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Auster thebrainbin.org Auster@thebrainbin.org
Joined: 2024-10-28
#52 · Quote Reply

Redlib if you must keep using Reddit. If not, alternative forums, fediverse included, invite you.

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techmaster7d lemmy.world techmaster7d@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-10
#53 · Quote Reply

Dude pull your head out of your ass. There are things on reddit that there are no replacements for. Lemmy doesn't hold a candle to the user base of reddit. The standard is simply "is this useful to me" and it's not hard to understand why people find value there. Fucking holier than though dipshit.

*thou

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techmaster7d lemmy.world techmaster7d@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-10
#54 · (edited) Quote Reply

I wasn't suggesting you do otherwise. Just trying to keep folks informed. If you're interested in fingerprinting, check out this site. It will tell you how sites see your exact configuration. https://kuber.studio/cookie/

I tried it. Unfortunately it is wrong in several of statements about my machine. Since it cannot detect the specifics of my machine nor its settings, one can conclude that either this website is wrong or my settings for protection work well. Hard to fingerprint someone when their are inaccuracies.

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steelplatedmech piefed.ca steelplatedmech@piefed.ca
Joined: 2026-07-22
#55 · Quote Reply

I know a handful of people that tried Lemmy at my insistence but found the overall culture even more insufferable than reddit and honestly I don't even blame them. I fear that a lot of folks here are so desperate to "beat reddit" that they are willing to tolerate the most repulsive behaviors and it's only going to push the mature people away. I hope I'm wrong, but for someone who doesn't care a...

Culture in what communities? Because I mainly subscribe to tech and games and haven't noticed a difference.

Same on reddit where people here talk about how they've been banned, but I just follow tech, games, and niche hobby subs there and not the big subs.

But, if someone is engaging in news related communities I could see how culture might be more negative. But, that's been the case for all social media for that matter when it comes to heated topics.

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Grail multiverse.soulism.net Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-01-14
#56 · Quote Reply

ehhh. the nsfw community is a bit lacking. which, like it or not, drives user engagement and boosts content creation.

We defederated the NSFW instance because they allow a fauxbait community.

What is fauxbait, you may wonder? Well, you've probably heard of jailbait, which is nudes of children who look like adults. Fauxbait is faux jailbait. It's nudes of adults who look like children who look like adults.

And often these are regular consenting adult porn models, who look like adults, but some pervert went "nyehehe these women look like children" and posted them to this community. And I think that's degrading and harmful to these women's livelihoods. I wouldn't want someone to look at My boobs and decide I looked like a kid.

Furthermore, according to Australian law, framing a picture as child porn (or fake child porn) makes it child porn. It's kinda the same problem as the 4000 year old dragon who looks like a little girl.

Is it better than r/jailbait and all the pedo shit on Reddit? Sure. But it's still pedo shit, and I want a social network with zero pedo shit.

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#57 · Quote Reply

Use a VPN exit point in Singapore

VPN works for now, but I am mostly online on my work-laptop (yeah I know 😂) and I am not allowed to run a VPN on that one ...

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#58 · Quote Reply

The last straw for me was getting rid of sorting by Hot on my main feed, effectively making it useless. I don't want to sort by Best that shows posts from days ago, get that Facebook shit out of here. Also there was a new tab that interspersed "recommended posts" in your main feed. It's an option now but I doubt it would be in the future. The point of having a curated feed is to see shit you're...

ah! That explains why I had day-old posts suddenly creep up in my feed, I was already wondering about that ...

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#59 · Quote Reply

Honestly, a VPN is a good investment in your online safety anyway and would bypass this age verification bullshit. We have it in Australia too. Philippines don't.

VPN works for me so far, but like I said in another comment: I use reddit mostly on my work laptop and am not allowed to use VPN there ..

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#60 · (edited) Quote Reply

And that's the end of using reddit, right?

it definetly is for me ... spent the whole afternoon yesterday to pass on ownership of all my subs to other mods ..

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#61 · Quote Reply

It's better here anyway. Spez has banned everyone and there's only bots left.

I already made this account a while ago, but never really got into Lemmy so much, since it's so damn hard to post videos here - that is the main reason I still used Reddit more - you can just drop videos there without having to use other video platforms that require you to make an account too,...

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#62 · Quote Reply

Use ublock origin element zapper tool

not able to use that on my company laptop sadly ...

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Mantzy81 aussie.zone Mantzy81@aussie.zone
Joined: 2025-03-09
#63 · Quote Reply

VPN works for me so far, but like I said in another comment: I use reddit mostly on my work laptop and am not allowed to use VPN there ..

Can you not install browser extensions? I can on my work laptop (on either Edge or Chrome - they don't allow other alternatives), but obviously they're all locked down differently

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Hiro8811 lemmy.world Hiro8811@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-11-16
#64 · Quote Reply

not able to use that on my company laptop sadly ...

Yet you can use reddit?

