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Beep lemmus.org Beep@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-01-15
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Here is my notes from using Lemmy:

  • There is core limitations on Lemmy which cannot be fixed even on the long term( for example finding communities via search. Results from .world is very different from the result that your instance fetch, no ability to upload media with the same ease and speed of Reddit,...etc);
  • Herd mentality is very deep on Lemmy, compared to other social media websites;
  • People seem to take disagreements in opinions personally, which is weird on it's own;
  • Lemmy users would like to have a working cancel culture so much that they would have no problem deepthroating a dick to get it;
  • Lemmy users and with them Digg 2.0 users, hate with passion anyone who criticize their platform and is ready to go against logic to defend it;
  • Lemmy Admins and moderators seem to have a control fetish: on Reddit, it was very normal and easy to me to reach out to a mod to restore my posts or to explain himself and even discuss and change rules or reverse discussions. Yes there was some of them who also had control fetish, but in the communities which I used to use that was kind of rare. Meanwhile here there is no modbox functionality which complicates talking with mods;
  • Some Lemmy users seem to be easy to obsessive over things.

I feel there needs to be disclaimer on Lemmy servers/introduction page to warn people about negativity on the platform, but I don't think it will ever happen.

About moderation, I feel the only outcome that will happen is bad moderation (IMO) will keep happening on the platform till either the servers hosting communities go down or till the mod become inactive.

On a side note it feels like a lot of Lemmy servers are suffering financially and might close soon, while Lemmy developers did not even try to help them by implementing third party upload functionality(Imgbb, catbox, imgur,...etc) in the app and the web front end to lighten the load on the server admins. Right now most Lemmy servers I know of are protected by Cloudflare and pictures uploaded on some servers don't open natively(you need to click it as a normal link and pass cloudflare verification to see image).

It's what it's here. but I just wanted to lay out what I think about Lemmy culture, moderation and software.

Edit:

More proof for my point:

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Rekall Incorporated piefed.social Rekall_Incorporated@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-06-08
#2 · Quote Reply

I would stick to topics outside of politics and memes.

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Tomtits lemmy.dbzer0.com blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-03-10
#3 · Quote Reply

You just need to remember that 95% of users are massively autistic

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slazer2au lemmy.world slazer2au@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-30
#4 · Quote Reply

I feel there needs to be disclaimer on Lemmy servers/introduction page to warn people about negativity on the platform, but I don’t think it will ever happen.

or you know, follow the damn community rules so your posts don't get deleted.

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Skavau piefed.social Skavau@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-03-18
#5 · Quote Reply

On a side note it feels like a lot of Lemmy servers are suffering financially and might close soon

What ones exactly?

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Beep lemmus.org Beep@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-01-15
#6 · Quote Reply

I feel there needs to be disclaimer on Lemmy servers/introduction page to warn people about negativity on the platform, but I don’t think it will ever happen. or you know, follow the damn community rules so your posts don't get deleted.

I was talking there about users interactions on the platform, not moderation.

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Petersson feddit.org Peter_Arbeitslos@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-22
#7 · Quote Reply

Lemmy users would like to have a working cancel culture so much that they would have no problem deepthroating a dick to get it;

C'mon if deepthroating a dick is the way to get something, 50% of lemmy users wouldn't care about what this something is.

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TrackinDaKraken lemmy.world DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-02-26
#8 · Quote Reply

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KoboldCoterie pawb.social KoboldCoterie@pawb.social
Joined: 2023-06-05
#9 · Quote Reply

no ability to upload media with the same ease and speed of Reddit

I can just paste an image or whatever directly into a comment field and it's automatically uploaded and linked. For new posts, it's drag-and-drop right onto the browser. This might be instance-specific, but what functionality were you hoping for?

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Petersson feddit.org Peter_Arbeitslos@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-22
#10 · (edited) Quote Reply

I agree like 70% but it extremly depends on where on Lemmy you are.

