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ickplant lemmy.world ickplant@lemmy.world
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woop_woop lemmy.world woop_woop@lemmy.world
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#2 · (edited) Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh

  • Neighbor
  • Eight
  • Beige
  • Sleigh
  • Received
  • Foreign
  • Weightlifters

Follow the rule

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Lemmywinks lemmy.world icanbrewmushrooms@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-04-07
#3 · Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh Neighbor Eight Beige Sleigh Received Foreign Weightlifters Follow the rule

How do you pronounce 'received'? (Or foreign, for that matter...)

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jonathan7luke lemmy.zip jonathan7luke@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-07-04
#4 · Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh Neighbor Eight Beige Sleigh Received Foreign Weightlifters Follow the rule

... and you'll always be wrong no matter what you say!

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its_kim_love lemmy.blahaj.zone its_kim_love@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-14
#5 · (edited) Quote Reply

How do you pronounce 'received'? (Or foreign, for that matter...)

Received is the except after C rule. Foreign uses the same ay sound as neighbor.

Keith is a better one, but it's a proper noun so a lot of rules for spelling are ignored.

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its_kim_love lemmy.blahaj.zone its_kim_love@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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#6 · Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh Neighbor Eight Beige Sleigh Received Foreign Weightlifters Follow the rule

or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh

And on weekends and holidays and all throughout may. You'll always be wrong no matter what you say!

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UncleArthur lemmy.world UncleArthur@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-31
#7 · Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh Neighbor Eight Beige Sleigh Received Foreign Weightlifters Follow the rule

The phrase I learned was "except after 'c' but only if the sound is 'ee'". Mostly also works.

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corvi piefed.social corvi@piefed.social
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#8 · Quote Reply

Received is the except after C rule. Foreign uses the same ay sound as neighbor. Keith is a better one, but it's a proper noun so a lot of rules for spelling are ignored.

I’m sorry… foreign and neighbor do not use the same sound

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LostCarcosan lemmy.today LostCarcosan@lemmy.today
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Received is the except after C rule. Foreign uses the same ay sound as neighbor. Keith is a better one, but it's a proper noun so a lot of rules for spelling are ignored.

Foreign does not use the same sound as neighbor.

nAYbor

forEN

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its_kim_love lemmy.blahaj.zone its_kim_love@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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I’m sorry… foreign and neighbor do not use the same sound

It does when you pronounce it correctly.

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its_kim_love lemmy.blahaj.zone its_kim_love@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-10-14
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Foreign does not use the same sound as neighbor. nAYbor forEN

It absolutely doesn't have a hard E vowel sound. Except when my deep south relatives say it.

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#12 · Quote Reply

How do you pronounce 'received'? (Or foreign, for that matter...)

It doesn't work all the time. English is full of nonsense like that. People always only remember half of this rule though.

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ceenote lemmy.world ceenote@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-16
#13 · Quote Reply

How do you counterfeit a beige sleigh? Paint it tan instead?

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spizzat2 lemmy.zip spizzat2@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-08
#14 · Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh Neighbor Eight Beige Sleigh Received Foreign Weightlifters Follow the rule

I'm seizing this!

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northendtrooper lemmy.ca northendtrooper@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-06-24
#15 · Quote Reply

Feels like it was ripped from the AI in Dungeon Crawler Carl

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BassTurd lemmy.world BassTurd@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#16 · Quote Reply

I'm seizing this!

I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this, but it's pronounced sayzing. It has to because of the rule.

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KoboldCoterie pawb.social KoboldCoterie@pawb.social
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#17 · Quote Reply

"I before E, except after C, and when sounding like A, as in neighbor and weigh, and on weekends and holidays and all throughout May, and you'll always be wrong, no matter what you say."

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Dharma Curious (he/him) slrpnk.net dharmacurious@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2024-03-22
#18 · (edited) Quote Reply

It does when you pronounce it correctly.

Firstly, there is, effectively, no 'correct' way to pronounce any damn thing. Languages belong to those who use them. RP English is no more correct than Delhi English, or Alabama English for that matter.

Secondly, I have English speaking friends from just about every US state, and so many countries, and I have never once heard one pronounce foreign as "fore-ayn." I'd love to know what dialect you speak.

