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mitchty lemmy.sdf.org mitchty@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-08-06
#52 · Quote Reply

I think this more of a bar in hell thing. Who wouldn't have a trashcan in the bathroom? A demon.

I mean I dunno but I’ve had a trashcan in every room rule since I left home so maybe I am the problem. The bathroom ones got a removable sleeve so I can empty it into the big trash can to make it slightly easier to clean but that’s more a recent thing it’s not rocket science.

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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
#53 · (edited) Quote Reply

I find it especially concerning that this guy seemingly just has a jacket on, over scrubs.

Dude is a nurse or doctor or surgeon or some kind of physical health specialist... is ok with the thanos snap.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#54 · Quote Reply

It's not that we were content, it's simply what we could afford. That's the reality of late stage capitalism, it can take years until you can save enough money for the basics. I couldn't afford a couch until I was 30! Until then I had to put up with lawn chairs and bean bags. My credit card limit was only $500 when I was young, and we didn't have Affirm yet because it was the early 2010s; if I ...

It’s not that we were content, it’s simply what we could afford.

Nah, that's not what I'm talking about. I'm not separate from these bachelors that I was seeing, I'm not independently wealthy because I kept more than 1 towel in my apartment, and I'm the same age as them.

These were deliberate choices to keep things very minimal without any thoughts to having guests over.

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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
#55 · (edited) Quote Reply

I can't even do a top 2. What am I?

Indecisive.

... that or you have somehow only seen 2 movies.

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Imgonnatrythis sh.itjust.works Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-09-23
#56 · Quote Reply

I'll bite. Clueless. What is the joke?

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ILikeBoobies lemmy.ca ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-08-14
#57 · Quote Reply

A gamer and a marvel fan? Get out as quickly as possible.

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mirshafie europe.pub mirshafie@europe.pub
Joined: 2025-11-07
#58 · Quote Reply

I'll bite. Clueless. What is the joke?

Incel paraphernalia

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#59 · Quote Reply

I'll bite. Clueless. What is the joke?

A gamer and a marvel fan? Get out as quickly as possible.

This comment came in at the same time as yours and answers your question lol

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terwn43lp lemmy.world toxicbubble@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-09
#60 · (edited) Quote Reply

I'll bite. Clueless. What is the joke?

imo after a certain age, you should have better role models than thanos and joker

and better taste in decor

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OldChicoAle lemmy.world OldChicoAle@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-26
#61 · Quote Reply

A gamer and a marvel fan? Get out as quickly as possible. This comment came in at the same time as yours and answers your question lol

Does it though? What indicates gamer? I think it's more about edginess and cringiness than marvel/gamer.

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OldChicoAle lemmy.world OldChicoAle@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-26
#62 · Quote Reply

A gamer and a marvel fan? Get out as quickly as possible.

What indicates gamer? The joker since he's in some video games? He's more of a symbol of going against establishment and the grain. Of course he takes it too far and is cray cray

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Valmond lemmy.dbzer0.com Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-11-13
#63 · Quote Reply

A trashcan in the bathroom let me know my husband was the one.

What was in it?

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kalpol lemmy.ca kalpol@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-06-05
#64 · Quote Reply

As much as I loved Heath Ledger's Joker on screen, seeing it on anything else is so cringe. I know at least 2 people with Joker tattoos and they are exactly the kind of person you would assume.

Which is just extra ironic

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Imgonnatrythis sh.itjust.works Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-09-23
#65 · Quote Reply

Incel paraphernalia

It's bad to like marvel movies?

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BrownSugarBits lemmy.world BrownSugarBits@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-01
#66 · Quote Reply

There was a song about it.

what are the lyrics in english?

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Imgonnatrythis sh.itjust.works Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-09-23
#67 · Quote Reply

imo after a certain age, you should have better role models than thanos and joker and better taste in decor

Not my cup of tea, but damn that just seems really judgemental.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#68 · Quote Reply

Does it though? What indicates gamer? I think it's more about edginess and cringiness than marvel/gamer.

Oh ok, you're purposefully being obtuse about this then lol

Yeah the implication is that it's cringy.

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Valmond lemmy.dbzer0.com Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-11-13
#69 · Quote Reply

imo after a certain age, you should have better role models than thanos and joker and better taste in decor

Approximately 6 yo

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ILikeBoobies lemmy.ca ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-08-14
#70 · Quote Reply

What indicates gamer? The joker since he's in some video games? He's more of a symbol of going against establishment and the grain. Of course he takes it too far and is cray cray

It's a meme.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#71 · Quote Reply

Not my cup of tea, but damn that just seems really judgemental.

Dating is all about being judgmental - you're looking for someone that's compatible with you. A lot of people find idolizing the Joker and Thanos not compatible with them.

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vaultdweller013 sh.itjust.works vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-07-08
#72 · Quote Reply

Can't tell if this is worse or better than my shit. How much worse are flags compared to this, most of them are fallout related none of them are WW1 or 2 related though I do want a Ukrainian anarchist flag.

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paraphrand lemmy.world paraphrand@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-12
#73 · (edited) Quote Reply

Not my cup of tea, but damn that just seems really judgemental.

