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arotrios
lemmy.world
arotrios@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-20 |
Expect this trend to continue, not only on Reddit, but throughout the internet. Not a hidden ban list, but the same dynamic in play. From the mods in the post above:
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tidderuuf
lemmy.world
tidderuuf@lemmy.world Joined: 2025-08-28 |
I must be out of the fashion world ... How are being anti-Trump and pro-Amber Heard on the same spectrum? Also Mods of Reddit that are still on Reddit are currently in the FIND OUT phase. |
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Eggymatrix
sh.itjust.works
Eggymatrix@sh.itjust.works Joined: 2023-07-09 |
I must be out of the fashion world ... How are being anti-Trump and pro-Amber Heard on the same spectrum? Also Mods of Reddit that are still on Reddit are currently in the FIND OUT phase.
If your world is not black and white and not everything is a choice between the "good" and the "bad" but simply "data" you might be interested of not labelling absolutely everything you see. In those cases a post of Trump that is not entirely negative might be seen as pro Trump by some, same thing with other subjects Edit: that said I don't know, it is also possible that in that subreddit if you have a dick you are automatically at fault |
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TropicalDingdong
lemmy.world
TropicalDingdong@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-07-29 |
Who gets to decide what you read and see? |
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velma
sh.itjust.works
velma@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2026-05-07 |
I must be out of the fashion world ... How are being anti-Trump and pro-Amber Heard on the same spectrum? Also Mods of Reddit that are still on Reddit are currently in the FIND OUT phase.
Because reactive abuse exists and there was a lot of public judgment against Amber Heard that went beyond reasonable. I think they both are kinda fucked, but it’s understandable how a subreddit like Fauxmoi ends up being anti-Trump and pro-Heard. It’s a rather feminist leaning subreddit as well. They’re also very pro-Palestine. |
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Sibshops
lemmy.myserv.one
Sibshops@lemmy.myserv.oneJoined: 2025-06-04 |
Because reactive abuse exists and there was a lot of public judgment against Amber Heard that went beyond reasonable. I think they both are kinda fucked, but it’s understandable how a subreddit like Fauxmoi ends up being anti-Trump and pro-Heard. It’s a rather feminist leaning subreddit as well. They’re also very pro-Palestine.
Yeah, people seem to downplay what Depp did, blaming only Amber Heard. |
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Sibshops
lemmy.myserv.one
Sibshops@lemmy.myserv.oneJoined: 2025-06-04 |
Who gets to decide what you read and see?
On reddit, not the community, that's for sure. |
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Rioting Pacifist
lemmy.world
RIotingPacifist@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-22 |
I must be out of the fashion world ... How are being anti-Trump and pro-Amber Heard on the same spectrum? Also Mods of Reddit that are still on Reddit are currently in the FIND OUT phase.
Because so much of the Heard hate was disingenuous and pushed by the incel/gamergate crowd, the kind of morons that love the Rick & Morty shit the WH posts |
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Rioting Pacifist
lemmy.world
RIotingPacifist@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-22 |
Who gets to decide what you read and see?
It's an interesting idea, that reddit is not interested in exploring. |
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Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)
piefed.zip
Cris_Citrus@piefed.zipJoined: 2026-02-26 |
Yeah, people seem to downplay what Depp did, blaming only Amber Heard.
People really love the narrative of a woman being put in their place. Once you notice the pattern it pops up in the algorithm very often When I used reddit the front page regularly featured videos where a woman was being an antagonist and some guy punched her or used violence to put them in their place. Situations where the audience could feel the guy was "in the right". Sometimes I watch trashy court proceedings videos on YouTube cause following how procedure works and seeing the social situations is interesting, and like all the most popular videos the algorithm wants to serve me all just so happen to be examples of "Karen's being put in their place" or "manipulative ex-wife tries to destroy her ex-husband in custody battle and the judge sees through her", or some other variation or "woman bad, watch her get taken down a peg" And until you notice how often it's that specific narrative you don't realize what's happening there. I didn't follow the depp vs heard situation and so do not have a stance (nor do I feel compelled to try and decide on a narrative as a random uninvolved member of the public), but it would not surprise me if there was lots of bias involved in the way people interpreted their situation. |
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Ricky Rigatoni
piefed.zip
RickyRigatoni@piefed.zipJoined: 2026-02-14 |
Who gets to decide what you read and see?
Me. |
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GreatWhiteBuffalo41
slrpnk.net
greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.netJoined: 2023-06-11 |
I've noticed myself across several subs I moderate that if I go into the "removed" section theres A LOT of "Removed by Reddit" and the user is deleted. I've been modding a quite large sub for years and I've never seen this until this year. Theyre getting very heavy handed with the AI and just banning everyone all the time. Meanwhile all the gibberish bot posts still get through. |
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technocrit
lemmy.dbzer0.com
technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com Joined: 2024-02-19 |
People really love the narrative of a woman being put in their place. Once you notice the pattern it pops up in the algorithm very often When I used reddit the front page regularly featured videos where a woman was being an antagonist and some guy punched her or used violence to put them in their place. Situations where the audience could feel the guy was "in the right". Sometimes I watch trash...
