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Wren lemmy.today Wren@lemmy.today
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It was the fight for abortion rights that launched Gloria Steinem into feminism.

The idea that women couldn’t reach equality without the ability to decide whether or when to have children was central to the feminist movement of the late 1960s, which Steinem came to embody until her death at age 92 on Wednesday.

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schipelblorp sh.itjust.works schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works
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A few things I think about are:

a) what are the economic conditions which allowed for the liberation of women from child rearing and (to a lesser extent) domestic duties? what happens if those conditions are reversed? and is that what is currently driving the regression of rights?

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Fatima Goss Graves, CEO of the National Women’s Law Center, said progressive proposals — such as expanded and longer paid family leave and better access to affordable child care — are in fact about championing families and making childrearing easier without pushing women to abandon careers and financial independence.

b) would enough women, raised to see motherhood as one of many options, choose to have children at replacement rates? Because the stats are looking like there is no amount of government support that makes enough women willing to put with with the demands of child birth and child rearing to sustain populations. We should absolutely provide those supports, but there's an idea that with enough support, we can have sustainable birth rates, and I don't think that is correct. So maybe the policy discussion should switch to how do deal with a declining population instead of trying to dragoon women into breeding.

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freagle lemmy.ml frisbird@lemmy.ml
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A few things I think about are: a) what are the economic conditions which allowed for the liberation of women from child rearing and (to a lesser extent) domestic duties? what happens if those conditions are reversed? and is that what is currently driving the regression of rights? and Fatima Goss Graves, CEO of the National Women’s Law Center, said progressive proposals — such as expanded and l...

The problem is that the system of capitalism is killing everyone and everything and women who have been oppressed by patriarchy for several millennia, will always be oppressed by this system until revolutionary change is made. What second wave feminism was about was integrating women into capitalism so that they, too, could energize roles that oppress women, minorities, and the working class.

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schipelblorp sh.itjust.works schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works
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The problem is that the system of capitalism is killing everyone and everything and women who have been oppressed by patriarchy for several millennia, will always be oppressed by this system until revolutionary change is made. What second wave feminism was about was integrating women into capitalism so that they, too, could energize roles that oppress women, minorities, and the working class.

So what happens to feminism when capitalism doesn't need to employ so many people?

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reader lemmy.zip reader@lemmy.zip
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feminism back then didn't include black people

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Wren Moderator Wren@lemmy.today
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feminism back then didn't include black people

https://www.ebony.com/gloria-steinem-legacy-feminist-lessons-from-black-women/

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freagle lemmy.ml frisbird@lemmy.ml
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So what happens to feminism when capitalism doesn't need to employ so many people?

Second wave feminism will finally hopefully dissolve back into the feminism of power instead of the feminism of privilege. The feminism of power is anti-capitalist, anti-imperialist class struggle. Feminists will maintain their common cause with the working class and participate in the revolutionary overthrow and dismantling of capitalism and the development of a revolutionary society that actively works to repair the harm of millennia of patriarchy. It will be a very very long project because it will be redressing a very very long history and the impacts of that are deeply layered on its own, but made maddeningly more complex by intersectional oppression. A revolutionary state without feminism will not achieve its ultimate end of universal liberation

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A few things I think about are: a) what are the economic conditions which allowed for the liberation of women from child rearing and (to a lesser extent) domestic duties? what happens if those conditions are reversed? and is that what is currently driving the regression of rights? and Fatima Goss Graves, CEO of the National Women’s Law Center, said progressive proposals — such as expanded and l...
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WraithGear lemmy.world WraithGear@lemmy.world
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A few things I think about are: a) what are the economic conditions which allowed for the liberation of women from child rearing and (to a lesser extent) domestic duties? what happens if those conditions are reversed? and is that what is currently driving the regression of rights? and Fatima Goss Graves, CEO of the National Women’s Law Center, said progressive proposals — such as expanded and l...

what are replenishment rates? it depends on who you ask, and for what. the world can not sustain our current levels of population without massive changes in how we live, but at the same time others argue that to maintain our current way of life, we must match the amount of children to keep the current levels… but also to care for the current amount of people, replenishment rates force a forever growth!!

