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ekZepp lemmy.world ekZepp@lemmy.world
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CarbonIceDragon pawb.social CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social
Joined: 2023-06-05
#2 · Quote Reply

On second thought, this sorta scenario does seem a bit odd. Like, the first person basically admits by implication to snooping around the second person's personal stuff but expects the other person to be embarrassed by this?

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abbadon420 sh.itjust.works abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-28
#3 · Quote Reply

On second thought, this sorta scenario does seem a bit odd. Like, the first person basically admits by implication to snooping around the second person's personal stuff but expects the other person to be embarrassed by this?

It'sabout emotions. Those aren't rational. That's why I try to avoid them as the plague.

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venusaur lemmy.world venusaur@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-28
#4 · Quote Reply

A Lemmy user’s worst nightmare. Somebody finding out what porn they’ve been looking at. Progressive in so many ways except when it comes to porn.

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OwOarchist pawb.social OwOarchist@pawb.social
Joined: 2026-02-13
#5 · Quote Reply

A Lemmy user’s worst nightmare. Somebody finding out what porn they’ve been looking at. Progressive in so many ways except when it comes to porn.
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TachyonTele piefed.social TachyonTele@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-06-03
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#6 · Quote Reply

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If beastiality is progressive then im voting red.

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FartMaster69 lemmy.dbzer0.com FartMaster69@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2024-12-06
#7 · Quote Reply

If beastiality is progressive then im voting red.

Anthro isn’t even close to bestiality.

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TachyonTele piefed.social TachyonTele@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-06-03
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#8 · Quote Reply

Anthro isn’t even close to bestiality.

Hmmhm

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BillyClark piefed.social BillyClark@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-01-21
#9 · Quote Reply

Not bondage. Shibari. I just like knots!

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Agent641 lemmy.world Agent641@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-12
#10 · Quote Reply

Anthro isn’t even close to bestiality.

You didn't have to do yourself like that fam.

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chisel piefed.social chisel@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-09-17
#11 · Quote Reply

It'sabout emotions. Those aren't rational. That's why I try to avoid them as the plague.

HA HA, ME TOO, FELLOW HUMAN. HUMAN EMOTIONS ARE SO UNOPTIMIZED AND ILLOGICAL.

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devfuuu lemmy.world devfuuu@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-17
#12 · Quote Reply

A Lemmy user’s worst nightmare. Somebody finding out what porn they’ve been looking at. Progressive in so many ways except when it comes to porn.

Wait, aren't we all seeing the piss videos? I thought that was mainstream nowadays.

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orioler25 lemmy.world orioler25@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-19
#13 · (edited) Quote Reply

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It is crazy how many men get pissed when you tell them that "futa" is a slur; often because "everyone uses it."

edit: Y'all know you don't get to tell a marginalised group what is and is not a slur against them, yeah?

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orioler25 lemmy.world orioler25@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-19
#14 · Quote Reply

If beastiality is progressive then im voting red.

Lola Bunny is apparently responsible for the rise of fascism, that's the real reason why the liberals (🤮) desexualized her in Space Jam: A New Legacy.

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caurvo lemmy.blahaj.zone caurvo@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-11-06
#15 · Quote Reply

HA HA, ME TOO, FELLOW HUMAN. HUMAN EMOTIONS ARE SO UNOPTIMIZED AND ILLOGICAL.

LET'S GET BACK TO SMOKING THESE MEATS.

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Sundray lemmus.org sundray@lemmus.org
Joined: 2023-12-19
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ameancow lemmy.world ameancow@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-05-10
#17 · Quote Reply

It'sabout emotions. Those aren't rational. That's why I try to avoid them as the plague.
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Jankatarch lemmy.world Jankatarch@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-07-12
#18 · Quote Reply

A Lemmy user’s worst nightmare. Somebody finding out what porn they’ve been looking at. Progressive in so many ways except when it comes to porn.

https://lemmy.world/c/unixporn

???

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Ryanmiller70 lemmy.zip Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-08-04
#19 · Quote Reply

A Lemmy user’s worst nightmare. Somebody finding out what porn they’ve been looking at. Progressive in so many ways except when it comes to porn.

But she said she was 3000 years old!!

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abbadon420 sh.itjust.works abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-28
#20 · Quote Reply

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Chances are still open that we're all dead before I get to middle-age.

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surewhynotlem lemmy.world surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#21 · Quote Reply

Wait, aren't we all seeing the piss videos? I thought that was mainstream nowadays.

Unfortunately, it is. I can't even watch a normal 13-on-1 anal incest stepmom neighbor rent payment arrested for shoplifting gangbang without everyone pissing on each other. It's disgusting.

And guys, y'all need to hydrate.

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OwOarchist pawb.social OwOarchist@pawb.social
Joined: 2026-02-13
#22 · Quote Reply

It is crazy how many men get pissed when you tell them that "futa" is a slur; often because "everyone uses it." edit: Y'all know you don't get to tell a marginalised group what is and is not a slur against them, yeah?

