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How has porn affected your attitude on sex?
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
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Piggybacking off of Lady Butterfly's question the other day!

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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As a millennial, I had access to porn rather early in my life with very little guidance. Luckily I didn't stumble into too dark of things back then, but I've always had a fascination with sex, porn, sex work, autonomy, and women's roles in sex. In many ways, this trajectory gave me confidence and a way to find my footing in a world that seemed like it was just for men.

Pondering along this line of thought, perhaps it's not such a mystery why I ended up taking more of a "domme" role in the bedroom as I aged.

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Drusas fedia.io Drusas@fedia.io
Joined: 2024-08-16
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It's probably made me more open to/interested in, shall we say, less traditional sexual activities. People are so creative!

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Ruusunmarja lemmy.blahaj.zone Ruusunmarja@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-03-31
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Made me realise that I prefer to be on the receiving end from either sex.

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dkppunk piefed.social dkppunk@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-11-19
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As a millennial, I had access to porn rather early in my life with very little guidance. Luckily I didn't stumble into too dark of things back then, but I've always had a fascination with sex, porn, sex work, autonomy, and women's roles in sex. In many ways, this trajectory gave me confidence and a way to find my footing in a world that seemed like it was just for men. Pondering along this line...

What I find really funny about your comment Velma, is that I had the exact same experience except it’s made me take on a much more “submissive” role in bed.

Except when it comes to pegging, that’s where the more “domme” side comes out lol

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
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What I find really funny about your comment Velma, is that I had the exact same experience except it’s made me take on a much more “submissive” role in bed. Except when it comes to pegging, that’s where the more “domme” side comes out lol

How interesting! I definitely have played with being more submissive and found it simply wasn’t as satisfying as being more in control. It thrills me to my core to be the “director” and pleasure people more or less. It’s so cool how different people’s sexual preferences can be!

Goddamn, isn’t pegging so much fun? Hehehe

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