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kylewalter101 thelemmy.club kylewalter101@thelemmy.club
Joined: 2026-08-22
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Never seen anybody using emoji in any community. I did use once or twice, but the way its absent over here, I'm starting to think its part of some implicit rules lemmy has

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slazer2au lemmy.world slazer2au@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-30
#2 · Quote Reply

I see Lemmy as an older crowd that prefers ASCII emotes. Although the do work in some situations.

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Bluegrass_Addict lemmy.ca Bluegrass_Addict@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-10-21
#3 · Quote Reply

no rules that I'm aware of.

my personal input, it's a good 'language'. it's all interpretation and if you want to be taken serious in speech, you don't talk in pictures.

it would be akin to only taking in abbreviations. it only makes me ask you what you're talking about , or being completely ignored/assumed ai slop

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TheLeadenSea sh.itjust.works TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-04
#4 · Quote Reply

it's just personal preference πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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YappyMonotheist lemmy.world ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-04-26
#5 · Quote Reply

Check my post history, I guess. πŸ˜…

They're helpful in providing the proper context to a text-based convo. IRL, you'd just see my face and body language and hear my tone and understand things better so we have to adjust when texting. This is why people feel like they need the "/s" for sarcasm and whatnot. πŸ‘

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Scott πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦πŸ΄β€β˜ οΈ lemmy.ca RodgeGrabTheCat@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2026-09-10
#6 · (edited) Quote Reply

I use them once in a while. Also, I have two in my username.

I noticed you used one in a comment a month ago. Be the change you want to see. 😁

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queerlilhayseed piefed.blahaj.zone queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-09-27
#7 · (edited) Quote Reply

I like them. I use them infrequently because they're a bit of a hassle to use with the piefed interface, and I haven't bothered to install an emoji picker on my desktop, because I use them so infrequently. But I am a big fan of how they augment written language.

I tend to use them as tone carrying punctuation if I'm making a joke or expressing a particular emotional meaning πŸ™ƒ It's rare for me to put an emoji anywhere but at the end of a sentence πŸ§“ Emotions are hard for me to convey at the best of times, and text-only communication makes it harder 🀷 and emojis can fill in somewhat where tone and cadence would in verbal communication.

It's not a perfect analog and the medium of emojis is still so new that the meanings vary a great deal, to say nothing of how different emoji "fonts" can convey vastly different meanings. For example, the emoji "πŸ˜•" can express a wide array of emotional states with particular mouth and eye attitudes, the orientation of eyebrows if they're included, etc. A comment that says one thing in one font can express something quite different in another. It's a problem we'll need to sort out, eventually, but I don't think it's anyone's top priority at the moment. Emoticons suffer less from that problem because the glyphs are more standardized: regardless of font, everyone recognizes ":)" as "generic smiling face". Between that and the fact that I can render text emoticons without having to open another dialog or application, the vast majority of my emotes are text-based :)

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VivianRixia piefed.social VivianRixia@piefed.social
Joined: 2024-12-15
#8 · Quote Reply

I tend to only use emoji when texting people I know, not when talking to strangers. Also, I'm on desktop here and so its more effort to use them than its worth IMO 😀

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HubertManne piefed.social HubertManne@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-03-13
#9 · Quote Reply

I have never been super big on them but use them. I do think they are overused in general but no necessarily here.

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venusaur lemmy.world venusaur@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-28
#10 · Quote Reply

πŸ‘οΈπŸŒŠ

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Pratai piefed.ca Pratai@piefed.ca
Joined: 2026-02-12
#11 · (edited) Quote Reply

Because they’re for children.

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Treczoks lemmy.world Treczoks@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-09
#12 · Quote Reply

Emojis are for immature kids. Especially when they try to compose whole messages without a single word, or throw a dozen emojis at the end of a message.

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DoubleDongle lemmy.world DoubleDongle@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-02-23
#13 · Quote Reply

I think they're annoying to look at and I have never felt the need to use them to communicate. I think that people who use a lot of emojis are usually stupid.

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pressedhams lemmy.blahaj.zone pressedhams@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-05-13
#14 · Quote Reply

I tend to only use emoji when texting people I know, not when talking to strangers. Also, I'm on desktop here and so its more effort to use them than its worth IMO 😀

If you’re on windows the emoji keyboard is windows key + .

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Assassassin lemmy.dbzer0.com Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-09-26
#15 · Quote Reply

I see Lemmy as an older crowd that prefers ASCII emotes. Although the do work in some situations.

¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

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kindnesskills literature.cafe kindnesskills@literature.cafe
Joined: 2025-12-24
#16 · Quote Reply

I like that it's not much in use here.