E: And I partly definitely disagree:

There is core limitations on Lemmy which cannot be fixed even on the long term( for example finding communities via search. Results from .world is very different from the result that your instance fetch, no ability to upload media with the same ease and speed of Reddit,…etc);

Never had such problems. I can find all the communities I want to find. Most communities I can't find are on instances defederated by my instance for really good reasons. Media upload speed? Depends on your internet I guess. And types of media... Yeah video-upload would be neat (even tough I don't really need it), but Reddit had the same problem last time I used it and catbox.moe etc. aren't that bad of alternatives. Also Lemmy is young, video-upload might be possible at some point, surely no problem which "cannot be fixed even on the long term".

Meanwhile here there is no modbox functionality which complicates talking with mods;

... Just write them a DM? The few times I had to contact a mod this was the easy way to go.

Some Lemmy users seem to be easy to obsessive over things.

It's the internet. There are people who are really into stuff, so what? It's like Reddit on speed.

On a side note it feels like a lot of Lemmy servers are suffering financially and might close soon, while Lemmy developers did not even try to help them by implementing third party upload functionality(Imgbox, catbox, imgur,…etc) in the app and the web front end to lighten the load on the server admins. Right now most Lemmy servers I know of are protected by Cloudflare and pictures uploaded on some servers don’t open natively(you need to click it as a normal link and pass cloudflare verification to see image).

You do can upload media via catbox & Co. And I for my part can see most of the media, at least when I couldn't it was due to the media being deleted. There might have been some cases of federation issues or stuff, but they really are seldom.

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Beep lemmus.org Beep@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-01-15
#11 · Quote Reply

On a side note it feels like a lot of Lemmy servers are suffering financially and might close soon What ones exactly?

Don't want to jinx it.

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Skavau piefed.social Skavau@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-03-18
#12 · Quote Reply

Don't want to jinx it.

You want Lemmy servers to shut down?

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🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
Joined: 2024-10-06
#13 · Quote Reply

Reddit would have definitely been jumping down your shirt for cropping artist's names off their work before sharing them, too. 🙄

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Beep lemmus.org Beep@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-01-15
#14 · Quote Reply

no ability to upload media with the same ease and speed of Reddit I can just paste an image or whatever directly into a comment field and it's automatically uploaded and linked. For new posts, it's drag-and-drop right onto the browser. This might be instance-specific, but what functionality were you hoping for?

The current limitations:

  • You can't keep it in uncompressed format(like PNG for example);
  • You can't upload big pictures;
  • Depending on the server it might take moderate to large amount of time to upload pictures;
  • You can't upload videos and GIFs.

It might seem like minor problems, but it still causes a friction, compared to uploading to Reddit.

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shweddy lemmy.world shweddy@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-03-21
#15 · Quote Reply

The current limitations: You can't keep it in uncompressed format(like PNG for example); You can't upload big pictures; Depending on the server it might take moderate to large amount of time to upload pictures; You can't upload videos and GIFs. It might seem like minor problems, but it still causes a friction, compared to uploading to Reddit.

So go back to reddit?

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Beep lemmus.org Beep@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-01-15
#16 · Quote Reply

You want Lemmy servers to shut down?

I don't want to talk about them shutting down. They hopefully will keep going.

Don't want to pre declare them dead.

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paranoid lemmy.world paranoid@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-05
#17 · Quote Reply

I was talking there about users interactions on the platform, not moderation.

Then this comment makes absolutely no sense in the context of comparing Lemmy to reddit.

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Krafty Kactus sopuli.xyz tkk13909@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2023-06-06
#18 · Quote Reply

I would stick to topics outside of politics and memes.

Also OP actively edits out artist signatures when posting comics and if they didn't do that, they'd get like 90% less hate.

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quediuspayu lemmy.dbzer0.com quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-02-06
#19 · (edited) Quote Reply

no ability to upload media with the same ease and speed of Reddit I can just paste an image or whatever directly into a comment field and it's automatically uploaded and linked. For new posts, it's drag-and-drop right onto the browser. This might be instance-specific, but what functionality were you hoping for?

