RetroFed Forum
Your home away from modern life.
What is your "Reddit sucks" story?
Post Reply
AuthorMessage
Washedupcynic lemmy.ca Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-06-04
#102 · Quote Reply

I got banned for making fun of elon. (I posted a pic of a ken dolls non-existent genitals and said, Elon post penis surgery.)

4
zwiebelkaramell lemmy.world zwiebelkaramell@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-06-21
#103 · Quote Reply

User culture change for sure. The subversive, progressive, smarmy nerds that used to hang out there were "my people" so to speak. The shift to a 50/50 mix of bots and soccer moms made it kinda useless as a forum. Lemmy isn't quite the same, but I think it's a good thing. Much less culturally homogeneous, but 100% authentic.

9
Tattorack lemmy.world Tattorack@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-28
#104 · (edited) Quote Reply

The gamification of Reddit. Stickers, awards, achievements, all for creating content and engagement, regardless of quality. Now they have actual games in Reddit where you can win awards for... Stuff... I guess. I refuse to engage with any of it.

Deep ties with NFT and crypto. The NFT side died, finally, because nobody really engaged with it. I was given an NFT avatar on Reddit for free, with a whole lot of advertising to engage in lootboxes and such. My response to that was essentially "ok. And fuck you". It's still doing cryptoshit, though, but doesn't advertise it anymore.

Are you a moderator of a loving community? Hate what Reddit has done? Wanna protest? No you can't. If reddit doesn't like your opinion, or you protest against some of their actions, they'll just remove you from the sub you created and the new owner will be some schmuck who agrees to everything.

6
Tattorack lemmy.world Tattorack@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-28
#105 · Quote Reply

User culture change for sure. The subversive, progressive, smarmy nerds that used to hang out there were "my people" so to speak. The shift to a 50/50 mix of bots and soccer moms made it kinda useless as a forum. Lemmy isn't quite the same, but I think it's a good thing. Much less culturally homogeneous, but 100% authentic.

Unfortunately the one place with the most engagement to solving Linux issues are still the Linux subreddits. I was hoping Linux was more prevalent on Lemmy, but it's not...

6
meathorse lemmy.world meathorse@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-08
#106 · Quote Reply

You posted on some other sub - once - three years ago, and the mod of the current sub happens to have some petty, childish beef with that sub so... Lifetime ban for daring to post on their sub. This happens here as well

Ah that's a shame, I must be lucky so far

1
historicaldocuments lemmy.world historicaldocuments@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-04-04
#107 · Quote Reply

The mod for r/AdultChildrenofNarcissists disappeared, and replacement essentially admitted that they were running an experiment and couldn't give more details because it would ruin the experiment. They also said they were going to try to remove the anti-parent bias in the subreddit. So much for that support group.

So anyway, r/AdultKidsofNarcissists was created, but there's no reason to think that same sort of thing didn't happen to a bunch of other subreddits. They will eventually sell the comment database to someone who'll run a poorly thought out LLM and find red flags by cross referencing a support group subreddit with other subreddits and cause real world consequences. It isn't enough to stop using reddit now; they already have the posts and will have them forever.

11
krakloskewm lemmy.zip krakloskewm@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-10-09
#108 · Quote Reply

User culture change for sure. The subversive, progressive, smarmy nerds that used to hang out there were "my people" so to speak. The shift to a 50/50 mix of bots and soccer moms made it kinda useless as a forum. Lemmy isn't quite the same, but I think it's a good thing. Much less culturally homogeneous, but 100% authentic.

So much of it is people just ditching about things in their lives looking for validation.

Nothing is about anything anymore.

6
myyass lemmy.world myyass@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-09-02
#109 · Quote Reply

It was really fun a long time ago; getting gifts/exchanging gifts. Secret Santa. Making artwork and just trading it for stuff, lots of subs. And overtime all of that was gone. It became a hateful festering pile of shit. Once reddit became "old" it was done and it showed. It really became a hardcore data mining trash bin. Getting multiple down votes for things I disagreed with was it for me; not that I care about the down votes, it's just there was no comments no interaction. Reddit maybe has a few more years left in my opinion, with new users only joining because it was indirectly advertised by the people that made it what it is. It's like Regr'etsy, wasn't too bad on launch to hey allibaba or temu is in the house!

