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"Things could be worser" isn't enough reason to justify continued suffering at the current level. Take as much/little action as you can at the moment to help yourself no matter how bad it feels.
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ItsMeForRealNow 3
Sat Sep 19, 2026 8:18 pm
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Allow yourself to be honest about your mistakes. If people respect that and allow you to make up for it, you know you're in the right place. If not, find a safer place to be wrong and get help.
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ItsMeForRealNow 5
Sat Aug 1, 2026 8:09 am
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Today I was going into a therapy session. I told you I have a meeting and I'll be back. You told me to "take this with you ok? It'll be ok" and handed me a toy of yours. Thank you so much.
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ItsMeForRealNow 7
Mon Jun 15, 2026 7:07 am
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All feelings are valid. Some may not be warranted. Behaviors may not be justified. But trust feelings as a signal and find out what it tells you deeply.
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ItsMeForRealNow 4
Mon Jun 8, 2026 5:49 am
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Today I told you ice was made of water, and you did not like that one bit and got mad at me lol
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ItsMeForRealNow 4
Thu Apr 9, 2026 5:46 am
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Putting you to sleep was a pain in the butt! You had too much energy every day after a lot of playing too. I hope I do the same to you if you look after me one day.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Nov 23, 2025 12:55 am
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All feelings matter. They tell us something. Observe and take time to acknowledge, process and respond to the feeling in a way that doesn't cause harm to anyone.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Nov 9, 2025 3:35 pm
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If they talk to you about someone else badly, they can do the same about you with someone else.
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ItsMeForRealNow 2
Tue Jul 30, 2024 4:32 am
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The school system and society promote exercise rarely. Work out. Lift weights. Do cardio. Stretch. This is 60% for the mind and 40% for the body. You'll love it. I promise.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Jul 28, 2024 2:13 am
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When online on shady websites, hide IP, don't use real name, don't use real details, don't ever click on links directly, even if you fully trust them. Internet never forgets and can get slippery fast.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Mar 24, 2024 2:39 am
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When becoming sexually active when young - your first can form your kinks and expectations. I had those problems. It's best with some1 respects your privacy, self, and worth.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Mar 24, 2024 2:36 am
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Sometimes what money can't buy can actually be very valuable yet free. Dont take it for granted.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Mar 24, 2024 2:27 am
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If you live with roommates, and if you ever hear buzzing like a trimmer etc in shower, and when they come out they aren't shaved or trimmed, don't ask/tell them anything about what you heard.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Mar 24, 2024 2:24 am
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Beauty is very subjective and depends on context. If you don't see it in something at a given moment, maybe it needs a different context.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Mar 3, 2024 7:56 am
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Intelligence has many forms. Only some are measured in school. Some out in the world. Some at home. Some by ourselves.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sun Mar 3, 2024 7:45 am
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Everybody has a right to win. When you don't, it was just someone else's turn. Learn from them and be happy for them especially if they are a friend. There's plenty of room and time for your turn.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Thu Feb 29, 2024 8:02 am
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I've come to believe that karma is less about positives and negatives and more about the universe forcing us to learn anything we refuse to understand
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Thu Feb 29, 2024 7:58 am
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taking care of you when you were a newborn was EXHAUSTING! yet satisfying and lovely. You were wanted way before we knew we were going to have you. We love you so much!
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sat Nov 11, 2023 10:24 pm
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Always try to understand other's situation. But also make sure youre not putting yourself in danger or suppressing your own emotions for trivial reasons..
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Sat Oct 28, 2023 7:51 am
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Even if one didn't cause a damage intentionally, they must try to help fix it intentionally. But everyone involved must make sure that the blame is not placed on them wrongfully.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Tue Oct 24, 2023 8:09 am
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spend time with people dven if they seem awkward or rude at first. Even if it doesn't change your opinion, it at least humanizes them to you. we are not experts at judging character in an instant.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Fri Oct 20, 2023 9:08 am
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When youre overwhelmed with tasks, scale down. Set aside anything that seems pressuring unless it is medically or legally important. Even things from work or school. Ease yourself, then pick up slow.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Tue Oct 17, 2023 10:03 pm
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When angry, listen to calmer people. Try to go in the opposite direction of anger. Do not alienate anyone who is trying to deescalate. Opposing views are ok. Goal is to calm down and take action.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Fri Oct 6, 2023 6:37 am
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Gender inequality (bad) has existed for so long that we may not recognize when it is taking place. Be on the lookout for it no matter what gender you end up being, and stand up for what is right.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Tue Oct 3, 2023 6:22 am
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Figure out what work is required the most in society and is fairly valued - position yourself to be able to do that work as a fallback job at least.
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ItsMeForRealNow 1
Tue Oct 3, 2023 3:21 am
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