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technocrit
lemmy.dbzer0.com
technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com Joined: 2024-02-19 |
I must be out of the fashion world ... How are being anti-Trump and pro-Amber Heard on the same spectrum? Also Mods of Reddit that are still on Reddit are currently in the FIND OUT phase.
Yes, you're missing out on some fash basics. They love misogyny. |
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technocrit
lemmy.dbzer0.com
technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com Joined: 2024-02-19 |
What is fauxmoi? A gossip sub? |
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FoxAlive
lemmy.zip
FoxAlive@lemmy.zip Joined: 2026-06-29 |
Honestly time to burn down reddit. |
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velma
sh.itjust.works
velma@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2026-05-07 |
What is fauxmoi? A gossip sub?
Gossip, politics, streamers, feminism. It’s a pop culture subreddit with a wide array of topics. Mostly made up of women and BIPOC. |
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velma
sh.itjust.works
velma@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2026-05-07 |
I must be out of the fashion world Yes, you're missing out on some fash basics. They love misogyny.
You think Fauxmoi is a fascist and misogynistic subreddit? |
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velma
sh.itjust.works
velma@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2026-05-07 |
People Redditors really love the narrative of a woman being put in their place misogyny.
Tbf, it seems like the love of misogyny was imported over to Lemmy with the migration. |
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TheStaffmaster
lemmy.world
TheStaffmaster@lemmy.world Joined: 2026-06-02 |
shit like this almost makes be glad i got banned right before all this. then again, i may have just been one of the first victims. |
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TheStaffmaster
lemmy.world
TheStaffmaster@lemmy.world Joined: 2026-06-02 |
I've noticed myself across several subs I moderate that if I go into the "removed" section theres A LOT of "Removed by Reddit" and the user is deleted. I've been modding a quite large sub for years and I've never seen this until this year. Theyre getting very heavy handed with the AI and just banning everyone all the time. Meanwhile all the gibberish bot posts still get through.
There needs to be an ability for indevidual subs to override site wide bans. Or better yet remove the ability for reddit admin to ban people at all. That should be up to the indevidual subreddits. |
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TheStaffmaster
lemmy.world
TheStaffmaster@lemmy.world Joined: 2026-06-02 |
People really love the narrative of a woman being put in their place. Once you notice the pattern it pops up in the algorithm very often When I used reddit the front page regularly featured videos where a woman was being an antagonist and some guy punched her or used violence to put them in their place. Situations where the audience could feel the guy was "in the right". Sometimes I watch trash...
there's an old saying that only sounds misogynistic, but it's true because the genders could be swapped or it could apply to samesex couples and still work: "behind every woman, no matter how hot, is a guy who's tired of her bullshit." That guy could even be her dad, so shut it. |
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Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)
piefed.zip
Cris_Citrus@piefed.zipJoined: 2026-02-26 |
Tbf, it seems like the love of misogyny was imported over to Lemmy with the migration.
It definitely was 😅 I see sexism here more than any other form of chauvinism |
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Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)
piefed.zip
Cris_Citrus@piefed.zipJoined: 2026-02-26 |
People Redditors really love the narrative of a woman being put in their place misogyny.
So does a lot of the internet at large though. Reddit is especially bad but my other example was YouTube. Reddit does have an especially big problem with sexism though |
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Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)
piefed.zip
Cris_Citrus@piefed.zipJoined: 2026-02-26 |
You think Fauxmoi is a fascist and misogynistic subreddit?
I think they might just be going for a play on words, but I could be wrong |
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velma
sh.itjust.works
velma@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2026-05-07 |
I think they might just be going for a play on words, but I could be wrong
I hope so, that sub is one of the few bright spots of Reddit imo haha |
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Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)
piefed.zip
Cris_Citrus@piefed.zipJoined: 2026-02-26 |
there's an old saying that only sounds misogynistic, but it's true because the genders could be swapped or it could apply to samesex couples and still work: "behind every woman, no matter how hot, is a guy who's tired of her bullshit." That guy could even be her dad, so shut it.
I don't think anyone understands what you're trying to say |
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Cleisthenian
lemmy.ml
Cleisthenian@lemmy.mlJoined: 2026-02-03 |
I don't think anyone understands what you're trying to say
Boomer 'wife bad' drivel by the looks of it |
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TheStaffmaster
lemmy.world
TheStaffmaster@lemmy.world Joined: 2026-06-02 |
I don't think anyone understands what you're trying to say
I'm trying to say that some people are shit and claiming that your demographic is exempt from that because they are said demographic is the type of mindset that rather prooves the shittyness of the person claiming they arent shitty. Victims can be complicit in their victimhood, women can be sexist, black people can be racist, and trans folks can be self absorbed assholes. Being a douchebag is equal opportunity. Inclusion in a minority isn't a get out jail free card for poor morality. See et al, Israel if you are in doubt of that. |
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Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)
piefed.zip
Cris_Citrus@piefed.zipJoined: 2026-02-26 |
I'm trying to say that some people are shit and claiming that your demographic is exempt from that because they are said demographic is the type of mindset that rather prooves the shittyness of the person claiming they arent shitty. Victims can be complicit in their victimhood, women can be sexist, black people can be racist, and trans folks can be self absorbed assholes. Being a douchebag is e...
