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GreenKnight23 lemmy.world GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-21
#52 · Quote Reply

The moto I live my life by is “The day you stop learning is the day you become obsolete.” The one I wish more people took to heart is, “After everything has been said, and everything has been heard, these three remain: faith, hope, and love. The greatest of these is love.” Just love each other, that’s all I’m asking for.

I have a similar one.

the day you stop questioning your sanity is the day you have lost your mind.

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YappyMonotheist lemmy.world ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-04-26
#53 · Quote Reply

I can't post the whole Qur'an (and, as a message from the Divine, it's hard to call it "wisdom", it's a bit more uhh axiomatic than that), and I won't post the entirety of Ecclesiastes (but if you're in a moment of existential questioning, I think reading it would be very helpful!), but I will post a passage from the NT, Matthew 25-34, because it might be useful to some of you as it has been to me (and my somewhat anxious wife likes it too!).

"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?

And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

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elephantium lemmy.world elephantium@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#54 · (edited) Quote Reply

It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not weakness, that is life. Jean-Luc Picard. In Star trek: The Next Generation s2e21

Excellent. I'm also partial to this bit in the Drumhead:

With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably.

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DasFaultier sh.itjust.works DasFaultier@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-01-22
#55 · Quote Reply

As we know, There are known knowns. There are things we know we know. We also know There are known unknowns. That is to say We know there are some things We do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns, The ones we don’t know We don’t know. -Donald Rumsfeld The aide said that guys like me [Suskind] were "in what we call the reality-based community," which he defined as people who "believe t...

The missile knows where it is at all times. It knows this because it knows where it isn't. By subtracting where it is from where it isn't, or where it isn't from where it is (whichever is greater), it obtains a difference, or deviation.

Konfuzius or whatever

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DasFaultier sh.itjust.works DasFaultier@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-01-22
#56 · Quote Reply

At a certain level of self-awareness, it will inevitably happen regularly that one finds oneself repulsive.

I forget who said it.

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xep discuss.online xep@discuss.online
Joined: 2025-08-06
#57 · Quote Reply

The most likely way for the world to be destroyed, most experts agree, is by accident. That's where we come in; we're computer professionals. We cause accidents.

Nathaniel Borenstein.

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DontNoodles discuss.tchncs.de DontNoodles@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-06-15
#58 · Quote Reply

Pen is mightier than sword, France is Bacon.

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DontNoodles discuss.tchncs.de DontNoodles@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-06-15
#59 · Quote Reply

And when all wars are done, a butterfly will still be beautiful -Ruskin Bond

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daggermoon lemmy.world daggermoon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-08-26
#60 · Quote Reply

"There is no healing of thy bruise; thy wound is grievous: all that hear the bruit of thee shall clap the hands over thee: for upon whom hath not thy wickedness passed continually?" - Nahum 3:19

I'm not religious by the way

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Hemingways_Shotgun lemmy.ca Adderbox76@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-06-07
#61 · Quote Reply

If you can convince the lowest white man he's better than the best colored man, he won't notice you're picking his pocket. Hell, give him somebody to look down on, and he'll empty his pockets for you.

This quote from LBJ centres me. Its been the conservative tactic for literally decades, from African Americans, to lgbtq+, to immigrants; it's always been the same grift:

  • Choose your marginalised group-du-jour.
  • Convince a whole lot of stupid people that that group is the cause of all their problems.
  • Profit.

Its honestly astonishing how blatant it really is.

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melsaskca lemmy.ca melsaskca@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-03-09
#62 · Quote Reply

I've always loved the dichotomy between "I think, therefore I am" versus "To be, is to be perceived". Also, "life is what happens to you while you are making other plans".

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whyrat lemmy.world whyrat@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-05
#63 · Quote Reply

Two of my favorite are from Antoine de Saint-Exupery:

"What makes the desert beautiful is that somewhere it hides a well."

"We do not inherit the Earth from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children." (Also attributed as a Native American proverb)

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adhd_traco piefed.social adhd_traco@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-10-23
#64 · Quote Reply

Two of my favorite are from Antoine de Saint-Exupery: "What makes the desert beautiful is that somewhere it hides a well." "We do not inherit the Earth from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children." (Also attributed as a Native American proverb)

The second one is mesmerizing. Never heard it, or a variation of it before. Thanks!

