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Track_Shovel
slrpnk.net
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username_1
programming.dev
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Track_Shovel
slrpnk.net
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.netJoined: 2023-06-13 |
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ImgurRefugee114
reddthat.com
ImgurRefugee114@reddthat.com Joined: 2025-08-26 |
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Found the guy who uses bool for gender options |
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Jo Miran
lemmy.ml
JoMiran@lemmy.mlJoined: 2023-06-29 |
So...devastatingly handsome? |
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surewhynotlem
lemmy.world
surewhynotlem@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-13 |
Whenever someone says females but doesn't specify the species, I assume they mean goats. |
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DaddleDew
lemmy.world
DaddleDew@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-08 |
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Given the context, I believe what they meant is when people use the word "females" to refer to women. Like the Ferengi do. |
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Kowowow
lemmy.ca
Kowowow@lemmy.ca Joined: 2023-06-14 |
this reminds me of a mental pebble in my shoe, sometimes it feels like there is an age category problem, "woman" still feels too old/mature no matter how old I get and "girls" sounds too young at this point, "chicks" is my go to because feels vague enough but maybe I just need work on my vocabulary |
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essell
lemmy.world
essell@lemmy.world Joined: 2024-03-28 |
So...devastatingly handsome?
Would you look at the lobes on that đ„° |
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BillyClark
piefed.social
BillyClark@piefed.social Joined: 2026-01-21 |
Would you look at the lobes on that đ„°
And just look at that dashing smile. And such good hygiene. He clearly uses his tooth sharpener regularly. |
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SeductiveTortoise
piefed.social
SeductiveTortoise@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-07-16 |
Would you look at the lobes on that đ„°
You can clearly see he has the lobes for business đ |
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Dadifer
lemmy.world
Dadifer@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-08-04 |
this reminds me of a mental pebble in my shoe, sometimes it feels like there is an age category problem, "woman" still feels too old/mature no matter how old I get and "girls" sounds too young at this point, "chicks" is my go to because feels vague enough but maybe I just need work on my vocabulary
"Ladies" |
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SeductiveTortoise
piefed.social
SeductiveTortoise@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-07-16 |
Men... vileâŠbubbly and cloying and happy đ |
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BillyClark
piefed.social
BillyClark@piefed.social Joined: 2026-01-21 |
this reminds me of a mental pebble in my shoe, sometimes it feels like there is an age category problem, "woman" still feels too old/mature no matter how old I get and "girls" sounds too young at this point, "chicks" is my go to because feels vague enough but maybe I just need work on my vocabulary
I've been recently trying to phase my usage of "girls" out when referring to women, because it's unintentionally belittling. I've settled on just saying "woman" when referring to an adult woman in general. Of course, if you're referring to a woman in person, you need to refer to her as "milady" and tip your hat. That's just basic etiquette. |
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TachyonTele
piefed.social
TachyonTele@piefed.social Joined: 2025-06-03 Banned |
Whenever someone says females but doesn't specify the species, I assume they mean goats.
"yeah man, same. I got two females at home and let me tell ya" |
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TachyonTele
piefed.social
TachyonTele@piefed.social Joined: 2025-06-03 Banned |
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Are you legitimately stupid, like, are you on paper declaring that you are stupid? |
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cadekat
pawb.social
cadekat@pawb.social Joined: 2023-06-20 |
"Ladies"
"Ladies" can come across as sleazy, imo. And sometimes you're in a situation where the class/status suggested by "lady" ends up sounding sarcastic. "Gals" implies a level of friendship, and "dames" is too old timey. It's a tight rope walk of sounding too familiar/formal, implying old/young, or being insulting/demeaning... I conclude that we need a new word. |
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MohamedMoney
feddit.org
MohamedMoney@feddit.org Joined: 2024-12-05 |
"Ladies" can come across as sleazy, imo. And sometimes you're in a situation where the class/status suggested by "lady" ends up sounding sarcastic. "Gals" implies a level of friendship, and "dames" is too old timey. It's a tight rope walk of sounding too familiar/formal, implying old/young, or being insulting/demeaning... I conclude that we need a new word.
Just say 'women' |
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cadekat
pawb.social
cadekat@pawb.social Joined: 2023-06-20 |
Just say 'women'
To quote the earlier comment:
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tordenflesk
lemmy.world
tordenflesk@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-08-03 |
To quote the earlier comment: "woman" still feels too old/mature no matter how old I get
Young women? |
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Absolute_Axoltl
feddit.uk
Absolute_Axoltl@feddit.uk Joined: 2023-07-01 |
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Someone is having a mare |
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MinnesotaGoddam
lemmy.world
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-27 |
"yeah man, same. I got two females at home and let me tell ya"
Chop chop dig dig chop chop dig dig |
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MinnesotaGoddam
lemmy.world
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-27 |
I've been recently trying to phase my usage of "girls" out when referring to women, because it's unintentionally belittling. I've settled on just saying "woman" when referring to an adult woman in general. Of course, if you're referring to a woman in person, you need to refer to her as "milady" and tip your hat. That's just basic etiquette.