(I'm not the person who down voted you) Nobody said any demographic is exempt from people in it being shitty, thats not an argument anyone made. I'm taking about the way that engagement based algorithms warp our perception and surface only things that generally receive certain kinds of emotional responses. In the cases where someone beats up a woman because she's being an antagonistic asshole, she's still being an antagonistic asshole. It wouldn't do well on the platform if she wasn't; it only performs well if people can feel righteous rooting for the man beating a woman up. If you were to believe reddit and the way the front page depicts reality, women are generally antagonists who are asking for it. If you go to the right parts of reddit you can watch a never ending feed of women getting their asses beat for being a jerk over and over and over, and it starts to feel like thats actually what reality looks like. If you believe the YouTube algorithm, women are all selfish entitled pieces of shit. These are things that perform well in an engagement based platform, but by statistics and by being in community with women, women do not broadly go around antagonizing people and starting fights thinking they are beyond reprisal, they go around afraid the man walking behind them is going to assault them. But an engagement based platform the stories that reinforce peoples biases or are cathartic, or make you angry, or make you feel superior to those you hate, will rise to the top. Those videos consistently perform. On YouTube watching court you see almost the entire ommision of naratives featuring men being abusive partners. But they often are. The only time you see videos whose narrative based on a male villain are generally when theyre part of different demographic people love to hate- like cops. You can see men or women both taken down a peg if they're cops. But if they're in court as a parent? The algorithm is showing you a mother who is kniving and spiteful and an obvious villain. Engagement based algorithms do this because narratives of women being put in their place are vindicating to a segment of the population, and it normalizes that narrative as a depiction of reality to everyone else. |
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TheStaffmaster
lemmy.world
TheStaffmaster@lemmy.world Joined: 2026-06-02 |
(I'm not the person who down voted you) Nobody said any demographic is exempt from people in it being shitty, thats not an argument anyone made. I'm taking about the way that engagement based algorithms warp our perception and surface only things that generally receive certain kinds of emotional responses. In the cases where someone beats up a woman because she's being an antagonistic asshole, ...
While i do get that it's a lot of confirmation bias, (which is basically what your getting at) swinging the other way to say "this is an overblown "Issue" is not the correct response either. We all need to work toward dumping our prejudices and preconceived notions. Treating these issues as exceptionalism doesn't fix the problem, it just sweeps it under the rug. Calling this stuff out may look cringe or provocative, but it's how we put an end to it. Sunlight is the best disinfectant. |
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Fizz
lemmy.nz
Fizz@lemmy.nzJoined: 2023-06-12 |
Isnt that a fascist sub? They were doing everything they could to carry water for trump leading up to 2024. |
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Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)
piefed.zip
Cris_Citrus@piefed.zipJoined: 2026-02-26 |
While i do get that it's a lot of confirmation bias, (which is basically what your getting at) swinging the other way to say "this is an overblown "Issue" is not the correct response either. We all need to work toward dumping our prejudices and preconceived notions. Treating these issues as exceptionalism doesn't fix the problem, it just sweeps it under the rug. Calling this stuff out may look ...
I'm not saying its an overblown issue, I'm saying its disproportionately represented in a way that shapes our worldviews, and that does harm. That doesnt change whether you should call something out as wrong, it changes whether you should recognize the pattern and keep yourself grounded in an accurate understanding of the world. You cannot unpack your biases in a space that is constantly showing you evidence of your biases. The law of large numbers means there will always be a million and one examples of any given worldview, but that doesnt mean its accurate, and until you unpack the way your perception can be manipulated by the platform you're on you can't really work on any of those biases. You can learn to understand how the platform you're on shapes your perception while still considering it wrong if a woman does something shitty, or if anyone does something shitty. Nor am I treating it as exceptionalism, I frankly don't even follow how that term would apply here. I don't mean to be rude, but I can't tell if you're just not a great communicator over text, or if your ideas on this subject just don't make a ton of sense. Every comment I've had to read like 4 times to follow what you're saying and I don't generally have to do that |
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bandanawearingbanana
lemmy.world
bandanawearingbanana@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-07-03 |
Isnt that a fascist sub? They were doing everything they could to carry water for trump leading up to 2024.
Nope just a snark sub with various pop cultre topics. |
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blackberry28
sh.itjust.works
blackberry28@sh.itjust.works Joined: 2026-07-29 |
Subreddit mods getting a taste of their own medicine by Reddit admins lol |
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blkvvvs
lemmy.zip
blkvvvs@lemmy.zip Joined: 2026-07-29 |
Reading this yesterday on Reddit, plus all the other bs pushed me to come over here and check things out. |
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