The culture, probably. Post scarcity. Live as long as you want.

You beat me to it.

Too many to count, but since I finished it recently, The Spellshop

And me

Augment your body how you wish. Charge sex back and forth. If you get bored, larp in a medieval society to gently guide them. Bored with our galaxy go visit the next one over. Visit earth, dispair at the backwardness.

What's not to like

Hilda

Definitely the world of Becky Chambers' Monk & Robot series (A Psalm for the Wild-Built and A Prayer for the Crown-Shy). It's a kind & beautiful world where people can be and do whatever feels meaningful to them because it's close to a post-scarcity anarcho-communist utopia. Humans live in small but interconnected communities that exist in harmony with nature.

Highly recommend the series if you want to escape to a warm comforting world for a while. It's a duology of novellas, so a pretty quick read through.

One of the diana wynne jones worlds. A safe one please

Maybe daughters of a coral dawn? No men on the planet sounds lovely.

You got me interested, thanks for the reco !

I decided as a child that it would be Pokemon.

Oh that would be lovely!

Came here to say that. Particularly interested in the body swapping part for totally cisgender reasons.

Oh wow, great thinking!

Pern, no question. The people who mentioned the Culture are definitely on to something, and yet, all the same... Give me Pern.

I wouldn't pick Cradle to start with, but the Cradleverse would certainly be interesting.

I read a lot smut soo I'll just say somewhere with magic.

The world of Earthsea from Ursula K. LeGuin's books. Why?

• the setting's philosophy is nearly Daoist in its focus on balance over domination;
• although it started (deliberately) with a very patriarchal magic order, over time it was revealed that the "mere witches" the mages looked down upon held the roots of true magic and were instrumental in preserving the world;
• said magic was based on "true names" meaning to hold power over anything at all you had to deeply and profoundly understand it, resulting in a world of scholars and poets and deep observers – a world, in short, of knowledge instead of warriors;
• the world wasn't white, with the default skin colour being a reddish-brown, if memory serves;
• being a world sort of on the cusp of iron and bronze age technology, but stable (c.f. further above on balance over domination), the world is mostly idyllically coded and the conflict comes mostly from within, instead of the usual fare of huge earth-shattering events that threaten all.

This is essentially the plot of The Astral Library by Kate Quinn (I think?).