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Is everyone in America just constantly crashing out right now, or acting normal by their standards?
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Beesbeesbees lemmy.world Beebabe@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-09
#52 · Quote Reply

I keep it together because a lot of young people are around me. But on the inside I’ve kind of given up on anything good and dread the next fucking crazy thing to come up.

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OldFartPhil lemmy.world OldFartPhil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-20
#53 · (edited) Quote Reply

There is nothing more careless and entitled than not voting because “both sides are bad”. It’s choosing to let millions of other Americans suffer because someone doesn’t meet your purity test. "I'm less angry at the Republicans then I am at the people who think genocide is bad" Just so you understand, you are as evil as the Republicans, and the reason America reached this point is that unspeaka...

I'm sure the people in ICE concentration camps, and the LGBTQ+ population, and people of color, and people who can't afford health insurance, and women, and the Ukranians, and our allies, and people who oppose triggering the battle of Armageddon, and scientists, and environmentalists, and starving Africans are all happy that your conscience is clear.

I do know one group that's genuinely happy, though - the billionaires who funded the Trump campaign and convinced you that the only way to fight evil was not to vote. So good job, chump.

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BrainInABox lemmy.ml BrainInABox@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-12-11
#54 · Quote Reply

I'm sure the people in ICE concentration camps, and the LGBTQ+ population, and people of color, and people who can't afford health insurance, and women, and the Ukranians, and our allies, and people who oppose triggering the battle of Armageddon, and scientists, and environmentalists, and starving Africans are all happy that your conscience is clear. I do know one group that's genuinely happy, ...

Shouldn't have decided that supporting genocide was more important than the election. Also lol at trying to justify it by essentially complaining "But now it's happening to actual humans, not just non-westerners!"

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UltraGiGaGigantic lemmy.ml UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-08-23
#55 · Quote Reply

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Let go of the penny

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UltraGiGaGigantic lemmy.ml UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-08-23
#56 · Quote Reply

Depends on the person. I’m a therapist, tons of my clients are very upset, scared, crying, having trouble sleeping, depressed, feeling powerless and angry, etc. This administration’s actions are taking a huge toll on some people’s mental health. And people who are trans or gay? They are scared and many want to get out but can’t. Having said all that… there are plenty of people who are not bothe...

Traumatize them back

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AlligatorBlizzard sh.itjust.works AlligatorBlizzard@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-13
#57 · Quote Reply

No one is arming This is anecdotal, but I'm basically what passes for being the "gun guy" among my mostly very liberal friends Basically my qualifications are that I went shooting when I was in boy scouts, have a few friends who own guns and have gone shooting with them, and have a lot of outdoorsy hobbies that have overlap with hunters and such (my own attempts at hunting have been with a bow,...

I'm in the Twin Cities, I'm guessing the person you're responding to is in a first or second ring suburb (and I'm not dismissing their experience for that - ICE never left Minnesota, they're just operating in the suburbs now where it's harder to build a response against them so they're seeing some shit right now), but concealed carry permit requests are way up right now in the twin cities proper. People here are buying guns in response to the gestapo. I don't know anyone personally who has purchased a firearm, but I've seen the local news articles about the phenomenon.

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MerryJaneDoe lemmy.world MerryJaneDoe@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-06-19
#58 · (edited) Quote Reply

Look at American history. This really is business as usual, sad as it might be.

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UltraGiGaGigantic lemmy.ml UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-08-23
#59 · (edited) Quote Reply

I'm not normal, no. I can't say I'm doing great. But I'm actually far more stable now than I've ever been. I'm preparing for bad times to help others as best I can. I'm not ready enough. I protest when I can. I try to read older books rather than the latest clickbait. My work actually matters, so I don't feel drained from it. I mostly quit arguing with idiots, online and off. They'll feel the p...

We are all one people

Why am I paying rent all by myself then?

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Helix 🧬 feddit.org helix@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-07-27
#60 · Quote Reply

Delete social media, seriously, it's a cancer that eats your soul. I deleted every social media outside of Lemmy and my mental health drastically improved. I only pick up my phone to message my spouse or friends to make plans. Disconnect from the race, your brain will thank you.

Lemmy is social media.

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NauticalNoodle lemmy.ml NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-03-13
#61 · Quote Reply

People in the U.S used to say. "Finish your dinner , there are kids in Africa/China starving. " Now it's our kids going without food. They used to say "we have to liberate religious fanatic dictatorships of other countries" Now we hope someone liberates us from fanatic fascist dictators. "We are the richest country" Poverty is high and climbing every minute. Children are illiterate. No one can ...

The complaints about sex-trafficking were never real or about sex-trafficking. They were the equivalent of today's internet age gate laws that are popping up all over. It was about control then as it is now.

