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agamemnonymous sh.itjust.works agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-15
#52 · Quote Reply

slide whistle sounds

Just make sure it's rising pitch, not falling pitch

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z3rOR0ne lemmy.ml z3rOR0ne@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2022-02-22
#53 · Quote Reply

I'd trade in my excellent customer service skill for elite sniper skill. Can't let Luigi have all the fun.

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MerryJaneDoe lemmy.world MerryJaneDoe@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-06-19
#54 · Quote Reply

My skill at driving a car would be transformed into helicopter pilot. I hear they make good money and I can always get a motorcycle or take Uber.

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yeehaw lemmy.ca cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-08-09
#55 · Quote Reply

I'd trade my writing skills for coding skills. I feel like I'd be happier programming than teaching kids how to write.

You had me at "teaching kids".

I'd lose my mind. Happier coding and vibin to music. You know, the OG vibe coding.

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polotype lemmy.ml polotype@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-01-19
#56 · Quote Reply

Hilariously I'm a linguist. I actually have several degrees in the humanities and social sciences plus a masters in IT management but made the potentially questionable decision to jump into an engineering doctorate with no engineering experience. It's been as fun as you might imagine, but I am learning lots and advancing through the program. I wish that my undergrad advisor had let me take calc...

That or two vacant bodyes XD

On a more practical note. If you have some time to spare, i really would advise you (if you've got spare time ofc) to watch videos by 3b1b, the gray cuber, 2swap, lines that connect etc... While you don't come out with a complete mastery of the subject, you do get a really deep intuition which i can't seem to get from teachers. + you get to learn that math is trully FUN rather than jusy interesting ;)

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kittenzrulz123 lemmy.dbzer0.com kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-07-31
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#57 · Quote Reply

I would trade all my skill and knowledge in history and geography for just being able to program in rust

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ms.lane lemmy.world ms_lane@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-06-03
#58 · Quote Reply

I'd trade the ability to pick up my underwear with my foot and toss it into the laundry hamper for invisibility.

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quediuspayu lemmy.dbzer0.com quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-02-06
#59 · (edited) Quote Reply

I would gladly change my math ability, that is small, for some musical ability, that is non existent.

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stoly lemmy.world stoly@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-04
#60 · Quote Reply

That or two vacant bodyes XD On a more practical note. If you have some time to spare, i really would advise you (if you've got spare time ofc) to watch videos by 3b1b, the gray cuber, 2swap, lines that connect etc... While you don't come out with a complete mastery of the subject, you do get a really deep intuition which i can't seem to get from teachers. + you get to learn that math is trully...

I will check those out, thanks.

I have long understood that one of the problems with mathematics (and you see this in chemistry, physics, logic, etc) is that it is assumed that by learning to approach a problem algorithmically, an intuition has been formed. Then the test maker will throw a problem at you that does not follow the algorithm and the student who does not notice the relationship between two things is unable to complete it. This is basically where I am at with my statistics work--some basic probability questions still escape me.

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CanadaPlus lemmy.sdf.org CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-06-12
#61 · (edited) Quote Reply

Eh, car repair is worthless. I can swap engines, build engines, replace head gaskets and alternator's and clutches, but no one cares. That work maybe gets you 50 bucks here and there. House repairs are astronomically more expensive (especially things like dirtwork or drainage or concrete. A medium sized deck is $30,000 today to build. Plus cars now are mostly throwaway and not repairable withou...

Have you actually worked as a mechanic, then? I don't know who else would be pulling out the engine of a modern car.

It's true that you can make a good living as a tradesperson working on houses. A great living, even, if like in my area there's a shortage. I know mechanics and they seem okay, but I think they're all heavy mechanics, so that doesn't necessarily contradict you. One person that does auto bodies, too, which again, isn't different.

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polotype lemmy.ml polotype@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-01-19
#62 · Quote Reply

I will check those out, thanks. I have long understood that one of the problems with mathematics (and you see this in chemistry, physics, logic, etc) is that it is assumed that by learning to approach a problem algorithmically, an intuition has been formed. Then the test maker will throw a problem at you that does not follow the algorithm and the student who does not notice the relationship bet...

I totally get this, it's so frustrating when you know there is a geometric, aproachable and intuitive way to get at the subject and your proffessor just throws formulas at his students •π•

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stoly lemmy.world stoly@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-04
#63 · (edited) Quote Reply

I totally get this, it's so frustrating when you know there is a geometric, aproachable and intuitive way to get at the subject and your proffessor just throws formulas at his students •π•

I just finished a course called Statistical Process Control. In brief, create two normal distributions and hope that the means of your customer specification and your manufacturing tolerances match up. If they don't fix it.