Lady? Gal? Feminoid? I think context and tone matter a lot too. I try to stick to pal and comrade these days but it's hard to beat decades of habit. |
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rovingnothing29
lemmy.world
rovingnothing29@lemmy.worldJoined: 2024-03-07 |
So...devastatingly handsome?
Now we know. Knowledge equals profit after-all. |
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MinnesotaGoddam
lemmy.world
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-27 |
Given the context, I believe what they meant is when people use the word "females" to refer to women. Like the Ferengi do.
If you don't pronounce it like ferengi do, emphasis and all, are you really saying it right? |
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MohamedMoney
feddit.org
MohamedMoney@feddit.org Joined: 2024-12-05 |
To quote the earlier comment: "woman" still feels too old/mature no matter how old I get
Yes, I read that. I also read your comment und you concluded (somewhat jokingly, I know), that 'we' need a new word for 'women'. My, now more elaborate, response to that is, that 'we' donât need a new word, you should learn to use the perfectly cromulent available ones. |
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ch00f
lemmy.world
ch00f@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-10 |
/r/incels had a CSS feature that would insert little ferengi heads every time someone used the word âfemale.â |
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DaddleDew
lemmy.world
DaddleDew@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-08 |
If you don't pronounce it like ferengi do, emphasis and all, are you really saying it right?
Hyoo-maAhns don't know how to pronounce it properly |
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MinnesotaGoddam
lemmy.world
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-27 |
Hyoo-maAhns don't know how to pronounce it properly
i just say they aren't having enough fun pronouncing it and why say things the boring way |
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endless_nameless
lemmy.world
endless_nameless@lemmy.world Joined: 2026-01-15 |
Honestly I feel like I'm gonna get myself in trouble every time I use "female" at all. There isn't really another adjective to use though. Saying "woman boxer" has a totally different meaning than "female boxer" for example. Oh well, I don't really value the opinion of people who would fault me for stepping on linguistic bear trap anyway. |
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macniel
feddit.org
DmMacniel@feddit.orgJoined: 2024-06-22 |
You can clearly see he has the lobes for business đ
but not the ...... biggest lobes as his cousin not him owns a moon. |
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scarabic
lemmy.world
scarabic@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-12 |
Whenever someone says females but doesn't specify the species, I assume they mean goats.
Iâm going to adopt that as a personal reading rule, right up there with âif the headline ends with a question mark, the answer is no.â |
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scarabic
lemmy.world
scarabic@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-12 |
this reminds me of a mental pebble in my shoe, sometimes it feels like there is an age category problem, "woman" still feels too old/mature no matter how old I get and "girls" sounds too young at this point, "chicks" is my go to because feels vague enough but maybe I just need work on my vocabulary
Speaking generously, I can see what you mean. But I think people only have this problem when they are used to calling people âgirlsâ far too long. If you shake that bad habit, you wonât find yourself coming into conflict with these terms so often. May I suggest the term âyoung womenâ as a highly respectful way to refer to younger folks. And if you are truly in doubt or referring to a mixed group, âladiesâ is an alternative too. I donât recommend âchicks.â Some people are okay with it but many are not. A chick is a newly hatched bird, so this is quite infantilizing. |
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Poem_for_your_sprog
lemmy.world
Poem_for_your_sprog@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-13 |
Honestly I feel like I'm gonna get myself in trouble every time I use "female" at all. There isn't really another adjective to use though. Saying "woman boxer" has a totally different meaning than "female boxer" for example. Oh well, I don't really value the opinion of people who would fault me for stepping on linguistic bear trap anyway.
Female birds generally have less colorful plumage than male birds. |
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scarabic
lemmy.world
scarabic@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-12 |
"Ladies" can come across as sleazy, imo. And sometimes you're in a situation where the class/status suggested by "lady" ends up sounding sarcastic. "Gals" implies a level of friendship, and "dames" is too old timey. It's a tight rope walk of sounding too familiar/formal, implying old/young, or being insulting/demeaning... I conclude that we need a new word.
I think we often forget about âyoung manâ and âyoung woman.â When someone is too young to safely call a woman, âyoung womanâ is quite a compliment and gives her the respect of an adult anyway. If someone is just barely too old to be called a girl, they will probably find it neutral enough. And if someone is much too old to be called a girl they will appreciate it as flattery. |
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scarabic
lemmy.world
scarabic@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-12 |
"Ladies" can come across as sleazy, imo. And sometimes you're in a situation where the class/status suggested by "lady" ends up sounding sarcastic. "Gals" implies a level of friendship, and "dames" is too old timey. It's a tight rope walk of sounding too familiar/formal, implying old/young, or being insulting/demeaning... I conclude that we need a new word.