ultimately any argument for reaching certain amount of replenishment is by definition short sighted. anecdotally these arguments have only been made by people who only care about their comfort at the cost of the future.

the real answer is that the current way of life was never capable of sustainment, and as such there is no need to push for replenishment. we should be incentivizing fewer children. best way i see to do that is to keep the populous highly educated and free from the fear of not being able to provide an idealized life and free medical care. I believe Societies who obtain these qualities find slower or reversed population growth with out draconian measures, or relying on war and famine to cull the weak

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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While the government should be supporting families more and economic conditions do impact people's decision to have children, there is more and more evidence coming through that shows the driving force of the falling birth rate is women having control over when and how many children they have. Access to birth control, abortions, and family planning have had a huge impact.

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While the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported a historic low U.S. birth rate of 1.6 children per woman in 2024, much of the decline, said McConnell, comes from teenagers and young women delaying childbearing.

“The population where the birth rate has been declining most rapidly is actually women 15 to 20 years old,” McConnell said. With better access to contraception and sex education, she explained, teen pregnancies have fallen dramatically—a trend Tiemeier called “a big societal success.”

McConnell also cautioned that the fertility rate, measured year by year, can obscure the bigger picture: completed family size over a woman’s lifetime has not fallen nearly as sharply. “If you look at numbers…that give you a sense of how many babies women have over their lifetimes—women between 40 and 44—the number of children they’ve had is actually not changing as much over time as the fertility rate,” suggesting that the supposed crisis reflects demographic shifts rather than collapse.

One of many sources saying the same thing.

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MachineFab812 discuss.tchncs.de MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de
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Wren Moderator Wren@lemmy.today
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Do you have sources that she was both a CIA plant and that she blamed the problems of capitalism on the patriarchy?

I've read that she was an anti-communist, but was primarily against the soviet union, which had become synonymous with communism for a time. I'd like to think someone as educated as her would have a broader picture, but that seemed like one of her blind spots.

The idea that she was a "plant" is so far out of left field I hope to see something to back it up.

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davel lemmy.ml davel@lemmy.ml
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Do you have sources that she was both a CIA plant and that she blamed the problems of capitalism on the patriarchy? I've read that she was an anti-communist, but was primarily against the soviet union, which had become synonymous with communism for a time. I'd like to think someone as educated as her would have a broader picture, but that seemed like one of her blind spots. The idea that she wa...

Steinem herself told us she worked for the CIA.

Her vision of feminism was liberal feminism, not to be confused with radical feminism, socialist feminism, or Marxist feminism, which are more similar to each other than they are to Steinem’s.

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Wren Moderator Wren@lemmy.today
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Steinem herself told us she worked for the CIA. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gloria_Steinem#CIA_ties_and_leader_of_Independent_Research_Service https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Independent_Research_Service Her vision of feminism was liberal feminism, not to be confused with radical feminism, socialist feminism, or Marxist feminism, which are more similar to each other than they are to Steinem’s.

Oh yeah I already knew that. I was wondering about the CIA "plant" assertion and the idea that she blamed society's problems on patriarchy.

I want to be clear that I'm not arguing in favor of her activities with the CIA or her brand of feminism. I believe she made some important contributions to feminism and that's it.

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davel lemmy.ml davel@lemmy.ml
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Oh yeah I already knew that. I was wondering about the CIA "plant" assertion and the idea that she blamed society's problems on patriarchy. I want to be clear that I'm not arguing in favor of her activities with the CIA or her brand of feminism. I believe she made some important contributions to feminism and that's it.

Yes, she did contribute to feminism, but largely for white, middle class women of the imperial core, in ways that didn’t significantly threaten corporate interests. It was pantsuit/Clintonian feminism; pussyhat feminism.

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Wren Moderator Wren@lemmy.today
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Yes, she did contribute to feminism, but largely for white, middle class women of the imperial core, in ways that didn’t significantly threaten corporate interests. It was pantsuit/Clintonian feminism; pussyhat feminism.

Okay but that didn't answer my questions.

