Common denominator and all that

Telling women to smile is well-documented as a type of sexist microaggression.

It may not be limited to women, but it’s overwhelmingly women who hear it.

I’m 42 and I’ve been hearing “you would look so much prettier if you smiled more” since I was a very young teen, often by men old enough to be my grandfather. I used to comply, now I give them the middle finger because I don’t owe anyone a smile.

It's statistically far, far more likely to be directed at women.

Do you have any idea where you're commenting?

I've had guys stop me on the street and demand I smile. I felt like an animal at the zoo.

At my last job (I was male presenting) I got in trouble with HR because a guy at a work table nearby told one of the women this, and I yelled back "you'd sound a lot smarter if you shut the fuck up" and I guess I was the one being inappropriate.

“you’d sound a lot smarter if you shut the fuck up”

You weren't wrong. Lame they got you in trouble instead of him.

Can't have profanity in a workplace full of harassment. It's unprofessional

I've been working for small companies for too long, I almost forgot about that kind of weird rules setup!

I've been working in cinema since 2012, at this point there are no rules

Buncha women talking about an annoying trend that disproportionately affects women. You hop in with "This doesn't just happen to women." Yeah, that is invalidating.

Are you posting in the right community?

That's when you have to give them the most insane, full tooth, homicidal smile while asking them their blood type because surely someone who looks like them has nice kidneys and they'll fetch a great price at the local black market organ swap meet.

Capitalism, mostly, but that's no reason to make it worse by trying to control others' emotions.

Yes. Go share your experience somewhere else.

You’re more than welcome to make your own post to talk about this. In a completely different community.

Love the username honestly lol

I watched this and dogma recently. God I love Kevin Smith and Jason Mews. Oh, I watched Zack and Miri too.

I have never been told to smile in public, and I was unable to smile during the three or so decades I lived as a man. Its not a thing they tell to men. We are expected to smile and be pretty; they aren't.