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LadyButterfly she/her piefed.blahaj.zone LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
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Tar_Alcaran sh.itjust.works Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-10-06
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B cups and under, untie!

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otacon239 lemmy.world otacon239@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-10-07
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This was always the case. This person just went through their personal awakening.

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RebekahWSD lemmy.world RebekahWSD@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-19
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I'm top heavy and never wear a bra anymore. Fuck bras.

Maybe it's my autism speaking though, I've heard most women don't mind a bra, whereas it's actual fucking torture to me to wear a "well fitting" bra.

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Okokimup lemmy.world Okokimup@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-24
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Also top heavy, and i have to wear a bra, because skin-on-skin = sweat and discomfort. But I also can't find a supportive bra without huge straps, nor have i been able to criss-cross, or otherwise remove them from visibility, so I cant wear cute tanks or halter tops without a coverlet.

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LadyButterfly she/her Moderator LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-10
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B cups and under, untie!

Haha 😄 🤣 😂

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Drusas fedia.io Drusas@fedia.io
Joined: 2024-08-16
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If you don't need a bra, you don't have to wear one. Fuck oppressive societal expectations.

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TheLeadenSea sh.itjust.works TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-04
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B cups and under, untie!

:/

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birdwing lemmy.blahaj.zone birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-08-19
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Also top heavy, and i have to wear a bra, because skin-on-skin = sweat and discomfort. But I also can't find a supportive bra without huge straps, nor have i been able to criss-cross, or otherwise remove them from visibility, so I cant wear cute tanks or halter tops without a coverlet.

criss-cross? what's that?

i mainly wear the ones with straps you can remove, but the soft ones.

tried padded bras, they felt a bit too metallic.

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Okokimup lemmy.world Okokimup@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-24
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criss-cross? what's that? i mainly wear the ones with straps you can remove, but the soft ones. tried padded bras, they felt a bit too metallic.

It's a bra hack.

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Beehaw_Girl beehaw.org Beehaw_Girl@beehaw.org
Joined: 2026-06-07
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Did anyone else zoom in on her tiny photo to see if she said was true?

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CultLeader4Hire lemmy.world CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-03-28
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I can barely stand to wear them anymore. I didn’t realize I was only able to deal with them because I had built up a tolerance. Now it’s free boobin or a bralette 95% of the time but even bralettes get oppressive after too long

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CultLeader4Hire lemmy.world CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-03-28
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I'm top heavy and never wear a bra anymore. Fuck bras. Maybe it's my autism speaking though, I've heard most women don't mind a bra, whereas it's actual fucking torture to me to wear a "well fitting" bra.

Women generally hate bras, at least in my experience. I’ve met a few young women who claimed they didn’t mind or women who wear them because they need to but I’ve never heard a woman express enjoyment about wearing a bra

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nasalpitch17 lemmy.blahaj.zone nasalpitch17@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-05-01
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I'm top heavy and never wear a bra anymore. Fuck bras. Maybe it's my autism speaking though, I've heard most women don't mind a bra, whereas it's actual fucking torture to me to wear a "well fitting" bra.

I was 42 years old when I finally gave myself permission to jusy wear my super comfy nursing sleeping bras all the time (I haven't nursed for two years). It's enough support for me (also top heavy) without any of the hastle that every mf bra has something that feels like torture.

It's liberating.

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velma lemmy.blahaj.zone velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-03-19
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I went one step further and made sure all of my fancy clothes don't require bras either.

Free the titties!

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Pipster lemmy.blahaj.zone Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-10-29
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I can barely stand to wear them anymore. I didn’t realize I was only able to deal with them because I had built up a tolerance. Now it’s free boobin or a bralette 95% of the time but even bralettes get oppressive after too long

I basically live in bralettes if I'm at home. I'm very much not top heavy but I like the little bit of support and nip padding. I also kind of wear them like a crop top rather than pajama tops in bed.

I'm pretty happy in a bra during the day but totally get how annoying it must get if there is a lot more weight put into those straps.

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Pipster lemmy.blahaj.zone Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-10-29
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Women generally hate bras, at least in my experience. I’ve met a few young women who claimed they didn’t mind or women who wear them because they need to but I’ve never heard a woman express enjoyment about wearing a bra

I guess its a bit more nuanced. Sometimes it might be dislike because of society taboos of going without one. But there are good parts, they can make you feel good about yourself, push-ups exist and are popular for a reason. As somebody without a huge amount to work with I do enjoy the shape and silhouette a good one can give even if its not the most comfortable thing in the world.

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dkppunk piefed.social dkppunk@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-11-19
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Yeah, it really depends on what I’m doing if I wear one. I do prefer to wear a bra when I’m out and about doing things because I’m more top heavy. I’ll wear a sports bra when I’m in the garden or doing yard work because I don’t want the ladies just flopping about at the wrong time. But if I’m just chilling at home, I let the ladies run free.

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yessikg fedia.io yessikg@fedia.io
Joined: 2025-06-22
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I only wear a bra when I'm running

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Taleya aussie.zone Taleya@aussie.zone
Joined: 2023-06-21
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I wiiiish. 12J here. They just get everywhere and smack everything if i don't.

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