“futa” is a slur

Maybe if you're using it to refer to trans women.

But that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about imaginary furry girls who were either born that way or magicked up a dick somehow.

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Furbag lemmy.world Furbag@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#23 · Quote Reply

LET'S GET BACK TO SMOKING THESE MEATS.

Hey new neighbor, you throw one heck of a cookout!

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orioler25 lemmy.world orioler25@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-19
#24 · (edited) Quote Reply

“futa” is a slur Maybe if you're using it to refer to trans women. But that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about imaginary furry girls who were either born that way or magicked up a dick somehow.

My guy, trans women are real, objectifying depictions of them in fiction are imaginary. If you make a stereotypical and dehumanizing representation of a real group of people, I'm afraid that you can't just say "well, I made it up," and dissuade any criticism of how this relates to real world politics and its violence. Incredible porn-brained reasoning here.

edit: really starting to notice the influx of redditors on here.

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zaphod sopuli.xyz zaphod@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2023-12-04
#25 · Quote Reply

https://lemmy.world/c/unixporn ???

Imagine they find your secret windows installation.

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Zorque lemmy.world Zorque@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-13
#26 · Quote Reply

My guy, trans women are real, objectifying depictions of them in fiction are imaginary. If you make a stereotypical and dehumanizing representation of a real group of people, I'm afraid that you can't just say "well, I made it up," and dissuade any criticism of how this relates to real world politics and its violence. Incredible porn-brained reasoning here. edit: really starting to notice the i...

I'd say equating people's fantasies with real people is the real dehumanizing thing. Rational people are able to separate fantasy and reality... why arent you?

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ameancow lemmy.world ameancow@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-05-10
#27 · (edited) Quote Reply

Chances are still open that we're all dead before I get to middle-age.
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FartMaster69 lemmy.dbzer0.com FartMaster69@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2024-12-06
#28 · Quote Reply

You didn't have to do yourself like that fam.

I don’t have to, but I sure like to.

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orioler25 lemmy.world orioler25@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-19
#29 · Quote Reply

I'd say equating people's fantasies with real people is the real dehumanizing thing. Rational people are able to separate fantasy and reality... why arent you?
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Siethron lemmy.world Siethron@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-15
#30 · Quote Reply

A Lemmy user’s worst nightmare. Somebody finding out what porn they’ve been looking at. Progressive in so many ways except when it comes to porn.

My porn has to be drawn because it is impossible in reality.

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Donkter lemmy.world Donkter@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#31 · Quote Reply

On second thought, this sorta scenario does seem a bit odd. Like, the first person basically admits by implication to snooping around the second person's personal stuff but expects the other person to be embarrassed by this?

Now on principal the first person is wrong. But it does depend on what they found...

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Chloé 🥕 lemmy.blahaj.zone carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-06-13
#32 · Quote Reply

is that tom scott

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HexagonSun lemmy.zip HexagonSun@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-02-10
#33 · Quote Reply

A Lemmy user’s worst nightmare. Somebody finding out what porn they’ve been looking at. Progressive in so many ways except when it comes to porn.

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OwOarchist pawb.social OwOarchist@pawb.social
Joined: 2026-02-13
#34 · Quote Reply

My guy, trans women are real, objectifying depictions of them in fiction are imaginary. If you make a stereotypical and dehumanizing representation of a real group of people, I'm afraid that you can't just say "well, I made it up," and dissuade any criticism of how this relates to real world politics and its violence. Incredible porn-brained reasoning here. edit: really starting to notice the i...
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tetris11 feddit.uk tetris11@feddit.uk
Joined: 2025-02-17
#35 · Quote Reply

is that tom scott

Yes, he quit youtube to do porn.

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tetris11 feddit.uk tetris11@feddit.uk
Joined: 2025-02-17
#36 · Quote Reply

Now on principal the first person is wrong. But it does depend on what they found...

A flashlight and a salad mixer

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MinnesotaGoddam lemmy.world HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-27
#37 · Quote Reply

Lola Bunny is apparently responsible for the rise of fascism, that's the real reason why the liberals (🤮) desexualized her in Space Jam: A New Legacy.

they what

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Shrouded0603 feddit.org orochi02@feddit.org
Joined: 2025-04-08
#38 · Quote Reply

It is crazy how many men get pissed when you tell them that "futa" is a slur; often because "everyone uses it." edit: Y'all know you don't get to tell a marginalised group what is and is not a slur against them, yeah?

White Person spotted

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MajorMajormajormajor lemmy.ca MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-06-12
#39 · Quote Reply

A flashlight and a salad mixer

Who doesn't like some light salad tossing?

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TexasDrunk lemmy.world TexasDrunk@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-12-30
#40 · Quote Reply

Lola Bunny is apparently responsible for the rise of fascism, that's the real reason why the liberals (🤮) desexualized her in Space Jam: A New Legacy.

Let's not forget the sexiest of M&Ms.