I guess I can see some ways that âladyâ or âladiesâ could sound sleazy but Iâm surprised if this is someoneâs first or only association. âLadyâ is literally a landed title, the equivalent of âLord,â and the highly dignified counterpart to âgentleman.â |
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Track_Shovel
slrpnk.net
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.netJoined: 2023-06-13 |
/r/incels had a CSS feature that would insert little ferengi heads every time someone used the word âfemale.â
That's amazing |
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scarabic
lemmy.world
scarabic@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-12 |
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Yep get memorizing, fool. |
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Track_Shovel
slrpnk.net
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.netJoined: 2023-06-13 |
Honestly I feel like I'm gonna get myself in trouble every time I use "female" at all. There isn't really another adjective to use though. Saying "woman boxer" has a totally different meaning than "female boxer" for example. Oh well, I don't really value the opinion of people who would fault me for stepping on linguistic bear trap anyway.
I had a really fantastic laugh about this. |
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SeductiveTortoise
piefed.social
SeductiveTortoise@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-07-16 |
but not the ...... biggest lobes as his cousin not him owns a moon.
You think he should have them surgically shrunk to go as a fe-male? Behave! |
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ricecake
sh.itjust.works
ricecake@sh.itjust.works Joined: 2023-06-11 |
this reminds me of a mental pebble in my shoe, sometimes it feels like there is an age category problem, "woman" still feels too old/mature no matter how old I get and "girls" sounds too young at this point, "chicks" is my go to because feels vague enough but maybe I just need work on my vocabulary
Girl is a child. Woman is an adult. Young woman if it's vaguely in between. Female if you're doing medicine or science. The girl lost her doll. The woman paid her taxes. The young women got dropped off at the movies. The female puffin lays one egg per season and shares the burden of caring for the puffling equally with their mate. |
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Maultasche
lemmy.world
Maultasche@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-16 |
Found the guy who uses bool for gender options
What about using Boolean where Null is an option? |
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troglodytis
lemmy.world
troglodytis@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-08-05 |
Honestly I feel like I'm gonna get myself in trouble every time I use "female" at all. There isn't really another adjective to use though. Saying "woman boxer" has a totally different meaning than "female boxer" for example. Oh well, I don't really value the opinion of people who would fault me for stepping on linguistic bear trap anyway.
Female is a great adjective and a poor noun. |
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troglodytis
lemmy.world
troglodytis@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-08-05 |
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Yes. Yes. That's fine. Female is a great adjective and a poor noun. |
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GreenKnight23
lemmy.world
GreenKnight23@lemmy.world Joined: 2024-09-21 |
Female is a great adjective and a poor noun.
such a female thing to say. /s |
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cadekat
pawb.social
cadekat@pawb.social Joined: 2023-06-20 |
I guess I can see some ways that âladyâ or âladiesâ could sound sleazy but Iâm surprised if this is someoneâs first or only association. âLadyâ is literally a landed title, the equivalent of âLord,â and the highly dignified counterpart to âgentleman.â
No no, definitely not what I meant! In some circumstances, it can be sleazy (like "hey ladies"). |
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Kowowow
lemmy.ca
Kowowow@lemmy.ca Joined: 2023-06-14 |
"Ladies" can come across as sleazy, imo. And sometimes you're in a situation where the class/status suggested by "lady" ends up sounding sarcastic. "Gals" implies a level of friendship, and "dames" is too old timey. It's a tight rope walk of sounding too familiar/formal, implying old/young, or being insulting/demeaning... I conclude that we need a new word.
I don't know how ladies slipped my mind but I have to agree with you |
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Kowowow
lemmy.ca
Kowowow@lemmy.ca Joined: 2023-06-14 |
Lady? Gal? Feminoid? I think context and tone matter a lot too. I try to stick to pal and comrade these days but it's hard to beat decades of habit.
But foids are known to spike cortisol levels |
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Kowowow
lemmy.ca
Kowowow@lemmy.ca Joined: 2023-06-14 |
Speaking generously, I can see what you mean. But I think people only have this problem when they are used to calling people âgirlsâ far too long. If you shake that bad habit, you wonât find yourself coming into conflict with these terms so often. May I suggest the term âyoung womenâ as a highly respectful way to refer to younger folks. And if you are truly in doubt or referring to a mixed grou...
Being in my thirties "young women" feels like I'm trying to play some sort of epstien judo |
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Dadifer
lemmy.world
Dadifer@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-08-04 |
No no, definitely not what I meant! In some circumstances, it can be sleazy (like "hey ladies").
? That is the appropriate greeting. |
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I_Fart_Glitter
lemmy.world
I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-28 |
And just look at that dashing smile. And such good hygiene. He clearly uses his tooth sharpener regularly.
His moogy does it for him. |
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