13
Feathercrown lemmy.world Feathercrown@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-06
#110 · (edited) Quote Reply

No story, just dozens (hundreds?) of wasted hours reading slop (the human kind at first, but increasingly also the bot kind later)

7
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#111 · Quote Reply

I was one of the people who they actually unbanned because the bot wrongfully banned it. But because I used a second account during the wrongful ban, again cannot underemphasize so wrong that they admitted it was wrong, it perma banned all of my accounts.

that was pretty common last year. thats how whole swaths of people got eliminated and are now lurking. because multiple accounts have each generate thier own content

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#112 · Quote Reply

I was on my regional sub Reddit and it turned right-wing real quick. Heard of Lemmy, decide to check it out, after 2-3 months I saw that I was more on Lemmy than Reddit so I deleted it. In the background the API shit and their opening in the Market was happening so it probably help me to go

i heard most regional subs have been astroturfed by right wingers, i wouldnt be surprised it came from 1 source.

3
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#113 · Quote Reply

I got banned from my state sub by a mod who didn't live here. Dipshit was a mod on nearly thirty subs. Turns out he/she/it was a right wing shill. That came out in the drama right before I jumped ship and came to lemmy full time.

thats like what happened to cities, states on the west coast. all were controlled by conservatives.

2
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#114 · Quote Reply

[deleted]

they use alot of fingerprinting to find your other accounts, likely used the same IP/DEVICE that recieved the other bans and they just connected the dots. i made an account after a year of shadowbanned all my old accounts. the new ones i use with a different FORK browser, (maybe there was a Ip change) thats why they arnt catching on,. reddit has unofficial unbanning after a while of getting ban, but usually it wont work if you had so many accounts banned. i think a new ID/browser/device is enough. im still using the same device, possibly ip but a different browser.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#115 · Quote Reply

[deleted]

they have fingerprinting methods too, like your looking at your browser version, your time zone, and other things. they know people evade by changing thier IP alot, so they upgraded.

2
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#116 · Quote Reply

There's a couple of extensions for that. But yeah its usually not easy.

some forks have anti-fingerprinting, but they have ways of detecting things like device components. they are pretty much catching onto anti-detect browsers, and ip switching methods(cost money) that isnt a vpn.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#117 · (edited) Quote Reply

You can generally fool them by just changing one or two variables like GPU acceleration. Or, change browsers.

i used librewolf now for reddit purposes, maybe thats why my new account dint get hit yet. i also avoid any political subs. for a month brave hid my old account before it was shadowbanned last year, i stopped using that. how do you change the GPU acc? im interested.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#118 · Quote Reply

Made an account here on Lemmy in 2023 after the API stuff. Then, a year later I got permbanned on reddit for being mean to Nazis, talking shit about Elon Musk, and saying Hans Kristian Graebner (the Neo-Nazi who makes the Stonetoss comics) deserved to have his name leaked on the Internet. New account was banned a year after that for evasion. Said fuck it, stopped using reddit and started being ...

2025, was basically ban-apocalypse. definitely around time, i noticed quite alot of people being reported, and ban around eleciton time, so it happened quite alot before nov 5 too.

3
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#119 · (edited) Quote Reply

This happened years ago before most of the big reddit controversies popped off and before words like incel and red pill were coined. There used to be a medium sized community called /r/foreveralone. It was mostly a community for people who were romantically alone and provided support and semi-edgy memes about it. Mostly though it was a support group by the time I found it. It was a decent commu...

admins are complicit, they know you were likely fighting against TROLLS/propaganda even, reddit has no interest in dealing with these. currently they are now given AI tools themselves.

only the small niche subs remain pretty quiet, the ones that inundated with posts every few hours.