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atomicbocks sh.itjust.works atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-02-16
#19 · (edited) Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh Neighbor Eight Beige Sleigh Received Foreign Weightlifters Follow the rule

That’s not very scientific…

Edit: Downvote why? ‘Science’ clearly doesn’t follow the rule.

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tetris11 feddit.uk tetris11@feddit.uk
Joined: 2025-02-17
#20 · Quote Reply

How do you pronounce 'received'? (Or foreign, for that matter...)

Four-Ay-Gun

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zarkanian sh.itjust.works zarkanian@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-01-11
#21 · Quote Reply

It does when you pronounce it correctly.

Nope.

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crayons_to_chaos lemmy.world crayons_to_chaos@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-08-25
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"I before E, except after C, and when sounding like A, as in neighbor and weigh, and on weekends and holidays and all throughout May, and you'll always be wrong, no matter what you say."

This is the type of mnemonic device I can get behind. Now if only it were subtly rooted in class consciousness...

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TheLeadenSea sh.itjust.works TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-04
#23 · Quote Reply

i before e, except after c, and this only applies when it rhymes with "me"

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redjard reddthat.com Redjard@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-08-06
#24 · Quote Reply

How do you pronounce 'received'? (Or foreign, for that matter...)

re-saved clearly

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humorlessrepost lemmy.world humorlessrepost@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-30
#25 · Quote Reply

That’s not very scientific… Edit: Downvote why? ‘Science’ clearly doesn’t follow the rule.

Good point, need to add that it’s also only for diphthongs. Science doesn’t apply because the i and e are in different syllables.

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🌞 Alexander Daychilde 🌞 lemmy.world daychilde@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#26 · Quote Reply

QI before E

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Aedis lemmy.world Aedis@lemmy.world
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#27 · Quote Reply

"I before E, except after C, and when sounding like A, as in neighbor and weigh, and on weekends and holidays and all throughout May, and you'll always be wrong, no matter what you say."

Boxen!

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Kowowow lemmy.ca Kowowow@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-06-14
#28 · Quote Reply

"Just sound it out" is the best I got, wish mnemonic devices worked for me but they always get reversed or worse

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ToastedRavioli midwest.social ToastedRavioli@midwest.social
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#29 · Quote Reply

Boxen!

The big yellow one is the sun

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KoboldCoterie pawb.social KoboldCoterie@pawb.social
Joined: 2023-06-05
#30 · Quote Reply

The big yellow one is the sun

"It's a cup of dirt! ...I took a cup... and I put some dirt in it."

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wolframhydroxide sh.itjust.works wolframhydroxide@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-07-25
#31 · Quote Reply

The phrase I learned was "except after 'c' but only if the sound is 'ee'". Mostly also works.

As a scientist, I'm getting a seizure from people in society pretending like this is a useful rule.

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Zarobi aussie.zone Zarobi@aussie.zone
Joined: 2026-06-23
#32 · Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh Neighbor Eight Beige Sleigh Received Foreign Weightlifters Follow the rule

The actual rule is "memorise every word individually over a lifetime because there are no rules"

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WolvenSpectre lemmy.ca WolvenSpectre@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2024-08-26
#33 · (edited) Quote Reply

...except after "c" or when sounding like "ay", as in neighbor or weigh Neighbor Eight Beige Sleigh Received Foreign Weightlifters Follow the rule

You must pronounce Foreign in a strange way.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_before_E_except_after_C

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bstix feddit.dk bstix@feddit.dk
Joined: 2023-06-09
#34 · Quote Reply

Foreign does not use the same sound as neighbor. nAYbor forEN

It does sound like forayn to me.

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JargonWagon lemmy.world JargonWagon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-25
#35 · Quote Reply

How do you pronounce 'received'? (Or foreign, for that matter...)

"Received" would be the "except after C" part, not the "sounding like ay" part.

Not sure about "foreign", or "leisure" for that matter. Maybe foreign used to be pronounced with the "ay" sound. I'm guessing something similar with leisure.

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DrunkenDuckling lemmus.org DrunkenDuckling@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-08-12
#36 · (edited) Quote Reply

It absolutely doesn't have a hard E vowel sound. Except when my deep south relatives say it.