Some more context (I dunno if Thanos really fits this, but all those words on his poster do…)

https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/literally-me-guys

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theparadox lemmy.world theparadox@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-31
#74 · Quote Reply

It's bad to like marvel movies?

Depicting Thanos as a role model is part of liking Marvel movies?

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kshade lemmy.world kshade@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-17
#75 · Quote Reply

Depicting Thanos as a role model is part of liking Marvel movies?

That does look more like a shitpost than something people who actually believe in that nonsense would put up.

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hakunawazo lemmy.world hakunawazo@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-02
#76 · Quote Reply

Are we sure there's even gonna be a chin?

Maybe he could borrow him his chin? What do you think Ash?

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felykiosa sh.itjust.works felykiosa@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-11
#77 · Quote Reply

Can't tell if this is worse or better than my shit. How much worse are flags compared to this, most of them are fallout related none of them are WW1 or 2 related though I do want a Ukrainian anarchist flag.

Username checkout

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theparadox lemmy.world theparadox@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-31
#78 · Quote Reply

That does look more like a shitpost than something people who actually believe in that nonsense would put up.

While I agree, characters in one frame comics like this aren't usually trying to be subtle or fly under the radar when demonstrating their values.

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∟⊔⊤∦∣≶ lemmy.nz luthis@lemmy.nz
Joined: 2023-06-29
#79 · Quote Reply

I can't even do a top 2. What am I?

Giving up too easily. Surely you've watched more than 2 movies, or series, or books, or YouTube channels, or video or board games..

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ThatGuy46475 lemmy.world ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-01-25
#80 · Quote Reply

What indicates gamer? The joker since he's in some video games? He's more of a symbol of going against establishment and the grain. Of course he takes it too far and is cray cray

Joker because balatro

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HerbGrower slrpnk.net HerbGrower@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2026-07-09
#81 · Quote Reply

Depicting Thanos as a role model is part of liking Marvel movies?

Outside of memes I genuinely don't know anything about Thanos. Is he good or bad? What does him being on a poster mean

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HerbGrower slrpnk.net HerbGrower@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2026-07-09
#82 · Quote Reply

A gamer and a marvel fan? Get out as quickly as possible. This comment came in at the same time as yours and answers your question lol

What is wrong about gaming and marvel? I don't really know much about marvel, gaming is surely such a wide thing how can that be a problem at all?

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vaultdweller013 sh.itjust.works vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-07-08
#83 · Quote Reply

Username checkout

Fun fact I been using some variant of vaultdweller 13 as a username since I was 12 since I played NV fell in love and then played 1 and 2 and got an isometric rpg addiction. Sadly unlike other classic Fallout fans I am neither a Slavic millennial or trans so I have little to distract from the isometric rpg withdrawal symptoms.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#84 · (edited) Quote Reply

What is wrong about gaming and marvel? I don't really know much about marvel, gaming is surely such a wide thing how can that be a problem at all?

I married a man who likes Dragon Ball Z enough to have several of the mangas, so don't get me wrong here. Some of this stuff doesn't necessarily bother me personally, but there's a certain reputation that fans of the Joker get and picking Thanos of all the Marvel characters is a choice.

Gaming is hit or miss - if someone is into gaming so much that all of their decorations are gaming related, it begs the question if they are willing to make enough time in their life for you around their hobby. And I say this as a gamer myself. It's known to be a hobby that people dedicate a lot of time toward.

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bluesheep sh.itjust.works bluesheep@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-30
#85 · Quote Reply

My partner is rather autistic and part of that is not caring about how his surroundings look. Very practical person. He doesn't understand why I like having our house decorated, but he does understand that it makes me happy and he likes when I'm happy. It works out nicely sometimes!

Sounds like you got free reign on decorating the house, win win

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#86 · Quote Reply

Sounds like you got free reign on decorating the house, win win

An unexpected, but pleasant surprise!

My ex had very strong opinions about how our house should look - strong enough to push all of my wants out of the way - so this is a nice soft place to be in the aftermath :)

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theparadox lemmy.world theparadox@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-31
#87 · Quote Reply

Outside of memes I genuinely don't know anything about Thanos. Is he good or bad? What does him being on a poster mean

In a recent Marvel movie arc, he tries to "save" the universe from suffering and conflict and insufficient space/resources by indiscriminately deleting half of all life in the universe with a snap of his fingers using a super powerful artifact.

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HerbGrower slrpnk.net HerbGrower@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2026-07-09
#88 · Quote Reply

I married a man who likes Dragon Ball Z enough to have several of the mangas, so don't get me wrong here. Some of this stuff doesn't necessarily bother me personally, but there's a certain reputation that fans of the Joker get and picking Thanos of all the Marvel characters is a choice. Gaming is hit or miss - if someone is into gaming so much that all of their decorations are gaming related, i...

At least gamers have a hobby. I know a few people that just don't have anything.

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RebekahWSD lemmy.world RebekahWSD@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-19
#89 · Quote Reply

What was in it?

19 years later, I don't fuckin remember. He probably had emptied it and put in a clean bag before I came over, statistically!

