That's just using someone then.

No it isn't, being attracted to stability is perfectly reasonable - not everyone chooses partners based on them having a square jawline

If you like them for what they provide and not who they are, they are just a means to an end for you.

That's ridiculous, stability isn't just about what someone provides. You've got an incredibly immature outlook.

You've got an abuser's outlook. Tell me, did your partners know you only like them for what they do for you and not who they are?

Again, a ridiculous statement. Grow up.

Stop abusing people.

You are a child, which explains why Aragorn or Legolas are most desirable in your eyes.

Says the one playing make-believe.

You accused me of being an abuser for preferring stability and I'm playing make-believe?

Non stop projection holy

Not for preferring stability, no.