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chiliedogg lemmy.world chiliedogg@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-26
#52 · Quote Reply

Maybe the customer identified as male and wanted the toy for themselves?

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chiliedogg lemmy.world chiliedogg@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-26
#53 · Quote Reply

You know what she means, just give her the car and be done with it, take your entitled world improvement bullshit elsewhere.

And if the franchise has policies against gendering toys?

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RamenJunkie midwest.social RamenJunkie@midwest.social
Joined: 2025-01-24
#54 · Quote Reply

Simple solution.

Put a Ken toy in the box.

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RamenJunkie midwest.social RamenJunkie@midwest.social
Joined: 2025-01-24
#55 · (edited) Quote Reply

Do I have to order food to get a boy toy?

Some McDs will sell just the toys. Ita been a bit since I bought one but they are probably like $2 for a toy only. Also you will have to wait while the employee tries to figure out where the hidden menu button is that has "Toy only."

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RamenJunkie midwest.social RamenJunkie@midwest.social
Joined: 2025-01-24
#56 · Quote Reply

If only actually DOING this wouldn't get your ass fired.

I think it may actually be company policy not to do do this, at least for some time. Because they don't want to get in trouble for assuming.

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Hazardous_area piefed.world Hazardous_area@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-07-09
#57 · Quote Reply

My boy is really into cars by default, which is funny since I'd 100% be down with Barbies, too. Daughter though, she just wants Legos and jigsaw puzzles... at age 4. She's just not into gendered stuff, she just wants to build.

Found the future engineer

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strawberry_enjoyer42 lemmy.blahaj.zone strawberry_enjoyer42@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-04-20
#58 · Quote Reply

You know what she means, just give her the car and be done with it, take your entitled world improvement bullshit elsewhere.

Oh, so you're one of those customers.

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1rre discuss.tchncs.de 1rre@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-06-09
#59 · Quote Reply

And if the franchise has policies against gendering toys?

Then don't follow them. This is my number one gripe since moving to the US, if company policies are stupid, you don't follow them, whereas in the US, it's too bad since it's company policy.

I know it's due to more fear of being fired, but still, it's so annoying to be in a situation where neither of us wants to follow the policies and yet you're enforcing them.

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Gregers lemmy.world Gregers@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
#60 · Quote Reply

"Please select the toy whose attributes are more likely to statistically correlate with the reproductive caste demographic which has been labeled 'male' by the consensus of Homo Sapiens who speak English." "Ma'am do you think a college educated sociologist would work at a fast food drive-thru?" "In this economy? Absolutely, yes." "..." "..." "...okay fair, I'll put the toy car in the bag."

You didn't need the "in this economy" part tbh

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smh slrpnk.net smh@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-06-13
#61 · Quote Reply

Back when I was a kid, they'd judge your kid and give you whatever they thought corresponded to the kid's genitalia. Even when I heard my mother ask for a car toy I'd end up with a Barbie.

Being constantly disappointed by Barbie toys may have been my first hint I wasn't a girl.

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mrgoosmoos lemmy.ca mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-03-24
#62 · Quote Reply

You know what she means, just give her the car and be done with it, take your entitled world improvement bullshit elsewhere.

no

say which toy you want or gtfo

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taiyang lemmy.world taiyang@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-08
#63 · Quote Reply

Victoria 3 and Europa Universalis V are both great, and better than CK3 imo. Less incest too

I agree, I just have a friend who has 4000 hours on CK2 and 3 and... it's troubling. I'll hop on discord with her and get lots of out of context comments involving incest, lol.

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Lemming6969 lemmy.world Lemming6969@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-11-15
#64 · Quote Reply

At what age do people catch conservatism? Is there a vaccine?

Different for each person. Very early if indoctrinated, like religion or peer culture. Some catch it when they transition to working life or overall success and catch the I got mine disease. I'd say it grows fairly early, teens at the latest, and solidifies early 20s. The I got mine crowd can happen late, like 30-40.