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RebekahWSD lemmy.world RebekahWSD@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-19
#90 · Quote Reply

Sorry I meant it as a comment on the state of men not the person I replied to

I did not take it as a comment on me! Or him, as he had the trashcan. And other qualities! It was mostly silly on my part, but it did inform me he thought about guests.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#91 · Quote Reply

At least gamers have a hobby. I know a few people that just don't have anything.

Oh I totally agree! I'm a gamer as well. It can be a deal breaker for some though. That's all.

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ExLisper lemmy.curiana.net ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net
Joined: 2025-03-22
#92 · Quote Reply

what are the lyrics in english?

"In the end, we didn't fuck"

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GraniteM lemmy.world GraniteM@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-11
#93 · Quote Reply

As much as I loved Heath Ledger's Joker on screen, seeing it on anything else is so cringe. I know at least 2 people with Joker tattoos and they are exactly the kind of person you would assume.

I remember going to a convention the year after The Dark Knight came out and there were so many dudes dressed up as Nurse Joker and I can't help but think that many of them were just aching for the opportunity to do a little cross-dressing.

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mushroommunk lemmy.today mushroommunk@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-08-18
#94 · Quote Reply

In a recent Marvel movie arc, he tries to "save" the universe from suffering and conflict and insufficient space/resources by indiscriminately deleting half of all life in the universe with a snap of his fingers using a super powerful artifact.

And in the comic books he tried to do it to get laid. He's really not a role model in any form

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mushroommunk lemmy.today mushroommunk@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-08-18
#95 · Quote Reply

Not my cup of tea, but damn that just seems really judgemental.

Sometimes being judgemental is okay. Calling someone out for idolizing mentally unstable murderers is justified.

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Imgonnatrythis sh.itjust.works Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-09-23
#96 · Quote Reply

Sometimes being judgemental is okay. Calling someone out for idolizing mentally unstable murderers is justified.

Feel like if it was mussolini or Trump this would be the message. It's a cartoon character. Anyway, this thread is starting to feel silly. Thought I was missing the joke, I guess it just isn't resonating.

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DarkCloud lemmy.world DarkCloud@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-05-19
#97 · (edited) Quote Reply

I think this is not about enjoying comic book movies, instead it is about idolizing anti-heroes. If this comic showed a third poster I would expect to see Walter White, not Spiderman. People who look up to anti-heroes tend to rank low in morality, empathy, and trustworthiness. It's a red flag.

You know anti-heros aren't villains... They come on a spectrum. Hans Solo, and Humphrey Boguart in Casa Blanca were also anti-heros.

Nothing wrong with anit-heros.

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Slovene85 sh.itjust.works Slovene85@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-03-14
#98 · Quote Reply

"Fight" and then take all his beer. Simpow as.

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uen3 sh.itjust.works uen3@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-06-14
#99 · Quote Reply

I updated my response to you, but the artist is very notoriously apolitical and really has no message behind their art. Their art basically only exists to sell collectibles and merchandise while appearing trendy. It’s all empty capitalistic garbage.

I didn't recognize it but that's because I forgot I read an article on this guy. Probably because he is forgettable. In fact I think this is at least the third time I'm reading about him and then forgetting he existed. Pop artist 60 years late to the pop art party, seem trying to get Beeple level attention but only willing to put Jeff Koons level effort into it. Annoyingly, with much success.

So now knowing who it is, that's the third strike that sells the comic. He only has one figurine on display, and he probably wants to make an impression, so he thinks this one by a 'cool subversive contemporary artist' makes him look grown-up and a man of culture.

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okwhateverdude lemmy.world okwhateverdude@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-01
#100 · Quote Reply

Before that? Mattress on the floor. One desk and chair for the computer. Didn’t even have a TV. It can be very practical to live like that when you're on your own! I get it haha. The only person I ever brought home ended up marrying me. Damn, maybe you found your alternative career if the current one fails!

Damn, maybe you found your alternative career if the current one fails!

Maybe it is genetic. My uncle did interior design for a living. To be honest, it was both difficult and easy at the same time because I knew what kinda colors I liked but needed to pick a scheme that said "responsible adult you want to fuck". What's hilarious is that my partner and I am not home decorator people. Current home is definitely not something you'd see in a magazine. It was easy to spruce up a little studio apartment, more effort when the space is a lot bigger lol

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DarkCloud lemmy.world DarkCloud@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-05-19
#101 · (edited) Quote Reply

The shows and media you enjoy is who you are. Get anyone's top 100 and you will know a lot more about them than you could with a hour conversation.

I don't think so. I think most people would have difficulty claiming they actually felt particularly warm or particularly liked their 50th on that list.

By that point it would probably just be "shows I don't think are badly made". But also, different shows can mean different things to different people. That's Stuart Hall's encoding, decoding model of media consumption.... and like Anita Saarkesian says: "It's both possible, and even necessary, to simultaneously enjoy media while also being critical of its more problematic or pernicious aspects."

So I think a lot of media theory disagrees with you... and a lot of the time people only "like" media because of the age they were when it was released, or what was going on in their lives when they watched it.

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