I put together a study guide of just equations. No information on how to use them or interpret their results, just the equations and it came to 14 pages. This professor provided an equation sheet for the final exam that listed 2 of them, suggesting that we should be able to derive the remainder. This seemed like a big ask and requiring additional cognitive load when not necessary, but, apparently, I am the exception in this course because I scored below the fourth quartile (66%) with a median of 82%. Guess the others could, indeed, do the derivations...

Fortunately my homework, course project, and course paper are much better and helped raise final grade. I found it frustrating because I believe that he is teaching towards those who need a guide rather than those who need to learn.

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polotype lemmy.ml polotype@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-01-19
#64 · Quote Reply

I just finished a course called Statistical Process Control. In brief, create two normal distributions and hope that the means of your customer specification and your manufacturing tolerances match up. If they don't fix it. I put together a study guide of just equations. No information on how to use them or interpret their results, just the equations and it came to 14 pages. This professor prov...

Good luck with that. It must be difficult in a field where everybody's got a head start on you. But i believe you can do it [insert never give up japanese man here] as you get more comfortable, pathways should start to form in your mind which will truly help to cut down on the cognitive load of memoryzing all the different variations of formulas ;)

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stoly lemmy.world stoly@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-04
#65 · Quote Reply

Good luck with that. It must be difficult in a field where everybody's got a head start on you. But i believe you can do it [insert never give up japanese man here] as you get more comfortable, pathways should start to form in your mind which will truly help to cut down on the cognitive load of memoryzing all the different variations of formulas ;)

Thanks, I appreciate the support.

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-16
#66 · Quote Reply

So many folks here just mentioning things that with time and effort they could just straight-up learn.

Music isn't magic, Art isn't something you're born with

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-16
#67 · Quote Reply

I would gladly change my math ability, that is small, for some musical ability, that is non existent.

Music isn't magic, it's not an innate talent, but rather a skill.

And like every skill, with time and practice and research, anyone could learn it.

Just not everyone's got the time.

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rawn feddit.org rawn@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-07-19
#68 · Quote Reply

Trading my "people always want to tell me what went wrong in their life"-superpower for excellent executive function. Pretty please.

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Mirror Giraffe piefed.social MirrorGiraffe@piefed.social
Joined: 2024-07-18
#69 · Quote Reply

I'm at a point in life where money isn't the issue. The bottlenecks are always time and energy. Someday I'll have time to focus on music (and skiing, and backpacking, and drawing, and ...).

I'm a software engineer and picked up the ukulele because on of my kid was gifted one. When I feel tired or burnt I sit down and play a few songs and it actually gives me energy. I did play a bit of guitar in school so that helped me get going I guess.

I now have three ukuleles and a mini bass.

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PlutoniumAcid lemmy.world PlutoniumAcid@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#70 · Quote Reply

So many folks here just mentioning things that with time and effort they could just straight-up learn. Music isn't magic, Art isn't something you're born with

Respectfully disagree with you.

I've been taking music lessons for years, to find that I don't have the ear nor the rhythm for it.

Ten years of dance classes, I love the feeling of floating over the floor with an English Waltz. But ask me to stop counting in my head, or improvise rather than trained patterns, and I fall apart, just rocking in place.

Painting too. Aquarels, not acrylic. I don't have the imagination nor, again, the fine motor skills.

The Arts are not for me.

I am a man of electronics, mechanics, computing, soldering, Lego, woodworking, sailing, geometry, 3d modeling. And I can teach and plan and organise.

It's all practical, tangible stuff. That is who I am.

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chris l.roofo.cc chris@l.roofo.cc
Joined: 2023-06-14
#71 · Quote Reply

Respectfully disagree with you. I've been taking music lessons for years, to find that I don't have the ear nor the rhythm for it. Ten years of dance classes, I love the feeling of floating over the floor with an English Waltz. But ask me to stop counting in my head, or improvise rather than trained patterns, and I fall apart, just rocking in place. Painting too. Aquarels, not acrylic. I don't ...

I feel you. When trying to paint I want to make an exact copy of reality because I can't imagine what is the essential thing to make something recognizable as it. I can't imagine it well enough in my head.

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Test_Tickles lemmy.world Test_Tickles@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-04
#72 · Quote Reply

I'd trade my writing skills for coding skills. I feel like I'd be happier programming than teaching kids how to write.

