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red_bull_of_juarez lemmy.dbzer0.com red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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#2 · Quote Reply

That is really illustrative.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Oh I love this!

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tias discuss.tchncs.de tias@discuss.tchncs.de
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#4 · Quote Reply

She's not skinny though?

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BallShapedMan lemmy.world BallShapedMan@lemmy.world
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I've done painting of live models who are objectively attractive to have people (men I'm sure) say nasty things about the model.

Like attractive in real life an attractive in TV/Internet are different and a 10 on person is a 4 on the Internet or whatever.

This is a great illustration of that problem.

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peanuts4life lemmy.blahaj.zone peanuts4life@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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#6 · (edited) Quote Reply

I won't deny that this is true, but it's also the case that cartoons tend to have larger heads. The skinny version of swift here is also shorter and has more narrow shoulders / hips. She's not just drawn thinner, but literally smaller to accommodate the proportionally larger head. I think this is kind of exaggerating the effect. If the artist had instead drawn a larger head, it wouldn't be as dramatic.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#7 · Quote Reply

She's not skinny though?

Taylor Swift is (supposedly) 5'10" and around 130lbs.

That is skinny. Even according to BMI, she's bordering on underweight.

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agamemnonymous sh.itjust.works agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
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#8 · Quote Reply

I don't think "skinny" is being used correctly here, which seems to be the whole source of conflict.

Taylor Swift isn't skinny. She certainly isn't overweight, but skinny doesn't mean "not overweight", it means thinner than average. It's the opposite extreme of fat, with the norm being somewhere between. Taylor Swift is in the normal range. Emma Stone is skinny.

If you're using "skinny" to mean "not fat", obviously there's going to be some disagreement with those who use "skinny" to mean "thinner than normal".

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mushroommunk lemmy.today mushroommunk@lemmy.today
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#9 · Quote Reply

Taylor Swift is (supposedly) 5'10" and around 130lbs. That is skinny. Even according to BMI, she's bordering on underweight.

I think these people calling Taylor Swift not skinny are just imagining Victoria Secret models.

It's a range, just like all bodies are on a range, and they don't seem to get that

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#10 · Quote Reply

I don't think "skinny" is being used correctly here, which seems to be the whole source of conflict. Taylor Swift isn't skinny. She certainly isn't overweight, but skinny doesn't mean "not overweight", it means thinner than average. It's the opposite extreme of fat, with the norm being somewhere between. Taylor Swift is in the normal range. Emma Stone is skinny. If you're using "skinny" to mean...

Taylor Swift is (supposedly) 5’10" and around 130lbs.

That is skinny. Even according to BMI, she’s bordering on underweight.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#11 · Quote Reply

I think these people calling Taylor Swift not skinny are just imagining Victoria Secret models. It's a range, just like all bodies are on a range, and they don't seem to get that

It's like they've never seen women's bodies in real life before. If Taylor fucking Swift isn't considered skinny, then I guess the rest of womanhood can go yeet ourselves off of cliffs. She's practically underweight and it still isn't skinny enough.

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agamemnonymous sh.itjust.works agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
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#12 · (edited) Quote Reply

Taylor Swift is (supposedly) 5’10" and around 130lbs. That is skinny. Even according to BMI, she’s bordering on underweight.

BMI is a terrible metric, and even then her BMI is on the lower end of the normal range.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#13 · (edited) Quote Reply

BMI is a terrible metric, and even then her BMI is on the lower end of the normal range.

Oh I'm aware. That's why I threw in that even according to the faulty BMI scale for women, Taylor Swift is considered bordering on underweight to being underweight.

That you think Taylor Swift isn't skinny says way more about you than anything else.

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agamemnonymous sh.itjust.works agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
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#14 · Quote Reply

Oh I'm aware. That's why I threw in that even according to the faulty BMI scale for women, Taylor Swift is considered bordering on underweight to being underweight. That you think Taylor Swift isn't skinny says way more about you than anything else.

Her weight has fluctuated, like most normal people. When she was closer to 115, she was closer to skinny, not at 130. Certainly not in the reference photo, which is probably the fullest I've seen her. There are plenty of photos where you could make the argument, but they look much more like the "exaggerated" sketch anyway. She is not skinny in the reference photo provided.

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Røøk lemmy.world _lilith@lemmy.world
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She's not skinny though?
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exasperation lemmy.dbzer0.com exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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Taylor Swift is (supposedly) 5’10" and around 130lbs. That is skinny. Even according to BMI, she’s bordering on underweight.

Still seems like a definitional problem, with an imprecise meaning behind the word "skinny."

Even according to BMI, she’s bordering on underweight.

Bordering on, but still on the "normal" side of the chart.