I have to think more carefully about what words I type and how to convey my emotions in text. It's good to practice written communication, and it's good to be comfortable with it for when you want to be taken more seriously.

And I kinda assume those who splatter their text with emojis are bots or LLMs programmed to sound more human, or people trying to imply or invoke emotions to sell me on some nonsense or other, so I don't read those comments or posts anyway.

It's fun that Lemmy has its own culture which comes as a little shock but is easy to adapt to once you figure it out, isn't it?

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Assassassin lemmy.dbzer0.com Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-09-26
#17 · Quote Reply

Because they’re for children.

πŸ™„

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Assassassin lemmy.dbzer0.com Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-09-26
#18 · Quote Reply

Emojis are for immature kids. Especially when they try to compose whole messages without a single word, or throw a dozen emojis at the end of a message.

πŸ™„

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Assassassin lemmy.dbzer0.com Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-09-26
#19 · Quote Reply

I think they're annoying to look at and I have never felt the need to use them to communicate. I think that people who use a lot of emojis are usually stupid.

🀑🫡

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nocturne slrpnk.net nocturne@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-06-13
#20 · Quote Reply

Emojis are for immature kids. Especially when they try to compose whole messages without a single word, or throw a dozen emojis at the end of a message.

πŸ€‘πŸ‘Ÿ

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cattywampas lemmy.world cattywampas@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-12-30
#21 · Quote Reply

Yeah I use them all the time. Very helpful when conveying tone.

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e0qdk reddthat.com e0qdk@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-11-27
#22 · Quote Reply

If you’re on windows the emoji keyboard is windows key + .

Ctrl + . works for me on Linux Mint -- that's how I enter most of the ones I use.

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SkaveRat discuss.tchncs.de SkaveRat@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-07-09
#23 · Quote Reply

My "I'm being kidnapped, send help" secret code is "I start using emoji"

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_haha_oh_wow_ sh.itjust.works _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-12
#24 · Quote Reply

Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―

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VivianRixia piefed.social VivianRixia@piefed.social
Joined: 2024-12-15
#25 · (edited) Quote Reply

Ctrl + . works for me on Linux Mint -- that's how I enter most of the ones I use.

On Arch using Firefox πŸ”₯️🦊️ that works for me too 🎊️
Look out Fediverse πŸ€–οΈ, I am now Emoji enabled 😱️

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e0qdk reddthat.com e0qdk@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-11-27
#26 · Quote Reply

On Arch using Firefox πŸ”₯️🦊️ that works for me too 🎊️ Look out Fediverse πŸ€–οΈ, I am now Emoji enabled 😱️

πŸ₯³οΈ

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Courant d'air πŸƒ jlai.lu Courantdair@jlai.lu
Joined: 2024-05-30
#27 · Quote Reply

On Arch using Firefox πŸ”₯️🦊️ that works for me too 🎊️ Look out Fediverse πŸ€–οΈ, I am now Emoji enabled 😱️

Congratulations πŸ‘, you πŸ‘‰ are ready βœ… for LinkedIn πŸŽ‰πŸ’Ό

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Toasticus piefed.social Toasticus@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-08-23
#28 · Quote Reply

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lonefighter sh.itjust.works lonefighter@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-03-12
#29 · Quote Reply

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Are you ok? ❀️ Sending thoughts and prayers πŸ™β€οΈπŸ™

/s and I feel somehow dirty now

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spittingimage lemmy.world spittingimage@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-20
#30 · Quote Reply

I'm old enough to think of emojis as hieroglyphics for teens.

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BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan piefed.social BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-09-04
#31 · Quote Reply

I grew up with the emoticons (thats what the text based ones are called? Like :D :P etc?). I never learned to use emojis. I remember when some services and platforms started to bring them on, there was options to turn them off, so I did that. Not sure why, but I did. This was in... 2005? Something like that. Since then I just never bothered to learn to use them. Some services you have to do the :word: thing to get a specific one, some services you need to scroll through millions of them to find the one you are looking for. I can express myself well enough with the text based ones, for me its more work to find a emoji than to just type a couple of characters on the keyboard.

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sem piefed.blahaj.zone sem@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-09-04
#32 · Quote Reply

No rules against them! We're just old :p

Emoji are nice though, thanks for bringing it up.