Don't want, both jobs are being decimated by AI, so you should have plenty of time to learn whatever you want real soon.

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-16
#73 · Quote Reply

Respectfully disagree with you. I've been taking music lessons for years, to find that I don't have the ear nor the rhythm for it. Ten years of dance classes, I love the feeling of floating over the floor with an English Waltz. But ask me to stop counting in my head, or improvise rather than trained patterns, and I fall apart, just rocking in place. Painting too. Aquarels, not acrylic. I don't ...

Sounds like you've just not found the right way to learn that works for you, tbh

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-16
#74 · Quote Reply

Respectfully disagree with you. I've been taking music lessons for years, to find that I don't have the ear nor the rhythm for it. Ten years of dance classes, I love the feeling of floating over the floor with an English Waltz. But ask me to stop counting in my head, or improvise rather than trained patterns, and I fall apart, just rocking in place. Painting too. Aquarels, not acrylic. I don't ...

Try taking some theory lessons, it helps with things immensely by giving a stronger foundation

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El_guapazo lemmy.world El_guapazo@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-04
#75 · Quote Reply

Useful doesn't mean you'll enjoy it. I have the math skills but no musical skills. I wish I could sit on my patio and strum a guitar.

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CookieOfFortune lemmy.world CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#76 · Quote Reply

Sounds like you've just not found the right way to learn that works for you, tbh

Eh you can’t ignore the effect talent has on skill development. Their brain can literally be wired in a way that something like rhythm can be difficult to master whereas someone else can pick it up easily. Some of these things you’re just born with and can never change.

The same applies to high level math and art

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CookieOfFortune lemmy.world CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#77 · Quote Reply

I feel you. When trying to paint I want to make an exact copy of reality because I can't imagine what is the essential thing to make something recognizable as it. I can't imagine it well enough in my head.

Have you read Drawing with the Right Side of the Brain? Could help you think about art differently.

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jtzl lemmy.zip jtzl@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-12-31
#78 · Quote Reply

I'd keep music skills, OP. The world has enough calculators.

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-16
#79 · Quote Reply

Eh you can’t ignore the effect talent has on skill development. Their brain can literally be wired in a way that something like rhythm can be difficult to master whereas someone else can pick it up easily. Some of these things you’re just born with and can never change. The same applies to high level math and art

It's at most a headstart

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CookieOfFortune lemmy.world CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#80 · Quote Reply

It's at most a headstart

It’s more of a multiplier. Regardless of practice someone without talent will never catch a talented and dedicated person.

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-16
#81 · Quote Reply

It’s more of a multiplier. Regardless of practice someone without talent will never catch a talented and dedicated person.

Huh, I guess that explains all those bands of musicians where none of them had any talent and then went on to have zero success, such as AC/DC, Slayer and Metallica

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CookieOfFortune lemmy.world CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#82 · Quote Reply

Huh, I guess that explains all those bands of musicians where none of them had any talent and then went on to have zero success, such as AC/DC, Slayer and Metallica

Mainstream musical success is not a metric of musical skill. However if you look at any violin soloist, they have to be talented.

Also I’d also argue many of those band members do have talent.

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-16
#83 · Quote Reply

Mainstream musical success is not a metric of musical skill. However if you look at any violin soloist, they have to be talented. Also I’d also argue many of those band members do have talent.

Nah, Metallica are talentless hacks, they're famous for it

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CookieOfFortune lemmy.world CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#84 · Quote Reply

Nah, Metallica are talentless hacks, they're famous for it

I see you didn’t refute my primary argument.

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bridgeenjoyer sh.itjust.works bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-06
#85 · Quote Reply

I'd keep music skills, OP. The world has enough calculators.

The calculators do music now though, and no one cares :(

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-16
#86 · (edited) Quote Reply

I see you didn’t refute my primary argument.

I just don't think it's true tbh, and you're selling yourself short

I have no evidence and don't care enough to find any either

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harrison_fnord reddthat.com harrison_fnord@reddthat.com
Joined: 2026-01-06
#87 · Quote Reply

Na i am good. I might be just a bartender, but I gave so much to become one of the best in my trade. Giving away that would mean giving away part of myself. I paid a high price to get where I am now and I am good damn proud of myself.

But if I had to I would want to git gud. Always wanted to be able to beat Dark Souls with ease.

