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How do I deal with having a wingman friend who is more attractive than me?
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eifachposte Bot eifachposte@lemmy.durstig.online
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Hello, recently I've been trying to cold approach girls in public. I had success on dating apps but I feel like they're too much effort. My friend suggests that he wants to be my wingman and that we approach two girls at the same time. The problem is, he's 6 foot and well built while I'm a modest 5'8 guy. As much as I am better at social and flirting than him, female nature is just female nature and I fear that both girls will ultimately be more attracted to him due to the disbalance between us (a psychological factor). I'd like to approach girls solo so there wouldn't be a comparison object. How do I tell this to my friend and is whatever I'm saying plausible? Do you guys have experience with that?
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charokol lemmy.world charokol@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-04-17
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“Female nature is just female nature”. Oof

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OldChicoAle lemmy.world OldChicoAle@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-26
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“Female nature is just female nature”. Oof

Yeah red flag. They are women. Not another species.

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YoureHotCupCake lemmy.world YoureHotCupCake@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-01-27
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The issue isn't that your friend is more attractive, the issue is clearly you and that you don't know how to treat a women right. All I know about you is one paragraph and the red flags I saw were enough to understand to stay away from you, face to face and its probably much worse.

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