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teyrnon sh.itjust.works teyrnon@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-03-11
#52 · Quote Reply

unless you wrote something truly horrible Look, I will be honest, I don't like this about social media platforms. Nobody is perfect and not every person universally agrees on everything together. Disagreements and arguments are a guarantee. Who decides what is "truly horrible?" It should be defined in the rules by the mods and admins, not by each individual user. Downvote a post or comment howe...

People that follow someone around and downvote everything they write are pathetic. I would say I'm glad they are wasting their time, but I guess they can set up a bot to do it all so idk. It wouldn't be hard for an administrator to see.

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Luccus feddit.org Luccus@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-28
#53 · Quote Reply

Wait, deleting a post removes alle comments?

Like in deleting them aswell?

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FreddiesLantern leminal.space FreddiesLantern@leminal.space
Joined: 2025-09-19
#54 · (edited) Quote Reply

A cat taking a piss is the last thing I would upload to the awww sub, and I actually did follow that one on half of my accounts there. But what are the other tells now, I take it the pattern is different on the floor in the circled part? I couldn't even tell. The last pic obviously the electrical outlet looks wrong but idk, The cat in the last pic doesn't look like the same cat either, it's tai...

These types of outlets do exist(old/rarely used) but it’s mounted sideways. However it doesn’t seem to have any grounding going on. Afaik a circular one should have grounding.

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Anivia feddit.org Anivia@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-09-11
#55 · Quote Reply

Even if you're on Reddit, deleting your post/comment because of downvotes is cowardly. Is your ego so fragile you won't stand by your own words because of imaginary internet points?

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Luccus feddit.org Luccus@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-28
#56 · (edited) Quote Reply

It's overrun by AI slop bots too. This was the top post of r/aww the other day. Nobody noticed the AI slop. Or maybe all the comments were bots too.

I fucking hate the current- and probably next-gen slop. Modern cell phone cameras rely on computational photography, since the software based solution of guessing what's there is much easier than expanding the physical optics and sensors.

But that also leads to artifacts that are very similar to AI-generated bullshit, because both are based on a computer making guesses based on a noisy input.

I hate that I can’t tell the difference between a cell phone's bad guess and a data center's really good guess.

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tigeruppercut lemmy.zip tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2023-08-20
#57 · Quote Reply

Deleting a post also removes all comments on it.

This really needs to change. OP shouldn't have control over the conversations everyone's having, even if they can remove their portions of it. Even reddit didn't give OP that power, even if it was removed from the sub page.

FWIW some instances/front ends preserve the comments section, although it ends up being a bit jank. For example, if you load this through lemmy.zip, it shows as an error because OP deleted it. But if you go through old.lemmy.zip you can still see (most of) the comments, although not what the original post was.

https://lemmy.zip/post/65423752
https://old.lemmy.zip/post/65423752

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1984 lemmy.today 1984@lemmy.today
Joined: 2023-07-28
#58 · (edited) Quote Reply

People are deleting their account because imagined karma being low? Why do people even care. I have no idea how much karma I have and it's pointless to know.

That really is the max sillyness, caring about points and likes on social media.

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Echo Dot feddit.uk echodot@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-07-26
#59 · Quote Reply

People are deleting their account because imagined karma being low? Why do people even care. I have no idea how much karma I have and it's pointless to know. That really is the max sillyness, caring about points and likes on social media.

There's bots on Lemmy that vote farm. There really is no sense to any of it.

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Kindness is Punk lemmy.ca KindnessIsPunk@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-05-21
#60 · Quote Reply

Live by your mistakes, be honest about them how else are you supposed to get better.

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SalamiDommie lemmus.org SalamiDommie@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-06-16
#61 · Quote Reply

Aye aye capin"

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b34k lemmy.world b34k@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-10
#62 · Quote Reply

Even if you're on Reddit, deleting your post/comment because of downvotes is cowardly. Is your ego so fragile you won't stand by your own words because of imaginary internet points?

I had a few heavily heavily downvoted comments on Reddit, usually just for making a joke that missed…. But I’d never delete them. Gotta own your mistakes and make up for it with quality replies

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iegod lemmy.zip ieGod@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-04
#63 · Quote Reply

Surely this is on the downvoters, though? To a lot of people, downvote means "I want this post removed from the internet", not "I don't fully agree with this post". Aren't those deleting their own posts just saying "Oh no! I didn't realise this was so upsetting to people - I better remove it"?

Even if that were true, how is it on the down voters that your self esteem is so low that fake internet points are a defining characteristic of your identity? Someone didn't like what I posted? Boo hoo.