For the media to magically appear after writing something, probably.

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Beep lemmus.org Beep@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-01-15
#20 · Quote Reply

Then this comment makes absolutely no sense in the context of comparing Lemmy to reddit.

Why so?

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felsiq piefed.zip felsiq@piefed.zip
Joined: 2025-07-02
#21 · Quote Reply

I was talking there about users interactions on the platform, not moderation.

IIRC three is maga trash, so please don’t let them taint your perception of lemmy as a whole

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KoboldCoterie pawb.social KoboldCoterie@pawb.social
Joined: 2023-06-05
#22 · Quote Reply

The current limitations: You can't keep it in uncompressed format(like PNG for example); You can't upload big pictures; Depending on the server it might take moderate to large amount of time to upload pictures; You can't upload videos and GIFs. It might seem like minor problems, but it still causes a friction, compared to uploading to Reddit.

These are mostly issues created by the fact that lemmy is run via self-hosting on limited hardware, rather than being run by a company with a $2 billion in annual revenue. Personally I think it's a small price to pay to not be on Reddit.

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Zedstrian sopuli.xyz Zedstrian@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2025-03-30
#23 · Quote Reply

There is core limitations on Lemmy which cannot be fixed even on the long term( for example finding communities via search. Results from .world is very different from the result that your instance fetch

Lemmy Federate is designed to overcome this limitation through automated community federation.

no ability to upload media with the same ease and speed of Reddit,...etc)

This depends on the frontend or app you choose to use. Most Lemmy apps support in-app media uploads.

Herd mentality is very deep on Lemmy, compared to other social media websites

Herd mentality is just as much of a problem of Reddit; there's just more users there, so more 'herds' are able to form.

Lemmy users would like to have a working cancel culture so much that they would have no problem deepthroating a dick to get it

Grouping all Lemmy users together falsely assumes they all share the same opinions and blocking preferences. In any case, instances attract users by tailored moderation practices; users should join the instance that best matches their preferences. While some viewpoints—such as those promoting fascism, transphobia, or racism—are generally unwelcome across major instances, a certain baseline is needed in civilized society to have discussions in which no one is excluded on the basis of who they are.

About moderation, I feel the only outcome that will happen is bad moderation (IMO) will keep happening on the platform till either the servers hosting communities go down or till the mod become inactive.

A very broad generalization about a wide array of moderators and rules across communities, but if you don't like the way a community or instance is run, just block it and move on. I gladly block all of lemmy.ml and my All feed is better for it.

On a side note it feels like a lot of Lemmy servers are suffering financially and might close soon,

What gives that impression? While donating towards server costs is important, and a handful of notable instances such as lemm.ee have closed, most instances seem to be doing fine.

while Lemmy developers did not even try to help them by implementing third party upload functionality(Imgbox, catbox, imgur,...etc) in the app and the web front end to lighten the load on the server admins.

Have you tried alternative frontends and/or apps? The default Lemmy frontend is known to be simplistic in comparison and should be considered more of a reference implementation than anything.

Ultimately, the Threadiverse is still relatively small and will hopefully continue to improve as Lemmy, Piefed, and Mbin are developed further. All of the core features of Reddit are present, without the commercialization that has left it degraded.

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Beep lemmus.org Beep@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-01-15
#24 · Quote Reply

Lemmy users would like to have a working cancel culture so much that they would have no problem deepthroating a dick to get it; C'mon if deepthroating a dick is the way to get something, 50% of lemmy users wouldn't care about what this something is.

...How, Why and more importantly where?

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Petersson feddit.org Peter_Arbeitslos@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-22
#25 · (edited) Quote Reply

The current limitations: You can't keep it in uncompressed format(like PNG for example); You can't upload big pictures; Depending on the server it might take moderate to large amount of time to upload pictures; You can't upload videos and GIFs. It might seem like minor problems, but it still causes a friction, compared to uploading to Reddit.

You can’t keep it in uncompressed format(like PNG for example);

All the memes I upload are .png-files and I never had that issue.