Now that I'm thinking about it, I do post these emojis sometimes:

πŸŒπŸ§‘β€πŸš€πŸ”«πŸ‘¨β€πŸš€

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marighost piefed.social marighost@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-06-05
#33 · Quote Reply

Emojis have their place. I use a few. I think people who viscerally hate them (like some folks ITT) are overreacting and need to mellow the fuck out. They're no different than emoticons from yesteryear πŸ˜…

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Zensate lemmy.world Zensate@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-09-15
#34 · (edited) Quote Reply

Emojis are only something kids and teenagers can use, because they are stylized in an infantile way and so express very strong emotions that you just don't have any more as an adult.

So the only adults that use them are people who either have arrested development or trying to self-infantilize, where neither is really suited for 18+ online discussion boards.

So the only time you'll really see emoji's being used here is when they're using sarcastically or for comedic effect, because they do work for that since they portray emotions that are exaggerated.

Otherwise it sticks out like if your dad who's a lawyer wore a pikachu cap to work.

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NewNewAugustEast lemmy.zip NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-19
#35 · Quote Reply

I don't like them and don't want to see them in a discussion forum.

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NewNewAugustEast lemmy.zip NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-19
#36 · Quote Reply

Check my post history, I guess. πŸ˜… They're helpful in providing the proper context to a text-based convo. IRL, you'd just see my face and body language and hear my tone and understand things better so we have to adjust when texting. This is why people feel like they need the "/s" for sarcasm and whatnot. πŸ‘

They’re helpful in providing the proper context to a text-based convo

Nope just annoying.

IRL, you’d just see my face and body language and hear my tone

The best part of anonymous forums is not having any tone.

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dream_weasel sh.itjust.works dream_weasel@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-30
#37 · Quote Reply

Because they’re for children.

You're thinking of anime. Or maybe something else that is also anigay.

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OryxAndCake slrpnk.net OryxAndCake@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2026-01-26
#38 · Quote Reply

t(-_-t) emoji can eat a dick

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Pratai piefed.ca Pratai@piefed.ca
Joined: 2026-02-12
#39 · Quote Reply

You're thinking of anime. Or maybe something else that is also anigay.

That too.

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ace_garp lemmy.world ace_garp@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-09
#40 · Quote Reply

I probably use the πŸ™ƒ emoji most.

Because it does not really have an equivalent in ASCII emoticons.

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MrsDoyle sh.itjust.works MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-13
#41 · Quote Reply

≽^β€’β©Šβ€’^β‰Ό

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cepelinas sopuli.xyz cepelinas@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2025-01-14
#42 · Quote Reply

I don't like them.

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Pika hikki.team Pika@hikki.team
Joined: 2025-07-07
#43 · Quote Reply

Emoji are less convenient to type and come instead of older Internet conventions that many folks here use and remember pretty well. You know, limitations fueled creativity :-)

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datavoid sh.itjust.works datavoid@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-07-02
#44 · Quote Reply

Generally they are fine, but these ones deeply bother me:

🀷 🀀

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AstroLightz lemmy.world AstroLightz@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
#45 · (edited) Quote Reply

This is how I feel about emojis in conversation:

β›”

πŸ™‚πŸ‘ŽπŸ’¬πŸ‘

Translation

"No. Emoji bad text good"

Instead, I like emoticons in chat because they're fun. ◝(^⌣^)β—œ

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Jakeroxs sh.itjust.works Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-07-03
#46 · (edited) Quote Reply

Lemmy seems to skew older and they don't like emojis because it's stupid/unprofessional/w/e

https://sh.itjust.works/post/6536403

Probably all the lead poison

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glimse lemmy.world glimse@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-07
#47 · Quote Reply

Emojis remind me of LLM slop

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OryxAndCake slrpnk.net OryxAndCake@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2026-01-26
#48 · Quote Reply

≽^β€’β©Šβ€’^β‰Ό

ΰΈ…^>⩊<^ ΰΈ…

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Dearth lemmy.world Dearth@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-30
#49 · Quote Reply

Emojis seem like another language to me now. The last time i used emojis for regular communication it was on AIM

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bluesheep sh.itjust.works bluesheep@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-30
#50 · Quote Reply

I've been conditioned over time to not use them on internet forums but I use them a lot when texting. So it feels kind of weird to see one around on a Lemmy comment but I don't hate them

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kindnesskills literature.cafe kindnesskills@literature.cafe
Joined: 2025-12-24
#51 · Quote Reply

Emojis are only something kids and teenagers can use, because they are stylized in an infantile way and so express very strong emotions that you just don't have any more as an adult. So the only adults that use them are people who either have arrested development or trying to self-infantilize, where neither is really suited for 18+ online discussion boards. So the only time you'll really see em...

There's something deeply funny about writing that comment while your username is still followed by an emoji of a baby.

I really hope you did it on purpose.

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