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#65 · Quote Reply

Can you not install browser extensions? I can on my work laptop (on either Edge or Chrome - they don't allow other alternatives), but obviously they're all locked down differently

no, not even browser extensions or even different browsers - it's pretty restricted

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#66 · Quote Reply

Yet you can use reddit?

yeah, I was also surprised but it works. I guess I could also argue that I would need it for research ;)

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#67 · Quote Reply

is it reddit doing something drastic recently? seen an uptick .

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#68 · Quote Reply

I didn’t think there was anyone left on Reddit but bots

nsfw especially on reddit filled with bots more than other subs.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#69 · Quote Reply

I was being snarky. I have no idea how the bot accounts on Reddit are organized or managed, I’m just some dude.

the individual users who spam, would have a bunch of device they operate with multiple(dozens) of accounts each using services to host multiple browser instances at once, to seperate accounts from each other, so they dont get immediately connected by reddits filters. also multiple IP from different sources at once,, and yes they spend money to do this, and this seperate the propaganda bots/spammers you hear done by countries.

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GreenKnight23 lemmy.world GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-21
#70 · Quote Reply

We defederated the NSFW instance because they allow a fauxbait community. What is fauxbait, you may wonder? Well, you've probably heard of jailbait, which is nudes of children who look like adults. Fauxbait is faux jailbait. It's nudes of adults who look like children who look like adults. And often these are regular consenting adult porn models, who look like adults, but some pervert went "nye...

cool.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#71 · Quote Reply

no you're correct. reddit corp does NOT want to do anything about its bot infestation. even the apipocalypse carved out exceptions for the botnets that make their entire platform function. bot content spew keeps doomscrollers doomscrolling and pumps up the metrics that they're intentionally manipulating to appear like organic traffic. having their cake and eating it too, even to the very end of...

thier purges last year did a huge number on thier engagement thought, they overcompensated, and then open-ai and google stopped scraping so now they are tyring to force logins so people can be datamined again.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#72 · Quote Reply

I'm convinced this is true. Ever since the big redesign in 2018 (holy shit was it really eight years ago?) that kind of homogenized the whole platform, it became clear that the people reddit was trying to attract was not the communities but the mindless scrollers. But the paradox was that some person had to want to post the content and make it feel alive, but that person is not needed anymore. ...

2018 is when propagana bots/troll farms started to appear , and thats when they started banning significantly even for the slightest misunderstanding, it obviously got worst overtime.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#73 · Quote Reply

I miss some of the people on Reddit, but I don't miss Reddit. In time, they'll appear here (or in similar places). I'm never going back.

they are too forgettable to memorable, the only ones i missed were the ones in a niche sub, now defunct.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#74 · (edited) Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

reddits own bot/slop tells them what they want to hear thats why. i think the thing is reddit still has niche subs, that hasnt been impacted by the bots that much, hence its better than some ways. lemmy is too small and the largest communities are politics mostly.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#75 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

reddit definitely made a change months ago , that shows you old post. they want people to engage with older posts, that are useless.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#76 · (edited) Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

on mobile they are far more intrusive, when you backspace they reload the page, and sends you to the top of the feed on old mobile, and zooms in for no reason, its designed to make old reddit as unpleasant as possible so you are forced to use the new reddit UI, which is worst, because in the newer one, it eventually slows the loading page for so long you have to close the browser to reset it. they eventually want people to use the APP, so they can datamine your device as well.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#77 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

the new UI is the doom scroll addiction nonsense, that reddits is tried to force.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#78 · Quote Reply

Can you not install browser extensions? I can on my work laptop (on either Edge or Chrome - they don't allow other alternatives), but obviously they're all locked down differently

on mobile you can. i use sinkit and old reddit, and you can force reddit to be usable in old format on your page.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#79 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

thats not all they do, they look at your browser , timezones. how long you linger on a page on reddit and if you are scrolling or commenting, up and downvoting.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#80 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

you can block those instances, and communities. tankies are the worst, and a few instances for some reaso blahaj will ban you for anything too.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#81 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

no niche communities here, plus other large subs have no equivalent here.

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Scrollone lemmy.zip Scrollone@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-10-12
#82 · Quote Reply

Redlib if you must keep using Reddit. If not, alternative forums, fediverse included, invite you.

At this point, it doesn't make any sense to use Reddit at all. Just go to the Lemmy and the fediverse.

Or if you hate yourself, you can also try 9gag, there's not much difference now between that and Reddit.

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Scrollone lemmy.zip Scrollone@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-10-12
#83 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

It's like the boiling frog problem

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Dicska lemmy.world Dicska@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-06
#84 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

I know two people still using it. Thing is, quite a lot of gaming communities are pretty much dead here, while there are still enough flesh and bone users on reddit (plus eight times as many bots, but there will always be someone to respond within a day if you have a question).

Of course it's not like there are only these two options and nothing else, but where would you go to for decently paced discussion? Honest question: I had left reddit a long time ago, but I won't find pre-existing answers on Lemmy for a good number of games, and most of the communities here seem to be bone dry.

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naevaTheRat lemmy.dbzer0.com naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-02
#85 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

I literally don't understand how you could just come out and say the stupidest thing in the world ;)

Yeah lemming's brains are melted. Literacy in the bit.

