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naught101 lemmy.world naught101@lemmy.world
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Daniel Lakeland
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Fediverse, the social media system for 40+ year old people who built the world wide web and regret it.

Oct 01, 2026, 11:32 PM

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๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐ŸŒ€ ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ณ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐Ÿ‡ฎ pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
Joined: 2024-10-06
#2 · Quote Reply

Accurate.

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Plum lemmy.world Plum@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-14
#3 · Quote Reply

You rang?

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marcos lemmy.world marcos@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-16
#4 · (edited) Quote Reply

There are some lost kids wandering around complaining about their moms...

I dunno how they found it into here.

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Zedstrian sopuli.xyz Zedstrian@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2025-03-30
#5 · (edited) Quote Reply

Not 40, but also don't want my thoughts and comments to be an income stream for a for-profit organization, whether that be by selling my data for profit, training an LLM with my data, or contributing to an inescapable network effect that can be increasingly monetized by various means.

The modern social media platform is not designed to foster positive interactions, but rather to maximize shareholder value.

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Vespair lemmy.zip Vespair@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-12
#6 · Quote Reply

I don't regret it. I only regret letting the corporations stake their claim without greater pushback.

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expatriado lemmy.world expatriado@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-18
#7 · (edited) Quote Reply

There are some lost kids wandering around complaining about their moms... I dunno how they found it into here.

complaining about their +70 year old mom

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charokol lemmy.zip charokol@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-07-27
#8 · Quote Reply

Also for people with severe superiority complexes

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Lovable Sidekick lemmy.world LovableSidekick@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-10-19
#9 · (edited) Quote Reply

My take is that the fediverse is nice because it's still in its pre-enshittification phase. Give it time.

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AnarchoEngineer lemmy.dbzer0.com AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-06-04
#10 · Quote Reply

Iโ€™m about half that age, and Iโ€™ve met at least a couple grads and undergrad students on here that I assumed were also in their 20sโ€ฆ

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rockSlayer lemmy.blahaj.zone rockSlayer@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-02-24
#11 · Quote Reply

Hey no fair! I'm 30, I grew up on the Internet and hate what it became

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๐ŸŒž Alexander Daychilde ๐ŸŒž lemmy.world daychilde@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#12 · Quote Reply

I think there's two general kinds of people on the fediverse: Those who believe in whatever freedom, security, privacy, whatever, and the rest of us that came from somewhere else that went off the deep end of enshittification.

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๐ŸŒž Alexander Daychilde ๐ŸŒž lemmy.world daychilde@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#13 · Quote Reply

Also for people with severe superiority complexes

Wow, wrong, and what an ignorant point of view.

(/s) :)

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mavu discuss.tchncs.de mavu@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-09-08
#14 · Quote Reply

true.

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EmilieEasie fedinsfw.app EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app
Joined: 2026-03-28
#15 · Quote Reply

Honestly really glad, I'm tired of reading teenager opinions everywhere on the Internet

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mrmacduggan lemmy.ml mrmacduggan@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-10
#16 · Quote Reply

Wanna see us do it again? ๐Ÿ’ช let's do this, team

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mrmacduggan lemmy.ml mrmacduggan@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-10
#17 · Quote Reply

My take is that the fediverse is nice because it's still in its pre-enshittification phase. Give it time.

It's designed to resist corpo capture via interoperability... if it starts enshittifying, hopefully this will allow users to shift over without incurring too much switching cost keeping them in place

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osaerisxero kbin.melroy.org osaerisxero@kbin.melroy.org
Joined: 2024-08-14
#18 · (edited) Quote Reply

Also for people with severe superiority complexes

Why did you repeat what op said

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RacerX lemmy.zip RacerX@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-05
#19 · Quote Reply

I just wanted my Geocities page back.

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Lovable Sidekick lemmy.world LovableSidekick@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-10-19
#20 · (edited) Quote Reply

It's designed to resist corpo capture via interoperability... if it starts enshittifying, hopefully this will allow users to shift over without incurring too much switching cost keeping them in place

I know the theory, but it really just puts enshittification in different hands.