Does "skinny" look to broad population averages, or celebrity averages, or even celebrity averages for that particular age, or some kind of ideal? Is "skinny" a pejorative, negatively loaded term?

I wouldn't call Taylor Swift "skinny" if that's intended to mean thinner than ideal. But she is thinner than the American average. Is the American average considered "fat"? How much of a gap is there between skinny and fat, occupied by people who are neither?

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ChonkyOwlbear lemmy.world ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world
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#17 · Quote Reply

That's also not a uniformly right fitting outfit. It's tight on the shoulders and hips, but looser at the middle Drawn clothes don't have to have any thickness or areas to stretch.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#18 · Quote Reply

Her weight has fluctuated, like most normal people. When she was closer to 115, she was closer to skinny, not at 130. Certainly not in the reference photo, which is probably the fullest I've seen her. There are plenty of photos where you could make the argument, but they look much more like the "exaggerated" sketch anyway. She is not skinny in the reference photo provided.

When she was closer to 115, she was closer to skinny, not at 130.

She was unhealthily underweight at 115.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#19 · Quote Reply

Still seems like a definitional problem, with an imprecise meaning behind the word "skinny." Even according to BMI, she’s bordering on underweight. Bordering on, but still on the "normal" side of the chart. Does "skinny" look to broad population averages, or celebrity averages, or even celebrity averages for that particular age, or some kind of ideal? Is "skinny" a pejorative, negatively loaded...

Is “skinny” a pejorative, negatively loaded term?

Not in our society. Skinny is seen as the ideal.

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Krudler lemmy.world Krudler@lemmy.world
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#20 · Quote Reply

I always love this type of thread-squabbling.

Obesity has become such a pervasive problem that people do not even understand what it means to be skinny.

I grew up in the '70s when we ate the appropriate amount of food. 50 years later let me tell you my friends, what you think is skinny is NOT skinny.

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Undearius lemmy.ca Undearius@lemmy.ca
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#21 · (edited) Quote Reply

I think a contributing factor is the art style.

A simple trace has no shading or depth, which then the widest section of each part is brought to the front, on the same plane of the slimmer parts of that section.

For example, a cyclindar has a gradual taper to the full width. This art style would just flatten it to a rectangle.

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usualsuspect191 lemmy.ca usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca
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#22 · Quote Reply

It's like they've never seen women's bodies in real life before. If Taylor fucking Swift isn't considered skinny, then I guess the rest of womanhood can go yeet ourselves off of cliffs. She's practically underweight and it still isn't skinny enough.

Many people use skinny as the opposite of fat, so to be charitable to the poster maybe that's what they meant. They could be thinking: Taylor is thin sure, but not too thin, so not skinny. Skinny would be firmly in the underweight category using this definition; a sleight on their weight and not something to aspire to.

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Horsey lemmy.world Horsey@lemmy.world
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#23 · Quote Reply

You can also look back at photos of people in the 70s from various cultures. We’ve become fatter overall because of processed food and reduced exercise.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#24 · Quote Reply

Many people use skinny as the opposite of fat, so to be charitable to the poster maybe that's what they meant. They could be thinking: Taylor is thin sure, but not too thin, so not skinny. Skinny would be firmly in the underweight category using this definition; a sleight on their weight and not something to aspire to.

She’s not skinny though?

Many people use skinny as the opposite of fat, so to be charitable to the poster maybe that’s what they meant.

Do people really think that Taylor Swift is fat?

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Suck_on_my_Presence lemmy.world Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world
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#25 · Quote Reply

Taylor Swift is (supposedly) 5'10" and around 130lbs. That is skinny. Even according to BMI, she's bordering on underweight.

I agree with you that that's skinny. Definitely thin by any metric.

I know it depends on the body, but at 5'2" when I was 125, I was definitely thin and underfed. Add 8 more inches of height? Wild

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agamemnonymous sh.itjust.works agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
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#26 · Quote Reply

When she was closer to 115, she was closer to skinny, not at 130. She was unhealthily underweight at 115.

Correct.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#27 · Quote Reply

I agree with you that that's skinny. Definitely thin by any metric. I know it depends on the body, but at 5'2" when I was 125, I was definitely thin and underfed. Add 8 more inches of height? Wild

Yeah I've been 5'3" and 115lbs. I was really unhealthy, underfed, and thin.

It's bonkers that there is so much support in here for people saying shit like Taylor Swift isn't skinny.

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searabbit piefed.social searabbit@piefed.social
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#28 · Quote Reply

I've done painting of live models who are objectively attractive to have people (men I'm sure) say nasty things about the model. Like attractive in real life an attractive in TV/Internet are different and a 10 on person is a 4 on the Internet or whatever. This is a great illustration of that problem.