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chiliedogg lemmy.world chiliedogg@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-26
#65 · Quote Reply

Then don't follow them. This is my number one gripe since moving to the US, if company policies are stupid, you don't follow them, whereas in the US, it's too bad since it's company policy. I know it's due to more fear of being fired, but still, it's so annoying to be in a situation where neither of us wants to follow the policies and yet you're enforcing them.

Why is a policy mandating that kids get to choose which toy they get instead of it being chosen based on what's between their legs a bad thing?

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bridgeburner lemmy.world bridgeburner@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-01-30
#66 · Quote Reply

Some McDs will sell just the toys. Ita been a bit since I bought one but they are probably like $2 for a toy only. Also you will have to wait while the employee tries to figure out where the hidden menu button is that has "Toy only."

I think @Zier meant sth else wuth 'boy toy' lol

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architect thelemmy.club architect@thelemmy.club
Joined: 2025-09-04
#67 · Quote Reply

Back when I was a kid, they'd judge your kid and give you whatever they thought corresponded to the kid's genitalia. Even when I heard my mother ask for a car toy I'd end up with a Barbie. Being constantly disappointed by Barbie toys may have been my first hint I wasn't a girl.

That was me, too. I ended up just tossing this whole gender concept out.

I have to say, the hot wheels were hot wheels and the Barbies were ugly statues. One was superior.

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Rachelhazideas lemmy.world Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-10
#68 · Quote Reply

Back when I was a kid, they'd judge your kid and give you whatever they thought corresponded to the kid's genitalia. Even when I heard my mother ask for a car toy I'd end up with a Barbie. Being constantly disappointed by Barbie toys may have been my first hint I wasn't a girl.

Boys can like barbies too. We can acknowledge that gender stereotyping kid's interests was wrong, while acknowledging that their interests don't always define their gender.

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Reborn_Mormon lemmy.world Reborn_Mormon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-07-07
#69 · Quote Reply

I would say what I want, but I would get banned because the mods are prejudiced against the nature of my mental illness which directly impacts the content of of character. I love all of you. I'll just sit on this park bench and cry because I'm an inferior that cannot play by the rules. That's the nature of being schizoaffective. I am capricious af, and thus in social media, I am subhuman to most people by default.

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7uWqKj lemmy.world 7uWqKj@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-27
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#70 · Quote Reply

Oh, so you're one of those customers.
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7uWqKj lemmy.world 7uWqKj@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-27
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#71 · Quote Reply

no say which toy you want or gtfo

The customers behind certainly enjoyed waiting while she was needlessly making a scene by intentionally pretending to misunderstand a perfectly valid request that didnโ€™t fit into her puny world picture. Pathetic.

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7uWqKj lemmy.world 7uWqKj@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-27
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#72 · Quote Reply

Nothing says "entitled" like working at a fast food chain

We all know that this is a made-up conversation which could have taken place only in the twisted mind of some rich feminist goodperson but not in reality. Why would she risk her job over such bullshit, sheโ€™s there to make money and not to educate people.

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7uWqKj lemmy.world 7uWqKj@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-27
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#73 · Quote Reply

ooooh, look mom, a reactionarism

Or someone who has some experience with what little boys usually like to play with

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4grams awful.systems 4grams@awful.systems
Joined: 2023-06-28
#74 · (edited) Quote Reply

Boys can like barbies too. We can acknowledge that gender stereotyping kid's interests was wrong, while acknowledging that their interests don't always define their gender.

No shit, my boy wanted a Barbie when he was little, so he had a Barbie. He also had Legos, and played with blocks, board games and eventually video games. Let kids play with whatever the fuck they want to, they are exploring.

