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ArseAssassin sopuli.xyz ArseAssassin@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2023-06-10
#52 · Quote Reply

I support this. People need to deal with their own bullshit, and also understand that... the internet is forever. Take some accountability and grow from a mistake, and foster a culture where its normal to be stupid and wrong about some things, and then grow... none of this bs 'i have never had a bad take' nonsense. If you want something to be temporary, figure out how to say it in an actually t...
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MonkderVierte lemmy.zip MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-05-30
#53 · Quote Reply

I support this. People need to deal with their own bullshit, and also understand that... the internet is forever. Take some accountability and grow from a mistake, and foster a culture where its normal to be stupid and wrong about some things, and then grow... none of this bs 'i have never had a bad take' nonsense. If you want something to be temporary, figure out how to say it in an actually t...

What do you want to be: a Whatsapp, a Reddit, a Stack Overflow or a Wikipedia?

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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
#54 · (edited) Quote Reply

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... you don't get it.

If you made a post, on lemmy, and then deleted it?

... you didn't actually delete it.

Somebody already archived it. Some three letter organization, probably many of them, and they often talk to each other.

An undelete instance would just make that more obvious to more people.

If you're worried about persecution due to being a minority or supporting them... you need to actually learn how to secure your online communications, you need to figure out how to effectively seperate your real identity from your online one.

Lemmy is public.

Anyone can archive the entire thing, at any time. If you are worried about the fascists, as you should be, you need to learn actual security and privacy practices.

... the internet is forever.

The doorkickers aren't going to care that you 'deleted' your post after they already made a copy of it.

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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
#55 · (edited) Quote Reply

I only have bad takes and my entire life's purpose is to keep making them worse.

Judging from the current vote counts on my comment, I'm apparently doing that right now, lol

I guess being accountable for the things you say, and being aware that govts and megacorps archive everything already... these are apparently significantly unpopular ideas.

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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
#56 · Quote Reply

You'd rather be exposed to unintended idiocy?

Someone elses idiocy can be your guide to wisdom.

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polle feddit.org polle@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-23
#57 · Quote Reply

I delete my comments regularly few weeks after posting them, because often my paranoia kicks in, and I feel like I have to at least cover my tracks a bit. I do however, do my best to leave up all comments that answer something or have relevant information. When I switch accounts to a new one, I delete my full comment history, though. I know this is bad for the continuity and history and everyth...

Seems like good practice. I just recently learned that your up/downvotes are also visible for everyone, which seems odd and sketchy privacy wise. Which result in way less voting by me.

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#58 · Quote Reply

They really need to add a way to view mod removed posts

What do you mean you don't?

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#59 · Quote Reply

If I post in the wrong place I delete it. Don't care how you look at me.

What of someone posts empty comments as an answer to a hot thread, then deletes it, to make people think the person knew the answer?

I know what I'm doing today!

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#60 · Quote Reply

I support this. People need to deal with their own bullshit, and also understand that... the internet is forever. Take some accountability and grow from a mistake, and foster a culture where its normal to be stupid and wrong about some things, and then grow... none of this bs 'i have never had a bad take' nonsense. If you want something to be temporary, figure out how to say it in an actually t...

I just gave up on that, decided to thwirl my moustache.

If someone interprets my comment wrong, I will just play up the role of a really fucking evil guy.

Life is easier when you don't care.

All that matters is getting X goods to Y people.

Everything else is cheap.

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#61 · (edited) Quote Reply

... you don't get it. If you made a post, on lemmy, and then deleted it? ... you didn't actually delete it. Somebody already archived it. Some three letter organization, probably many of them, and they often talk to each other. An undelete instance would just make that more obvious to more people. If you're worried about persecution due to being a minority or supporting them... you need to actu...

Good thing I actively declare that I'm going to [fucking dumb rules, nwm for now]

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JackbyDev programming.dev JackbyDev@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-13
#62 · Quote Reply

They really need to add a way to view mod removed posts

Modlog exists

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MehBlah lemmy.world MehBlah@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-04-16
#63 · Quote Reply

What of someone posts empty comments as an answer to a hot thread, then deletes it, to make people think the person knew the answer? I know what I'm doing today!