I think anyone who's seen a decent amount of celebrities in person can attest to this. People who look attractive in 2D do look attractive irl, but in an uncanny way? Less of a sexy - I want to date this person - attraction and more of a confused - how is it possible to look like this - admiration.

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Blisterexe lemmy.zip Blisterexe@lemmy.zip
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#29 · (edited) Quote Reply

Taylor Swift is (supposedly) 5’10" and around 130lbs. That is skinny. Even according to BMI, she’s bordering on underweight.

I think it depends on where you live too, skinny (as in thinner than average) being a relative measure.

I live somewhere extremely skinny by global standards and she wouldn't be called skinny, people might say, "yeah I guess she's skinny" if asked, but she wouldn't be seen as "a skinny person" because she wouldn't be far off the average. Same way a 5'8 woman wouldn't be a "tall woman" in the Netherlands.

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Blisterexe lemmy.zip Blisterexe@lemmy.zip
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#30 · (edited) Quote Reply

I agree with you that that's skinny. Definitely thin by any metric. I know it depends on the body, but at 5'2" when I was 125, I was definitely thin and underfed. Add 8 more inches of height? Wild

I think it's a cultural thing, some places people just have lower BMI's genetically or dietarily (is that a word?).

I'm considered skinny at 6'4 130lbs, but all of my friends who are all a little underweight or "barely healthy" according to BMI wouldn't, they'd just be considered thin, since the median weight is much lower than in, say, the US.

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eestileib sh.itjust.works eestileib@sh.itjust.works
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#31 · (edited) Quote Reply

Taylor Swift is not "skinny" though.

Look at her thighs.

Ariana Grande is skinny.

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rumschlumpel feddit.org rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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#32 · (edited) Quote Reply

I think anyone who's seen a decent amount of celebrities in person can attest to this. People who look attractive in 2D do look attractive irl, but in an uncanny way? Less of a sexy - I want to date this person - attraction and more of a confused - how is it possible to look like this - admiration.

TBH lots of supposedly attractive celebrities look kind of weird to me, probably mostly due to fashion (makeup etc.). That would probably be even worse IRL, depending on whether they're "done up" and how much of their look is plastic surgery.

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Serinus lemmy.world Serinus@lemmy.world
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#33 · Quote Reply

You can also look back at photos of people in the 70s from various cultures. We’ve become fatter overall because of processed food and reduced exercise.

We've also gotten significantly taller and older in only about a century.

Year Median age
1820 - 16.7
1860 - 19.4
1900 - 22.9
1940 - 29.0
1970 - 28.1
1980 - 30.0
1990 - 32.9
2000 - 35.3
2020 - 38.8

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rumschlumpel feddit.org rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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#34 · Quote Reply

She’s not skinny though? Many people use skinny as the opposite of fat, so to be charitable to the poster maybe that’s what they meant. Do people really think that Taylor Swift is fat?

"not skinny" includes both "fat" and "normal", though

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#35 · Quote Reply

"not skinny" includes both "fat" and "normal", though

Many people use skinny as the opposite of fat, so to be charitable to the poster maybe that’s what they meant.

I was responding to this in particular.

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yuri pawb.social yuri@pawb.social
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#36 · Quote Reply

Taylor Swift is not "skinny" though. Look at her thighs. Ariana Grande is skinny.

what

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rumschlumpel feddit.org rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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#37 · Quote Reply

Many people use skinny as the opposite of fat, so to be charitable to the poster maybe that’s what they meant. I was responding to this in particular.

But "not skinny" is not the same as "the opposite of skinny".

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#38 · Quote Reply

But "not skinny" is not the same as "the opposite of skinny".

At 5'10" and between 115-130lbs, Taylor Swift is skinny. She is thin. She is not overweight. She is bordering on underweight.

The pictures in the post are also taken from slightly below which will make her thighs look slightly bigger due to the lens distortion.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#39 · (edited) Quote Reply

Taylor Swift is not "skinny" though. Look at her thighs. Ariana Grande is skinny.

Ariana Grande is skinny.

She's practically dying. She's skeletal.

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Soup lemmy.world Soup@lemmy.world
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#40 · Quote Reply

Taylor Swift is not "skinny" though. Look at her thighs. Ariana Grande is skinny.

Ariana Grande looks like she has a very serious eating disorder. She’s not skinny, she looks malnourished.

It’s like saying that a Honda Civic is a muscle car because someone rolled up in a poorly setup Kei car.

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usualsuspect191 lemmy.ca usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca
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#41 · Quote Reply

She’s not skinny though? Many people use skinny as the opposite of fat, so to be charitable to the poster maybe that’s what they meant. Do people really think that Taylor Swift is fat?