Big pictures depends on your instance, it's up to the admins to set a limit.

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Petersson feddit.org Peter_Arbeitslos@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-22
#26 · Quote Reply

So go back to reddit?

Not really helpful.

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Sir. Haxalot nord.pub SirHaxalot@nord.pub
Joined: 2026-02-03
#27 · Quote Reply

The current limitations: You can't keep it in uncompressed format(like PNG for example); You can't upload big pictures; Depending on the server it might take moderate to large amount of time to upload pictures; You can't upload videos and GIFs. It might seem like minor problems, but it still causes a friction, compared to uploading to Reddit.

Most of those sounds like limitations of your home instance. PieFed has no problem handling PNGs and upload size / time would depend on the instance settings (and hosting I suppose).

You're right about the last one though, video upload support could be a lot better, but I don't think GIFs should be an issue (unless they're massive)

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Petersson feddit.org Peter_Arbeitslos@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-22
#28 · Quote Reply

...How, Why and more importantly where?

With their mouth. Because they like it. Wherever you want.

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isidro_carle lemmy.today isidro_carle@lemmy.today
Joined: 2026-02-02
#29 · Quote Reply

Wow . Steep escalation at bullet #4. Ha.

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JTode lemmy.world JTode@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-22
#30 · Quote Reply

Whichever side of this you land on... confirmation bias is a hell of a drug.

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Zen_Shinobi lemmy.world Zen_Shinobi@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-08-11
#31 · (edited) Quote Reply

All these points you mentioned are easily found on Reddit too.

Ahh I think this is an April Fools Day prank

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Nelots piefed.zip Nelots@piefed.zip
Joined: 2025-07-09
#32 · Quote Reply

OP, you upload AI slop and crop out artists names every time you post. If you want a community that appreciates your actions, you could not be further from that place. I'm glad you feel unwelcome here, because to many of us, you are. Please go back to reddit.

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paranoid lemmy.world paranoid@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-05
#33 · Quote Reply

Why so?

Because the negativity on Lemmy is no worse than reddit

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dkppunk piefed.social dkppunk@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-11-19
#34 · Quote Reply

I actually have been digging Lemmy a lot more than Reddit. I love that I can tag users to remember things about them. You have earned the tag “Dillhole who AIs artists names away”. Thank you for your service (not really, you’re a still a dillhole).

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slazer2au lemmy.world slazer2au@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-30
#35 · Quote Reply

I don't want to talk about them shutting down. They hopefully will keep going. Don't want to pre declare them dead.

How about you support your instance by donating to it?

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Onomatopoeia lemmy.cafe Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe
Joined: 2025-01-02
#36 · Quote Reply

Here are my notes

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Onomatopoeia lemmy.cafe Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe
Joined: 2025-01-02
#37 · Quote Reply

TL:DR

Just another name to mute.

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wizardbeard lemmy.dbzer0.com wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-16
#38 · Quote Reply

OP, you upload AI slop and crop out artists names every time you post. If you want a community that appreciates your actions, you could not be further from that place. I'm glad you feel unwelcome here, because to many of us, you are. Please go back to reddit.

When called out on this, OP made the following thread mischaracterizing artist signatures in images as advertising and trying to get a rule made on the comics community to force all users to remove attribution. https://lemmus.org/post/21226925

In the comments they state that they refuse to consistently link the source, even though they are able to, until the rule they suggested is put into place: https://lemmus.org/comment/17161116

Notably, this all exploded after that community's mod suggested a "no bots" rule and created a "two posts per user per day" rule that OP is blatantly violating.


OP is upset that they don't get to use other peoples spaces for free exactly as they want to. They have a post in powertrippingbastards recently that amounts to this as well. Now they're just continuing the tantrum elsewhere because they didn't get the response they wanted.


Beep, a suggestion: Make the space you want to see on lemmy. Create a comm and set the rules you want on it. You want all posts to have what you consider advertising stripped out? Go for it.

"NonAdComics", "BeepsMemes", etc. The fediverse is still small enough to carve out your own space.

