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I don't remember when I last deleted a contact from my phone, do you remember why you last did?
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vrek programming.dev vrek@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-06-20
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Vanth reddthat.com Vanth@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-06-22
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Earlier this summer. I was cleaning my whole contact list out, removing duplicates, using it to remember folks I would like to catch up with. I've managed to keep my contacts list migrating from my first Nokia brick phone I shared with siblings about 20 years ago, so it was full of a lot of crap.

"Ginger, really good at math" is one contact I deleted. Was it Ginger the name or ginger the hair color? Was it a classmate or someone who was killer at splitting up a restaurant party bill? Idk, I have no recollection so out they go. So does "Stay Away from Steve" and "Another Mike, red ball cap" and "Good dancer Jess". "Shouty Shorty" remains because she's still my friend who is short and very loud.

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i_stole_ur_taco lemmy.ca i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-06-13
#3 · Quote Reply

The last few died.

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schipelblorp sh.itjust.works schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-16
#4 · (edited) Quote Reply

Earlier this summer. I was cleaning my whole contact list out, removing duplicates, using it to remember folks I would like to catch up with. I've managed to keep my contacts list migrating from my first Nokia brick phone I shared with siblings about 20 years ago, so it was full of a lot of crap. "Ginger, really good at math" is one contact I deleted. Was it Ginger the name or ginger the hair c...

Yup, this is a very lemmy answer. Me too. My replacent KaOS flip phone couldn't fit everything, so I just deleted a bunch of old contacts.

Other than that, things stck around because I might want to call someone or--just as importantly--avoid answering the phone if they call.

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lath piefed.social lath@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-07-16
#5 · Quote Reply

I don't delete contacts. Once you're in, you stay in until the end of time. Got a family member's phone some years back, their contacts were added as well. I'll never call any of them, but their numbers will exist even when they no longer do.
The eternal agenda cares not for the living or the dead.

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TomMasz lemmy.world TomMasz@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-12
#6 · Quote Reply

The last few died.

Yeah, same here. But I still have all my work contacts from a company I haven't worked for since 2017.

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Skullgrid lemmy.world Skullgrid@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
#7 · Quote Reply

I don't delete contacts. Once you're in, you stay in until the end of time. Got a family member's phone some years back, their contacts were added as well. I'll never call any of them, but their numbers will exist even when they no longer do. The eternal agenda cares not for the living or the dead.

Even if it's my worst enemy, if they're calling to make my life a thousand times worse, I need to know who is calling

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funkreddit lemmy.zip funkreddit@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-08-01
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Trump supporters that were friends/family of mine are dead to me like Juanito. Don’t need that derangement in my life. Nothing admirable about Trump. A lot of contracts were deleted. Fuk em

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BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan piefed.social BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-09-04
#9 · Quote Reply

I haven't deleted any, but I've kept a few so that I can make sure they are blocked.

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Nasan sopuli.xyz Nasan@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2023-07-01
#10 · Quote Reply

toxic old boss from before i got my professional job.

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slazer2au lemmy.world slazer2au@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-30
#11 · Quote Reply

Couple weeks back. I moved countries a few years ago and those people I haven't spoke to in a decade before that so no point on keeping them.

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Michael Douglass thelemmy.club MichaeleanDouglasse@thelemmy.club
Joined: 2026-09-15
#12 · Quote Reply

I keep them because it's a resource. I can ignore a call if I need to.

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hydrashok sh.itjust.works hydrashok@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-10
#13 · (edited) Quote Reply

Because they were names I’d been scrolling by for years and will never, ever intentionally call them. Nothing bad, just things like old work contacts, or even people from college and high school that were added decades ago and never left my phonebook.

I never wanted to delete them just in case one day I needed to get in touch with them, but it ended up turning into a digital junk pile that I need to clean out now and then.

I can always add them back in if we ever cross paths in the future.

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state_electrician discuss.tchncs.de state_electrician@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-06-12
#14 · Quote Reply

I removed my landlord right after I moved out of that lunatic's house.