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zarkanian sh.itjust.works zarkanian@sh.itjust.works
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As any good socialist knows, the patriarchy is a tool of capitalism. DUH

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MachineFab812 discuss.tchncs.de MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de
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Do you have sources that she was both a CIA plant and that she blamed the problems of capitalism on the patriarchy? I've read that she was an anti-communist, but was primarily against the soviet union, which had become synonymous with communism for a time. I'd like to think someone as educated as her would have a broader picture, but that seemed like one of her blind spots. The idea that she wa...
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davel lemmy.ml davel@lemmy.ml
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feminism back then didn't include black people

Liberal feminism didn’t include black people; radical feminism, socialist feminism, and Marxist feminism did and still do.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Combahee_River_Collective

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Wren Moderator Wren@lemmy.today
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Working for the CIA and being a "plant" are two entirely different things. I never doubted she worked for the CIA, as you said, that's public knowledge. Again, I'm not condoning those actions.

I asked where she blamed the problems of capitalism on the patriarchy.

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AwesomeLowlander sh.itjust.works AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works
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A few things I think about are: a) what are the economic conditions which allowed for the liberation of women from child rearing and (to a lesser extent) domestic duties? what happens if those conditions are reversed? and is that what is currently driving the regression of rights? and Fatima Goss Graves, CEO of the National Women’s Law Center, said progressive proposals — such as expanded and l...

Because the stats are looking like there is no amount of government support that makes enough women willing to put with with the demands of child birth and child rearing to sustain populations.

What stats? No govt is currently providing enough support to make being a parent not an economic burden, so we have no stats on whether that would actually work.

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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Because the stats are looking like there is no amount of government support that makes enough women willing to put with with the demands of child birth and child rearing to sustain populations. What stats? No govt is currently providing enough support to make being a parent not an economic burden, so we have no stats on whether that would actually work.

In the U.S., this shift is driven in part by a growing number of women deciding against motherhood. According to Kearney, half of American women now reach age 30 without having at least one child. That's a dramatic increase from two decades ago, when only about a third of American women didn't have a child by that age. Many families are also choosing to have significantly fewer children.

There appear to be other upsides to declining fertility. Along with growing individual freedom and economic empowerment of women, the U.N. study also found a rapid drop in the number of girls and teenagers giving birth.

"The decline of the adolescent birth rates has been, I would say, one of the major success stories in global population health over the past three decades," said Vladimíra Kantorová, the U.N.'s chief population scientist.

But as more women and couples delay parenthood, have fewer babies or don't have children altogether, a growing number of nations around the world — more than 1 in 10 countries — have plunged to levels of childbearing so low that many scientists are worried.

Some progressives — as well as many population experts — also view conservative pronatalist policies, including opposition to reproductive rights and calls for a return to "traditional" family structures, as a threat to women.

"Some of these measures and policies can be deeply harmful, especially those related to sexual and reproductive health and choices and women's empowerment — and that's worrying," said the U.N.'s Kantorová.

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Harvard economist Claudia Goldin has found that declining birth rates often coincide with greater educational and professional opportunities for women. Her research also shows that more than one-quarter of the decline in the fertility rates since 2007 can be attributed to falling teen pregnancies rates in the United States.

At the same time, women are not necessarily choosing to avoid parenthood altogether. Many are simply prioritizing other milestones before having children, including pursuing higher education, building careers, securing financial stability, and purchasing a home. Raising a family is a major financial and personal commitment, and many women are choosing to wait.

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Singapore has spent years expanding financial support for families as it grapples with one of the world's lowest fertility rates. Prime Minister Lawrence Wong recently announced a major expansion of family support measures, emphasizing that the government wants to provide assistance well beyond a child's birth and into the early years of parenting.

Under the Baby Bonus Scheme, parents are given cash gifts throughout the first six-and-a-half years of a child's life. The first and second child get a total of S$11,000, equivalent to about $8,660 USD, disbursed in six-month increments, and every other child gets S$13,000, equivalent to about $10,236 USD.

Despite those efforts, Singapore's birth rate remains among the lowest globally. The cash incentives began in 2001 and haven't been able to reverse the declining trend in birth rates.

South Korea has spent billions of dollars attempting to increase what has frequently been ranked as the world's lowest fertility rate. The government offers an extensive package of benefits that includes monthly allowances for parents, direct birth grants, childcare support, expanded parental leave and housing assistance.