2
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#120 · Quote Reply

It's always bothered me how incel's are discussed when really, the group they are referencing are often sexually active but just deeply misogynistic. Meanwhile many people who are closer to the 'forever alone' crowd deserve genuine sympathy. Being lonely sucks, and being unable to 'obtain' a partner is lonely. Beyond that - some people will just throw out 'incel' as a catch all for "took issue ...

unfortunately those "forever' alone get draw into the incel manosphere and become mysogynist themselves. its in games too, where people get talk to other characthers, yucky incel talks.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#121 · Quote Reply

Yeah, incel today has more angry loner vibes than anything. It was never a really good term though because involuntary celibate is not an accurate way to describe either the modern chuds or the older /r/foreveralone community members. It's got misogyny baked right in because it externalizes the cause of isolation when in most cases those folks are their own worst enemy when it comes to dating. ...

before they were called incel, it was the "nice guy"

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#122 · Quote Reply

They basically told us that if we don't reopen they'll simply remove us as moderators of the sub and reopen it themselves.

reddit wants AI mods to replace the human ones now.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#123 · Quote Reply

I've been on reddit for 13 or 14 years I think, had my own subreddit dedicated to my cats, then they closed the API and I couldn't use the free and add-free app anymore to manage it.

the cat subs, are just sad posts, its always "our cat died" like 90% of the posts now.

2
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#124 · Quote Reply

I was churning accounts because I'd get preemptively banned by some subs just for posting in other subs, then I'd post in one accidentally not remembering the preemptive ban and all the accounts get permabanned for "ban evasion", it's too much work. What're ya gonna do? Make a separate email AND account for each subbreddit to prevent that? Then they remove old reddit for everyone without an old...

what i did before was create extra account and let it sit unused, incased one got hit by a temp ban, or too many sub bans. now people have to wait 1+years, if yuo arnnt a serial ban evader.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#125 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

crosbanning is very strange, it happens on lemmy too, at least 2-3 communities have crossbanned me for barely participating in those communities, and they give any reason at all. and its the communities that have problems with. (STar trek website, 196, and dbzer

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#126 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

DND sounds kinda degenerate to play with, im guessing thats why it remains in sucha small group.

0
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#127 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

r/conspiracy is probably reddits cash cow for engagement on the site, thats why its on the front page alot of the times.

2
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#128 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

it only blocks 1000 people, but it stops muting them after. and you can still see the blocked the posts too.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#129 · (edited) Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

its mostly AI posts in the front pages. any politics, news, music, ask, AITA(variants), dinner diaries,,,etc. the less known niche ones of the last 2 dont really have bots, so its super quiet.

3
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#130 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

2016,2017, when they unleashed the banhammer on many subs. because of trumps 1st term, and thats when russia realized that reddit was prime for ragebaiting, thats why the bans started then.

2
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#131 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

most of the posts were just twitter retweets, reposted.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#132 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

openai and GOOGLE to be exact. but OPENAi stopped participating, which was the drop in traffic and resulted in REDDIT forcing logins now, also at the same time googles try to force you to use your phone to have a google account. they did this at the same time.

2
motionofethre piefed.social motionofethre@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-01
#133 · Quote Reply

its mostly AI posts in the front pages. any politics, news, music, ask, AITA(variants), dinner diaries,,,etc. the less known niche ones of the last 2 dont really have bots, so its super quiet.

That's true. I still need some of the communities there because they are so small here. Mostly fitness ones

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#134 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

apparently that "change yuor password" was designed by reddit to confirm thier ban for you.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#135 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

politics is the #1 place to get banned quite fast, followed by NEWS, and then any adjacent subs. funny thing whitepeopletwitter never banned, you had to try very hard to get banned for saying the same thing not as a conservative.

1
SourGumGum lemmy.world SourGumGum@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-10-19
#136 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Is it the same one?

2
onionguy lemmy.world Sly2@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-12-31
#137 · Quote Reply

I got banned for making fun of elon. (I posted a pic of a ken dolls non-existent genitals and said, Elon post penis surgery.)

In therir defense, that's just body shaming and not criticism against his behavior/wrongdoings/actions.

4
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#138 · (edited) Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

it all changed around 2016-17, when russia started using bot/propaganda for the first time. it was downhill from there. at first reddit was good at "cutting the bots" off, but then realized they were removing engagement so they half assed it.

4
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#139 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

i heard people will try to take over subreddits by brigading mods til htey quit or get banned.

1
Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#140 · Quote Reply

I got banned for making fun of elon. (I posted a pic of a ken dolls non-existent genitals and said, Elon post penis surgery.)

Elon is very aware of reddit posts about him, everytime he tells spez to ban people, spez triggers a ban wave,.

