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Passenger says United ‘trapped’ her next to a man who masturbated on flight. Then the airline let him leave.
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shalafi lemmy.world shalafi@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-22
#52 · Quote Reply

Anyone who got past the paywall know what protocol was violated? From the information available, I'm sincerely unsure of what they could have done. Were they supposed to go up the aisle asking someone else to sit next to the masturbator? Were they supposed to swap one of them to one of the flight attendant seats? Can they even detain the guy after landing? I legitimately don't know what they're...

I feel like an attendant should have swapped seats with her. Because a) it's the right thing to do and b) to cover the airline's ass a bit.

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Rivalarrival lemmy.today Rivalarrival@lemmy.today
Joined: 2023-06-11
#53 · Quote Reply

Harm and injury seem to be good enough reason to restrain. Dude could have gone into the bathroom and jacked it. Didn't have to do that in front of others, potentially including kids. Probably going to end up on a list and get sued.

I do think she would have been, if not "justified", then "excused" if she had tried to strike him, as his behavior would likely be considered inciting. And anything he did in response to having been struck would have justified restraining him.

But there would have to be some kind of physical altercation involving him before they could pull out the duct tape.

They definitely should have asked for a volunteer to swap seats with her. An air marshall could have arrested and handcuffed him.

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tazeycrazy feddit.uk tazeycrazy@feddit.uk
Joined: 2025-02-24
#54 · Quote Reply

the fuck is wrong with going to the airplane bathroom. what a creep.

Sounds like they where landing. Hence she had to sit as well. The guy probably could have waited till he was in the airport.

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str82L lemmy.world str82L@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-02
#55 · Quote Reply

Well? Did he cum?!

Easy cum, easy go

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agamemnonymous sh.itjust.works agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-15
#56 · Quote Reply

I feel like an attendant should have swapped seats with her. Because a) it's the right thing to do and b) to cover the airline's ass a bit.

Genuine question, is that allowed? I know their seats are different, I don't know if that would incur some liability

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Rivalarrival lemmy.today Rivalarrival@lemmy.today
Joined: 2023-06-11
#57 · Quote Reply

Genuine question, is that allowed? I know their seats are different, I don't know if that would incur some liability

Flight attendants have duties to attend to in case of an emergency upon landing. For example, opening doors and deploying evacuation slides. For that, they have to be at their stations.

If there were extra, off-duty crew aboard, that would have been reasonable. They could have asked if they had any law enforcement personnel aboard, or asked for volunteers.

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diaphragmwp discuss.tchncs.de diaphragmwp@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2026-06-03
#58 · (edited) Quote Reply

It loads fine in Vanadium, Firefox and elinks. Not sure what you're going on about. It seems like this is a problem with either your connection or your setup, rather than the website, considering myself and others have accessed it fine.

They are probably talking about ReCaptcha. Loads for me from my normal IP (still has a chance to show up) but not from Tor. Latter passable in Tor Browser when fucking with the regular challenge for a while then doing the audio.

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hraegsvelmir ani.social hraegsvelmir@ani.social
Joined: 2025-06-05
#59 · Quote Reply

They are probably talking about ReCaptcha. Loads for me from my normal IP (still has a chance to show up) but not from Tor. Latter passable in Tor Browser when fucking with the regular challenge for a while then doing the audio.

FWIW, the captcha didn't trigger for me in Vanadium over a VPN, so it's not as if you have to completely disable any privacy measures to access it, at least.

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CrimeIsLegalNow ani.social CrimeIsLegalNow@ani.social
Joined: 2026-09-09
#60 · Quote Reply

I feel like an attendant should have swapped seats with her. Because a) it's the right thing to do and b) to cover the airline's ass a bit.

Believe it or not, you're not required to subject yourself to sex crimes as part of your employment.

Realistically the best response was probably just letting the passenger stand with the crew in their little cubby? I'm sure there's laws and rules that the crew thought prevented that, because most people think there isn't flexibility unless you're a billionaire.

What absolutely should have happened regardless was calling the police and security.

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Professorozone lemmy.world Professorozone@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-14
#61 · Quote Reply

The problem might be on your end, because both links are working fine for me.

Same here.

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CrimeIsLegalNow ani.social CrimeIsLegalNow@ani.social
Joined: 2026-09-09
#62 · Quote Reply

It's a human need to have sex. But yeah, having sex in public should never be done.

