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davidgro lemmy.world davidgro@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#152 · Quote Reply

In some people it causes the body to releases enough internal happy drugs that it is worth the discomfort.

I've never understood that either - Is it different from say stubbing a toe or biting a tongue? (Not hard enough to do permanent damage) Those should release endorphins also, right?

It seems to me like people rarely hurt themselves on purpose except food and sex stuff, and the sex stuff appears to be uncommon.

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Ryanmiller70 lemmy.zip Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-08-04
#153 · Quote Reply

Anything outdoors. Like I go on walks for exercise cause I don't like the gym, but if I wasn't trying to lose weight I wouldn't bother. Anytime I talk to someone and they wanna talk about nature, wild animals, plants, or outdoor sports (honestly sports in general can be added here) I just tune out.

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AA5B lemmy.world AA5B@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-09
#154 · (edited) Quote Reply

You seem to think that stack overflow conatins all the answers to everything. The AI can search and look through the web faster than any human on the planet, yes that includes stack overflow, but also forums and other open websites, anything that can be indexed basically. Often times when you have an issue, it's very rare that you are the first one to have it, so I'd say all the info you need t...

Stack overflow still had an amazing percentage of answers to tech question but of course it’s not the only source.

Realistically I used to use a search engine for answers and it was pretty good about discovering relevant answers. Usually I clicked a handful off links from the first page of results, evaluated them, and selected the answer

Now the search engine returns an ai summary of the top results. It’s a bit slower but sometimes I can just use that. Other times I may need to click into sources for more information or to evaluate what it’s telling me. The big difference is who does the first evaluation/summary. Originally the ai was slower and less accurate but it rapidly improved

But here’s the problem. The older approach meant I clicked into the source. If they relied on ads or tracking, they received their income to support themselves. If it’s a gamified community source, responders got their karma. It was sustainable. Now with the ai, no one visits the original site and no one has incentive to contribute more answers. The ai is rapidly improving at the cost of its own sources

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Horsey lemmy.world Horsey@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-21
#155 · (edited) Quote Reply

-American health insurance

-High level maths

-American taxes

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davidgro lemmy.world davidgro@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#156 · Quote Reply

Why do you season things you cook? It’s delicious.

I don't use seasonings that hurt. And literally can't imagine a flavor so good it would be worth that.

Everything I've had with even the slightest amount of capsaicin is something I thought would be much better without it. In extreme cases I can't even taste the normal flavors the food would have because the pain is a stronger sensation.

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davidgro lemmy.world davidgro@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#157 · Quote Reply

it's not painful to people who have a natural tolerance to it

I guess if that's really a genetic thing and not learned then it makes sense, but that isn't the impression I've gotten.

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rustydomino lemmy.world rustydomino@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-10
#158 · Quote Reply

I've never understood that either - Is it different from say stubbing a toe or biting a tongue? (Not hard enough to do permanent damage) Those should release endorphins also, right? It seems to me like people rarely hurt themselves on purpose except food and sex stuff, and the sex stuff appears to be uncommon.

I agree that flaming asshole level of heat is silly. But capsaicin activates heat receptors - people with less tolerance perceive it as pain but for those of us that can tolerate it, it’s more heat coupled with maybe just a little pain. Heat (or the perception of heat) can act as a flavor enhancer.

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shawn1122 sh.itjust.works shawn1122@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-30
#159 · Quote Reply

Religion. Even when I've taken the time to look up the difference is between a Catholic and a Christian, or a Shia and a Sunni, it seems like within minutes at most, that knowledge just sublimates.

Usually how those divisions occurred is much more interesting.

I'm fascinated that certain ideas have persisted over millennia and curious what it is about them that has captured minds so consistently. Religion, but more broadly spirituality, seems to have a constant presence throughout human conciousness and that is quite remarkable.

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FooBarrington lemmy.world FooBarrington@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-17
#160 · Quote Reply

I think so. She has an oculus 2 and she is trying to connect wirelessly to Steam VR. I haven't really tried myself for a couple of years. It used to work fine on windows, at least wired. Wireless never worked that well for me. I never got it to work in Linux but I haven't tried in a couple of years and I assume it's gotten better since then. I'd say here we go making os a hobby, but it took som...

Ah, I haven't used wireless VR yet, so I can't comment on that. Planning to wait for the Steam Frame, I'm sure Valve will make it work well enough. There is a project called ALVR that I keep reading about in the context of wireless VR on Linux, might be something to look at if you wanna dig deeper.

