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LadyButterfly she/her piefed.blahaj.zone LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
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ceenote lemmy.world ceenote@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-16
#2 · Quote Reply

Bears stay winning

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-11-04
#3 · Quote Reply

I've encountered strange bears in the woods and strange men in the woods. The bears didn't make weirdly suggestive comments about being alone in the woods.

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Hildegard (she/her) lemmy.blahaj.zone hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-12-07
#4 · Quote Reply

A town I sometimes visit has a bear research centre, and I like to go there to see the bears.

I have never wanted to visit a man research station to see men.

The bears keep winning.

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HarneyToker lemmy.world HarneyToker@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-09-24
#5 · Quote Reply

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

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velma lemmy.blahaj.zone velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-03-19
#6 · Quote Reply

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

Rules…

Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.

Thank you oh so much for invalidating our experiences with your manly knowledge. Surely since YOU don't share intimate videos, that means NO MAN EVER has shared intimate videos. Wow, I'm so grateful to be bestowed this knowledge from a man such as you.

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sachamato lemmy.world sachamato@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-03
#7 · Quote Reply

Rules… Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them. Thank you oh so much for invalidating our experiences with your manly knowledge. Surely since YOU don't share intimate videos, that means NO MAN EVER has shared ...

Women don't share men's intimate videos in chat groups for fun.

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10thGlyphix lemmy.zip 10thGlyphix@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-04-12
#8 · Quote Reply

Be like bears.

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velma lemmy.blahaj.zone velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-03-19
#9 · (edited) Quote Reply

Women don't share men's intimate videos in chat groups for fun.

I'm sure some women have. That's not the discussion we're having here.

I have a sneaking suspicion you have also ignored the rules for this community.

Edit:: "My wife asked for this. Lol" on a post about holding someone's penis while they pee.

Get the fuck out of here.

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SupremeDonut lemmy.ml SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-25
#10 · Quote Reply

Rules… Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them. Thank you oh so much for invalidating our experiences with your manly knowledge. Surely since YOU don't share intimate videos, that means NO MAN EVER has shared ...

He did no such thing. He simply provided a data point. 1 down, ~170mil to go

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velma lemmy.blahaj.zone velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-03-19
#11 · (edited) Quote Reply

He did no such thing. He simply provided a data point. 1 down, ~170mil to go

This is a women's only community.

You can take your "not all men" statements literally anywhere else on Lemmy and be more welcome than here.

Do y'all enjoy forcing yourselves into spaces where you're not welcome?

Edit: Well.....you are men. Definitely still choosing the fucking bear.

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Taleya aussie.zone Taleya@aussie.zone
Joined: 2023-06-21
#12 · Quote Reply

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

Congratulations for meeting th bare fucking minimum requirement of human decency.

It doesn't erase those that have shared videos

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Taleya aussie.zone Taleya@aussie.zone
Joined: 2023-06-21
#13 · Quote Reply

Women don't share men's intimate videos in chat groups for fun.

This one is fucking fascinating to me. They tried using the genderswap gotcha but since the original text was about bears (of which the manbabies have no equivalent) they just look like they're unrealistically praising women

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-11-04
#14 · Quote Reply

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

Oh well I guess it doesn't happen. Our mistake, ladies and folks, this guy says he's not a terrible person, despite missing the entire fucking point of the meme and this community.

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Leg sh.itjust.works Leg@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-07-02
#15 · Quote Reply

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

I'm also a man, barging in. My ex best friend did it multiple times, showcasing multiple women. Also showed my girlfriend, unprompted. My experience cancels yours out.

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SharkWeek lemmy.blahaj.zone SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-05-19
#16 · Quote Reply

I'm also a man, barging in. My ex best friend did it multiple times, showcasing multiple women. Also showed my girlfriend, unprompted. My experience cancels yours out.
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Event_Horizon lemmy.world Event_Horizon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-08
#17 · Quote Reply

This suggests bears share intimate videos maliciously 😱

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ThirdConsul lemmy.zip ThirdConsul@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-01-03
#18 · Quote Reply

This is a women's only community. You can take your "not all men" statements literally anywhere else on Lemmy and be more welcome than here. Do y'all enjoy forcing yourselves into spaces where you're not welcome? Edit: Well.....you are men. Definitely still choosing the fucking bear.

Is it weird that when a shitpost that is supposed to polarize people reaches main page, people get triggered?

Because honestly this is baiting.

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Leg sh.itjust.works Leg@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-07-02
#19 · Quote Reply

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🤐👍🏾

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-11-04
#20 · Quote Reply

Is it weird that when a shitpost that is supposed to polarize people reaches main page, people get triggered? Because honestly this is baiting.

If this triggers you it says more about you than the meme.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#21 · Quote Reply

Is it weird that when a shitpost that is supposed to polarize people reaches main page, people get triggered? Because honestly this is baiting.

Are you suggesting men can’t control themselves?

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Rozaŭtuno lemmy.blahaj.zone Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-06-22
#22 · Quote Reply

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

Good. You managed to clear a very, very low bar.

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Rozaŭtuno lemmy.blahaj.zone Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-06-22
#23 · Quote Reply

Be like bears.

Eat honey, maul your enemies, and sleep all winter.

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SupremeDonut lemmy.ml SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-25
#24 · Quote Reply

Are you suggesting men can’t control themselves?

