is nothing about enforcing regulation that is anti-anarchist.

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adhd_traco piefed.social adhd_traco@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-10-23
#57 · Quote Reply

I have a pretty low opinion of moderators generally. In the vast majority of cases, the people who actually want to be moderators are precisely the worst kinds of people to do the job. Of course there are exceptions but all too often they're doing it because they like the power and attention.

I think many people feel this way, and I think in many cases another thing that plays into it is not realising the amount of good moderators, because good moderation usually doesn't make as much noise as when it's bad.

If I think of all the communities in lemmy/piefed I like, the perfect/near perfect moderation from my browsing heavily outweighs anything problematic.

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yucandu lemmy.world yucandu@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-03-12
#58 · Quote Reply

Just tell them that moral absolutism benefits the status-quo.

Because it's true. It does. I think it's actually a psyop by the capitalists to prevent socialism ever taking a foothold or affecting their money. Capitalists are afraid of positive incremental change, so they tricked leftists into being afraid of it too.

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yucandu lemmy.world yucandu@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-03-12
#59 · Quote Reply

Migrants and refugees are under constant attack throughout the west. The US has secret police racially profiling, beating, killing, illegally kidnapping and disappearing people. Civil rights are rapidly being restricted and rolled back. Israel does a genocide and bombs every county in it's vicinity while the west offers it's boots, bombs, and blessings. The west doesn't support human rights, an...

I don't think it's fair or productive to conflate America or Israel with "the West".

First of all, it's an ancient term used to describe sides in a conflict long since over, in some cases containing countries that don't even exist anymore.

Secondly, it includes countries that actively oppose the US and Israel's actions, like Ireland, or Spain.

Third, it doesn't make any fucking sense, because it includes Japan, which is about as far east as you can get.

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yucandu lemmy.world yucandu@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-03-12
#60 · Quote Reply

unmoderated internet spaces are quickly overrun with bigotry, csam, and spam. if, in the name of "free speech", you only moderate the csam and spam, the space will be primarily occupied by people looking for a forum that welcomes bigotry. respect to @db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com for rm'ing bigotry and not letting childish anarchist free speech ideals cause lemmy.dbzer0.com to be a nazi bar ๐Ÿฅ‚ ::: spoile...

Yeah the problem is that these people are deciding that "I am a nazi and I think white people are the supreme race and I want to install a fascist state" and "I don't think China is actually socialist" are both nazi, fascist, bigoted speech, and then people like you are saying "no that doesn't happen they only go after the bad stuff every single time and never get anything wrong".

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yucandu lemmy.world yucandu@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-03-12
#61 · Quote Reply

Looking at you, leftymemes ugh groupthink central, do NOT divert an inch from the state sanctioned opinions, OR ELSE

It's all fun and games until you say that China is wearing socialism as a cloak the same way America wears Christianity or Israel wears anti-semitism.

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ZombiFrancis sh.itjust.works ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-24
#62 · Quote Reply

unmoderated internet spaces are quickly overrun with bigotry, csam, and spam. if, in the name of "free speech", you only moderate the csam and spam, the space will be primarily occupied by people looking for a forum that welcomes bigotry. respect to @db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com for rm'ing bigotry and not letting childish anarchist free speech ideals cause lemmy.dbzer0.com to be a nazi bar ๐Ÿฅ‚ ::: spoile...

People keep setting up these Punching bars and then get mad when their patrons get Punched.

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#63 · (edited) Quote Reply

shrug i mean i guess but there is nothing about enforcing regulation that is anti-anarchist.

Enforcing regulation and enforcing one's own personal views are two different things. This entire convo is supposed to focus on the latter, not confuse them with each other.

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#64 · Quote Reply

I really, really, hope that you can understand that for some percentage of the population, morality isn't a guardrail, & that has been visible for millenia. The person you're replying-to isn't the only person in the world, & evidence is that without coercive-force & enforcement & enforced-accountability, then DarkTriad IS GOING TO rule the world, no matter what, & making-bel...

Anarchism is not about zero enforcement of rules. Especially wise ones like don't dittle kids...

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#65 · (edited) Quote Reply

I think many people feel this way, and I think in many cases another thing that plays into it is not realising the amount of good moderators, because good moderation usually doesn't make as much noise as when it's bad. If I think of all the communities in lemmy/piefed I like, the perfect/near perfect moderation from my browsing heavily outweighs anything problematic.

How do you see overly heavy opinion based moderation if you're never the target of it? You don't. You just see communities that are weirdly same-think. Though I bet you'd just dismiss it as a consequence of the fediverse already self-selecting for a certain type, but that is wrong.