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Taldan lemmy.world Taldan@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-12-31
#88 · Quote Reply

Sounds like you've just not found the right way to learn that works for you, tbh

I'm in the same boat as him. I have zero talent or understanding if music and art

Math comes very easily and naturally to me. Even advanced calculus felt east to learn

I couldn't sing a single song from memory. Not in a, "I'm bad at singing" way. Literally I don't remember a single song. I have memorized songs before, but it's quick to forget them, because it's just that to me - memorization

With practice and effort I can memorize songs and generally replicate patterns to make music, but that's it. It isn't really learning music

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gwl [he/him] lemmy.blahaj.zone gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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#89 · (edited) Quote Reply

I'm in the same boat as him. I have zero talent or understanding if music and art Math comes very easily and naturally to me. Even advanced calculus felt east to learn I couldn't sing a single song from memory. Not in a, "I'm bad at singing" way. Literally I don't remember a single song. I have memorized songs before, but it's quick to forget them, because it's just that to me - memorization Wi...

It literally is.

That's all learning music is, remembering more and more patterns, and then fucking around to see if you can combine them in interesting ways.

You all sound like you've just started, hit a chest-high wall and then went "this must be all there is! Woe is me!" instead of just climbing over the wall

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stoly lemmy.world stoly@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-04
#90 · Quote Reply

Good luck with that. It must be difficult in a field where everybody's got a head start on you. But i believe you can do it [insert never give up japanese man here] as you get more comfortable, pathways should start to form in your mind which will truly help to cut down on the cognitive load of memoryzing all the different variations of formulas ;)

3b1b, the gray cuber, 2swap, lines that connect etc…

I just went and subscribed to these channels. Their videos will pop up in my feed over time.

I have spent the last few months watching Mind Your Decisions and AndyMath. I can follow what they are doing but do not feel that I could always/necessarily reproduce what they do if given a novel problem. I am hopeful that continuing to go through these will help me build up a solid repertoire of thinking skills.

If you have other channel suggestions, please share!

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polotype lemmy.ml polotype@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-01-19
#91 · (edited) Quote Reply

3b1b, the gray cuber, 2swap, lines that connect etc… I just went and subscribed to these channels. Their videos will pop up in my feed over time. I have spent the last few months watching Mind Your Decisions and AndyMath. I can follow what they are doing but do not feel that I could always/necessarily reproduce what they do if given a novel problem. I am hopeful that continuing to go through th...

I'll look up the rest once i'm on wifi

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polotype lemmy.ml polotype@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-01-19
#92 · Quote Reply

3b1b, the gray cuber, 2swap, lines that connect etc… I just went and subscribed to these channels. Their videos will pop up in my feed over time. I have spent the last few months watching Mind Your Decisions and AndyMath. I can follow what they are doing but do not feel that I could always/necessarily reproduce what they do if given a novel problem. I am hopeful that continuing to go through th...

Found a few others you might want to look into :
-stand up math. The videos are a bit more shallow in and of themselves, but they do touch on some quite obscure and deep math subjects.
-numberphile. Great one offs, a bit less entertaining... Took me some time to get into it but there's a huge backlog

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stoly lemmy.world stoly@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-04
#93 · Quote Reply

Found a few others you might want to look into : -stand up math. The videos are a bit more shallow in and of themselves, but they do touch on some quite obscure and deep math subjects. -numberphile. Great one offs, a bit less entertaining... Took me some time to get into it but there's a huge backlog

I was just thinking about you. Thanks so much for coming back here for this. I’ll check these out.

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polotype lemmy.ml polotype@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-01-19
#94 · Quote Reply

I was just thinking about you. Thanks so much for coming back here for this. I’ll check these out.

Oh and, there also zye. Almost forgot... He's very new but very fun and intersting to watch.

Have fun conquering math

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stoly lemmy.world stoly@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-04
#95 · Quote Reply

Oh and, there also zye. Almost forgot... He's very new but very fun and intersting to watch. Have fun conquering math

In a bizarre way, I can feel myself developing statistical intuitions. I’m becoming more confident but not necessarily competent haha.

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polotype lemmy.ml polotype@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-01-19
#96 · (edited) Quote Reply

In a bizarre way, I can feel myself developing statistical intuitions. I’m becoming more confident but not necessarily competent haha.

Either way you are doing good ദ്ദി√(^^^ᗜ^^^ ),>

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stoly lemmy.world stoly@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-04
#97 · Quote Reply

Either way you are doing good ദ്ദി√(^^^ᗜ^^^ ),>

❤️

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