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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
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With a picture of a snake in the background, post reads: The chances of a human being bitten by a venomous snake is 1 in 70 thousand.

The chances of a woman being attacked by a man is 1 in 3.

And somehow, your fear of snakes is valid. But a woman's fear of male violence is dramatic.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
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Not anymore than you're trying to troll.

You sure you know where you're posting?

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GreatWhiteBuffalo41 slrpnk.net greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net
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I'm still terrified of snakes. The human kind and not.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Not anymore than you're trying to troll. You sure you know where you're posting?
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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You can view it as a "preaching to the choir" thing if you'd like.

You're welcome to ignore posts that don't resonate with you or topics you don't want to comment on.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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You can view it as a "preaching to the choir" thing if you'd like. You're welcome to ignore posts that don't resonate with you or topics you don't want to comment on.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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And I answered your question with an affirmative. It is kind of preaching to the choir.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Rules…

Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them.

Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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And I answered your question with an affirmative. It is kind of preaching to the choir.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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I personally view it as bringing up a relevant topic in this group, but that doesn't mean it's inaccurate to view it as "preaching to the choir".

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Rules… Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them. Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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I personally view it as bringing up a relevant topic in this group, but that doesn't mean it's inaccurate to view it as "preaching to the choir".
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Hey now you’ve crossed the line here. No, Wren and Lady Butterfly are not alt accounts. Women exist on the internet, I know it’s shocking.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Am I not? Where have I been mean?

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Hey now you’ve crossed the line here. No, Wren and Lady Butterfly are not alt accounts. Women exist on the internet, I know it’s shocking.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Isn't this how public forums work?

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Am I not? Where have I been mean?
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Oh I'm aggressive AND mean now?

Hm.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Isn't this how public forums work?
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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Oh I'm aggressive AND mean now? Hm.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Ohh look at you using my name like you're my daddy or something.

It bothers you so much to allow women our space, doesn't it?

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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You don't need to speak on behalf of Wren here.

I'm allowed to participate in conversations. If it bothers you, you're welcome to stop replying to me.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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You don't need to speak on behalf of Wren here. I'm allowed to participate in conversations. If it bothers you, you're welcome to stop replying to me.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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If Wren disagrees with my defense of her post, she'll let me know.

I will, thanks.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Ohh look at you using my name like you're my daddy or something. It bothers you so much to allow women our space, doesn't it?
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Mhm, sure Jan.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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If Wren disagrees with my defense of her post, she'll let me know. I will, thanks.
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Tar_Alcaran sh.itjust.works Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works
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I don't think carrying around a venomous snake in your pocket is the solution OP. As badass as that may sound.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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I don't think carrying around a venomous snake in your pocket is the solution OP. As badass as that may sound.

I've got a neighbor that'll show up to street fairs and events with their snakes draped on their shoulders. It always looks so cool! Maybe we could work that in somehow and split the difference haha

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
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Hey. You're an idiot.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Hey. You're an idiot.

This is the 2nd time someone has accused your account of being my alt account. I feel rather honored to be confused with you, Wren <3

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cannibalkitteh piefed.blahaj.zone cannibalkitteh@piefed.blahaj.zone
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I don't think carrying around a venomous snake in your pocket is the solution OP. As badass as that may sound.

I think you want to get as close to the seventy thousand as you can to ensure at least one is feeling bitey.

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Yeller_king reddthat.com Yeller_king@reddthat.com
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If we weren't scared of snakes we'd get bitten way more often.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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If we weren't scared of snakes we'd get bitten way more often.

And yet women are often admonished for avoiding men.

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Taleya aussie.zone Taleya@aussie.zone
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Sometimes it's preaching to the choir, some times its affirmation. shrug

Edit nvm, saw the debacle. Arf arf little sealion. Can't have women having communities and discussions now, can we.

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
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This is the 2nd time someone has accused your account of being my alt account. I feel rather honored to be confused with you, Wren &lt;3

Do all feminists sound the same or something? You have way more patience than me, and I respect that. The honor is all mine.

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
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If we weren't scared of snakes we'd get bitten way more often.

You missed the second part of that, the being called dramatic part. You sure this is the right community for you?

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
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I don't think carrying around a venomous snake in your pocket is the solution OP. As badass as that may sound.

Okay, but how great would it be if someone decided to bathroom check me for being trans?

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Sunspear piefed.social Sunspear@piefed.social
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Look, I'm all for this message, but these probabilities mean nothing without a reference - 1 in 3 of what? Per day for an average woman? Per year? Per encounter?

Especially the per encounter would be funny, since the average person rarely sees a snake, let alone a venomous one. And I imagine women usually meet at least three men a day...

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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
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Look, I'm all for this message, but these probabilities mean nothing without a reference - 1 in 3 of what? Per day for an average woman? Per year? Per encounter? Especially the per encounter would be funny, since the average person rarely sees a snake, let alone a venomous one. And I imagine women usually meet at least three men a day...

Without a reference time period we can assume it's within a lifetime.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Do all feminists sound the same or something? You have way more patience than me, and I respect that. The honor is all mine.

We all sound the same to men who refuse to listen.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Look, I'm all for this message, but these probabilities mean nothing without a reference - 1 in 3 of what? Per day for an average woman? Per year? Per encounter? Especially the per encounter would be funny, since the average person rarely sees a snake, let alone a venomous one. And I imagine women usually meet at least three men a day...

Statistics show that globally about 1 in 3 (32%) women experience physical or sexual violence in their lifetime, with the vast majority of these assaults perpetrated by men. [1, 2]

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Sunspear piefed.social Sunspear@piefed.social
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Statistics show that globally about 1 in 3 (32%) women experience physical or sexual violence in their lifetime, with the vast majority of these assaults perpetrated by men.&nbsp;[1,&nbsp;2]

Huh, thanks! Yknow, while this is still a horrible statistic, I'm kind of relieved it's not 32% a year, that'd amount to a lot higher total

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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Huh, thanks! Yknow, while this is still a horrible statistic, I'm kind of relieved it's not 32% a year, that'd amount to a lot higher total

In some places it is that high. This is the average world wide.

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Taleya aussie.zone Taleya@aussie.zone
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Look, I'm all for this message, but these probabilities mean nothing without a reference - 1 in 3 of what? Per day for an average woman? Per year? Per encounter? Especially the per encounter would be funny, since the average person rarely sees a snake, let alone a venomous one. And I imagine women usually meet at least three men a day...

stares in Australian

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Taleya aussie.zone Taleya@aussie.zone
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Okay, but how great would it be if someone decided to bathroom check me for being trans?

"What's in your pants???"

"SNAKES!" unzips, medusa level asps pour out

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Hildegard (she/her) lemmy.blahaj.zone hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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The difference is that men only produce metaphorical venom.

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imeansurewhynot sh.itjust.works imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
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Sometimes it's preaching to the choir, some times its affirmation. shrug Edit nvm, saw the debacle. Arf arf little sealion. Can't have women having communities and discussions now, can we.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
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It’s gonna be nice when Lady Butterfly has time to go through her mod notifications later :)

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Sophienomenal lemmy.blahaj.zone Filetternavn@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Huh, thanks! Yknow, while this is still a horrible statistic, I'm kind of relieved it's not 32% a year, that'd amount to a lot higher total

Keep in mind that this only counts the first occurrence. Women in abusive relationships will only count as 1 instance despite experiencing violence and/or sexual assault regularly over a long period of time. This is also likely an underestimate, as not everyone wants to admit that they were the victim of violence, and some of us get gaslit by others so hard that we no longer even believe we're a victim at all—that it was somehow our fault.

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