What's probably happening here is some people hear "in public" and think it means "in public view" and not what it literally means, "not on private property open to the public"

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Professorozone lemmy.world Professorozone@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-14
#63 · Quote Reply

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WTF? Really? Strongly disagree.

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Kangae_Hishiryo scribe.disroot.org Kangae_Hishiryo@scribe.disroot.org
Joined: 2026-04-13
#64 · Quote Reply

What's probably happening here is some people hear "in public" and think it means "in public view" and not what it literally means, "not on private property open to the public"

Maybe, yeah

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ChunkMcHorkle lemmy.world ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-15
#65 · (edited) Quote Reply

Your disability accommodations include a special security hardened browser?

And an emotional support canned ham, you discriminatory fuck. How very dare you.

/s, just in case anyone needs it -- for support

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GreenKnight23 lemmy.world GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-21
#66 · Quote Reply

Easy cum, easy go

where did you come from cotton-eyed Joe?

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SilverFlame lemmy.world SilverFlame@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#67 · Quote Reply

And an emotional support canned ham, you discriminatory fuck. How very dare you. /s, just in case anyone needs it -- for support

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HulkSmashBurgers reddthat.com HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com
Joined: 2023-07-03
#68 · Quote Reply

Ah add it to the list of reasons not to fly.

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GreenKnight23 lemmy.world GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-21
#69 · (edited) Quote Reply

mi scusi

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Gammelfisch lemmy.world Gammelfisch@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-05
#70 · Quote Reply

Planned lawsuit?

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heartSagan5 lemmy.zip heartSagan5@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-05-27
#71 · Quote Reply

Jesus Christ, man! There's just some things you don't talk about in public!

“That kid is back on that escalator.”

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tigermountain lemmy.world tigermountain@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-06-15
#72 · Quote Reply

Fate missed its chance when it didn't seat him next to the woman who took her pants off.

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INHALE_VEGETABLES aussie.zone INHALE_VEGETABLES@aussie.zone
Joined: 2023-06-17
#73 · Quote Reply

the fuck is wrong with going to the airplane bathroom. what a creep.

A fellow half mile high club member.

tips hat

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phx lemmy.world phx@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-17
#74 · Quote Reply

There is no reason they need to detain you to charge you.

Snagging him right at the arrival gate seems pretty reasonable, and certainly security has done so after flights for many various offenses in the past.

But yeah, at the very least they should know who the guy was and be able to provide information to the authorities in order to press charges.

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moldy_rice piefed.keyboardvagabond.com moldy_rice@piefed.keyboardvagabond.com
Joined: 2026-08-07
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#75 · Quote Reply

Your disability accommodations include a special security hardened browser?
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SilverFlame lemmy.world SilverFlame@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#76 · Quote Reply

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That's a perspective I hadn't considered, thank you for sharing. I hope that you're okay, be safe.

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CultLeader4Hire lemmy.world CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-03-28
#77 · Quote Reply

Flight attendants have duties to attend to in case of an emergency upon landing. For example, opening doors and deploying evacuation slides. For that, they have to be at their stations. If there were extra, off-duty crew aboard, that would have been reasonable. They could have asked if they had any law enforcement personnel aboard, or asked for volunteers.

The air martial should have been seated there

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BillCheddar lemmy.world BillCheddar@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-02-16
#78 · (edited) Quote Reply

For the record, if that happens to you, stand up and be a public nuisance.

"EXCUSE ME FLIGHT ATTENDANT BUT, can I please have a plastic spray shield to protect myself while this man masturbates midflight?"

You can also involve the other passengers directly, if they don't react to your obvious public call for help (above) by asking if anyone else sees this guy flogging the dolphin in Seat 33B?

The more euphemisms you can use, the better!

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Rivalarrival lemmy.today Rivalarrival@lemmy.today
Joined: 2023-06-11
#79 · Quote Reply

The air martial should have been seated there

There almost certainly wasn't one. There's only about 3000 air marshals total, but over 10,000 airline flights per day. If there was one on the flight, this guy would have been taken into custody. I'd be surprised if 1 in 10 flights had an air marshal aboard.