No troll unturned.

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Juice midwest.social Juice@midwest.social
Joined: 2024-04-24
#64 · Quote Reply

You have "see upvotes/downvotes" turned on?

I'm a slut for democracy, how would I self medicate without them? /hj

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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
#65 · Quote Reply

I just gave up on that, decided to thwirl my moustache. If someone interprets my comment wrong, I will just play up the role of a really fucking evil guy. Life is easier when you don't care. All that matters is getting X goods to Y people. Everything else is cheap.

It might be easier, but its also lonlier, and more hostile.

And, some things... some valuable things cannot be bought nor sold.

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ArseAssassin sopuli.xyz ArseAssassin@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2023-06-10
#66 · Quote Reply

... you don't get it. If you made a post, on lemmy, and then deleted it? ... you didn't actually delete it. Somebody already archived it. Some three letter organization, probably many of them, and they often talk to each other. An undelete instance would just make that more obvious to more people. If you're worried about persecution due to being a minority or supporting them... you need to actu...
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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
#67 · (edited) Quote Reply

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... No, I haven't.

i've described reality as it is.

I've also said that in general, people should be allowed to publically make mistakes and publically learn and grow from them.

If you want lemmy to ... actually support truly deletable posts and comments? And also be public facing?

Go redesign it then.

You are ignorant of how the actual mechanisms at play here work, and you've decided that me describing them to you is somehow a moral defense of surveillance capitalism.

You can't have something that is totally public yet is also truly totally redactable at the same time.

You're just mad that you don't understand how software works, and lashing out wildly.

I don't do it because I wish to take part in the construction of an online archive of everything that anyone has ever said that can be easily scanned to profile people, harass them, and for other such fun anti-social uses of technology.

Then stop communicating on any public facing communications platform.

What you said there applies to all of them.

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MeowerMisfit817 lemmy.world MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-09-27
#68 · (edited) Quote Reply

I thought of deleting a comment here for the pun's sake, but someone did it already.

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MeowerMisfit817 lemmy.world MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-09-27
#69 · Quote Reply

decombobulated by Creator

"decombobulated" is the type of word you'd see Edd (from Ed, Edd 'n' Eddy) say.

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tetris11 feddit.uk tetris11@feddit.uk
Joined: 2025-02-17
#70 · Quote Reply

"decombobulated" is the type of word you'd see Edd (from Ed, Edd 'n' Eddy) say.

Edd had a way of spifflicating words in a toploftical fashion

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wyldrstallyns lemmy.dbzer0.com wyldrstallyns@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2026-05-16
#71 · Quote Reply

I delete my comments regularly few weeks after posting them, because often my paranoia kicks in, and I feel like I have to at least cover my tracks a bit. I do however, do my best to leave up all comments that answer something or have relevant information. When I switch accounts to a new one, I delete my full comment history, though. I know this is bad for the continuity and history and everyth...

Here's hoping the other wolf doesn't win 🤘🏼

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wyldrstallyns lemmy.dbzer0.com wyldrstallyns@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2026-05-16
#72 · (edited) Quote Reply

What happens if you delete your account?

You're doomed to circle the drain until you find yourself back in the Cesspit of Redderp, trying to keep yourself whole until you can escape again —hopefully, untainted by the no-effort nazis, pedo-fans, cumboxes, etc. that churn in that "fun-sized" alphashit soup.

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kwarg mander.xyz kwarg@mander.xyz
Joined: 2025-01-27
#73 · Quote Reply

No

deleted by you

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Widdershins lemmy.world Widdershins@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-04-04
#74 · Quote Reply

Deleted by Tyler, the Creator

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RedSeries (she/her) lemmy.blahaj.zone RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-07-02
#75 · Quote Reply

I get it.

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jdf038 mander.xyz jdf038@mander.xyz
Joined: 2023-06-30
#76 · Quote Reply

Being roasted isn't the end of the world. You will emerge cooked but flavorful.