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NauticalNoodle lemmy.ml NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-03-13
#62 · Quote Reply

Am American/USian/Yankee what does "crashing out" mean?

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Olhonestjim lemmy.world Olhonestjim@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-09-28
#63 · Quote Reply

We are all one people Why am I paying rent all by myself then?

Why are we paying rent at all?

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geneva_convenience lemmy.ml geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-01-25
#64 · (edited) Quote Reply

The oil prices have not hit the average consumer hard yet. They are releasing oil reserves and taking other measures to artificially reduce the price increase. It will probably take a month or two before things really starts to go down. (or up in this case)

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Trainguyrom reddthat.com Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-06-10
#65 · Quote Reply

The oil prices have not hit the average consumer hard yet. They are releasing oil reserves and taking other measures to artificially reduce the price increase. It will probably take a month or two before things really starts to go down. (or up in this case)

Yeah gas prices (about the only commodity that normies interact with) have only gone up by like 30-40 cents per gallon, about the same price they were 6-12 months ago. Normies only wake up once it gets to around $4/gallon or about a full dollar per gallon more than usual.

The last time gas prices went over $4 a gallon I heard many drivers of excessively large gas guzzling SUVs and Trucks complaining that they couldn't fully fill their tanks due to the $100 limit on most gas pumps.

The $4 mark was also when people started actually making choices to drive less (and voicing these choices) and if it was sustained they seemed likely to choose to replace their vehicles with something more efficient

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Trainguyrom reddthat.com Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-06-10
#66 · Quote Reply

Things are bad, and are going to get a lot worse before it's over. I'm self-employed, and 2025 had one of my best starts in 18 years of business. 2026 is one of the worst starts in my history. January can be hit if miss, but February is usually pretty good, and March is always one of my best months. Tomorrow is the last job on my schedule, and I have nothing beyond that until the Fall. I'm talk...

Latest jobs report showed a reduction in total jobs in the economy of 80k. The recession that's been trying to happen for years is finally about to happen.

It's really hilarious because economic indicators were all looking super good going into the 2024 election, and even jobs were starting to show some growth after being a bit slow following the insanity of 2021-22. Trump could simply walked in and went to sleep and the economy would be in brilliant shape right now but instead we have this

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Nojustice lemmy.ml Nojustice@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-07-14
#67 · Quote Reply

People in the U.S used to say. "Finish your dinner , there are kids in Africa/China starving. " Now it's our kids going without food. They used to say "we have to liberate religious fanatic dictatorships of other countries" Now we hope someone liberates us from fanatic fascist dictators. "We are the richest country" Poverty is high and climbing every minute. Children are illiterate. No one can ...

I couldn’t get them to engage much. Now they call me, sobbing. Overwhelmed. It was all real. It was all true. It’s all over for us. We can’t come back from this without a lot more hardship.

I think people still haven’t accepted that last one.

I know exactly one other person in my life who has accepted this and that's mostly cause hes just as, if not more rabidly commie, than me. We both know this is coming and know what that means but I don't think we can know if we were really ready until after it's over.

It feels fucking awful.

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hateisreality lemmy.world hateisreality@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-11
#68 · Quote Reply

Here's American right now

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Modern_medicine_isnt lemmy.world Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-26
#69 · Quote Reply

At this point, many of us are numb to the impending whatever. There is always 6 things happening that shouldn't be happening (that we know about) and that could upend our lives. And usually there is very little we can do besides yell on the internet.

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Whats_your_reasoning lemmy.world Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-22
#70 · Quote Reply

I keep it together because a lot of young people are around me. But on the inside I’ve kind of given up on anything good and dread the next fucking crazy thing to come up.

Same boat. I work with small kids, oblivious to politics, full of hope for the future because that’s how they should feel. I clock in and lose myself in their version of the world for 8 hours a day. It’s no wonder why I’m actually happier at work than at home these days.

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fallaciousBasis lemmy.world fallaciousBasis@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-01-03
#71 · Quote Reply

Traumatize them back

You're a fucking coward.

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sakuraba lemmy.ml sakuraba@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-11-07
#72 · Quote Reply

Lemmy is social media.

From pedantic to pedantic, yeah it is social media but is it not predatory like every commercial social media (meta, tiktok, twitter)

I would dare to say doomscrolling in lemmy is impossible

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Soapbox lemmy.zip Soapbox@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-04
#73 · Quote Reply

The reality is none of this insanity has directly effected me. So day to day life, working, raising kids, etc. is completely normal for me. However, keeping up with news. Feeling empathy for people being effected now, and worrying about when the other shoe is going to drop on me and my family stresses me out. I don't like being stressed out and avoid stress as much as possible, so I find myself just trying to stay distracted with hobbies, video games, etc. Then I feel guilty about distracting myself. If I can't do much about the situation, I should at least inform myself about it. But then there comes the stress again...

