Ok, we might have some news for you then…

i think the way you're describing the process as "screwing around, forming and cutting off attachments" really shows that you think of it in a very black and white sort of way. one can have casual / fwb sex with their friends, and still have a friend relationship with that person. one can even have one-off sex with an acquaintance or stranger, and even if you never meet again, it doesn't really make it a "cut off" relationship; if you met again, it would be pleasant, circumstances just may not arrange it

just because it's a more emotionally involved process for you or some people you've encountered, doesn't make it a universal truth

I mean, any reason for not wanting a relationship is a good reason because a relationship where one person doesn't even really want it is going to be a shit relationship.

That said, I might still judge you if your reasons are shitty.

Are they good news? 😁

Wikipedia does not specify that and I have no clue

Depends entirely on how you take it…

How can I phrase this nicely… I don’t think being on Lemmy, of all services, has a strong correlation with being neurotypical. When it comes to Fediverse users being neurodiverse, the odds are good… and the goods are odd 😆

Because infants are larger than penises. Hope this helps!

Damn you didn't have to read me like that

You could comment this on 90% of the posts in this community. Frankly, I like that far more than the “fake and gay” meme.

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Ouch. That is so fucked up. I am older and have been structurally tight (skin too tight at opening) sex hurts when it goes on too long. The "husband stitch" is abusive. And doctors do it because they do episiotomy, which is also awful because that cut doesn't heal as well as a repaired natural tear and you might not tear at all.

Complimentary tightening surgery my ass. That doesn't help mothers at all.

Rehab with kegels does help and obviously if you tear, a repair. The midwife recommended working up to fisting before having a baby and man I wish I had taken that advice.

But being tight right at the opening of the vagina just hurts, there is no advantage to it.

Seriously Jenna.. get it together

no

I would characterize us as more critically pro-ai, or maybe even just not-against-ai

I meant more generally speaking rather than in the AI bro sense

Fake: Anon never visited Reddit

Gay: Anon thinks about 1000 men

Anyone could be a notary – you just have to pinky promise that you saw something happen under oath

The notary has to be approved by the State. Basically, if a notary attests to some fact, it is as if the entire government bore witness to it.

I don't think you know what you're talking about or your fellow downvoters. I read that in a reputable publication over well about three decades back and I take their word over some naysayer online with no backup information or sources.

Not only that but I've had women tell me it's true that vinegar cleans smells and tightens the area. You are not a reputable source.

Youre not right about this. Im sorry. Some women do douche, but most doctors will advise against using anything like this. Mild soap externally is all that is recomended by most Obgyns.

This info you have is old wives tales, not modern science.

You have the right to refuse for any reason, that doesn't absolve you of how you will be perceived though.

So I...shouldn't have mentioned Lemmy when that girl asked me to add her on Insta?

There it is. You can choose not to date anyone for any reason, but if you're smart you won't tell anyone.

Yeah go make any mom laugh they will tell you they're gonna pee their pants

Source: milfs

Yep. Unfortunately the internet scolds are absolutely without nuance on this matter, so I feel we have to always be very precise in our language

Sure, you CAN do these things. That doesn't mean it's not diminishing your capacity to be emotionally invested in your relationships.

We can spend all day blowharding and traversing all the layers of subconscious processes abstracted into social constructs, how we are able to rationalize anything if we want to, and so on. But I think you can only get so far with that, when all I'm trying to describe is something pretty much everyone already understands intuitively.

"You can't turn a hoe into a housewife"

Works with gender/role flipped too, obviously.

i genuinely do not "intuitively understand" this idea. there's nothing contradictory about being a hoe and a housewife

can you like, explain this? i really don't understand how having multiple sexual relationships, specifically, diminishes one's ability to have emotionally fulfilling relationships. if anything, i might be inclined to think they would have more emotionally fulfilling relationships 💀

Actually, in Denmark iirc you're only diagnosed neurodivergent if you experience your symptoms as issues in day-to-day life, and I don't think I have any problems in my day-to-day. I follow a lot of neurodivergent people on Mastodon and the fediverse in general, and while I can recognize some traits in myself, I don't experience any of the difficulties I can hear they have.