In the pursuit of continuing to be charitable, I'll assume you're genuinely confused.

"Not skinny" does not mean "fat" necessarily, in the same way "not tall" does not necessarily mean "short", or "not cold" isn't the same as "hot". It's a continuum with a middle ground that's the assumed "default" so there are terms describing deviation from that middle. In common language, "not" preceding the term that describes that deviation tends to mean it falls within the default range, as if they meant it fell outside the range in the other direction they'd just use the term for that part of the range instead.

In this case, the assumed middle is the range of weights deemed "normal" so fat and skinny describe those body types that fall outside that range. Saying someone isn't skinny does not equate to saying they're fat since thay can be neither (and that's typically what's meant).

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#42 · Quote Reply

In the pursuit of continuing to be charitable, I'll assume you're genuinely confused. "Not skinny" does not mean "fat" necessarily, in the same way "not tall" does not necessarily mean "short", or "not cold" isn't the same as "hot". It's a continuum with a middle ground that's the assumed "default" so there are terms describing deviation from that middle. In common language, "not" preceding the...

Again, I was specifically replying to this line:

Many people use skinny as the opposite of fat, so to be charitable to the poster maybe that’s what they meant.

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rumschlumpel feddit.org rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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#43 · (edited) Quote Reply

At 5'10" and between 115-130lbs, Taylor Swift is skinny. She is thin. She is not overweight. She is bordering on underweight. The pictures in the post are also taken from slightly below which will make her thighs look slightly bigger due to the lens distortion.

In this picture, I'd call her "normal". The physique that's basically the norm for "sexy" celebrity women is squarely in the underweight range.

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JcbAzPx lemmy.world JcbAzPx@lemmy.world
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#44 · Quote Reply

Ariana Grande looks like she has a very serious eating disorder. She’s not skinny, she looks malnourished. It’s like saying that a Honda Civic is a muscle car because someone rolled up in a poorly setup Kei car.

Skinny used to be a pejorative and it basically meant that you were too poor to feed yourself, i.e. malnourished.

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eestileib sh.itjust.works eestileib@sh.itjust.works
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#45 · Quote Reply

what

Skinny means you can see the bones.

I'm not saying I find it attractive, I'm not arguing that it's healthy.

Taylor Swift is not skinny.

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TwoTiredMice feddit.dk TwoTiredMice@feddit.dk
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#46 · Quote Reply

Yeah I've been 5'3" and 115lbs. I was really unhealthy, underfed, and thin. It's bonkers that there is so much support in here for people saying shit like Taylor Swift isn't skinny.

Without knowing too much about Taylor Swift, I assume she's much more fit than the average person, and muscle weighs more than fat, so her weight might even be a bit misleading here, compared most people.

I would say she's more fit than skinny. She's definitely been skinny and too skinny, but I think she gained a lot of muscle before and during her Eras Tour, making her look less skinny in that picture there.

But, it's problematic to even discuss her weight like this, and it just puts unnecessary pressure on other people, who might see her as skinny.

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eestileib sh.itjust.works eestileib@sh.itjust.works
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#47 · Quote Reply

Ariana Grande is skinny. She's practically dying. She's skeletal.

Ever heard the phrase "skin and bones"?

That's where skinny comes from.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#48 · Quote Reply

Ever heard the phrase "skin and bones"? That's where skinny comes from.

And as evidenced here, the definition of skinny varies wildly.

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eestileib sh.itjust.works eestileib@sh.itjust.works
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#49 · Quote Reply

I always love this type of thread-squabbling. Obesity has become such a pervasive problem that people do not even understand what it means to be skinny. I grew up in the '70s when we ate the appropriate amount of food. 50 years later let me tell you my friends, what you think is skinny is NOT skinny.

Taylor Swift's legs would jiggle if you shook them...

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eestileib sh.itjust.works eestileib@sh.itjust.works
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#50 · Quote Reply

I think anyone who's seen a decent amount of celebrities in person can attest to this. People who look attractive in 2D do look attractive irl, but in an uncanny way? Less of a sexy - I want to date this person - attraction and more of a confused - how is it possible to look like this - admiration.

Clavicular is a perfect example of this, he looks like a statue not a person

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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#51 · Quote Reply

Without knowing too much about Taylor Swift, I assume she's much more fit than the average person, and muscle weighs more than fat, so her weight might even be a bit misleading here, compared most people. I would say she's more fit than skinny. She's definitely been skinny and too skinny, but I think she gained a lot of muscle before and during her Eras Tour, making her look less skinny in that...

But, it’s problematic to even discuss her weight like this, and it just puts unnecessary pressure on other people, who might see her as skinny.

Thanks for bringing the whole point of the post back around!

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