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๐ŸŒˆ vanta rainbow black ๐ŸŒˆ lemmy.blahaj.zone vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-12-19
#75 · (edited) Quote Reply

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it's funny you assumed the worker was a woman even tho there's no indication of that in the post

hey so why are you in this sublemmy again? didn't you read the rules in the sidebar? take your bigoted bullshit elsewhere. you sound like exactly the worst kind of boss to work for. All Capitalists Are Bastards

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๐ŸŒˆ vanta rainbow black ๐ŸŒˆ lemmy.blahaj.zone vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-12-19
#76 · Quote Reply

The customers behind certainly enjoyed waiting while she was needlessly making a scene by intentionally pretending to misunderstand a perfectly valid request that didnโ€™t fit into her puny world picture. Pathetic.

ah yes, the notoriously closed-minded worldview of... supporting feminism and trans rights ๐Ÿง

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7uWqKj lemmy.world 7uWqKj@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-27
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#77 · Quote Reply

it's funny you assumed the worker was a woman even tho there's no indication of that in the post hey so why are you in this sublemmy again? didn't you read the rules in the sidebar? take your bigoted bullshit elsewhere. you sound like exactly the worst kind of boss to work for. All Capitalists Are Bastards

Careful, peasant. Remember where the money in your account is coming from. At least I treat my people well and pay fair wages (as long as they do as I demand of course).

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7uWqKj lemmy.world 7uWqKj@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-27
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#78 · Quote Reply

ah yes, the notoriously closed-minded worldview of... supporting feminism and trans rights ๐Ÿง

The fact that a tiny fraction of people are trans doesnโ€™t mean that, in general, boys canโ€™t be expected to behave like boys.

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๐ŸŒˆ vanta rainbow black ๐ŸŒˆ lemmy.blahaj.zone vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-12-19
#79 · Quote Reply

Careful, peasant. Remember where the money in your account is coming from. At least I treat my people well and pay fair wages (as long as they do as I demand of course).

lmao

also joke's on you i'm unemployed ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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cosmos8188 leminal.space cosmos8188@leminal.space
Joined: 2025-12-30
#80 · Quote Reply

I would say what I want, but I would get banned because the mods are prejudiced against the nature of my mental illness which directly impacts the content of of character. I love all of you. I'll just sit on this park bench and cry because I'm an inferior that cannot play by the rules. That's the nature of being schizoaffective. I am capricious af, and thus in social media, I am subhuman to mos...

Now thats a shizo post

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smh slrpnk.net smh@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-06-13
#81 · Quote Reply

Boys can like barbies too. We can acknowledge that gender stereotyping kid's interests was wrong, while acknowledging that their interests don't always define their gender.

Yes, but I didn't like Barbie toys. That was my first hint I didn't fit into the gender box that had been prepared for me. I'm not going to retcon my experiences at the age of 4 to fit into a modern concept of how I should have figured out my gender.

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smh slrpnk.net smh@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-06-13
#82 · Quote Reply

That was me, too. I ended up just tossing this whole gender concept out. I have to say, the hot wheels were hot wheels and the Barbies were ugly statues. One was superior.

I have to say, the hot wheels were hot wheels and the Barbies were ugly statues. One was superior.

Exactly. Moving parts vs a hunk of plastic to toss in a drawer.

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strawberry_enjoyer42 lemmy.blahaj.zone strawberry_enjoyer42@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-04-20
#83 · (edited) Quote Reply

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Okay, so are you petit-bourgeoisie or a straw-boss?

Imagine being so lonely, weak, and friendless, that you try to bully strangers on the internet. Like be for real bro.

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Cypressed lemmy.blahaj.zone cyclonedusk@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-05-17
#84 · Quote Reply

You didn't need the "in this economy" part tbh

Hmm. Yeah, I think you're right. If I share this with friends online anywhere else I'll leave it out.

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acockworkorange mander.xyz acockworkorange@mander.xyz
Joined: 2023-06-09
#85 · Quote Reply

They may be neat but theyโ€™re not cool

They are metal, Barbies are plastic. They are the same temperature, but feel cooler.

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wholookshere lemmy.blahaj.zone wholookshere@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-06-13
#86 · Quote Reply

Boys can like barbies too. We can acknowledge that gender stereotyping kid's interests was wrong, while acknowledging that their interests don't always define their gender.

As a trans woman that played with Barbie's in secret as a kid....