So yeah, in a way add me to the crashing out list I guess.

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Beesbeesbees lemmy.world Beebabe@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-09
#74 · Quote Reply

Same boat. I work with small kids, oblivious to politics, full of hope for the future because that’s how they should feel. I clock in and lose myself in their version of the world for 8 hours a day. It’s no wonder why I’m actually happier at work than at home these days.

Glad I’m not alone, but also sad

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ScoffingLizard lemmy.dbzer0.com ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-05-04
#75 · Quote Reply

Delete social media, seriously, it's a cancer that eats your soul. I deleted every social media outside of Lemmy and my mental health drastically improved. I only pick up my phone to message my spouse or friends to make plans. Disconnect from the race, your brain will thank you.

I got off everything other than Lemmy after Trump won. It definitely has helped, but we're not deleting Facebook or deGoogling our way out of world collapse. ...well, at least short term anyway. Most people I know cannot even connect their everyday habits with the consequences they experience.

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Moxie_empathizer lemmy.world Moxie_empathizer@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-04
#76 · Quote Reply

The reality is none of this insanity has directly effected me. So day to day life, working, raising kids, etc. is completely normal for me. However, keeping up with news. Feeling empathy for people being effected now, and worrying about when the other shoe is going to drop on me and my family stresses me out. I don't like being stressed out and avoid stress as much as possible, so I find myself...

This is exactly me. Fired up the Xbox to play my favorite title, unfortunately its the Battlefield series. So there i am clawing at it in an oil field on fire or some middle Eastern city streets thinking about dead school girls and nothing I can do about it.

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A🔻atar of 🔻engeance lemmy.ml tastemyglaive@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-05-10
#77 · Quote Reply

What do you mean by that? The standards of education or mental health in schools? In the U.S., schools are funded by property taxes, so schools in rich areas are fine, although educational standards suck across the nation.

Your personal impressions based on either your consumption of social science papers, rumors, or gathered by hearsay and lived experience.

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MonkeMischief lemmy.today MonkeMischief@lemmy.today
Joined: 2023-10-24
#78 · Quote Reply

From pedantic to pedantic, yeah it is social media but is it not predatory like every commercial social media (meta, tiktok, twitter) I would dare to say doomscrolling in lemmy is impossible

I would dare to say doomscrolling in lemmy is impossible

Could just be my ADHD but I'd like to contest this. Maybe we need to be really careful about the communities we follow, but besides Linux stuff and some other niche group there's a lot of politics on Lemmy, and while there's a lot of insightful discussion there's a high concentration of unhinged doomerism.

I sometimes feel like I'm addicted, not because of the algorithm but because of the feedback loop that I need to know what's going on, and I want to reach out and communicate...

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HulkSmashBurgers reddthat.com HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-07-03
#79 · Quote Reply

The oil prices have not hit the average consumer hard yet. They are releasing oil reserves and taking other measures to artificially reduce the price increase. It will probably take a month or two before things really starts to go down. (or up in this case)

Just in time for the summer travel season!

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partner_boat_slug mander.xyz partner_boat_slug@mander.xyz
Joined: 2025-09-06
#80 · Quote Reply

Maybe the Epstein files changed something... Maybe? But it seems there is always a new thing coming up to distract the masses.

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sakuraba lemmy.ml sakuraba@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-11-07
#81 · Quote Reply

I would dare to say doomscrolling in lemmy is impossible Could just be my ADHD but I'd like to contest this. Maybe we need to be really careful about the communities we follow, but besides Linux stuff and some other niche group there's a lot of politics on Lemmy, and while there's a lot of insightful discussion there's a high concentration of unhinged doomerism. I sometimes feel like I'm addict...

Take everything I will say as informal bullshit but I get it, I have both autism and ADHD and I'm addicted to getting new info on currents events but at this point I'm not sure of I'm just letting myself go into doomerism or things have really gone crazy since COVID and I'm just trying to cope by gathering all the info I can to make informed decisions and discuss recent events

You could say this is a kind of OCD, just me trying to think of an answer to this right now it's taking me into a loop because there is no right answer

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A🔻atar of 🔻engeance lemmy.ml tastemyglaive@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-05-10
#82 · Quote Reply

Maybe the Epstein files changed something... Maybe? But it seems there is always a new thing coming up to distract the masses.

IDK based on all my conversations lately (admittedly my contacts are mostly suburbanites and anarchists on the rim of society) they're pinning that on Israel and Russia and nobody is showing signs of a reckoning with the exposed wires of imperialism

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FastQuack lemmy.ml FastQuack@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-06
#83 · Quote Reply

I feel powerless. Since there's nothing I feel I can do, it's pretty much business as usual.

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