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charokol lemmy.world charokol@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-04-17
#64 · Quote Reply

Deleting a post also removes all comments on it. This really needs to change. OP shouldn't have control over the conversations everyone's having, even if they can remove their portions of it. Even reddit didn't give OP that power, even if it was removed from the sub page. FWIW some instances/front ends preserve the comments section, although it ends up being a bit jank. For example, if you load...

If your post has replies, “deleting” a comment should just remove your name from the post. Not just the replies remain, but the original comment too

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Swedneck discuss.tchncs.de Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-06-10
#65 · Quote Reply

The title is such nonsensical slop in itself. Wtf about hanging out in a litter box would make a cat "king"?

execute healthy bowel movements, king

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silly_goose lemmy.today silly_goose@lemmy.today
Joined: 2023-10-25
#66 · Quote Reply

People are deleting their account because imagined karma being low? Why do people even care. I have no idea how much karma I have and it's pointless to know. That really is the max sillyness, caring about points and likes on social media.

On reddit if you have a low karma your account gets severely limited. Shadow bans, you can't post on many subreddits etc.

But there's no such issues here most of the time. Each post / comment stands by its own merit.

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Swedneck discuss.tchncs.de Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-06-10
#67 · (edited) Quote Reply

Also misunderstandings (on various layers! It's not obvious!) can go horribly wrong. As a neurodivergent it's the story of my life.

So basically you're saying we should lobotomize all koalas? what the fuck dude, i can't believe you'd clearly state such a horrible opinion in a way that can't possibly be misinterpreted, how the fuck can you sincerely and passionately think that?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

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Track_Shovel slrpnk.net Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2023-06-13
#68 · Quote Reply

I'm not sure but maybe it's because reddit is aggressively banning or shadow banning accounts. Every week spez does something to mess it up. It's hard to keep track.

I've noticed that too. I have a lurker account but I've been largely out of touch with Reddit since 2014 or so.

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TrackinDaKraken lemmy.world DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-02-26
#69 · Quote Reply

Don't assume the post was deleted. Modded posts also show as deleted. But also why would a downvoted post need to be saved? If it were a good post it'd have a positive vote count.

If it were a good post it’d have a positive vote count.

I don't always agree with the hivemind's judgment.

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TBi lemmy.world TBi@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-09
#70 · Quote Reply

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melsaskca lemmy.ca melsaskca@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-03-09
#71 · Quote Reply

When I left reddit I just quit. I didn't clean up anything.

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ltxrtquq lemmy.ml ltxrtquq@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-07-10
#72 · Quote Reply

If your post has replies, “deleting” a comment should just remove your name from the post. Not just the replies remain, but the original comment too

For that matter, let each comment have an edit history so we can see what you've changed. Usually it'll just be a spelling/formatting mistake, but the people deserve to know!

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snooggums piefed.world snooggums@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-07-08
#73 · Quote Reply

That's why I'm here. No clue what I even did wrong. Wild guess is that it was from editing a post that contained a pastebin link to code I was asking a question about. But whatever the reason, this place is actually kinda nice. I did manage to revive a throwaway Reddit account I once made, so I guess I could go back, but haven't really felt the need.

Probably banned you for not being a bot.

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krisevol lemmus.org krisevol@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-03-16
#74 · Quote Reply

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Is because you are molded and shaped by the community, so you don't want anything that is against it left online.

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imetators lemmy.dbzer0.com imetators@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-06-10
#75 · (edited) Quote Reply

People are deleting their account because imagined karma being low? Why do people even care. I have no idea how much karma I have and it's pointless to know. That really is the max sillyness, caring about points and likes on social media.

I have no idea how much karma I have

Because there is no such a thing as karma on lemmy. Upvotes dont sum up anywhere for us to see.

Lemmy is great! A post in one community can be heavily downvoted but in another would be upvoted to heaven. E.g. Ukraine@lemmy.ml and Ukraine@sh.itjust.works. Teaches us to read the room.

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Art3mis lemmy.world ThunderQueen@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-09-15
#76 · Quote Reply

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😈MedicPig🐷BabySaver😈 lemmy.world MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-04
#77 · Quote Reply

Fuck Reddit and Fuck Spez.

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diaphragmwp discuss.tchncs.de diaphragmwp@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2026-06-03
#78 · (edited) Quote Reply

Deleting a post also removes all comments on it. This really needs to change. OP shouldn't have control over the conversations everyone's having, even if they can remove their portions of it. Even reddit didn't give OP that power, even if it was removed from the sub page. FWIW some instances/front ends preserve the comments section, although it ends up being a bit jank. For example, if you load...

No. It should be your choice to remove your own content AND replies often contain quotes of the original post.

