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LadyButterfly she/her piefed.blahaj.zone LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
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SourDragon lemmy.world SourDragon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-07-21
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Amen 🙌

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TheLeadenSea sh.itjust.works TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-04
#3 · Quote Reply

Okay?....

Was someone here saying we weren't?

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Taleya aussie.zone Taleya@aussie.zone
Joined: 2023-06-21
#4 · Quote Reply

Okay?.... Was someone here saying we weren't?

Usually when you see a post like this yes, someone was being a transphobic ass. This is shots fired.

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TheLeadenSea sh.itjust.works TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-04
#5 · Quote Reply

Usually when you see a post like this yes, someone was being a transphobic ass. This is shots fired.

Oh, what was the context?

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Shindo66 lemmy.world Shindo66@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-02-28
#6 · Quote Reply

I dont care what your gender is or who you want to fuck. Everyone is a person and deserves love and respect.

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nikki lemmy.blahaj.zone Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-12-27
#7 · Quote Reply

🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#8 · Quote Reply

Oh, what was the context?

Sometimes the positive message is motive enough to post.

What’s the point in questioning it?

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TheLeadenSea sh.itjust.works TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-04
#9 · Quote Reply

Sometimes the positive message is motive enough to post. What’s the point in questioning it?

idk, it's just the fact you have to say it implies it's not obviously true

Like "black men are men" sounds like "I wasn't thinking they weren't, but now I'm questioning it"

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#10 · (edited) Quote Reply

idk, it's just the fact you have to say it implies it's not obviously true Like "black men are men" sounds like "I wasn't thinking they weren't, but now I'm questioning it"

A lot of people are questioning, out loud, whether trans people even deserve to exist right now.

So yes, the message that trans women are women is an important one and might bring some comfort to someone as they're browsing.

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TheLeadenSea sh.itjust.works TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-04
#11 · Quote Reply

A lot of people are questioning, out loud, whether trans people even deserve to exist right now. So yes, the message that trans women are women is an important one and might bring some comfort to someone as they're browsing.

But are they questioning it here? I thought this was supposed to be a safe space where trans women being women was just common knowledge

Idk maybe I'm being stupid, it came off the wrong way to me, but I'm sure it is helping people :3

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
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But are they questioning it here? I thought this was supposed to be a safe space where trans women being women was just common knowledge Idk maybe I'm being stupid, it came off the wrong way to me, but I'm sure it is helping people :3

I enjoy positive messages in safe spaces. It's a nice affirmation that the people here in this community are welcoming of trans women. Not all women's groups are welcoming in that way.

I don't think you're being stupid! I think maybe you're being a little cynical or pessimistic, which I can understand with gestures at everything in the world rn

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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#13 · Quote Reply

Sometimes the positive message is motive enough to post. What’s the point in questioning it?
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
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Trans women are women isn't a positive message?

It's acceptance. It's a bold statement in face of the world that doesn't see trans women as women. It's a welcoming message. It's a reminder that this place is a safe place for trans women as well as cis women.

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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#15 · Quote Reply

But are they questioning it here? I thought this was supposed to be a safe space where trans women being women was just common knowledge Idk maybe I'm being stupid, it came off the wrong way to me, but I'm sure it is helping people :3
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#16 · Quote Reply

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Have you read the rules for this community?

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anomnom sh.itjust.works anomnom@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-11-09
#17 · Quote Reply

But apparently not great at aligning graphics.

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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#18 · Quote Reply

Have you read the rules for this community?
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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#19 · Quote Reply

Trans women are women isn't a positive message? It's acceptance. It's a bold statement in face of the world that doesn't see trans women as women. It's a welcoming message. It's a reminder that this place is a safe place for trans women as well as cis women.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#20 · Quote Reply

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https://sh.itjust.works/post/64965663

I’m a dude, but damn, this situation kinda vexes me.

Because 4 days ago you were a dude. And now you're here in a women's only group trying to police what we post about and how we make sure our fellow women feel welcome.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#21 · Quote Reply

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almost everyone

Well then that's not everyone, is it?

The only one arguing here is you

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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#22 · Quote Reply

almost everyone Well then that's not everyone, is it? The only one arguing here is you
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#23 · Quote Reply

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Your post history is not a secret btw.

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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#24 · Quote Reply

Your post history is not a secret btw.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#25 · Quote Reply

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And you have clearly demonstrated that not everyone reads the rules in a community before posting.

So this message, this post, is still relevant for this community.

"Unknownman" - if you don't want to be perceived as a man, don't post that you are a man.

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Ginny [they/she] lemmy.blahaj.zone svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-07-16
#26 · Quote Reply

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If one has an opinion on a subject, that means they’ve already researched the facts and derived their belief from logic.

Lol. Lmao, even.

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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#27 · Quote Reply

And you have clearly demonstrated that not everyone reads the rules in a community before posting. So this message, this post, is still relevant for this community. "Unknownman" - if you don't want to be perceived as a man, don't post that you are a man.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#28 · Quote Reply

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You posted 4 days ago that you were a man.

Please respect the rules of this community. If we want to post welcoming messages for transwomen, we're allowed to do so.

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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#29 · Quote Reply

You posted 4 days ago that you were a man. Please respect the rules of this community. If we want to post welcoming messages for transwomen, we're allowed to do so.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#30 · Quote Reply

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You came in here hot under the collar looking for a fight.

That’s not the vibe here regardless of gender.

We don’t have to welcome men in here.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
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For the record, I had upvoted that post you made earlier and recognized you from it. I didn’t have to stalk your post history. I knew what was in it already.

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unknownman lemmy.zip unknownman@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-01
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#32 · Quote Reply

You came in here hot under the collar looking for a fight. That’s not the vibe here regardless of gender. We don’t have to welcome men in here.
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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#33 · Quote Reply

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Yeah man, recognizing usernames on Lemmy is akin to doxxing. You got me.

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RedSeries (she/her) lemmy.blahaj.zone RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-07-02
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I'm not really involved in this but what an insane response. Your username and comment history are public and I can look at them with a click.

Anyway, I have you tagged as "man" in my Lemmy client, so ultimately I'd say I'm practically committing identity theft on you right now.

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LadyButterfly she/her Moderator LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-10
#35 · Quote Reply

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We have zero tolerance on transphobia, and we're a women only community. Your account is already deleted but i banned it just incase

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LadyButterfly she/her Moderator LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-06-10
#36 · Quote Reply

I dont care what your gender is or who you want to fuck. Everyone is a person and deserves love and respect.

Hear hear! Welcome to WomensStuff we are a trans inclusive women only community and ask cis men don't post 🥰

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Newhere lemmy.ml Newhere@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2026-08-04
#37 · Quote Reply

I totally understand, who would like to be a man 😅😅🤣🤣🤣 even men want to be women!
Jokes apart, in my real life I never met transwoman, so I am very much curious everything about it. I have heard that it's the way person feels like that is way takes this road. Which I hope for them it's smooth and gentle.
P.s. I think it's similar topic to be a mother. Some become moms,some can't, some adopts ,some having hard time to become. But my personal opinion is that if in heart woman wants child, she is already a mom. She has that desire, she acts in certain way with kids ect.
Best wishes to all women!

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