Does that make me neurotypical? Not sure.

Participate in a record attempt and have consensual sex with someone you personally find physically attractive and you get paid?

I could think of a worse way to spend a Tuesday night.

That cuts both ways. Who wants someone that becomes obsessed with them. So small body count is out too.

Yeah I was gonna mention the menstrual cup thing. The fact that they perceive the vagina as a purely receptive sleeve also suggests that they've rarely if ever had a woman orgasm on their dick. Hubs reports varying perceptibility between different episodes but that the muscular contraction is often robust.

has to be approved by the State.

That's still just a glorified pinky promise... I guess what I'm trying to say is that being notary sounds like a super easy job

If it were a man fucking 1000 girls in a day, we'd all celebrate. What's more unattractive than a high body count? Insecurity.

I mean to me it's no different than someone attempting a record number of kisses, handshakes, high-5s, haircuts, judo throws... or some other physical interaction. It just doesn't really matter and has no big significance.

Doesn't even seem physically possible...

truth bomb fr, and this one gets exponentially worse the older you are

No, did you get your idea of gender roles from reading feminist books in the 90's while never having actually set foot on earth's surface from your flying saucer? A lot of men and women would have various kinds of issues if you were a man who fucked 1000 women in one day you fucking space alien.

That's because without a heart exploding amount of drugs, it is not possible.

Not with that attitude!

I could probably suck a thousand cocks in a day. Maybe get a few of them with just hjs.

The theoretical maximum would be 4 hand jobs at once. Supposing one BJ and 4 HJs, and a generous 10 minutes per batch, you could, in theory, get up to 720 in 24 hour period. To get to 1000, you'd need to complete your batches in 7 minutes or less.

It's absolutely a double standard mate, don't be daft.

If we're only counting penetration, it ain't that wild

If your brain one days goes like 'I should fuck a thousand guys' and you don't immediately shut it down, there's something terribly wrong with you, and that's before accounting for the STI you are absolutely carrying.

Now. Clearly some incels have an irrational low idea of what a 'normal' bodycount should be, but 1000 in one day ain't it either.

being notary sounds like a super easy job

It is, which is why basically nobody is only a notary. It's like being CPR certified. Great, but your day job is gonna be something else.

If you look up where notaries are in your state database, they're in places like law firms or banks or insurance companies, where their day jobs are something different (paralegal, bank teller, locksmith, etc.), and where they can sign a few documents for $20 and record it in their ledger.

Idk my head game is p strong. I bet I could cycle through each group of four in 5 minutes.

Maybe put some porn or something on in the background for the guys so I'm not trying to work them up from nothing.

My biggest worry would honestly just be food and water. I'm a prissy bitch when I haven't eaten and idk if horny me is strong enough to power through. If anything would stop me from getting through all thousand in 24 hours, it'd probably be the french fry break.

Weirdly, it's actually the same reason that banks used to refuse to let single women have credit cards

When it comes to women's health advice, I think modern naysayers are more reputable than any source was in the 1900s

Hey man, 31 ain't middle aged

I read this in the late 90s. And I'm still siding with them over some bandwagon jumper on her off the fucking internets. You're not a reliable source. Someone else said something that sounded authoritative so perhaps nevertheless.

Also I don't give a shit. I was just sharing what I read from an authoritative source, you can piss all the way off.

wow, wow, buddy. this is the internet.

we can't have reasonable and common sense takes here. JUST GENDER RAGE.

should report you for HATE speech, with all this reasonable commentary you have here.

tell that to all the women in my life i've dated who think i'm a filthy slut for sleeping with more than a handful of women.

and who had more partners than me. almost as if the double-standard is the person's projected shame.