There is bad moderation all over the place, but you don't see it, because many mods/admins prefer to ban and delete than to let the vote system do its job.

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adhd_traco piefed.social adhd_traco@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-10-23
#66 · Quote Reply

How do you see overly heavy opinion based moderation if you're never the target of it? You don't. You just see communities that are weirdly same-think. Though I bet you'd just dismiss it as a consequence of the fediverse already self-selecting for a certain type, but that is wrong. There is bad moderation all over the place, but you don't see it, because many mods/admins prefer to ban and delet...

By noticing people complaining about it :)
Also being aware of certain biases and such, and looking for the existence of posts that would be deleted if the bias was heavy, etc.

Sure, some stuff might fall under the radar or stay for a long time, definitely a thing.

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#67 · Quote Reply

Then I think instead of saying "This type of people do this bad thing", maybe phrase it as "doing this goes against the values of the people you claim to be a part of".

They did. Why are you tone policing? You're doing exactly what they're saying is bad...

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YiddishMcSquidish lemmy.today YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-03-10
#68 · Quote Reply

Iโ€™ve seen better moderation in .ml instances.

Uh oh. One or the other found you, here comes the brigade!

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#69 · Quote Reply

You're right. I suppose I should have said, you don't complain about rules that you agree with. But generally, when someone's on here complaining about being silenced and specifically quotes "People should not be harassed for these reasons:" I'd bet it was because they harassed somebody for one of those reasons and they feel that they should be able to do that.

You're doing so much projection here it's genuinely sad.

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SatansMaggotyCumFart piefed.world SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-07-09
#70 · Quote Reply

Uh oh. One or the other found you, here comes the brigade!

Iโ€™ve been brigaded by better instances.

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#71 · Quote Reply

I find this hilarious because you keep raging about people calling someone fascist for not sharing the exact same opinion, yet that's exactly what you're doing, accusing me of being something I'm not because you won't take the time to understand what I'm saying.

No, you are. You are just in denial about it.

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#72 · (edited) Quote Reply

SuperEars Critical Thinking. ( & your selective-framing which leaves-out the actual-problem, can go eat rocks ) Archy is the hierarchy that civilization uses as its skeleton & nervous-system. Hierarchy was the original, & the Hierarch was the original top-person. Got a brain in your body?? THAT is archy. The people who pretend that no-archy is the ideal, ignore the blunt fact that w...

lol

If you're losing the battle of wisdom against a toddler, perhaps there is a reason to listen to that toddler...

You seem to not understand how anarchy works. It is not, "no rules and everyone is equal amd does what they want". It's, "nobody is given de facto authority over others with which they can cudgel their compatriots". Not having de facto, unquestionable authority is a long ways away from, "there are no rules for society".

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#73 · Quote Reply

By noticing people complaining about it :) Also being aware of certain biases and such, and looking for the existence of posts that would be deleted if the bias was heavy, etc. Sure, some stuff might fall under the radar or stay for a long time, definitely a thing.

Nah, the complaints get deleted faster than the wrong-think. The point is you aren't given enough to 'notice' when the hammer comes down as it does in many communities here.

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DraconicSun piefed.social SalamenceFury@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-01-20
#74 · Quote Reply

You know that anarchism doesn't mean no rules right? It just means no rulers, but that's not how it works on Lemmy or any social media of this type for that matter.

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EldritchFemininity lemmy.blahaj.zone EldritchFeminity@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-11-22
#75 · Quote Reply

The only time people complain about rules is when they have broken them or intend to break them. They seem upset for not being able to harass people for some reason, I'm just curious which form of harassment they feel is justified.

"The only people worried about privacy are those with something to hide."

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ttyybb lemmy.world ttyybb@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-12-15
#76 · Quote Reply

Nah, the complaints get deleted faster than the wrong-think. The point is you aren't given enough to 'notice' when the hammer comes down as it does in many communities here.

So then why is this still here?

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plyth feddit.org plyth@feddit.org
Joined: 2025-05-11
#77 · (edited) Quote Reply

Migrants and refugees are under constant attack throughout the west. The US has secret police racially profiling, beating, killing, illegally kidnapping and disappearing people. Civil rights are rapidly being restricted and rolled back. Israel does a genocide and bombs every county in it's vicinity while the west offers it's boots, bombs, and blessings. The west doesn't support human rights, an...

The west doesnโ€™t support human rights, and the fascists are already in power.

Unfortunately as a society we believe that we support human rights so as a society we are not ready to face our fascist traits.

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Wildmimic anarchist.nexus Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus
Joined: 2025-09-05
#78 · Quote Reply

It's true. Just try having a discussion about Age or ID Verification or the Brave Browser and see how quickly you get dogpiled and downvoted to hell if what you think isn't the accepted orthodoxy.