Commenting on an article without reading it should carry the penalty of a day in the stocks.

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pulsewidth lemmy.world pulsewidth@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-01-29
#86 · (edited) Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

People like that exist, but I just block them and move on and i really can't overstate how much that changes the experience.

Unfortunately, Lemmy doesn't have great mechanisms for avoiding harassment or toxicity - the ethos of free speech prevents the creators from wanting to allow users to hide their posts from others (a common solution implemented on other platforms).

Because of that, I get inbox notifications from blocked users sometimes (that I can't see unless I unblock them), so I just -> Mark all as read. Negativity gone.

On the flip side of toxicity, I've found fewer toxic mods that rule comms like their own little fiefdom to arbitrarily police (only a single one so far) - on Reddit it was pretty common to encounter.

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dylanTheDeveloper lemmy.world dylanTheDeveloper@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-09
#87 · Quote Reply

is it reddit doing something drastic recently? seen an uptick .

you need to take a photo of your balls to use reddit now and new accounts cannot login to old reddit as this feature is now restricted to only existing accounts that are older

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blackshirt lemmy.world blackshirt@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-06-05
#88 · Quote Reply

is it reddit doing something drastic recently? seen an uptick .

they are continuing to digg their own grave.

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kepix lemmy.world kepix@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-06
#89 · Quote Reply

no porn for you 🎻

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Mormegil lemmy.world Mormegil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-08
#90 · Quote Reply

no porn for you 🎻

I guess you haven't read the text under my screenshot - this doesn't happen on NSFW subs or posts anymore, I cannot access ANYTHING anymore, the complete account is blocked unless I verify.

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brem lemmy.world brem@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-06-09
#91 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

The oldest redditors got shadow banned because their posts were too valuable to the IPO to show up as blocked or deleted user (the story varries, but my friend ended up getting banned for joking about putting a lock on one of those uhauls full of proud boys (back when they were renting uhauls before Uhaul said they couldn't anymore)

Those of us here originally, are the ones who deleted their accounts, contrary to what reddit believed would happen.

I know at least one of you will read this, and I am here to receive a powerful high five.

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Patrikvo lemmy.zip Patrikvo@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-02-18
#92 · Quote Reply

they are too forgettable to memorable, the only ones i missed were the ones in a niche sub, now defunct.

Remembering other people is something I only had on the old forums before everything got piled into one huge site. Back then the group was small and you actually talked to the same people regulary. Now I don't even notice usernames anymore.

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iegod lemmy.zip ieGod@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-04
#93 · Quote Reply

*thou

🙏

My idiocy is on full display. Thanks for the correction.

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FreddiesLantern leminal.space FreddiesLantern@leminal.space
Joined: 2025-09-19
#94 · Quote Reply

Better late then never. Welcome to the party.

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freudian_slop programming.dev freudian_slop@programming.dev
Joined: 2026-07-04
#95 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Create those communities or post in other existing communities with a similar topic.

I know it's annoying if you are the first one and no one react to the content but someone has to start.

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Stolas lemmy.ca Stolas@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2026-08-27
#96 · Quote Reply

Welcome to lemmy!

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James R Kirk startrek.website Kirk@startrek.website
Joined: 2025-03-01
#97 · Quote Reply

People like that exist, but I just block them and move on and i really can't overstate how much that changes the experience. Unfortunately, Lemmy doesn't have great mechanisms for avoiding harassment or toxicity - the ethos of free speech prevents the creators from wanting to allow users to hide their posts from others (a common solution implemented on other platforms). Because of that, I get i...

Yeah I fully agree re: blocking at an individual level, but I'm just saying I also understand why someone may encounter the fediverse and be turned away at the prospect of putting in so much work just to even see if they like it. Admins need to step up too.

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explodicle sh.itjust.works explodicle@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-04-11
#98 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Everybody reading this: IKR, those idiots are so frustrating.

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pulsewidth lemmy.world pulsewidth@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-01-29
#99 · Quote Reply

Yeah I fully agree re: blocking at an individual level, but I'm just saying I also understand why someone may encounter the fediverse and be turned away at the prospect of putting in so much work just to even see if they like it. Admins need to step up too.

Yeah I get it. I dunno what the balance is. It needs to be fun for admins too - else they get burned out and you get the Reddit style power-trip types as the ones that stay. I'm generalizing heavily.. But my point is I guess if the community takes the lead in reporting and blocking bad users we can all help the load of the mods, while working around the limitations of Lemmy's design.

Hopefully it will improve in time, because Im not disagreeing that those elements exist and are a deterrent to newcomers.

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modus lemmy.world modus@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-12
#100 · Quote Reply

01/01/1901

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hal_baleigh piefed.social hal_baleigh@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-10-02
#101 · (edited) Quote Reply

reddit definitely made a change months ago , that shows you old post. they want people to engage with older posts, that are useless.

There's no use in interacting with posts, say, 8 hours old or so. Maybe less. Everybody has already moved on.

Edit: that's why I like the slower pace of the Fediverse, it's like the old messages boards I grew up with, with posts that simmered for days/months and there wasn't endless scrolling to steal your attention.

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