(about to vent) This is like the idiocracy Wikimedia projects all have, like "oh we can rename you so that people don't know it was you, we can still see it ourselves tho, also don't ever ever edit again or we put the name back and mute you for a while" then I am like "yeah sure" and then they did in fact change the name of the account in the logs BUT pressing 2 buttons on it shows the original name AND it now basically just fucking GLOWS among the other names. Like, as if they seriously think one would rather press the same 2 buttons to check for renames on JohnDoe21 rather than on fucking Renamed user 12123738120912469074567097145637089345278901253470986453sfndmmsdfhnlgasmdfhbksfgjdsfd.

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T156 lemmy.world T156@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#79 · (edited) Quote Reply

Are people deleting because of karma?

At least from my time on Reddit, when people deleted something, it's because they didn't want the post to come back and bite them a while because of others seeing it after the fact, or they just regularly scrubbed the account for privacy reasons, rather than anything to do with actual karma.

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tigeruppercut lemmy.zip tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2023-08-20
#80 · Quote Reply

No. It should be your choice to remove your own content AND replies often contain quotes of the original post. (about to vent) This is like the idiocracy Wikimedia projects all have, like "oh we can rename you so that people don't know it was you, we can still see it ourselves tho, also don't ever ever edit again or we put the name back and mute you for a while" then I am like "yeah sure" and t...

I dunno the ins and outs of wiki infighting, but I don't think one person should have control over whether hundreds of comments get seen or not. Unfortunate if people can quote things that put you in a bad light but unless things are taken out of context maybe just think harder about what you post in the first place.

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schipelblorp sh.itjust.works schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-16
#81 · Quote Reply

Even if you're on Reddit, deleting your post/comment because of downvotes is cowardly. Is your ego so fragile you won't stand by your own words because of imaginary internet points?

If you have karma to burn, sure. But if you're low-karma and an infrequent poster, a drop in karma means your comments get blocked in some communities or, worse, shadowbanned.

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Hupf feddit.org Hupf@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-07-24
#82 · Quote Reply

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CultLeader4Hire lemmy.world CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-03-28
#83 · (edited) Quote Reply

Don’t delete your stuff over downvotes ever. Say what you mean and mean what you say and if some people don’t like that oh well. The need for universal validation is killing human discourse

Being authentic means not everyone is going to like or agree with you all the time, it’s a good thing

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CultLeader4Hire lemmy.world CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-03-28
#84 · Quote Reply

Are people deleting because of karma? At least from my time on Reddit, when people deleted something, it's because they didn't want the post to come back and bite them a while because of others seeing it after the fact, or they just regularly scrubbed the account for privacy reasons, rather than anything to do with actual karma.

It’s both, I’ve seen plenty of posts on Reddit before I was banned about helping people not care so much about downvotes which they found devastating, which the answer btw is therapy, no one should care that much about the opinions of bots and a few strangers

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Aneorthisio lemmy.ml Aneorthisio@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-05-27
#85 · Quote Reply

I hope it stays this way. Karma systems inevitably create tribalistic echo chambers, where people downvote others simply because they disagree with a statement but lack any logical counterargument. It is an attempt to silence dissenting opinions, a form of behavior that is both extremely toxic and primitive.

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whatiswrongwithyou lemmy.ml whatiswrongwithyou@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-05-07
#86 · Quote Reply

You should still delete your posts and comments.

There’s only so much server space and if it turns out you dropped a stinker you can save dozens of servers from having to hold it.

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ParlimentOfDoom piefed.zip ParlimentOfDoom@piefed.zip
Joined: 2025-09-26
#87 · Quote Reply

Piefed does have some bizarre attitude system. It was not well documented if it was only your own votes that factor into it, and I did not want to waste time deciphering the code to figure it out.

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Upgrayedd1776 sh.itjust.works Upgrayedd1776@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-03-18
#88 · Quote Reply

When I left reddit I just quit. I didn't clean up anything.

you should at least replace your history with gibberish or ai poisoning, couple of open source githubs that do it, dont let them keep monetizing your contributions

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Upgrayedd1776 sh.itjust.works Upgrayedd1776@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-03-18
#89 · Quote Reply

I fucking hate the current- and probably next-gen slop. Modern cell phone cameras rely on computational photography, since the software based solution of guessing what's there is much easier than expanding the physical optics and sensors. But that also leads to artifacts that are very similar to AI-generated bullshit, because both are based on a computer making guesses based on a noisy input. I...

maybe that will make polaroids a thing again, since it relied on exposure i would image it would be more difficult to fake

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Naz sh.itjust.works Naz@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-18
#90 · Quote Reply

Yeah but what about the dopamine hit or loss upon societal rejection?

Even without karma (beyond good and evil), isn't there a societal sense of shame or guilt for writing something horrible?

