I use Baikal for caldav contacts but this doesn't have to integrate. That might be nice though.

Would love something like that.. Better if I can put a reminder to check on them again and maybe add some notes of previous conversations

I think what you are looking for is a CRM. There are tons to pick from but one example is Krayin CRM

Nametag was one I have been contemplating

https://nametag.one/

Alternative post, it's sad that I have to remember when to keep up with people since most people I know don't reach out at all!

I just started out testing Monica. The setup using docker was straightforward and so far I like it.

More specifically personal CRM. Monica is the selfhosted option:

https://www.monicahq.com/

If you're okay with something lightweight (android app, no server, no syncing, just your contacts + regular reminders), then Tend is nice.

https://codeberg.org/jksalcedo/tend

Vibe coded warning for people that don't like AI.

Monica and Meercat CRM are decent options.

That's disappointing. You'd think for an app that small you wouldn't need vibe coding.

Is it slopified? It seems good!