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snooggums piefed.world snooggums@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-07-08
#15 · Quote Reply

The only number I remember removing is one that someone apparently stopped using and it was taken over by a spammer. Otherwise I leave it to know who is calling.

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zoltanshields lemmy.zip zoltanshields@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-09-18
#16 · Quote Reply

I do it periodically. My phone contacts are restricted to friends I speak to frequently, family, certain work contacts and a limit of 3 people I don't really talk to anymore but am leaving the door open for.

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Skeezix lemmy.world skeezix@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#17 · Quote Reply

Keep in nind that Meta and Google know your phone number, address, birthday, etc because your friends keep you in their contact list.

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solrize lemmy.ml solrize@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-22
#18 · Quote Reply

I sometimes have multiple entries for the same person for whatever reason (home and work numbers, say) so will merge them and delete one. Or occasionally will see one that was definitely temporary and delete it. Contacts apps that I've used have all sort of sucked. On my computer I just use a text file with revision history in git. In a contacts app I'd like the app to track when contacts are added or revised, but I haven't seen one that does that.

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PetteriPano lemmy.world PetteriPano@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-04
#19 · Quote Reply

Thanks for the reminder. I just wiped 110 contacts.

Three had passed away. Many were colleagues from over 20 years ago. A lot were army buddies from over 25 years ago. Some ex-partners of friends. Too many fast-food places from cities I haven't lived in in forever.

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neidu4 piefed.social neidu4@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-09-10
#20 · Quote Reply

My dad died in 2014. I still have his number saved. No, I don't delete contacts very often.

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abbadon420 sh.itjust.works abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-28
#21 · Quote Reply

Got a new sim last week. Had some numbers stored on the old sim. I saved a few, but didn't bother relocating most of them. That's the same as deleting them, right?

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thesohoriots lemmy.world thesohoriots@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-21
#22 · Quote Reply

I moved. No longer needed the details of local businesses.

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runner_g piefed.blahaj.zone runner_g@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-11-29
#23 · Quote Reply

I don't delete contacts. Once you're in, you stay in until the end of time. Got a family member's phone some years back, their contacts were added as well. I'll never call any of them, but their numbers will exist even when they no longer do. The eternal agenda cares not for the living or the dead.

Same. I've never lost a phone either and I've always transferred my contacts from old to new. That has had some weird duplications and so I have 4 copies of my parent's neighbor and it's been like that since <2010.

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TryingToBeGood reddthat.com TryingToBeGood@reddthat.com
Joined: 2026-03-31
#24 · (edited) Quote Reply

Probably my mother’s landline when she moved…but I don’t have many contacts. And then her cell phone when she died.

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Billegh lemmy.world bhamlin@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#25 · Quote Reply

I needed to stop calling her. 😥

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hexagonwin lemmy.today hexagonwin@lemmy.today
Joined: 2026-02-07
#26 · Quote Reply

number taken over by a spammer. but i still have backups of old version of my contacts list.

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Typotyper sh.itjust.works Typotyper@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2024-08-25
#27 · Quote Reply

I clean it up every few years. People who don't chat or answer eventually get deleted. The past is the past.

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Treczoks lemmy.world Treczoks@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-09
#28 · Quote Reply

The contacts I last removed were some classmates and school contacts of my daughter, who just finished university...

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farmgineer nord.pub farmgineer@nord.pub
Joined: 2026-04-25
#29 · Quote Reply

I periodically clean things up. Getting older means removing dead people at an accelerating pace :/

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boydster sh.itjust.works boydster@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-07
#30 · Quote Reply

Started hosting my own Radicale instance a while back and cleaned up my contact list when I made the transition.

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Wolf314159 startrek.website Wolf314159@startrek.website
Joined: 2024-07-03
#31 · Quote Reply

"See you later."

"Not if I see you first!"

That's why I don't delete contacts. I have a special voicemail black hole for the people I'm making a point to forget.

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