I'd argue that my setup allows you to not treat the OS as a hobby, but your mileage may vary :) I'm using an atomic Fedora variant (specifically Aurora, which is focused on developers - but there's also e.g. Silverblue (Gnome) or Kinoite (KDE) as normal day-to-day versions, and Bazzite which focuses on gaming). Steam is running through Flatpak, and everything else - SteamVR & the games themselves - honestly just worked for me. Sometimes SteamVR shows an error after starting, in that case I have to quit, unplug my headset for a few seconds, plug it back in & start SteamVR again, but other than that it's been a fairly painless experience.

I should mention that I use a Valve Index, but as long as you're using SteamVR, things should work the same.

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#161 · Quote Reply

Spicy food. I can't comprehend how individuals or entire cultures choose to just deal with the pain until they build a tolerance. Sure it probably made sense when the choice was to starve or to eat something that hurts (even a little), but as soon as non-painful food was available, why continue with the kind containing "Don't eat me!" chemicals?

I'm with you. And I don't mind some spice from time to time. In fact, I'll shill some Dirty Dicks here, absolutely the best hot sauce there is - because it has good flavor, which so much spice seems to forget. I'll eat with folks who are like "Tapatio on everything!" and I just wonder if they actually like the food they're eating, or just know that they can tolerate the spice, so anything carrying the spice is palatable.

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fuckwit_mcbumcrumble lemmy.dbzer0.com fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2024-03-20
#162 · Quote Reply

I don't use seasonings that hurt. And literally can't imagine a flavor so good it would be worth that. Everything I've had with even the slightest amount of capsaicin is something I thought would be much better without it. In extreme cases I can't even taste the normal flavors the food would have because the pain is a stronger sensation.

Even a mild Jalepeno?

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#163 · (edited) Quote Reply

Same reason people like watching TV dramas. It's escapism. They get to vicariously live someone else's more colourful life - or are glad they're not living the celebrity's real or acted horrible life - for a short while to get away from their own. And anyone on a screen is usually better-looking as well, which is a big draw.

This is a really fair way to put it. I can't understand it personally, but I read fantasy books to escape the real world, and I tell anyone I can that I read fiction only because I live in the real world and I've had enough of its shit. So appreciate your shedding some light on it, because I certainly didn't understand it (celebrity nonsense). Still don't, but maybe I will soon.

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#164 · Quote Reply

I’m the same way. Put on a movie and I’m asleep before the first scene is done. I’m a tinkerer, need something to do with my hands and keep my mind occupied or I lose all interest. Video games often fill that but don’t feel useful in any way. They aren’t even a distraction from my real life, they’re just something to do I guess. Which isn’t what I like to do I guess

For me, video games have always been about "accomplishment," which is why I don't think I was ever into the battle royales and that ilk. Do it, win game, repeat. I liked games that you built up to stuff, longer, more difficult levels, that sort of thing. I also enjoyed racing cars in Forza, but that was almost a workout, squeezing the controller, it would get my heart racing. Platformers like Celeste did the same.

I used to enjoy sitting down and playing some shoot em ups with my buddies, but it was more social hour than the game.

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#165 · Quote Reply

Its that reason why I say everyone is a nerd about something. Yah, you may be talking to the former school jock/football star who was barely handed their diploma, but ask them about their sport/the industries around it. You will likely get a better lesson on statistics and managment that you can get out of most text books. (Assuming you can keep the conversation focused) People usually like tal...

Yeah, there's nothing wrong with being into football, just like there's nothing wrong with not being into it. If you're an asshole about either of those things, that's a problem.

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#166 · Quote Reply

My favorite thing about Christianity is how all the different sects pretend that every other sect isn't actually Christian

Amen brother.

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#167 · Quote Reply

The Dutch make a distinction between Catholic and Christian.

I'm from New Jersey and we all make a very big distinction between Catholicism and Christian. And lots of us were raised Catholic around here, and Christians all seem to be late-in-life converts, at least where I'm from. And I'm a typical nothinger now, but I'd take Catholicism and it's bullshit (not kid touching) over what I've experienced with the Christians around here, never met a faker bunch of people.

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snooggums piefed.world snooggums@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-07-08
#168 · Quote Reply

Some aspects of streamer culture I get, I do not understand vtuber culture. Youtube started recommending one to me because apparently played a video game I like and watch videos about, and...as far as I can tell her job is to be professionally sexually harassed. Like, men used to whistle at showgirls in saloons, now they throw virtual acorns at anime girls to "nut on" them. Fun part is her mom ...

now they throw virtual acorns at anime girls to “nut on” them

I almost feel bad for laughing at this.

