First off, how dare you attack me like this

Some of them even work for a week or two. But sustained effort? No thank you.

New here? <3

And some work ! so it's worth it, to cast aside any doubt.

careful, they're NSA

Let's not forget the "How together does my shit really need to be anyway?" phase, that's my favorite

Between cognitive behavioral therapy and meds, I can work 25 hours a week and still generally keep-up my apartment as long as I'm not in a funk.

I still be eating wwwaaaayyyyy too much fast food though. Don't even want fast food. At a point it's kinda mentally gross even if physically very satisfying. Just don't wanna cook. You're telling me I gotta cook and then EAT TOO? I have ibs so 90% of frozen and fast-prep options are out. :(

I truly found org-mode is a constant in my life for the last 12 years, and if I want to get something done, I need to put it in my org mode todos.

• step one: learn emacs
• step two: learn org mode

so uh... like 6months of hard work, then life is easy

Or endlessly thinking about the endless cycle...

I'm currently experimenting giving up on trying to get your shit together, it's quite a good life but it's still really hard not to make choices that have undesirable effects. Especially if those choices have desirable effects in the short term. Speaking about short term gratification, i should really put away my phone and go to sleep.

Look into Taoism so you can convince yourself your maladaptions and procrastination are the third way, thus your existence is "together"

It don't work but it's fun

My ADHD is Bristol type 1

I fixed this by just eating straight ingredients and stocking moderately healthy stuff

No cook, only eat

It can get expensive but it does the job

I get this with fast food and healthy food, to the point it's mentally gross. I then eat far too little. Ibs and ADHD, always with the conflicts, can't my body just agree on something

Expensive how? If anything I've found it cheaper to do that. Especially since most ingredients freeze well so I don't have to shop as often

I really should get over myself and start doing this. I do on occasion when I'm really struggling. But for whatever reason, maybe just mental obstinance, my brain really wants like a main and two sides on a plate with a nice drink. Otherwise it feels like it's not gonna check the "eaten a meal" box considering I eat mostly out of habit and less from ever actually getting a signal I am hungry.

The Te of Piglet might be of some help. 😌

Yeah it's easy to do it non-committaly. Like just have some frozen spinach or broccoli in the freezer. Microwave for 4 minutes in a bowl and add some feta cheese and put it on toast if you're feeling energetic. Easy deconstructed spanakopita

Have you tried making a list?

I don't know where I put it.

When I don't want to cook I grab a rotisserie chicken from my local kroger and a couple of their sides. Cheaper and healthier. Cooking at home, especially from scratch, will always be the best way to go but it sure is time consuming when you're trying to keep up with capitalism.

Get the magnetic ones you stick on the fridge, and a magnetic pen. And get a business binder for work, the kind that holds yellow legal pads. Then you always look like you have your shit together even if you forget to make the list.

I haven’t refilled my Adderall in over a month because I can’t remember to make an appointment until I’m in bed trying to sleep.

Yeah my go to is rotisserie chicken, canned corn, and the pre-made refrigerated mashed potatoes.

I gotta start breaking down the chicken and portioning the meals at the start of the week though because even that when I get home at the end of a day is like, damn. I gotta open a can of corn, take about half, take a third or so of potato container, cut or rip the chicken off the bone, put it on a plate microwave it, season it. Like damn.

I can't tell you how many times I said I'd start meal prepping lol I'm still trying to start.

If it's just remembering, have you tried setting a reminder on your phone while in bed to remind you at a reasonable hour?

If it's the wall of "I need to do this, but inertia is holding me back" I got nothing but words, I understand the difficulty.

Omg you’re a genius. I’m going to try a reminder.

I think the problem is a little of both, but can’t hurt to try.

Unsure if this was a sarcastic reply, but I used to send myself delayed text messages, until my phone decided to ignore incoming messages from myself. It bypassed the ever growing queue of reminders. If you have a reliable person, you could send them a delayed text to remind you, but that gets tricky.

Normal reminders don't work for me, so I've had to get clever

No I was serious. I don’t know why that didn’t occur to me.