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Tywèle piefed.social Tywele@piefed.social
Joined: 2024-08-08
#65 · Quote Reply

“Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good enough”

“Comparison is the thief of joy”

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kinship lemmy.sdf.org kinship@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-07-05
#66 · Quote Reply

"Hegel remarks somewhere that all great world-historic facts and personages appear, so to speak, twice. He forgot to add: the first time as tragedy, the second time as farce." - Karl Marx, "The Eighteenth Brumaire of Louis Bonaparte" Great quote. But sometimes I think "twice" was overly optimistic.

ELI5?

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Dry_Monk lemmy.world Dry_Monk@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#67 · Quote Reply

"The impediment to action advances action. What's in the way becomes the way."

This is basically saying that anything that gets in the way of you solving a problem becomes the new problem to solve.

"The tool works at both ends."

This is about skill building and practice. Making cool stuff improves you as a result.

Something I like about each is that they work in reverse. No impediment in your way? You're probably not going to have very focused forward movement. No need to use tools (literally or metaphorically)? You won't become more skilled.

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the_korben feddit.org the_korben@feddit.org
Joined: 2026-02-14
#68 · (edited) Quote Reply

ELI5?

It's basically about how bad things can happen repeatedly in history, even if people knew those things were bad the first time around. It may simply look different enough so people don't take it seriously the second time around, maybe seem not as threatening or even ridiculous, but it ends up causing the same kind of harm. But that second time is no longer a tragedy - because a tragedy is basically something that takes the world by surprise and has horrible effects. Marx calls the second time a "farce" - it's something that is ridiculous and avoidable and stupid and by all accounts everyone should have prevented it from happening.

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JustAnotherKay lemmy.world JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-08-25
#69 · Quote Reply

“Give everything you can, but never anything you need.”

I try to live by this. I give away every extra dollar, and help people every chance I get

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the_grass_trainer lemmy.world the_grass_trainer@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-22
#70 · Quote Reply

If idioms count then my favorite is this one:

"I see," said the blind man to his deaf wife over the phone.

My father would always say that to me growing up if i took too long to explain something 😅

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Snot Flickerman lemmy.blahaj.zone SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-10-24
#71 · Quote Reply

never trust a fart

I've heard it as "never trust a fart after forty."

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silasmariner programming.dev silasmariner@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-07-01
#72 · Quote Reply

We must imagine Sisyphus as happy

I won't break it down, plenty of people have done that already. It's one of those sorta zen points that's both almost trivial and very difficult to understand

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OriginEnergySux lemmy.world OriginEnergySux@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-02-02
#73 · Quote Reply

Hope for the best; prepare for the worst.

Being neurodivergent, this is the most efficient way to mentally deal with change (i fucking hate change even though its the only constant in life)

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Hanrahan slrpnk.net hanrahan@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2023-03-14
#74 · Quote Reply

Don't be a cunt!

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Kalcifer sh.itjust.works Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-10-20
#75 · Quote Reply

!quotes@lemmy.ca

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Kalcifer sh.itjust.works Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-10-20
#76 · Quote Reply

Rationality is not a character trait, it's a process. If you fool yourself into believing that you're rational by default, you open yourself up to the most irrational thinking.

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Kalcifer sh.itjust.works Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-10-20
#77 · Quote Reply

"The impediment to action advances action. What's in the way becomes the way." This is basically saying that anything that gets in the way of you solving a problem becomes the new problem to solve. "The tool works at both ends." This is about skill building and practice. Making cool stuff improves you as a result. Something I like about each is that they work in reverse. No impediment in your w...

“The impediment to action advances action. What’s in the way becomes the way.” […]

I think another quote similar to this is:

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.