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#169 · Quote Reply

You've just described 95% of lemmy

Sup, I'm only here to get mad.

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snooggums piefed.world snooggums@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-07-08
#170 · Quote Reply

Streamer culture and Vtuber culture.

I have no idea what the difference between those labels are.

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#171 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Yeah, I just have a tough time believing you guys, from my limited experience with Linux, but also from many others here who seem to be Linux users, but can appreciate why others don't use it. Folks talking about updates bricking peripherals and whatnot. It's something that has literally never happened to me in the last 30+ years I've been Windowsing.

If Linux users could stop being so hyperbolic in their superiority, it might entice me to try it out. Windows isn't some unusable shit and everyone knows it. It's had its issues since day one. And to suggest Linux is just this set it and forget it OS is preposterous. Let's all be real.

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Random Dent lemmy.ml CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-01
#172 · Quote Reply

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And a good skidibi toilet to you, sir

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#173 · Quote Reply

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Preach. Any thread remotely about operating systems turning into a "Fuck windows" Linux cicrclejerk is just annoying as fuck. I'm almost refusing to use Linux just to spite Lemmy.

And I'm well aware I'm a spiteful person, it's how I've survived 38 years, and I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing, it's worked out just fine!

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snooggums piefed.world snooggums@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-07-08
#174 · Quote Reply

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Ugh, yes everything seems to be a four door and way too tall.

I wish El Camino type low cars with beds made a comeback.

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Random Dent lemmy.ml CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-01
#175 · Quote Reply

NFTs. I'm too old for that nonsense

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Dozzi92 lemmy.world Dozzi92@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#176 · Quote Reply

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It's funny ain't it? I know those older Gen Xers said the same shit about me and my generation, and here I am. I try to remind myself that. But sometimes the stupidity of these kids exceeds my abilities.

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davidgro lemmy.world davidgro@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#177 · Quote Reply

Even a mild Jalepeno?

Especially those.

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Thaurin lemmy.world Thaurin@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-21
#178 · (edited) Quote Reply

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Sure, whatever. I’m just saying it’s a very broad cultural Japanese thing, and not just “hundreds of soap opera” episodes, or Naruto or whatever, I don’t even know myself. A lot of variety is what I’m saying.

It’s actually pretty interesting. I guess “the west” is kinda prejudiced about what anime really is.

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AceFuzzLord lemmy.zip AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-19
#179 · Quote Reply

Short form content that isn't a to the point tutorial.

Hell, on that note, tutorial videos where the person rambles on and on and on before finally showing you what to do. I came for a tutorial on how to do something and not a blog!

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Grail multiverse.soulism.net Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-01-14
#180 · Quote Reply

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Now I'm on Arch, where learning is fun

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AceFuzzLord lemmy.zip AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-19
#181 · Quote Reply

I have no idea what the difference between those labels are.

I was gonna make a comment about the differences before I realized I couldn't tell you the difference between them outside of how they choose to represent themselves.

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I Cast Fist programming.dev ICastFist@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-22
#182 · Quote Reply

Celebrities, French language

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I Cast Fist programming.dev ICastFist@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-22
#183 · Quote Reply

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Entertainment is a "social lubricant", so it's not entirely useless. A live show, a party, a sports game or a theater play are great for bringing people together and give them something common to talk about.

The problem is that a lot of the electronic entertainment (games, movies, series, internet) in the past 30 or so years has become fully individual.

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Ecco the dolphin lemmy.ml echolalia@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-05-13
#184 · Quote Reply

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Oh. I misunderstood. "Learn to swim" didn't read as a survival thing to me, I assumed it meant "swim quickly for sport" not "avoid drowning". I took it for granted not everyone knows how to do this.

The down votes are still funny.

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I Cast Fist programming.dev ICastFist@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-22
#185 · Quote Reply

I have no idea what the difference between those labels are.

Vtubers are people pretending to be anime girls

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CMLVI lemmy.world CMLVI@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-04-29
#186 · Quote Reply

Sure, whatever. I’m just saying it’s a very broad cultural Japanese thing, and not just “hundreds of soap opera” episodes, or Naruto or whatever, I don’t even know myself. A lot of variety is what I’m saying. It’s actually pretty interesting. I guess “the west” is kinda prejudiced about what anime really is.

No, I agree, and I'm not saying I dislike it for a good reason or even a vastly informed reason; I've watched a few, and they felt varied in content and style and tone (at least to me). I'm just saying sometimes it's as simple as "just don't like it". I don't like eggplant either; had it prepared a few different ways. I don't think it's that I just haven't found that magical preparation or mix of seasonings or whatever; just not a fan.

