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LadyButterfly she/her
piefed.blahaj.zone
LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneJoined: 2025-06-10 |
The good thing is the consequences have been huge. The players involved have lost a fortune, massive sponsors have pulled out from endorsements with them, and they're suspended from a crucial game. That's gonna go some way to stopping them hurting other women. And most of all... huge support to the women they hurt that night. You matter and we are behind you ❤️ |
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velma
sh.itjust.works
velma@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2026-05-07 |
I went looking for details on this story as it hasn't reached my local news sites. SO MUCH dodgy language, oh they "invited women back to their hotel" interspersed with accounts of sexual assault. They only apologized for DRINKING and inviting women to their hotel. At least the Guardian article actually treats the women in this story as real humans with a voice. The BBC article I found was fucking atrocious in their rape apologia language. |
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LadyButterfly she/her
Moderator
LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneJoined: 2025-06-10 |
Sydney Swans chief executive Matthew Pavlich, coach Dean Cox and captain Callum Mills spoke to reporters in the 24 hours after police began investigating an alleged sexual assault at the Pullman Hotel on Monday. None of the three said much – likely on legal advice – but none felt compelled to even share a thought about the woman or women whose experiences prompted them to go to police. For a sp...
Yep! Best was the coach saying the players found themselves in this situation like they tripped and fell. A high up manager did a grovelling statement talking about "poor choices" of the players and the impact on the women |
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Wren
lemmy.today
Wren@lemmy.today Joined: 2025-11-04 |
This is one of the better articles I could find in terms of what happened at the hotel: https://www.news.com.au/sport/afl/sydney-swans-stars-break-silence-over-alleged-sexual-assault-at-melbourne-hotel/news-story/65bb84b1101393ba28fc67988249760d |
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LadyButterfly she/her
Moderator
LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneJoined: 2025-06-10 |
This is one of the better articles I could find in terms of what happened at the hotel: https://www.news.com.au/sport/afl/sydney-swans-stars-break-silence-over-alleged-sexual-assault-at-melbourne-hotel/news-story/65bb84b1101393ba28fc67988249760d
That's much better than lots of the stuff I've read. What really frightens me about this assault is that these women will deal with crossed boundaries constantly, so aren't going to be so upset from "just" a crossed boundaries touch. Her dad said they were "pressuring" her for sex. I suspect there's been a moment where they've realised they had to raise pure hell and GTFO cos they were gonna get horribly hurt. |
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Wren
lemmy.today
Wren@lemmy.today Joined: 2025-11-04 |
That's much better than lots of the stuff I've read. What really frightens me about this assault is that these women will deal with crossed boundaries constantly, so aren't going to be so upset from "just" a crossed boundaries touch. Her dad said they were "pressuring" her for sex. I suspect there's been a moment where they've realised they had to raise pure hell and GTFO cos they were gonna ge...
That's true. From the description of cops showing up shortly after, reporters, a whole disciplinary committee and the actions of the girls themselves, it sounds like much more than a miscommunication. I have sex workers among my friends and can't help but think of them when I hear shit like this. Thankfully I haven't seen anything disparaging sex workers... yet. |
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ZDL
lazysoci.al
ZDL@lazysoci.alJoined: 2025-06-06 |
Yep! Best was the coach saying the players found themselves in this situation like they tripped and fell. A high up manager did a grovelling statement talking about "poor choices" of the players and the impact on the women
Am I to read that as the guy was upset that the players made the poor choice to get caught? |
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Lady Butterfly she/her
reddthat.com
LadyButterfly@reddthat.comJoined: 2025-07-04 |
Am I to read that as the guy was upset that the players made the poor choice to get caught?
I'd say yes given they only suspended and blamed the players after feminist social media flipped on them. Plus it came out that they paid the women to snort cocaine of their bodies, which is not a good look for the brand |
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Lady Butterfly she/her
reddthat.com
LadyButterfly@reddthat.comJoined: 2025-07-04 |
That's true. From the description of cops showing up shortly after, reporters, a whole disciplinary committee and the actions of the girls themselves, it sounds like much more than a miscommunication. I have sex workers among my friends and can't help but think of them when I hear shit like this. Thankfully I haven't seen anything disparaging sex workers... yet.
I hopped in the Swans reddit sub. You'll be surprised to hear the manosphere has started attacking them IDGAF that the women are selling adult services. It changes nothing, it's their choice what services they offer. IDGAF if these women go for compensation, it changes nothing about what the men did plus the women can't work right now! IDGAF if they're "trashy" and if they are, that is maybe why they were loud and assertive enough to get out the room safely. IDGAF if they were really filming cos they wanted to blackmail the men, it doesn't change that they were assaulted. Ffs it's 2026 we should be past this. |
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Wren
lemmy.today
Wren@lemmy.today Joined: 2025-11-04 |
I hopped in the Swans reddit sub. You'll be surprised to hear the manosphere has started attacking them IDGAF that the women are selling adult services. It changes nothing, it's their choice what services they offer. IDGAF if these women go for compensation, it changes nothing about what the men did plus the women can't work right now! IDGAF if they're "trashy" and if they are, that is maybe wh...
I'm not surprised but I'm still disappointed. I don't care either. They were at work and a crime was done to them. And who knows, maybe they were filming in case something happened, considering sex workers face an uphill battle to prove sexual assault. |
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Lady Butterfly she/her
reddthat.com
LadyButterfly@reddthat.comJoined: 2025-07-04 |
I'm not surprised but I'm still disappointed. I don't care either. They were at work and a crime was done to them. And who knows, maybe they were filming in case something happened, considering sex workers face an uphill battle to prove sexual assault.
Yep! It may also be a tactic to calm clients eg lie and say it's being livestreamed to the agency so the clients work/wife will find out if they don't back off. |
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