[Albert Einstein] ^[2]^

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    • I think this is attributed to Einstein ^[1]^; however, I've also read that it might be more accurately attributed to John Archibald Wheeler ^[3]^.
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Kalcifer sh.itjust.works Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-10-20
#78 · Quote Reply

“Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good enough” “Comparison is the thief of joy”

“Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good enough” […]

I think some other quotes similar to this are:

  • There is never a good time to do anything. ^[1]^

  • Perfection is lots of little things done well.

    [Marco Pierre White] ^[2]^

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Kalcifer sh.itjust.works Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-10-20
#79 · (edited) Quote Reply

Some believe all that parents, tutors, and kindred believe. They take their principles by inheritance, and defend them as they would their estates, because they are born heirs to them. Alan Watts Read it, and I mean really read it. then think about what it is that you inherited that you defend and why you should continue to defend it.

I think the following quote is in the same vein:

Don't take refuge in the false security of consensus.

[Christopher Hitchens] ^[1]^

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Encrypt-Keeper lemmy.world EncryptKeeper@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#80 · (edited) Quote Reply

Not to enable the poor to share in our goods is to steal from them and deprive them of life. the goods we possess are not ours, but theirs.

  • St John Chrysostom

The demands of justice must be satisfied first of all; that which is already due in justice is not to be offered as a gift of charity.

  • Second Council of the Vatican

When we attend to the needs of those in want, we give them what is theirs, not ours. More than performing works of mercy, we are paying a debt of justice.

  • Pope St Gregory

Three quotes referenced in the Catechism of the Catholic Church, and just one example of the dissonance between many “Christians” in the U.S. and the faith they purport to follow.

If that doesn’t get them, the fact that the concept of social justice, as in the actual coining of the term as well as the movement against capitalist exploitation brought on by the Industrial Revolution was by the Catholics does lol

The meaning behind it all is very simple, we’re all in this together, and the gifts given to us by God/nature belong to all of us. They’re not for us to hoard, or to exploit others for.

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Jonnyprophet lemmy.world Jonnyprophet@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-10-25
#81 · Quote Reply

"There is no healing of thy bruise; thy wound is grievous: all that hear the bruit of thee shall clap the hands over thee: for upon whom hath not thy wickedness passed continually?" - Nahum 3:19 I'm not religious by the way
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draco_aeneus mander.xyz draco_aeneus@mander.xyz
Joined: 2026-01-23
#82 · Quote Reply

Two of my favorite are from Antoine de Saint-Exupery: "What makes the desert beautiful is that somewhere it hides a well." "We do not inherit the Earth from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children." (Also attributed as a Native American proverb)

I kinda disagree with the first one. Plenty of places which do not support humans are beautiful. And I don't like the implication that to be beautiful, you must be hostile with hidden kindness underneath. I don't know if that's how Antoine meant it, though.

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kinship lemmy.sdf.org kinship@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-07-05
#83 · (edited) Quote Reply

It's basically about how bad things can happen repeatedly in history, even if people knew those things were bad the first time around. It may simply look different enough so people don't take it seriously the second time around, maybe seem not as threatening or even ridiculous, but it ends up causing the same kind of harm. But that second time is no longer a tragedy - because a tragedy is basic...

That is a very interesting point of view. We pile up experiences since the dawn of mankind. But I don't think it is that straight forward, in my view things are more cyclical than anything. I like the quote from Ecclesiastes for that POV better:

"There is nothing new under the sun".

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Seefra 1 lemmy.zip sefra1@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-24
#84 · (edited) Quote Reply

"Freedom in capitalist society always remains about the same as it was in ancient Greek republics: Freedom for slave owners."

Might not agree with Lenin on everything but this one is right on spot.

Oh, my second favorite quote is also from him I had no idea

"One cannot live in society and be free from society."

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daggermoon lemmy.world daggermoon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-08-26
#85 · Quote Reply

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I'm not sure what you mean. Nahum is a book in the bible.

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pir8t0x lemmy.ml pir8t0x@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-01-24
#86 · Quote Reply

•"You are what you consume"
•"Surround yourself and be around people who you want to be like"
•"Behave with others just like you want to be behaved with"

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NihilsineNefas slrpnk.net NihilsineNefas@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-06-19
#87 · Quote Reply

"You can make anything idiot proof, the world will just make a bigger idiot"

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fiendishplan lemmy.world fiendishplan@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-22
#88 · (edited) Quote Reply

“Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known.”
Carl Sagan

also

“A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.”

