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TheJesusaurus
piefed.ca
TheJesusaurus@piefed.ca Joined: 2025-10-20 |
Hetero people who don't believe in marriage and/or don't like husband/wife titles sometimes use titles like partner too because girlfriend/boyfriend doesn't sound serious enough I guess. Common amongst my social circle but I get why it's usually a dog whistle.
Also literally everyone in Europe |
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TheJesusaurus
piefed.ca
TheJesusaurus@piefed.ca Joined: 2025-10-20 |
it's like giving them an all tomato.
You either take all the tomato, or none of it |
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meco03211
lemmy.world
meco03211@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-06 |
When someone professes their love for reading, they’re insinuating that those who do not read are necessarily below them on the cognitive ladder. At least that’s how my disdainful mind works.
Just came across a profile of someone claiming to be a "veracious reader." Fun fact, veracious is actually a word. I'm guessing it's not what they meant, though. |
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baggachipz
sh.itjust.works
baggachipz@sh.itjust.works Joined: 2023-06-19 |
Took me a minute to realise what "dog whistle" meant and it made me think about how on Ted Lasso, Roy just yells "whistle" as opposed to blowing one. "Family values" can mean anything from hating gays, hating women who aren't rushing to squeeze out kids, basically anything that goes against the productive/nuclear family, to them — to the rest of us it's just that people should have a choice. I ...
Oh no they definitely still do. They think that since their side is in power, they don’t need their armory right now, but those evil wokes are always trying to get them! |
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Katana314
lemmy.world
Katana314@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-09 |
I'll contribute. I refer to my wife as my "partner". People on the left just continue conversation no problem. People on the right pause and you can see the wheels turning. I'm a white not very masculine male.
“No, don’t worry, Mr. Conservative. I’m male, she’s female, your norms aren’t being broken yet.” |
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zoloftt
lemmy.world
zoloftt@lemmy.world Joined: 2025-06-04 |
The first time a friend referred to me wife as my "partner", I questioned his choice of words because he was well aware that I'm not gay. Like, I would still just carry on in convo, but if I hear "partner", I make a mental note that they're gay. The correlation has close to a 100% hit rate.
You know what's funny about that? A lot of my hetero friends also say partner. I started using it because it removes the baggage that gendered terms carry. My wife is my best friend. I like to do everything with her. We split chores pretty evenly. |
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zoloftt
lemmy.world
zoloftt@lemmy.world Joined: 2025-06-04 |
“No, don’t worry, Mr. Conservative. I’m male, she’s female, your norms aren’t being broken yet.” “…Yeh, but partner implies she’s your equal. That don’t sit right.”
EXACTLY 🙄 |
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Herbal Gamer
sh.itjust.works
HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2023-10-30 |
I can think of some sex ones I've heard of. A "snow white" is some kind of deranged sex thing for a girl i can't remember... It is probably really bad though. Also one place i was had furries who hung different color flags on their belt, it was pretty subtle but apparently it was a signal about what kind of sex things they were into. Someone told me that. Also I've heard that long ago in hawai'...
The flag thing comes from the gay community, back when it was a more underground experience. |
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VoteNixon2016
lemmy.blahaj.zone
VoteNixon2016@lemmy.blahaj.zone Joined: 2023-08-10 |
"partner" sounds like you're lawyers. just make up a word, or take one from another language. we use "sambo".
It doesn't work quite as well in English |
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Zos_Kia
jlai.lu
Zos_Kia@jlai.luJoined: 2026-02-16 |
one shibboleth i noticed is that any mention of "race" strongly indicates that the person speaking is American, especially if it's conflated with nationalities. "I'm [number]% [nationality]", any use of "mixed race", and stuff like "I can drink a lot of beer because I'm German" or "this recipe offends me as an Italian" are dead giveaways (and quite racist in my humble opinion)
After the big protests in France there were a million bots posting racist stuff on Reddit. They kept referring to "liberals" but none speaks like that in France. Liberal is the word you'd use to describe corpo-centrists like Macron, never to describe leftists. It was kind of like the 3 fingers meme from inglorious bastards. |
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lime!
feddit.nu
lime@feddit.nuJoined: 2024-08-21 |
It doesn't work quite as well in English https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sambo_(racial_term)
...no, no it does not. wow. |
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Hazmatastic
lemmy.world
Hazmatastic@lemmy.world Joined: 2025-03-07 |
Just came across a profile of someone claiming to be a "veracious reader." Fun fact, veracious is actually a word. I'm guessing it's not what they meant, though.
I'm assuming they ironically misspelled "voracious," I've heard that used a lot to describe heavy readers |
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tmyakal
infosec.pub
tmyakal@infosec.pub Joined: 2025-06-04 |
The narwhal bacons at midnight. |
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Pelicanen
fedia.io
Pelicanen@fedia.io Joined: 2025-12-15 |
I'm a self proclaimed crazy cat lady. I also work in a field that has a lot of interaction with the police. I used to have a pin attached to my work badge that said "All Cats Are Beautiful". What? I just love cats ;)
Now I'm thinking about making badges that say "Assigned Child At Birth". |
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🔍🦘🛎
lemmy.world
Zoomboingding@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-07-01 |
They might just use the English language correctly.