Going off how the man you originally replied to has not had a back and forth with your antics it's more of an implication, really.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#25 · Quote Reply

Going off how the man you originally replied to has not had a back and forth with your antics it's more of an implication, really.

You’ve already been told you’re not welcome here.

Thanks for proving you can’t help but force yourself onto women.

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Hildegard (she/her) lemmy.blahaj.zone hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-12-07
#26 · Quote Reply

Eat honey, maul your enemies, and sleep all winter.

Goals

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Malyca lemmy.zip Malyca@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-04-13
#27 · Quote Reply

As a man, I have never once done that or been in a group chat for that.

If you do see it, call the guy out

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-11-04
#28 · Quote Reply

Going off how the man you originally replied to has not had a back and forth with your antics it's more of an implication, really.

Less of an implication, more like evidence in your case.

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Aerosolcb lemmy.world Aerosolcb@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-05-19
#29 · (edited) Quote Reply

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#30 · Quote Reply

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Thanks for reading the rules and clarifying you didn’t mean to break them :) I do appreciate the sentiment.

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LadyButterfly she/her Moderator LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-10
#31 · Quote Reply

Are you suggesting men can’t control themselves?

I think i love you

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LadyButterfly she/her Moderator LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-10
#32 · Quote Reply

Rules… Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them. Thank you oh so much for invalidating our experiences with your manly knowledge. Surely since YOU don't share intimate videos, that means NO MAN EVER has shared ...

Velma behave yourself!! Men are speaking. Pipe down and know your place.

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LadyButterfly she/her Moderator LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-10
#33 · Quote Reply

🤐👍🏾

Np mate thanks for understanding ❤️

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LadyButterfly she/her Moderator LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-10
#34 · Quote Reply

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Yes it's fine Aero it's a genuine error. I won't delete your comments as they're supportive abd thanks for understanding 😊

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#35 · Quote Reply

I think i love you

:3

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SupremeDonut lemmy.ml SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-25
#36 · Quote Reply

You’ve already been told you’re not welcome here. Thanks for proving you can’t help but force yourself onto women.

Rules…

  1. Don't be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  1. Don't hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.

Time to rewrite the rules based on what @velma@sh.itjust.works thinks, eh?

Aggressive much? Hateful much? For being so much better that him, you're quite a dick.

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SupremeDonut lemmy.ml SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-25
#37 · Quote Reply

Less of an implication, more like evidence in your case.

So the lack of participation of the self proclaimed man further back in the conversation is evidence in my case of...?

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#38 · Quote Reply

Rules… Don't be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice. Don't hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever. Time to rewrite the rules based on what @velma@sh.itjust.works thinks, eh? Aggressive much? Hateful much? For being so much better that him, you're quite a dick.

Cry more. Your tears are delicious.

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SupremeDonut lemmy.ml SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-25
#39 · Quote Reply

Cry more. Your tears are delicious.

Get well soon

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Madzielle lemmy.dbzer0.com Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2024-08-11
#40 · Quote Reply

Cry more. Your tears are delicious.

:/

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#41 · (edited) Quote Reply

:/

Come on now, this guy has broken the rules multiple times.

I just accurately clocked that he is forcing himself into spaces where he’s not welcome.

There’s a reason he only pulled rules 2 and 3 while ignoring the rule 1.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#42 · Quote Reply

Get well soon

Next time a woman tells her she doesn’t want you around, listen.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#43 · Quote Reply

So the lack of participation of the self proclaimed man further back in the conversation is evidence in my case of...?

What are you doing?

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SupremeDonut lemmy.ml SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-25
#44 · Quote Reply

Next time a woman tells her she doesn’t want you around, listen.

Aren't you supposed to be getting well? Or do you just have to get the last word in so you follow me everywhere?

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SupremeDonut lemmy.ml SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-25
#45 · Quote Reply

What are you doing?

Apparently getting under your skin.

Is it the questioning, or the final say that bothers you? Is Wren an alt account? You seem equally perturbed...

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-11-04
#46 · Quote Reply

So the lack of participation of the self proclaimed man further back in the conversation is evidence in my case of...?

Being less likeable than a bear.

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SupremeDonut lemmy.ml SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2025-03-25
#47 · Quote Reply

Being less likeable than a bear.

Lol

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sachamato lemmy.world sachamato@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-03
#48 · Quote Reply

I'm sure some women have. That's not the discussion we're having here. I have a sneaking suspicion you have also ignored the rules for this community. Edit:: "My wife asked for this. Lol" on a post about holding someone's penis while they pee. Get the fuck out of here.

They really don't

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#49 · Quote Reply

Aren't you supposed to be getting well? Or do you just have to get the last word in so you follow me everywhere?

Right back at ya

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#50 · Quote Reply

Apparently getting under your skin. Is it the questioning, or the final say that bothers you? Is Wren an alt account? You seem equally perturbed...

You really enjoy pushing women’s boundaries, don’t you?

You like to see women squirm and get uncomfortable when you force yourself on them despite their protests?

You enjoy hearing a woman say no and ignoring it?

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Madzielle lemmy.dbzer0.com Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2024-08-11
#51 · Quote Reply

Come on now, this guy has broken the rules multiple times. I just accurately clocked that he is forcing himself into spaces where he’s not welcome. There’s a reason he only pulled rules 2 and 3 while ignoring the rule 1.

yall just made me feel like the little kid hiding in the corner while mommy and daddy fight. lol

absolutely vicious and Im throwing shit at my bedroom door so you stop.

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