7
qevlarr lemmy.world qevlarr@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-18
#141 · Quote Reply

Got into a thread that was all transphobia. Not the subtle kind, but totally messed up. I was furious nothing was done about it. Glued to my phone, I reported every single one.

Next day I was suspended for abuse of report button. Unfair, but here's the kicker: It was a report 6 months earlier in a different sub, completely different topic.

So these shithead mods let transphobia bullshit slide, then got mad at me for flooding their mod queue, report me, and someone looked through my earlier reports to find something. The reports in that transphobic threads were legit. Mods should have been punished but it was me.

6
tangosox lemmy.world tangosox@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-07-08
#142 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

What stops them from crawling this site though?

1
GreenKnight23 lemmy.world GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-21
#143 · Quote Reply

No story, just dozens (hundreds?) of wasted hours reading slop (the human kind at first, but increasingly also the bot kind later)

not all was slop.

I had shared a few tifu posts that actually did really well you probably read if you frequented that board. I think one of them got around 17k upvotes and was featured on some prominent YouTube channels.

4
yermaw sh.itjust.works yermaw@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-07-10
#144 · Quote Reply

I said that nuclear arms race was just stupid at this point.

"I'll kill everyone"

"If you kill everyone I'll kill everyone"

"Well I can kill everyone 3 times over"

"If you kill everyone 3 times over I'll kill everyone 20 times over"

"Oh yeah? We're working on a way to kill everyone 200 times over"

Anyway that got me a 3 week ban for inciting violence. When I pressed the appeal button and said "its actually condemning violence, theres context there" it got upgraded to a permanent ban.

That was the 3rd time I got banned. The first time was from typing "genji main btw" into an overwatch post complaining about how theres no people playing support.

9
GreenKnight23 lemmy.world GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-21
#145 · Quote Reply

was banned when I told a Nazi they should "experience the freedom of Auschwitz" if they were true believers. and to not worry about what others have said because "the work you will do there, will set you free".

mods didn't like that and banned me. oh yeah, the Nazi just continued to post white supremacy bullshit.

7
ladybugs lemmy.world ladybugs@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-06-05
#146 · Quote Reply

What stops them from crawling this site though?

Probably nothing, but at least the people running our instances aren’t directly involved in doing it to us. The people behind this community aren’t pretending that it’s OK to exploit other people who are just trying to connect with each other. And even if OpenAI still slurps up our data, Sam Altman and the other AI billionaires don’t make as much money off of us because they don’t own Lemmy.world and don’t profit off of any deals or ads here. These things make a big difference to me.

3
jumping redditor [they/them] sh.itjust.works jumping_redditor@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-07-30
#147 · Quote Reply

Unfortunately the one place with the most engagement to solving Linux issues are still the Linux subreddits. I was hoping Linux was more prevalent on Lemmy, but it's not...

I'm not that suprised, lemmy still suffers from there being many choices of instance and their not being a convenient way to compare which ones federate with which other ones.

4
DidIReallySayThat lemmy.world DidIReallySayThat@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-09-04
#148 · Quote Reply

I cant remember which sub it was, but I posted something along the line of "If Israel doesn't stop this genocide, they're gonna find out soon."

I was perma banned by a zionist mod for inciting violence.

5
Taleya aussie.zone Taleya@aussie.zone
Joined: 2023-06-21
#149 · Quote Reply

In therir defense, that's just body shaming and not criticism against his behavior/wrongdoings/actions.

No place to spit in a rich mans house but his face

3
RememberTheApollo_ lemmy.world RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-26
#150 · Quote Reply

Reddit just sucks. That’s all there is to it. Bots, trolls, /hailcorporate, forced ads, forced app, bans, the API debacle, getting rid of Victoria, quarantining everything while leaving right wing trash subs brigading other subs, hivemind, karmawhoring, race to be the quip for karma no matter how serious the subject… so many reasons to avoid the place in general.

4
Captain Aggravated sh.itjust.works captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-20
#151 · Quote Reply

3 day ban for "They (here meaning men in the American southeast) hate electric vehicles almost as much as they hate black people."

5
Post Reply Page 3 of 4   Goto page « First 1, 2, 3, 4 Last »
Back to top