South Korea launched a program in 2022 that gave mothers 2 million won, the equivalent of about $1,500 USD, when they gave birth and then an additional 700,000 won, equivalent to about $500 USD, each month until their child turns one. Then, parents get 350,000 won, equivalent to about $260 USD, per month until they turn 2.

South Korea is still struggling with its birth rate, but the number of babies born in South Korea increased in 2024, the first time in nine years.

Estonia has combined direct payments with broader family support programs aimed at encouraging larger families.

Parents receive childbirth allowances and other child-related benefits, with support increasing for households with multiple children. The country also offers paid parental leave and childcare policies that policymakers say help reduce the cost of raising children.

Estonia's birth rate has been on the decline since 2021. The child allowance started in 1992.

Finland has adopted a combination of cash benefits and family support services to encourage child-rearing. One of the country's most famous family programs is the baby box, which provides new parents with essential supplies for newborns. Families can also receive financial assistance and monthly benefits.

Despite being family-friendly, Finland has one of the lowest birth rates among the Nordic countries.

"So we cannot really any longer say that it's our good family policies that explain good fertility in the Nordics," Anneli Miettinen, a research manager at Kela, told NPR in 2025.

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AwesomeLowlander sh.itjust.works AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works
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In the U.S., this shift is driven in part by a growing number of women deciding against motherhood. According to Kearney, half of American women now reach age 30 without having at least one child. That's a dramatic increase from two decades ago, when only about a third of American women didn't have a child by that age. Many families are also choosing to have significantly fewer children. There ...

I'm not sure what your point is. As I stated, there is no govt that fully compensates for the costs of having a child. None of the examples you've given state otherwise.

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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I'm not sure what your point is. As I stated, there is no govt that fully compensates for the costs of having a child. None of the examples you've given state otherwise.

There are stats. There isn't an amount of money the government can give to bring birth rates back to where they were before women had more control over their reproductive health and career/educational goals.

Women are choosing to have less children and having children later in life. That's the driving force behind the falling birth rates. Not the only force, but the main one.

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AwesomeLowlander sh.itjust.works AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works
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There are stats. There isn't an amount of money the government can give to bring birth rates back to where they were before women had more control over their reproductive health and career/educational goals. Women are choosing to have less children and having children later in life. That's the driving force behind the falling birth rates. Not the only force, but the main one.

Yeah OK, you're just being intentionally obtuse and ignoring my point.

There isn't an amount of money the government can give to bring birth rates back to where they were before women had more control over their reproductive health and career/educational goals.

This is your personal opinion. (Not that we need birth rates back where they were, we just need them at a more sustainable level). It should be obvious that most would-be parents today do not have the financial security they would need to have more kids. This applies even in those countries in your examples, because those benefits are a tiny fraction of the costs of raising a child.

Women are choosing to have less children and having children later in life.

That's not in dispute, but the reason for that choice is in part financial.

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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Yeah OK, you're just being intentionally obtuse and ignoring my point. There isn't an amount of money the government can give to bring birth rates back to where they were before women had more control over their reproductive health and career/educational goals. This is your personal opinion. (Not that we need birth rates back where they were, we just need them at a more sustainable level). It s...

I'm not ignoring it, the economy being shit does have an impact.

Birth rates are falling even in countries that have strong social programs and wages. It's a multi-faceted problem, but the driving force is that women have access to abortion, birth control, education, and career opportunities that they've never had before.

More money isn't enough to force women to have more children than they desire. When women are given the choice, they choose to have fewer children and they have them later in life.

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AwesomeLowlander sh.itjust.works AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works
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I'm not ignoring it, the economy being shit does have an impact. Birth rates are falling even in countries that have strong social programs and wages. It's a multi-faceted problem, but the driving force is that women have access to abortion, birth control, education, and career opportunities that they've never had before. More money isn't enough to force women to have more children than they de...

I've lived in Norway, one of the countries with the best QoL and support for kids. I have family in Singapore. I can assure you 'strong social programs and wages' are nowhere close to what kids actually cost. Finance is a huge factor.

driving force is that women have access to abortion, birth control, education, and career opportunities that they've never had before.