― Robert A. Heinlein

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AceSLive lemmy.world AceSLive@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-06
#89 · Quote Reply

Not sure it's a quote from anywhere in particular but

"Just because you can, doesn't mean you should."

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StickyDango lemmy.world StickyDango@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-09-01
#90 · Quote Reply

What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?

  • The Summer Day, Mary Oliver

It can apply in so many instances.

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Koarnine pawb.social Koarnine@pawb.social
Joined: 2023-08-11
#91 · Quote Reply

Big fan of

"The point of modern propaganda isn't only to misinform or push an agenda. It is to exhaust your critical thinking, to annihilate truth"

  • Garry Kasparov (2015)

That is to say, don't let them shut you up.

There is a longer, more historical version of this but it escapes me at the moment.

I can only find the Hannah Arendt quote (1974)

"This constant lying is not aimed at making the people believe a lie, but at ensuring that no one believes anything anymore. A people that can no longer distinguish between truth and lies cannot distinguish between right and wrong. And [to] such a people... you can do whatever you want."

But i swear there was one that finished
"When the truth is silent, liars can move onto action"

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remon ani.social remon@ani.social
Joined: 2024-09-25
#92 · (edited) Quote Reply

"People, what a bunch of bastards".

- Roy from the IT Crowd.

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Bruncvik lemmy.world Bruncvik@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
#93 · Quote Reply

This one speaks directly to me: "The only decision you should make while angry is to stop being angry." ~ Timothy Zahn, the Icarus series.

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SaraTonin lemmy.world SaraTonin@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-03
#94 · Quote Reply

“Never argue with an idiot because the best possible outcome is that you’ll win an argument with an idiot”

I also like “there are some things in life you can’t change, so you shouldn’t worry about them, and there are some things in life you can change, so you shouldn’t worry about them”

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anon_8675309 lemmy.world anon_8675309@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-09-01
#95 · Quote Reply

Friendship is when silence between two people is comfortable.

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W98BSoD lemmy.dbzer0.com W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-01-30
#96 · Quote Reply

The squeaky wheel gets the grease, but the nail that sticks up gets hammered down.

The early bird gets the worm but the second mouse gets the cheese.

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W98BSoD lemmy.dbzer0.com W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-01-30
#97 · Quote Reply

Two of my favorite are from Antoine de Saint-Exupery: "What makes the desert beautiful is that somewhere it hides a well." "We do not inherit the Earth from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children." (Also attributed as a Native American proverb)

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xyguy startrek.website xyguy@startrek.website
Joined: 2023-06-15
#98 · Quote Reply

Never pass up the opportunity to pee.

And

If a restaurant serves breakfast all day, that's what you should order.

--My dad

Also,

Dont cheap out on anything that keeps you off the ground. (Tires, shoes, mattress etc)

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Hossenfeffer feddit.uk Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-06-14
#99 · (edited) Quote Reply

"Sometimes, at the end of a sentence, I come out with completely the wrong fusebox. The problem with using the wrong words is a. that I don't always notice, and b. orange water gibbon bucket of plaster."

I think of this often and have to say we can all learn something from it.

[Note to add: it's a throwaway line from Monty Python sketch. Second note to add: TheWrongFusebox was my reddit username for 15 or so years.]

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adhd_traco piefed.social adhd_traco@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-10-23
#100 · Quote Reply

Big fan of "The point of modern propaganda isn't only to misinform or push an agenda. It is to exhaust your critical thinking, to annihilate truth" Garry Kasparov (2015) That is to say, don't let them shut you up. There is a longer, more historical version of this but it escapes me at the moment. I can only find the Hannah Arendt quote (1974) "This constant lying is not aimed at making the peop...

Love these unveiling of manipulation tactics. Especially in a time where the narrative is usually focused on the face-value of disinformation/misinformation, or straight up lying when discovered.

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vendingbird lemmy.zip vendingbird@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-02-22
#101 · Quote Reply

That's a round down range, can't pull it back

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