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sploder lemmy.world sploder@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-06-22
#187 · Quote Reply

The kardashian universe. I’ve never seen an ep, don’t know their names or whatever the fuck they do or say. As a 30 year old woman I feel like a unicorn not knowing shit about fuck when it comes to that whole thing.

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raldone01 lemmy.world raldone01@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-09-08
#188 · (edited) Quote Reply

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When I was a child I played and really enjoyed AAA open world games with loads of collectibles like ACBF or Just cause 3.

Nowadays I enjoy rogue likes, story games and visual novels much more. It is less of a time sink and sometimes I really feel like I got value from it. Like insights into myself or reevaluating some beliefs.

Here are some story games I particularly enjoyed:

  • Citizen Sleeper
  • Epistory
  • DDLC
  • Novi News
  • Oxenfree
  • The wolf among us
  • Frostpunk: Last Autumn>New Home>Fall of winterhome>Refugees>Arks
  • Road 96
  • Yes your grace

Rogue likes I enjoy:

  • FTL
  • Into the breach
  • Hyperlight Drifter
  • The king is watching
  • Shattered Pixel Dungeon
  • Out there. Omega edition.
  • Banners of ruin.
  • Inscription (particularly part 1)

Great puzzle games:

  • Talos Principle 1
  • Portal 2
  • Superliminal
  • Stanley Parable

Playing/Planned:

  • Chants of sennar
  • Outer Wilds
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Sludge sh.itjust.works Sludge@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-10-20
#189 · Quote Reply

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FLCL has like 6 episodes and is a good entry point

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Martineski lemmy.dbzer0.com Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-09-07
#190 · Quote Reply

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I straight up quit lemmy for almost a year due to people pushing stuff so hard where even unrelated communities weren't safe from anything and no one would care because c/all would act as one feed anyway. It really does feel like people want to be outraged for the sake of outraging rather than wanting to change something for the better while doing it at the cost of undermining what they wish to "protect".

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RagingRobot lemmy.world RagingRobot@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#191 · Quote Reply

Sports

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creed10 lemmy.world creed10@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-20
#192 · Quote Reply

I guess if that's really a genetic thing and not learned then it makes sense, but that isn't the impression I've gotten.

I've definitely met people who physically cannot tolerate spicy food, but then I'll go and eat the exact same thing and think it's quite pleasant.

obviously I'm not calling you a liar, but I've definitely seen it happen

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snooggums piefed.world snooggums@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-07-08
#193 · (edited) Quote Reply

Vtubers are people pretending to be anime girls

Vagina tubers?

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Redacted lemmy.zip Redacted@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-01-14
#194 · Quote Reply

Chess theory. If i wanted to play against someone that knew all the best moves id play a chess robot

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Treczoks lemmy.world Treczoks@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-09
#195 · Quote Reply

Cars. I drive them, but I leave the technology to the professionals.

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6stringringer lemmy.zip 6stringringer@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-07-11
#196 · Quote Reply

Hobby Horsing. It really is a thing and it’s not something freaky deaky strange. It’s just kinda cringy & well why not ditch the pretend horse thing and just parkour? That there is another thing that I don’t care about.
I do enjoy the outtakes of parkour mishaps.
On second thought, if a highlight reel of Hobby Horsing accidents exists, I’d absolutely watch.
It could really be quite entertaining.

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chris l.roofo.cc chris@l.roofo.cc
Joined: 2023-06-14
#197 · Quote Reply

Celebrities, French language

French was my only choice for a second foreign language in school and I hated it. Such a weird language. They need a writing reform. Bordeaux is just comically bad. English could use a writing reform as well.

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BryyM lemmy.world BryyM@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-03-07
#198 · Quote Reply

And a good skidibi toilet to you, sir

Have a 6 7 my dent

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Valmond lemmy.dbzer0.com Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-11-13
#199 · Quote Reply

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That's a fascinating subject IMO.

Like there is a king/celeb/hero/... hole in ther mind they just must fill.

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Valmond lemmy.dbzer0.com Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-11-13
#200 · Quote Reply

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It's appel vs fruit. There are lots of types of christianity, chatolicism is a type of christianity.

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Valmond lemmy.dbzer0.com Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-11-13
#201 · Quote Reply

French was my only choice for a second foreign language in school and I hated it. Such a weird language. They need a writing reform. Bordeaux is just comically bad. English could use a writing reform as well.

Heey I live there!

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