I'm not even disputing that they're factors. Go back to my original post and you'll note the only thing I asserted was WE DON'T HAVE ENOUGH DATA ON WHETHER ACTUALLY REMOVING THE ENTIRE FINANCIAL BURDEN OF KIDS WILL HELP. You're not addressing my point, you're just busy with your own talking point that nobody's disputing.

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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I've lived in Norway, one of the countries with the best QoL and support for kids. I have family in Singapore. I can assure you 'strong social programs and wages' are nowhere close to what kids actually cost. Finance is a huge factor. driving force is that women have access to abortion, birth control, education, and career opportunities that they've never had before. I'm not even disputing that...

You said there are no stats and there are. That's what I responded to - the stats are showing the trend of women's freedoms tied to the falling birth rates. And since women have more options to delay children or not have them at all, the economy will play a factor into them using those options that are available. And despite the economic hardships, women overall are not going to choose to have as many children as they did before gaining those freedoms and medical advancements.

I don't think it's helpful to discuss falling birth rates without acknowledging that access to education, career advancements, and reproductive health options have a huge impact. That's one of the reasons conservatives across the globe are pushing to limit abortion access and take away birth control.

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AwesomeLowlander sh.itjust.works AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works
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You said there are no stats and there are. That's what I responded to - the stats are showing the trend of women's freedoms tied to the falling birth rates. And since women have more options to delay children or not have them at all, the economy will play a factor into them using those options that are available. And despite the economic hardships, women overall are not going to choose to have ...

Yeah I'm talking to a stone wall here. You keep pointing to a very different situation and claiming it as data to prove your point when my entire point is that they're very different situations.

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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I've lived in Norway, one of the countries with the best QoL and support for kids. I have family in Singapore. I can assure you 'strong social programs and wages' are nowhere close to what kids actually cost. Finance is a huge factor. driving force is that women have access to abortion, birth control, education, and career opportunities that they've never had before. I'm not even disputing that...

I posted an article about this topic just recently:

The wealthier Middle Eastern countries had birth rates around six or seven children per woman, but the United Arab Emirates “has a birth rate now that is lower or about the same as baby-scarce Japan,” dipping “to about 1.2,” Goldin said, while the birth rate in Saudi Arabia is 2.3.

“When you look at what these birth rates were for just the previous generation, it’s astronomical change,” she said.

The global shift, she continued, can be traced to one common cause: the increased agency of women, who during the last century became increasingly able to opt out of traditional family roles to pursue other options, such as education and careers.

“Wherever you get increased agency, you get reduction in the birth rate,” said Goldin. “The central cause arises when women have autonomy and have the ability to be educated, to have occupations and careers.”

Here's the full paper called "The Downside of Fertility"

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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Yeah I'm talking to a stone wall here. You keep pointing to a very different situation and claiming it as data to prove your point when my entire point is that they're very different situations.

They aren't different, they're related. They are intertwined.

I'm having a discussion with you and bringing stats and sources. You don't want to engage in back and forth discussion? Don't push that there's no data or no statistics on this.

There's a lot of stats on this subject.

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AwesomeLowlander sh.itjust.works AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works
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They aren't different, they're related. They are intertwined. I'm having a discussion with you and bringing stats and sources. You don't want to engage in back and forth discussion? Don't push that there's no data or no statistics on this. There's a lot of stats on this subject.

I'm tapping out. You keep posting your stuff. I'm just rolling my eyes here.

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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I'm tapping out. You keep posting your stuff. I'm just rolling my eyes here.

Aw you're no fun. Did you even read any of the sources I gave you?

I'm not even disagreeing with you completely and I haven't been an asshole lol. There's a prevailing idea here that more money will make women want enough children to solve the falling birth rates and I think that doesn't show the full picture.

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Poxlox lemmy.world Poxlox@lemmy.world
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Oh you mean the fake feminist CIA plant?

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velma Moderator velma@sh.itjust.works
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Oh you mean the fake feminist CIA plant?

And here you are upholding the time-honored tradition of attacking feminists in order to discredit any positive work they've done to advance women's rights.

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