Seriously though just remember we are all just bots anyway /s

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Xylight‮ lemdro.id Xylight@lemdro.id
Joined: 2023-07-22
#77 · Quote Reply

Modlog exists

It's a 50/50 whether it lets me view it or not

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JackbyDev programming.dev JackbyDev@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-13
#78 · Quote Reply

It's a 50/50 whether it lets me view it or not

That's all I got then, lol. Maybe some posts get like hard deleted in addition to just being removed?

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UltraGiGaGigantic lemmy.ml UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-08-23
#79 · Quote Reply

Being roasted isn't the end of the world. You will emerge cooked but flavorful. Seriously though just remember we are all just bots anyway /s

Wait, yall arent dogs as well?

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UltraGiGaGigantic lemmy.ml UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-08-23
#80 · (edited) Quote Reply

It's a 50/50 whether it lets me view it or not

I made a post about that and was told its a quirk in the "remove comment and block user" mod action.

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UltraGiGaGigantic lemmy.ml UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-08-23
#81 · Quote Reply

These posts that are aimed at one person but pretending to be about lemmy in general are sophomoric and dumb.

You could always block the people making these posts instead of ineffectively complaining.

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UltraGiGaGigantic lemmy.ml UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-08-23
#82 · Quote Reply

Its basically just a malignant narcissist flag.

I just had a bad connection and my comment was posted twice. :-/

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BigBoyShuanzee aussie.zone BigBoyShuanzee@aussie.zone
Joined: 2026-07-02
#83 · (edited) Quote Reply

As an Australian, with 8-10 shots of alcohol in my system I seem to get the same response I got on Reddit.

I'm just talking shit and people are getting offended.
At least here I wake up with 1-2 replies telling me how wrong and foolish I am instead of Reddit where I woke up with multiple replies and downvotes because everyone is so self-righteous.

It's why 4Chan was good.. "WAS" good
I could get tipsy, Talk a bunch of shit, call the French, Italians, Greek and Turks a bunch of arse holes.
1 or 2 of them would call me the N word or call me a cunt and tell me to kill myself and I could just laugh and move on.

Reddit you say "Lol I don't like Nazis* or "Israel is a terrorist state" and you get banned..

Here I can fairly call Israel a terrorist state but people still get offended if I call France, Italy or Greece useless.

Don't get offended.. I'm a drunk Australian arsehole..
Insult me back!

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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
#84 · (edited) Quote Reply

I just had a bad connection and my comment was posted twice. :-/

I mean yeah, but you can easily tell those cases because such deleted comments have very few votes.

A deleted comment with a bunch of votes is a cowardly retreat from being some kind of embarassing or stupid.

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samus12345 sh.itjust.works samus12345@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-07-03
#85 · Quote Reply

I delete comments if I see that somebody else already said the same thing or if I realize I was misinformed when I made the comment. Neither case adds anything useful.

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aldhissla piefed.world aldhissla@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-08-26
#86 · Quote Reply

Yes. We're all judging you.

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Fornicus lemmy.world Fornicus@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#87 · Quote Reply

Yes. We're all judging you.

What this guy said.

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ramble81 lemmy.zip ramble81@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-08
#88 · Quote Reply

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I can, however, make it slightly harder to do

I may be missing the “it”, but what are you referring to and how?

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Forester pawb.social Forester@pawb.social
Joined: 2024-12-06
#89 · Quote Reply

Wait, yall arent dogs as well?

shuuush The secret must be maintained

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darkstar sh.itjust.works darkstar@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-12
#90 · Quote Reply

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I see what you did there. Take my upvote!

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piedonut piefed.social fedikitty@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-04-10
#91 · (edited) Quote Reply

You're doomed to circle the drain until you find yourself back in the Cesspit of Redderp, trying to keep yourself whole until you can escape again —hopefully, untainted by the no-effort nazis, pedo-fans, cumboxes, etc. that churn in that "fun-sized" alphashit soup.

I think I had a reddit account for like 2 weeks. I actually kind of like Lemmy and Piefed outside of just search results.

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jdf038 mander.xyz jdf038@mander.xyz
Joined: 2023-06-30
#92 · Quote Reply

Wait, yall arent dogs as well?

Some weird part of me wants to be an alien dog from 7 11 Taiwan

Does that count? Picture included

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