Woke is in partners with grammar |
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polysexualstick
lemmy.world
polysexualstick@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-21 |
"Eat the rich." Only two kinds of people say it. Those disenfranchised by capitalism Literal cannibals that don't understand the slogan and would also eat the poor
In what way does this qualify as "indirect" |
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Blibittyblah
futurology.today
Blibittyblah@futurology.today Joined: 2026-10-25 |
Jingle Bells is a Thanksgiving song!
Where am I? |
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meco03211
lemmy.world
meco03211@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-06 |
I'm assuming they ironically misspelled "voracious," I've heard that used a lot to describe heavy readers
I've really only heard the phrase as "voracious". If that's truly an ironic use, I feel it would be lost on most people. |
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HubertManne
piefed.social
HubertManne@piefed.social Joined: 2025-03-13 |
The corollary would be calling Ireland "The Republic".
or I gues republiasian or something. maybe trasian. but yeah the republic would be like the united states. thinking about it its kinda wierder we use the united states often instead of america. |
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betelplouf
sh.itjust.works
betelplouf@sh.itjust.works Joined: 2026-08-13 |
The Handkerchief code , used in gay culture to non-verbally tell what sexual practices you like |
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DekSomBoon
lemmy.today
DekSomBoon@lemmy.today Joined: 2026-10-13 |
When they say "property" on the other hand...
The next level is referring to women as "devices" |
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Infrapink
thebrainbin.org
Infrapink@thebrainbin.orgJoined: 2025-02-15 |
"I have an appointment with a gentleman" is prostitute for "I'm going to shag a dude for money" |
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agent_nycto
lemmy.world
agent_nycto@lemmy.world Joined: 2024-06-10 |
The narwhal bacons at midnight.
I miss that. I genuinely do. Back when it felt like a community and things were fun. I know it's never gonna happen again, it was great to see it, but I miss spontaneous community fun online. |
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agent_nycto
lemmy.world
agent_nycto@lemmy.world Joined: 2024-06-10 |
In reply to an earlier post
I think it's because immigrants wanted to preserve their culture when they came to the US, and that got passed down but was diluted over the generations, so you have people who have a very specific pride and identity that has deviated from the original. |
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RememberTheApollo_
lemmy.world
RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-08-26 |
After the big protests in France there were a million bots posting racist stuff on Reddit. They kept referring to "liberals" but none speaks like that in France. Liberal is the word you'd use to describe corpo-centrists like Macron, never to describe leftists. It was kind of like the 3 fingers meme from inglorious bastards.
Need to give Zelenskyy a few more drones to take out Russian datacenter troll farms. |
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RememberTheApollo_
lemmy.world
RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-08-26 |
In reply to an earlier post
Law & order = whatever orders they make up are the law of the moment. |
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Notyou
sopuli.xyz
Notyou@sopuli.xyzJoined: 2023-06-12 |
The narwhal bacons at midnight.
Holds up spork |
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Hazmatastic
lemmy.world
Hazmatastic@lemmy.world Joined: 2025-03-07 |
I've really only heard the phrase as "voracious". If that's truly an ironic use, I feel it would be lost on most people.
Oh, unintentionally ironic is what I meant, with the misspelling in the self-description of a heavy reader. You're right, much too subtle to be likely intentional. |
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TeaWithDani
lemmy.world
TeaWithDani@lemmy.worldJoined: 2026-07-24 |
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TeaWithDani
lemmy.world
TeaWithDani@lemmy.worldJoined: 2026-07-24 |
Its not so much a dog whistle but in Quebec whether you say "sovreignist" or "seperatist" indicates your camp. Like Caesar or Kaisar in Fallout New Vegas. |
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WesternInfidels
feddit.online
WesternInfidels@feddit.online Joined: 2026-01-29 |
In reply to an earlier post
Online, at least, I've probably heard more hetero people than gay people use "partner." In some cases they were in fact perfectly conventionally full-blown married, they just weren't interested in sharing any more details than they had to to tell whatever story they were telling, because that detail wasn't important for the story. |
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SpiceDealer
lemmy.dbzer0.com
SpiceDealer@lemmy.dbzer0.comJoined: 2025-03-08 |
Ceationists calling it "intelligent design" rather than creationism |
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WesternInfidels
feddit.online
WesternInfidels@feddit.online Joined: 2026-01-29 |
In reply to an earlier post
I've never seen "Community" and I've never lived in Great Britain but even I know what "streets ahead" means. |
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_NetNomad
fedia.io
_NetNomad@fedia.ioJoined: 2024-08-15 |
In reply to an earlier post
Neil Peart and Keith Moon come to you in a dream. Your astral body will be tested far beyond the drumming limits of your corporeal body. Upon success, you will ascend to the next level of existence. It is better that you do not know what happens when you fail. |
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Skullgrid
lemmy.world
Skullgrid@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-29 |
Neil Peart and Keith Moon come to you in a dream. Your astral body will be tested far beyond the drumming limits of your corporeal body. Upon success, you will ascend to the next level of existence. It is better that you do not know what happens when you fail.