If your opinion is that Age verification is a good thing or the Brave Browser isn't a product of a company which has a right-wing homophobe as CEO then your opinion is colliding with hard facts.

Age Verification is simply deanonymization of the internet through the backdoor, raising a lot of privacy and cybersecurity questions. Paradoxically, it creates security risks for the children "being protected".

Brendan Eich is NOT a good person. He is a verified homophobe , conspiracy theorist and his browser, even if it's currently a good deal for the end user, is under constant pressure from shareholders to produce more revenue. It is therefore prone to enshittification in the future. Also, even if the browser blocks third party trackers by default, should you opt in to Brave ads, there is local behavioral tracking and tokenized reporting going on , which enables indirect tracking.

You have your right to your opinion. You don't have the right to be shielded from criticism for your opinions, and it is the in the literal job description for a moderator to curb misinformation to ensure the health of a community.

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LurkingLuddite piefed.social LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-04
#79 · Quote Reply

So then why is this still here?

Because this is hardly a contentious discussion or topic, and something doesn't have to be a guarantee to never the less be a trend..?

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๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐ŸŒ€ ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ณ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐Ÿ‡ฎ pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
Joined: 2024-10-06
#80 · Quote Reply

I don't love moderating my communities at all. I barely even read the reports. ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐ŸŒ€ ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ณ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐Ÿ‡ฎ pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
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#81 · Quote Reply

*Tom Morello has entered the chat

Bert Kreischer has been banned from the chat

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๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐ŸŒ€ ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ณ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐Ÿ‡ฎ pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
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#82 · (edited) Quote Reply

How do you see overly heavy opinion based moderation if you're never the target of it? You don't. You just see communities that are weirdly same-think. Though I bet you'd just dismiss it as a consequence of the fediverse already self-selecting for a certain type, but that is wrong. There is bad moderation all over the place, but you don't see it, because many mods/admins prefer to ban and delet...

That's why I rigorously review the modlog. Unlike Reddit or other social media, there is a public record of everything every mod does.

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๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐ŸŒ€ ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ณ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐Ÿ‡ฎ pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
Joined: 2024-10-06
#83 · (edited) Quote Reply

Nah, the complaints get deleted faster than the wrong-think. The point is you aren't given enough to 'notice' when the hammer comes down as it does in many communities here.

That's also why there are mod abuse report comms. There's more than one, too, since some of the originals are on an instance with an abusive admin.

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BonkTheAnnoyed lemmy.blahaj.zone BonkTheAnnoyed@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-08-13
#84 · Quote Reply

Okay, I'll bite. I need to add to my block list anyway.

Y'all have heard of the Nazi Bar problem, right?
Paradox of intolerance? Which turns out not to be a paradox after all? You should def look that one up rather than waiting for me to type it all out.

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Amnesigenic lemmy.ml Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-07
#85 · Quote Reply

Toddler thoughts

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Amnesigenic lemmy.ml Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-07
#86 · Quote Reply

[removed by moderator]

Cope

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Amnesigenic lemmy.ml Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-07
#87 · Quote Reply

They did. Why are you tone policing? You're doing exactly what they're saying is bad...

Cope

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FlashMobOfOne lemmy.world FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-12
#88 · (edited) Quote Reply

If your opinion is that Age verification is a good thing or the Brave Browser isn't a product of a company which has a right-wing homophobe as CEO then your opinion is colliding with hard facts. Age Verification is simply deanonymization of the internet through the backdoor, raising a lot of privacy and cybersecurity questions. Paradoxically, it creates security risks for the children "being pr...

Thank you for the reply. I hope you have a lovely Sunday.

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#89 · Quote Reply

Iโ€™ve been brigaded by better instances.

"You are allowed to do anything you want, so long as it's exactly what we say"

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NaibofTabr infosec.pub NaibofTabr@infosec.pub
Joined: 2023-06-18
#90 · Quote Reply

You know that anarchism doesn't mean no rules right? It just means no rulers, but that's not how it works on Lemmy or any social media of this type for that matter.

It just means no rulers, but that's not how it works

...anywhere in reality.

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#91 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

It's not possible, because anyone who realizes "I am the nazi" and enforces justice, is dead, or worse. You won't be hearing these voices of reason, unless they did well from the start.

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#92 · Quote Reply

I think many people feel this way, and I think in many cases another thing that plays into it is not realising the amount of good moderators, because good moderation usually doesn't make as much noise as when it's bad. If I think of all the communities in lemmy/piefed I like, the perfect/near perfect moderation from my browsing heavily outweighs anything problematic.