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chicken lemmy.dbzer0.com chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-30
#41 · Quote Reply

My guy, trans women are real, objectifying depictions of them in fiction are imaginary. If you make a stereotypical and dehumanizing representation of a real group of people, I'm afraid that you can't just say "well, I made it up," and dissuade any criticism of how this relates to real world politics and its violence. Incredible porn-brained reasoning here. edit: really starting to notice the i...

Why are you assuming the depiction would be dehumanizing? Just how constrained do you want porn artists and their viewers to be? Bigoted and hateful porn exists, but so does porn with a progressive message, and the distinction is not which groups of people have been depicted.

If you want to focus on the word and move the euphemism treadmill along because it's become associated with offensive stereotypes, that's understandable, but you're probably not getting any closer by calling people r*dditors just for saying it. As porn tags go I think 'futanari' is overall on its way out, for instance you won't find it on the tag lists of e621 posts because the word is aliased to other tags and not used directly.

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I Cast Fist programming.dev ICastFist@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-22
#42 · Quote Reply

My porn has to be drawn because it is impossible in reality.

What about 3D renders and animations? 😏

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queermunist she/her lemmy.ml queermunist@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-07-10
#43 · (edited) Quote Reply

Why are you assuming the depiction would be dehumanizing? Just how constrained do you want porn artists and their viewers to be? Bigoted and hateful porn exists, but so does porn with a progressive message, and the distinction is not which groups of people have been depicted. If you want to focus on the word and move the euphemism treadmill along because it's become associated with offensive st...

The right-wing wants to ban us from public life because they believe a woman having a penis is inherently pornographic, because that's literally their only exposure to us. It's not just about the euphemism treadmill, the way porn portrays us is actively making our lives worse. We're overly sexualized to the point that they believe they need to protect their children from us. It is dehumanizing.

Porn doesn't have to be this way, but to fix it there would need to be a total transformation of the entire industry and media landscape. It's a serious problem and no one wants to confront it, because they like their porn and don't want to give anything up.

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I Cast Fist programming.dev ICastFist@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-22
#44 · Quote Reply

Phew, I'm glad she didn't find my "dragons fucking cars" folder!

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orioler25 lemmy.world orioler25@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-19
#45 · Quote Reply

Why are you assuming the depiction would be dehumanizing? Just how constrained do you want porn artists and their viewers to be? Bigoted and hateful porn exists, but so does porn with a progressive message, and the distinction is not which groups of people have been depicted. If you want to focus on the word and move the euphemism treadmill along because it's become associated with offensive st...
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orioler25 lemmy.world orioler25@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-19
#46 · Quote Reply

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I'm sorry that you are just now learning that your porn world doesn't translate to real life.

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chicken lemmy.dbzer0.com chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-30
#47 · (edited) Quote Reply

The right-wing wants to ban us from public life because they believe a woman having a penis is inherently pornographic, because that's literally their only exposure to us. It's not just about the euphemism treadmill, the way porn portrays us is actively making our lives worse. We're overly sexualized to the point that they believe they need to protect their children from us. It is dehumanizing....

That's all fair, and I can see how right wing porn memes contribute to that kind of problem. Trans women need more non-pornographic representation and not be automatically treated as fetish objects. Still, I think it's relevant that this is about something someone was saying about furry porn, which as a whole has pro-LGBT politics.

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queermunist she/her lemmy.ml queermunist@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-07-10
#48 · (edited) Quote Reply

That's all fair, and I can see how right wing porn memes contribute to that kind of problem. Trans women need more non-pornographic representation and not be automatically treated as fetish objects. Still, I think it's relevant that this is about something someone was saying about furry porn, which as a whole has pro-LGBT politics.

I don't think the politics of the porn can actually address the root problem, which is that we're seen as inherently pornographic. It's probably less bad for the porn to have good politics, but I don't know if that's actually the best solution to the problem. We need a lot more non-pornographic representation, but we probably also need less pornographic representation along with it.

The politics of the porn might even be irrelevant to the problem, because the problem is that our existence is X-rated. Whether the porn has good or bad politics won't actually change whether or not they believe we need to be kept away from children.

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Walk_blesseD piefed.blahaj.zone Walk_blesseD@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-07
#49 · Quote Reply

White Person spotted

feddit.org

Opinion discarded

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chicken lemmy.dbzer0.com chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-30
#50 · Quote Reply

I don't think the politics of the porn can actually address the root problem, which is that we're seen as inherently pornographic. It's probably less bad for the porn to have good politics, but I don't know if that's actually the best solution to the problem. We need a lot more non-pornographic representation, but we probably also need less pornographic representation along with it. The politic...

Whether the porn has good or bad politics won’t actually change whether or not they believe we need to be kept away from children

I don't know how much it would actually effect it either way but it definitely determines whether whatever narrative and characterization is present implies it. If it's furry porn it is way less likely to have the typical hentai theme of woman + penis = uncontrollable sexual aggression for instance.

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OwOarchist pawb.social OwOarchist@pawb.social
Joined: 2026-02-13
#51 · Quote Reply

I'm sorry that you are just now learning that your porn world doesn't translate to real life.

Why would I want to translate it?

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