We can acknowledge that stereotyping toys is dumb, while also acknowledging that kids like me knew those stereotypes, and did it anyways not knowing why.

It's great to point out its stupid. But is comes really fucking close to denying trans people the signs they were trans young, even we didn't even know it.

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Ioughttamow fedia.io Ioughttamow@fedia.io
Joined: 2024-08-14
#87 · Quote Reply

They are metal, Barbies are plastic. They are the same temperature, but feel cooler.

If they could cool down theyโ€™d just be wheels

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NKBTN feddit.uk NKBTN@feddit.uk
Joined: 2024-04-02
#88 · Quote Reply

For real, the older I get the more sure I am this is part of an endless struggle.

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djsoren19 lemmy.blahaj.zone djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-01-13
#89 · Quote Reply

Do I have to order food to get a boy toy?

I mean it's a surefire way to get my, but ymmv

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smh slrpnk.net smh@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-06-13
#90 · Quote Reply

As a trans woman that played with Barbie's in secret as a kid.... We can acknowledge that stereotyping toys is dumb, while also acknowledging that kids like me knew those stereotypes, and did it anyways not knowing why. It's great to point out its stupid. But is comes really fucking close to denying trans people the signs they were trans young, even we didn't even know it.

Thanks for putting that into words. It felt like I was being told "um, actually, have you considered that disliking Barbie isn't tied to being a boy?" (with an undercurrent of "this reason for thinking you might be trans is invalid".)

I strongly suspect that wasn't the intent of the commenter, they were trying to encourage inclusivity. It just fell flat.

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jrTug_2T lemmy.blahaj.zone jrTug_2T@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-04-30
#91 · Quote Reply

No shit, my boy wanted a Barbie when he was little, so he had a Barbie. He also had Legos, and played with blocks, board games and eventually video games. Let kids play with whatever the fuck they want to, they are exploring.

This right TF here. He-Man, She-Ra, G.I.-Joe and My Little Pony were all part of the same universe when they were toys on my floor.

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jrTug_2T lemmy.blahaj.zone jrTug_2T@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-04-30
#92 · Quote Reply

City skylines or factorio when she starts playing video games? I need to know if she's in my team or the other team (the other team is just way smarter than me, there's no bad blood <3)

SimCity 2000.

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Matty Roses lemmy.today mattyroses@lemmy.today
Joined: 2026-01-29
#93 · Quote Reply

Careful, peasant. Remember where the money in your account is coming from. At least I treat my people well and pay fair wages (as long as they do as I demand of course).

Uh your money comes from your workers.

You might want to be careful. The guillotine is always an option.

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Matty Roses lemmy.today mattyroses@lemmy.today
Joined: 2026-01-29
#94 · Quote Reply

Or someone who has some experience with what little boys usually like to play with

You spend lots of time playing with little boys, then?

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Sludgeyy lemmy.world Sludgeyy@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-14
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#95 · Quote Reply

Back when I was a kid, they'd judge your kid and give you whatever they thought corresponded to the kid's genitalia. Even when I heard my mother ask for a car toy I'd end up with a Barbie. Being constantly disappointed by Barbie toys may have been my first hint I wasn't a girl.
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smh slrpnk.net smh@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-06-13
#96 · Quote Reply

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Thank you for explaining my experiences at age 4. Here I thought that was when I started figuring out I wasn't a girl but I was clearly wrong and it took you opening my eyes 30 years later. I'm not transgender after all. I can't point to anything in my DNA that makes me trans, therefore I must just be play acting my gender. I was a girl that didn't like Barbie and everything else has been a lie fed to me by the woke liberalism of the 90s. /sarcasm

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1rre discuss.tchncs.de 1rre@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-06-09
#97 · Quote Reply

Why is a policy mandating that kids get to choose which toy they get instead of it being chosen based on what's between their legs a bad thing?

It's not the policy, it's knowing when to enforce it and when to treat it as guidance.

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Jankatarch lemmy.world Jankatarch@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-07-12
#98 · Quote Reply

Found the future engineer

Or architect.

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