I remember I was an administrator, and the moderator threatened to ban me. That was fun, I was like "Oh no, please don't". And I just played along.

As an administrator, I had only 2 modes: Not sure, can't ban this person without more evidence, and "that is a liability, shut down the server!". So I didn't react to most things that were done, even if they were technically against the rules. Then when I became the owner, I set a pol for people to decide if I should just delete the server, because I knew I didn't have the time to make sure some truly heinous stuff does not happen.

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Doomsider lemmy.world Doomsider@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#93 · Quote Reply

"You are allowed to do anything you want, so long as it's exactly what we say"

Hey! I will have you know that we're are all different and unique in exactly the same way.

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Evotech lemmy.world Evotech@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-11
#94 · Quote Reply

Okay, I'll bite. I need to add to my block list anyway. Y'all have heard of the Nazi Bar problem, right? Paradox of intolerance? Which turns out not to be a paradox after all? You should def look that one up rather than waiting for me to type it all out.

So how is that different when itโ€™s online vs offline?

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Arthur Besse lemmy.ml cypherpunks@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2022-01-17
#95 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Itโ€™s ironic you state it like this, since we are an explicitly anarchist server ;)

it's not really ironic as i am well aware that you are and i appreciate you for that :)

what i'm saying is that i'm glad that, despite obviously being a (fellow!) proponent of freedom of expression, you haven't fallen victim to the childish line of thought which leads some people to let their spaces become nazi bars. so: thanks!

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Arthur Besse lemmy.ml cypherpunks@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2022-01-17
#96 · (edited) Quote Reply

Again, as long as you're very explicit about it. But don't call it an anarchist space. It's then a space, run by an anarchist, that doesn't follow the rules of anarchism.

But donโ€™t call it an anarchist space

tell me you've never been in a non-internet anarchist space without telling me ๐Ÿ˜‚

(hint: offline anarchist bars and other spaces tend not to tolerate fascists either)

rules of anarchism

๐Ÿ˜ญ

(this is a bit, right?)

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bestboyfriendintheworld sh.itjust.works bestboyfriendintheworld@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-09-21
#97 · Quote Reply

Okay, I'll bite. I need to add to my block list anyway. Y'all have heard of the Nazi Bar problem, right? Paradox of intolerance? Which turns out not to be a paradox after all? You should def look that one up rather than waiting for me to type it all out.

Lemmy is a Tankie Bar.

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DraconicSun piefed.social SalamenceFury@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-01-20
#98 · Quote Reply

It just means no rulers, but that's not how it works ...anywhere in reality.

Humans spent thousands of years without rulers. Also, look at all the grassroots organizations trying to stop fascism in America right now.

Leaders are dispensable AND disposable. We do not need them.

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Voidian lemmy.dbzer0.com Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-10-16
#99 · Quote Reply

But donโ€™t call it an anarchist space tell me you've never been in a non-internet anarchist space without telling me ๐Ÿ˜‚ (hint: offline anarchist bars and other spaces tend not to tolerate fascists either) rules of anarchism ๐Ÿ˜ญ (this is a bit, right?)

Schrรถdinger Anarchist: both has and hasn't rules.

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Voidian lemmy.dbzer0.com Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-10-16
#100 · (edited) Quote Reply

Okay, I'll bite. I need to add to my block list anyway. Y'all have heard of the Nazi Bar problem, right? Paradox of intolerance? Which turns out not to be a paradox after all? You should def look that one up rather than waiting for me to type it all out.

People like to refer to the paradox of tolerance but always skip out on the inconvenient bit:

""Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them.

โ€” In this formulation, I do not imply, for instance, that we should always suppress the utterance of intolerant philosophies; as long as we can counter them by rational argument and keep them in check by public opinion, suppression would certainly be most unwise. But we should claim the right to suppress them if necessary even by force; for it may easily turn out that they are not prepared to meet us on the level of rational argument, but begin by denouncing all argument; they may forbid their followers to listen to rational argument, because it is deceptive, and teach them to answer arguments by the use of their fists or pistols.

We should therefore claim, in the name of tolerance, the right not to tolerate the intolerant.""

If you are not able to rationally argue why we shouldn't be bigoted, I don't know what to tell you.

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Waveform multiverse.soulism.net Waveform@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-02-12
#101 · Quote Reply

Just tell them that moral absolutism benefits the status-quo. Because it's true. It does. I think it's actually a psyop by the capitalists to prevent socialism ever taking a foothold or affecting their money. Capitalists are afraid of positive incremental change, so they tricked leftists into being afraid of it too.

the spiciest take

nobody wants to change the game, they're just mad that they're not winning it

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