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Upgrayedd1776 sh.itjust.works Upgrayedd1776@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-03-18
#91 · Quote Reply

They know it's you still, if you've been permabanned especially. Even if no ip or browser fingerprints or any of that rot follows you from your old account, the way you talk, your phrases, would id you.

ai burning down the data center trying to keep up with my bpd

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lemmydividebyzero reddthat.com lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com
Joined: 2024-08-28
#92 · Quote Reply

Even if you're on Reddit, deleting your post/comment because of downvotes is cowardly. Is your ego so fragile you won't stand by your own words because of imaginary internet points?

The main problem is that people give down votes for other opinions. They can't go to the next post or comment without pressing the negativity button. Their ego is fragile.

But I agree with your comment.

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lemmydividebyzero reddthat.com lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com
Joined: 2024-08-28
#93 · Quote Reply

And if you come from Reddit where people can't ignore a comment with a different opinion and have to down vote it, please don't do that here. We don't need that negativity.

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lemmydividebyzero reddthat.com lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com
Joined: 2024-08-28
#94 · Quote Reply

Don't some instances deactivate downvotes?

Yes. Mine, too. I can't give or see down votes.

But you don't usually need down votes. If it's terribly bad, report it... If not, ignore it...

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Strider lemmy.world Strider@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-09
#95 · Quote Reply

So basically you're saying we should lobotomize all koalas? what the fuck dude, i can't believe you'd clearly state such a horrible opinion in a way that can't possibly be misinterpreted, how the fuck can you sincerely and passionately think that?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

❤️

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calcopiritus lemmy.world calcopiritus@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-09-02
#96 · Quote Reply

Don’t delete your stuff over downvotes ever. Say what you mean and mean what you say and if some people don’t like that oh well. The need for universal validation is killing human discourse Being authentic means not everyone is going to like or agree with you all the time, it’s a good thing

Well, you can say stupid shit and only realize it after you already posted it.

In those situations it's better to just edit the comment so people can still read the stupid shit with the context that the commenter doesn't believe in the stupid shit anymore.

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lemmydividebyzero reddthat.com lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com
Joined: 2024-08-28
#97 · (edited) Quote Reply

Not everyone downvoting wants the censure of your post or comment, no. For instance, I downvoted this comment because I think it's a poor generalization and I'd rather have better thought out comments promoted, not because I want it censored. How can it be on the downvoters when there is typically no justification tied to a downvote? Misinterpretation is on the poster, not on the downvoter.

For instance, I downvoted this comment because I think it's a poor generalization and I'd rather have better thought out comments promoted

You could achieve that by up voting the others that are better and not down voting anything. Causes useless negativity, which is the reason why many big platform removed it or never introduced it. At least, you gave a comment and explained your view. That's usually what I do instead of down voting.

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YeahIgotskills2 lemmy.world YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-09-22
#98 · Quote Reply

People should perhaps be cautious of what they downvote. I recently posted my take on something, but said I was open to counterarguments. The responses were good and made me reconsider (though not entirely alter) my opinion. My initial take was downvoted—which feels like it is being used as a 'disagree' button, which is arguably not the point.

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MajorasTerribleFate lemmy.zip MajorasTerribleFate@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-08-27
#99 · Quote Reply

Don’t delete your stuff over downvotes ever. Say what you mean and mean what you say and if some people don’t like that oh well. The need for universal validation is killing human discourse Being authentic means not everyone is going to like or agree with you all the time, it’s a good thing

Sometimes, we say a thing we meant, but then later we learn a new thing or our perspective on an issue changes. That old post/comments can feel quite embarrassing or shameful, and removing it (or editing the original content out) can feel like the only way to still feel like you belong. If the choice is between removing one piece of your history here, or removing yourself from the community, the one piece feels like the superior choice. IF that's the alternative.

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MrShankles reddthat.com MrShankles@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#100 · Quote Reply

People should perhaps be cautious of what they downvote. I recently posted my take on something, but said I was open to counterarguments. The responses were good and made me reconsider (though not entirely alter) my opinion. My initial take was downvoted—which feels like it is being used as a 'disagree' button, which is arguably not the point.

I set my lemmy client so that I can't see downvotes, only how many upvotes... and my instance doesn't enable downvotes as is. It changes the experience for the better imo

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ToxicWaste lemmy.cafe ToxicWaste@lemmy.cafe
Joined: 2025-06-05
#101 · Quote Reply

People should perhaps be cautious of what they downvote. I recently posted my take on something, but said I was open to counterarguments. The responses were good and made me reconsider (though not entirely alter) my opinion. My initial take was downvoted—which feels like it is being used as a 'disagree' button, which is arguably not the point.

the disagree button is a common argument on lemmy. you just can't get rid of it as it is so much easier, than writing a comment.

just ignore it, if people use it to disagree. its just some stupid internet points - which don't even get summed up (as OP mentioned)

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