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WitchKnight lemmy.blahaj.zone WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-07-05
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Just got dumped after two years in a relationship while clocking in to work. I hate being in Texas. I hate having no friends, no family. I'm so tired of being thrown away over and over for nearly 40 years

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recursive_recursion piefed.ca recursive_recursion@piefed.ca
Joined: 2025-06-06
#2 · (edited) Quote Reply

Not sure what I can say as one enby to another woman but please have confidence in yourself✊

I'm sorry your current situation sucks.

As far as I'm aware, you didn't deserve to be treated poorly and yeah Texas is pretty brutal towards transpeople, I wish conservatives and republicans wern't such assholes but yeah they're assholes.

But anyways, you are gorgeous and you deserve to be loved! I wish the winds of luck fly in your favor!~💪🏳️‍🌈

Stand strong girl as you are not alone!🤗🌻🌸

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WitchKnight lemmy.blahaj.zone WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-07-05
#3 · Quote Reply

Not sure what I can say as one enby to another woman but please have confidence in yourself✊ I'm sorry your current situation sucks. As far as I'm aware, you didn't deserve to be treated poorly and yeah Texas is pretty brutal towards transpeople, I wish conservatives and republicans wern't such assholes but yeah they're assholes. But anyways, you are gorgeous and you deserve to be loved! I wish...

I really don't deserve to be loved. I don't believe in love anymore

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rounding_error lemmy.today rounding_error@lemmy.today
Joined: 2026-04-20
#4 · Quote Reply

I believe in you.

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Azura The Spellkissed lemmy.blahaj.zone AzuraTheSpellkissed@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-03-30
#5 · Quote Reply

Breakups can be brutal, I feel your pain. Take it slowly, let it sink in. You are allowed to feel shit. It proves you are a loving person, capable of feeling emotions. 🫂

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WitchKnight lemmy.blahaj.zone WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-07-05
#6 · Quote Reply

Breakups can be brutal, I feel your pain. Take it slowly, let it sink in. You are allowed to feel shit. It proves you are a loving person, capable of feeling emotions. 🫂

I don't want to feel anymore

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birdwing lemmy.blahaj.zone birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-08-19
#7 · Quote Reply

Hugs, we will make it through this 🫂

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Berengaria_of_Navarre lemmy.world Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-08-18
#8 · Quote Reply

Come to Europe.

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WitchKnight lemmy.blahaj.zone WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-07-05
#9 · Quote Reply

Come to Europe.

I don't even have the money to leave Texas. Hell I don't have any money at all. I might be living out of my car soon

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Azura The Spellkissed lemmy.blahaj.zone AzuraTheSpellkissed@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-03-30
#10 · Quote Reply

I don't want to feel anymore

That's fine. It takes some time. Sad feelings are valid. You are valid, even when you're sad. I won't tell you to stop feeling sad. The past relationship and the breakup are a part of you, like a scar. Take a deep breath. Allow yourself to heal. Things will get better, and for now, it's enough to reasonably internalize this, even when the mood hasn't yet.

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Sunshine piefed.ca Sunshine@piefed.ca
Joined: 2025-06-07
#11 · Quote Reply

You don’t deserve any of this. Please don’t blame yourself for the failings of society that was meant to cherish you.

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Sunshine piefed.ca Sunshine@piefed.ca
Joined: 2025-06-07
#12 · Quote Reply

I really don't deserve to be loved. I don't believe in love anymore

You do deserve love though.

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TheGingerNut piefed.blahaj.zone TheGingerNut@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-06-29
#13 · Quote Reply

No way in heck you're ~40!

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WitchKnight lemmy.blahaj.zone WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-07-05
#14 · Quote Reply

No way in heck you're ~40!

I'm 38

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Lily lemmy.zip Shirow@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-11-07
#15 · Quote Reply

Sometimes I wish I could open a safe place for trans people for them to have a safe haven. For them to get up on their feet or just having a home and some people they decide to be family. Or just stay building as nice community.

I barely can help myself though.

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gandalf_die_12te lemmy.blahaj.zone gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-06-10
#16 · Quote Reply

Sometimes I wish I could open a safe place for trans people for them to have a safe haven. For them to get up on their feet or just having a home and some people they decide to be family. Or just stay building as nice community. I barely can help myself though.

if you do it, i'd like to be in.

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WitchKnight lemmy.blahaj.zone WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-07-05
#17 · Quote Reply

Sometimes I wish I could open a safe place for trans people for them to have a safe haven. For them to get up on their feet or just having a home and some people they decide to be family. Or just stay building as nice community. I barely can help myself though.

I've been thrown away from supposed trans safe communities too, I've learned to not trust them so much

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Lily lemmy.zip Shirow@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-11-07
#18 · Quote Reply

I've been thrown away from supposed trans safe communities too, I've learned to not trust them so much

I still wanna trust people though even if I get hurt in the process.

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Delilah lemmy.blahaj.zone Delilah@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-01-05
#19 · Quote Reply

Im sorry girl.

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Peacepath lemmy.world peacepath@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-04-21
#20 · Quote Reply

I don't even have the money to leave Texas. Hell I don't have any money at all. I might be living out of my car soon

sell all you still have, and move to the Philippines or Thailand, or anywhere that accept trans people. Just so you may live a life.

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washbasin sh.itjust.works washbasin@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-12
#21 · Quote Reply

Small thing, but at least you have Skeletonwitch. \m/

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WitchKnight lemmy.blahaj.zone WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-07-05
#22 · Quote Reply

Small thing, but at least you have Skeletonwitch. \m/

Saw them open for Amon Amarth twice and they did not disappoint

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