Because it's not a "hard" E.... it's a mid-central vowel in "foreign" (schwa): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mid_central_vowel (like when going "uh")

Proof in an American dictionary: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/foreign

While "ei" in "Neighbor" is NOT a schwa, it's an "ay": https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/neighbor

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DrunkenDuckling lemmus.org DrunkenDuckling@lemmus.org
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#37 · (edited) Quote Reply

It does when you pronounce it correctly.

No...

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/neighbor

nā-bər

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/foreign

fȯr-ən

You're probably speaking some fringe accent.

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DrunkenDuckling lemmus.org DrunkenDuckling@lemmus.org
Joined: 2026-08-12
#38 · (edited) Quote Reply

I’m sorry… foreign and neighbor do not use the same sound

They do but not where its_kim thinks:

fȯr-ən

nā-bər

The "ei" in "foreign" is a schwa ( /ə/ ) and so is the "o" in neighbor.

Sources (American English): https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/foreign, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/neighbor

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DrunkenDuckling lemmus.org DrunkenDuckling@lemmus.org
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#39 · (edited) Quote Reply

It does sound like forayn to me.

The most common pronounciations are "for-in" and "for-un".

Source: English linguistics student who can read phonetic notation

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nogooduser lemmy.world nogooduser@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-09
#40 · (edited) Quote Reply

"Received" would be the "except after C" part, not the "sounding like ay" part. Not sure about "foreign", or "leisure" for that matter. Maybe foreign used to be pronounced with the "ay" sound. I'm guessing something similar with leisure.

The rule that I was taught as a kid was “I before E except after C only if the sound is ee”

It catches all of the examples on the mug except “weird” which gets a pass in my book because it’s weird (Keith’s excluded because proper nouns don’t follow rules). It doesn’t catch “caffeine” but the “ei” in “caffeinated” isn’t pronounced ee where I come from.

I’ve never heard the “ay” rule but it doesn’t seem to catch as many words as the “not ee” rule.

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atomicbocks sh.itjust.works atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-02-16
#41 · Quote Reply

Good point, need to add that it’s also only for diphthongs. Science doesn’t apply because the i and e are in different syllables.

Honestly I wish we would just stop teaching stupid ‘rules’ like this. English is easier to just remember than to try to suss out some sort of rule set by which you can magically spell a word you just heard or magically pronounce a word you have only read. I hated being told to sound shit out when I was a kid.

It’s like “‘c’s make a ‘k’ or ‘s’ noise, sound it out”:
Pacific Ocean

Fucking really?

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ergonomic_importer piefed.ca ergonomic_importer@piefed.ca
Joined: 2026-01-13
#42 · Quote Reply

"It's a cup of dirt! ...I took a cup... and I put some dirt in it."

Do you have tube of cannonball wound ointment?

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LostCarcosan lemmy.today LostCarcosan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2026-04-17
#43 · (edited) Quote Reply

It absolutely doesn't have a hard E vowel sound. Except when my deep south relatives say it.

Yes, you are correct that it does not have a hard E sound

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Haaveilija lemmy.world Haaveilija@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-12-05
#44 · Quote Reply

i.e. English is weird

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LwL lemmy.world LwL@lemmy.world
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#45 · Quote Reply

The rule that I was taught as a kid was “I before E except after C only if the sound is ee” It catches all of the examples on the mug except “weird” which gets a pass in my book because it’s weird (Keith’s excluded because proper nouns don’t follow rules). It doesn’t catch “caffeine” but the “ei” in “caffeinated” isn’t pronounced ee where I come from. I’ve never heard the “ay” rule but it doesn...

Yeah the whole rule (and really the whole confusion) is about "ee". Other pronunciations are always spelt "ei" anyway.

It still has exceptions but it catches a lot. And i wish people followed it because I die inside every time someone spells "Wiener" as "Weiner". The city is called Wien ffs.

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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#46 · Quote Reply

The actual rule is "memorise every word individually over a lifetime because there are no rules"

Just memorize the exceptions. It's better to memorize rules than words.

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OBJECTION! lemmy.ml Objection@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-04-30
#47 · Quote Reply

Just memorize the exceptions. It's better to memorize rules than words.

Not if the rules don't fucking work lol.

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