> Go to practice studio to get some exercise and maybe improve my bad drumming skills Well shit. |
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Skullgrid
lemmy.world
Skullgrid@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-29 |
In reply to an earlier post
I was banking on _NetNomad to pick up on my "yes and" and he delivered. |
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AHemlocksLie
lemmy.zip
AHemlocksLie@lemmy.zip Joined: 2024-03-10 |
I think it's because immigrants wanted to preserve their culture when they came to the US, and that got passed down but was diluted over the generations, so you have people who have a very specific pride and identity that has deviated from the original.
I hadn't heard this theory before, but it does actually make a lot of sense. |
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AngryCommieKender
lemmy.world
AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-08-02 |
In reply to an earlier post
Dual to the death with Mikkey Dee from Motorhead |
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Blisterexe
lemmy.zip
Blisterexe@lemmy.zipJoined: 2023-11-06 |
Its not so much a dog whistle but in Quebec whether you say "sovreignist" or "seperatist" indicates your camp. Like Caesar or Kaisar in Fallout New Vegas.
It is more of a shibboleth, but that is what I meant when I made the thread, I'm also from Québec and it was an example I had in mind when creating the thread, just didn't mention it because it seemed a bit niche. |
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Blisterexe
lemmy.zip
Blisterexe@lemmy.zipJoined: 2023-11-06 |
In reply to an earlier post
Well, not like "I hate Americans" but moreso like "I dislike the country that is the US, I dislike it's influence and how it uses it's power". I am a francophone, and it's why I use the term, the one time I was in the US the people seemed very nice. |
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Soggy
lemmy.world
Soggy@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-01 |
I think it's because immigrants wanted to preserve their culture when they came to the US, and that got passed down but was diluted over the generations, so you have people who have a very specific pride and identity that has deviated from the original.
In many cases the "original" deviated even more. It's not like culture has been static in Europe for four hundred years. |
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Soggy
lemmy.world
Soggy@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-01 |
Well, not like "I hate Americans" but moreso like "I dislike the country that is the US, I dislike it's influence and how it uses it's power". I am a francophone, and it's why I use the term, the one time I was in the US the people seemed very nice.
"I dislike the government therefore I will be disrespectful to the people by refusing to use their preferred demonym." Alright bud. |
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jim_v
lemmy.world
jim_v@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-11-21 |
In reply to an earlier post
"No courtesy left for the right" is now going into my back pocket for later. Love it. |
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jim_v
lemmy.world
jim_v@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-11-21 |
Holds up spork
And my axe. |
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redballooon
lemmy.world
redballooon@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-11 |
I prefer electric cars, they're not as loud or stinky. |
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TAG
lemmy.world
TAG@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-08 |
My favorite dog whistle (that went over my head, because I was not the audience for it) was the Subaru "Come out and play" commercial. If I remember it correctly, the ad was mostly footage of Subaru SUVs driving over rocks and through streams while a voice over talks about the cars' off-road capabilities. The ads would always end with the narrator saying "Subaru invites you to come out and play.” As a straight man, I always assumed that the commercial was about how much fun it is to drive a Subaru up a mountain. Apparently, I was missing the point. The nature footage was all a distraction to pacify the straights. The real commercial was just the sentence fragment "Subaru invites you to come out". It was meant to say that Subaru supports queer people. It was a resounding success in promoting the 'Subaru driving lesbian' stereotype. |
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Apytele
sh.itjust.works
Apytele@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2023-06-12 |
It is more of a shibboleth, but that is what I meant when I made the thread, I'm also from Québec and it was an example I had in mind when creating the thread, just didn't mention it because it seemed a bit niche.
A dog whistle is just a shibboleth for Nazis. |
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Blisterexe
lemmy.zip
Blisterexe@lemmy.zipJoined: 2023-11-06 |
"I dislike the government therefore I will be disrespectful to the people by refusing to use their preferred demonym." Alright bud.
It's in french. You don't have a preferred demonym in french. It's like how the Dutch call themselves Netherlanders, but very few people say that. (Or how in french they're called Hollandais) Also how is it disrespectful??? |
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SkaveRat
discuss.tchncs.de
SkaveRat@discuss.tchncs.de Joined: 2023-07-09 |
I miss that. I genuinely do. Back when it felt like a community and things were fun. I know it's never gonna happen again, it was great to see it, but I miss spontaneous community fun online.
As someone who used reddit during that time, lemmy something feels exactly like reddit back then. Small communities and mainly consisting of a bunch of nerds |
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pHr34kY
lemmy.world
pHr34kY@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-02 |
In reply to an earlier post
It's really not an issue. |
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