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Anarki_ lemmy.blahaj.zone Anarki_@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-07-03
#39 · (edited) Quote Reply

All I hear is "Waaa waaaa waaaa!".

This post belongs in powertrippingbastards, not here.

You're an adult (presumably).

Follow the rules or get bent. 🤷

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Pat_Riot lemmy.today Pat_Riot@lemmy.today
Joined: 2023-09-29
#40 · Quote Reply

Don't let the door hit you on the way out

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HM King Charles III DG FD feddit.uk Flax_vert@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-06-19
#41 · Quote Reply

Why were you cropping names out of comics? Why did you post political content in lemmyshitposts?

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HM King Charles III DG FD feddit.uk Flax_vert@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-06-19
#42 · Quote Reply

When called out on this, OP made the following thread mischaracterizing artist signatures in images as advertising and trying to get a rule made on the comics community to force all users to remove attribution. https://lemmus.org/post/21226925 In the comments they state that they refuse to consistently link the source, even though they are able to, until the rule they suggested is put into plac...

Capitalism is when an artist signs their art

what

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October lemmy.world edgemaster72@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-16
#43 · Quote Reply

Here is my notes from you using Lemmy:

Stop.

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eru mouse.chitanda.moe eru@mouse.chitanda.moe
Joined: 2024-12-09
#44 · Quote Reply

Lemmy Admins and moderators seem to have a control fetish

have you considered the reason for this may be your posts and takes are just shit?

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wizardbeard lemmy.dbzer0.com wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-16
#45 · Quote Reply

I don't want to talk about them shutting down. They hopefully will keep going. Don't want to pre declare them dead.

This is the most blatant concern trolling I've seen in ages, bravo.

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wizardbeard lemmy.dbzer0.com wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-16
#46 · (edited) Quote Reply

Capitalism is when an artist signs their art what

Don't miss this gem that's been overshadowed by all the other shit they pulled recently:

Asking for a NSFW post to be appropriately tagged is the same as censoring it from all of lemmy.

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terabyterex lemmy.world terabyterex@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-03-06
#47 · Quote Reply

I actually have been digging Lemmy a lot more than Reddit. I love that I can tag users to remember things about them. You have earned the tag “Dillhole who AIs artists names away”. Thank you for your service (not really, you’re a still a dillhole).

Thank you for letting me know about this feature. This guy sucks.

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Ech lemmy.ca ech@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-06-25
#48 · Quote Reply

All I hear is "Waaa waaaa waaaa!". This post belongs in powertrippingbastards, not here. You're an adult (presumably). Follow the rules or get bent. 🤷

Oh, they made a post there too and got equally called out. They are desperately looking for someone to validate their bullshit.

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Anarki_ lemmy.blahaj.zone Anarki_@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-07-03
#49 · Quote Reply

Oh, they made a post there too and got equally called out. They are desperately looking for someone to validate their bullshit.

I know. It's kinda funny and kinda sad.

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TORFdot0 lemmy.world TORFdot0@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-30
#50 · Quote Reply

Lemmy Admins and moderators seem to have a control fetish have you considered the reason for this may be your posts and takes are just shit?

He did lead off with he enjoyed Reddit. The Lemmy corner of the fediverse is a very different culture than today’s Reddit (although I think it feels just like 2012 Reddit).

If a new users were to be outside these norms on Lemmy (such as a AI slop enjoyer or Windows 11 user) then it would probably feel hostile.

I guess the question would be for OP, are you willing to stick around and possibly change some of Lemmy’s culture, your own mind, or possibly both? Or are you just looking for a corporate approved hivemind echo chamber clone of Reddit?

Not that this place can’t be an echo chamber, but federation prevents that so much more than on Reddit. Lemmy has no financial incentive to push an agenda or rhetoric; it’s all grassroots

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TORFdot0 lemmy.world TORFdot0@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-30
#51 · Quote Reply

Don't want to jinx it.

If you called them out someone could show support if so inclined.

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