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Noel_Skum sh.itjust.works Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-10-04
#80 · Quote Reply

WTF, OP? I had to find an archive to get the rest of the text, and there was a lot more to the story. As usual, United has fully lived down to its abysmally low standards. For anyone else who has zero intentions of paying for a NBC subscription for one article, here's an archive link. There are known problems with the site, but I could not find another archive that had the content. Use at your ...

This story was on the WildFeed comm a couple of days ago… and, yeah, United did almost everything poorly or wrongly. Mind blowingly so.

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Noxy pawb.social noxypaws@pawb.social
Joined: 2024-12-16
#81 · Quote Reply

A fellow half mile high club member. tips hat

genuinely it helps significantly relieve restless leg syndrome, which on a long flight can be downright torturous.

but only if there's not a line of people waiting of course

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Whats_your_reasoning lemmy.world Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-09-22
#82 · Quote Reply

Sounds like they where landing. Hence she had to sit as well. The guy probably could have waited till he was in the airport.

He definitely could’ve waited. The flight was a regional trip and only an hour long.

I bet he does it for the thrill. If he gets off on the publicity of the act and having other passengers be captive around him, then an airport bathroom would have defeated the purpose. He wanted his fellow passengers to witness what he did, like a flasher or exhibitionist.

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GroundedGator lemmy.world GroundedGator@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-12-18
#83 · Quote Reply

For the record, if that happens to you, stand up and be a public nuisance. "EXCUSE ME FLIGHT ATTENDANT BUT, can I please have a plastic spray shield to protect myself while this man masturbates midflight?" You can also involve the other passengers directly, if they don't react to your obvious public call for help (above) by asking if anyone else sees this guy flogging the dolphin in Seat 33B? T...

I'm not a woman so there is probably some bit of deep ingrained fear that I'm lacking here, but this was pretty much my first thought when I heard about this.

Maybe public shaming was this guy's kink, but I think being loud is the right move in this situation. There should have been pictures and videos of this guy.

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chloroken lemmy.ml chloroken@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-11-15
#84 · Quote Reply

Well? Did he cum?!

This shit is sexual assault. Fuck you.

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captainlezbian lemmy.world captainlezbian@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
#85 · Quote Reply

I'm not a woman so there is probably some bit of deep ingrained fear that I'm lacking here, but this was pretty much my first thought when I heard about this. Maybe public shaming was this guy's kink, but I think being loud is the right move in this situation. There should have been pictures and videos of this guy.

As a woman, yeah I'd struggle not to freeze up after being ignored. The big thing is that someone doing that is probably crazy and gives no fucks as to consequences and the people in charge have displayed a level of apathy that I wouldn't know how far it goes. He might attack and they might not stop him.

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captainlezbian lemmy.world captainlezbian@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
#86 · Quote Reply

What's probably happening here is some people hear "in public" and think it means "in public view" and not what it literally means, "not on private property open to the public"

Yeah, a homeless person going at it in an alley, the woods, or somewhere else where they're clearly trying to be discreet is a huge difference from someone masturbating on shared transit next to someone

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tazeycrazy feddit.uk tazeycrazy@feddit.uk
Joined: 2025-02-24
#87 · Quote Reply

He definitely could’ve waited. The flight was a regional trip and only an hour long. I bet he does it for the thrill. If he gets off on the publicity of the act and having other passengers be captive around him, then an airport bathroom would have defeated the purpose. He wanted his fellow passengers to witness what he did, like a flasher or exhibitionist.

Definitely. Probably some needs attention or needs people to see him. Isn't this the issue Louie C.K. had with flashing other female comedians? It's sexual assault whatever it was. Hope the women Is getting better help now.

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Cort lemmy.world Cort@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-09-06
#88 · Quote Reply

There almost certainly wasn't one. There's only about 3000 air marshals total, but over 10,000 airline flights per day. If there was one on the flight, this guy would have been taken into custody. I'd be surprised if 1 in 10 flights had an air marshal aboard.

In addition to their rarity on flights they're basically never allowed to reveal they're an air marshall.

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INHALE_VEGETABLES aussie.zone INHALE_VEGETABLES@aussie.zone
Joined: 2023-06-17
#89 · Quote Reply

genuinely it helps significantly relieve restless leg syndrome, which on a long flight can be downright torturous. but only if there's not a line of people waiting of course

I can't cum unless there's a big line outside tbh

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