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crunchy lemmy.dbzer0.com crunchy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-05-28
#21 · Quote Reply

Also for people with severe superiority complexes

who are all wrong. Clearly I'm the most superior.

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Denvil piefed.world Denvil@piefed.world
Joined: 2026-05-04
#22 · Quote Reply

Iโ€™m about half that age, and Iโ€™ve met at least a couple grads and undergrad students on here that I assumed were also in their 20sโ€ฆ

20 year old reporting for duty

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grue lemmy.world grue@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#23 · Quote Reply

My take is that the fediverse is nice because it's still in its pre-enshittification phase. Give it time.

Hopefully its design makes it resistant to enshittification.

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Leigh Weigh lemmy.world LeighWeighTacoma@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-08-08
#24 · Quote Reply

Damn bro I'm not 40 yet. We age fast enough, don't rush it lol

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Leigh Weigh lemmy.world LeighWeighTacoma@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-08-08
#25 · Quote Reply

I just wanted my Geocities page back.

I just made a neocities page, highly recommend

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L0rdMathias sh.itjust.works L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-08-15
#26 · Quote Reply

How dare you accuse me of contributing anything other than shitposts to the world wide web.

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Leigh Weigh lemmy.world LeighWeighTacoma@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-08-08
#27 · Quote Reply

It's designed to resist corpo capture via interoperability... if it starts enshittifying, hopefully this will allow users to shift over without incurring too much switching cost keeping them in place

So was the united States... Lol. But I'm hoping for better here

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measureyoucanpleasure piefed.social measureyoucanpleasure@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-08-24
#28 · Quote Reply

i'm 39 and haven't built shit but the regret is real

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Monument piefed.world Monument@piefed.world
Joined: 2026-04-08
#29 · Quote Reply

Honestly really glad, I'm tired of reading teenager opinions everywhere on the Internet

Jokeโ€™s on you: my opinions are just as bad.

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the_fuckler nord.pub the_fuckler@nord.pub
Joined: 2026-07-01
#30 · Quote Reply

There are some lost kids wandering around complaining about their moms... I dunno how they found it into here.

you leave my muddah out 'o this!

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artyom piefed.social artyom@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-06-08
#31 · Quote Reply

The people who built the web aren't the ones responsible for its' consolidation.

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BuckFutter timeyak.com BuckFutter@timeyak.com
Joined: 2026-08-08
#32 · Quote Reply

Accurate.

Ditto

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QueenFern lemmy.zip QueenFern@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-19
#33 · Quote Reply

Wow

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HubertManne piefed.social HubertManne@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-03-13
#34 · Quote Reply

im over 50 and lee is way older than I. Granted www was just being born when I was in college.

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UnderpantsWeevil lemmy.world UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#35 · Quote Reply

There are some lost kids wandering around complaining about their moms... I dunno how they found it into here.

The great thing about the Internet is that people can just find stuff, often by accident.

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UnderpantsWeevil lemmy.world UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#36 · Quote Reply

Not 40, but also don't want my thoughts and comments to be an income stream for a for-profit organization, whether that be by selling my data for profit, training an LLM with my data, or contributing to an inescapable network effect that can be increasingly monetized by various means. The modern social media platform is not designed to foster positive interactions, but rather to maximize shareh...

also donโ€™t want my thoughts and comments to be an income stream for a for-profit organization

I mean, you're fooling yourself if you don't believe Lemmy has been scrapped by a thousand crawlers by now.

I'm more paranoid about how many accounts are bots than about some data aggregator getting my dumbshit hot takes as training data.

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OnyxRex lemmy.dbzer0.com OnyxRex@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2026-05-04
#37 · Quote Reply

I didn't build it, but I was raised by it. I was so hopeful when I was younger.

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Joe Bidet lemmy.ml JoeBidet@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2021-11-28
#38 · Quote Reply

see you on Reticulum!

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the_riviera_kid lemmy.world the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-03-10
#39 · Quote Reply

Jokeโ€™s on you: my opinions are just as bad.

Yeah? Well I also have shit opinions.

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marcos lemmy.world marcos@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-16
#40 · Quote Reply

The great thing about the Internet is that people can just find stuff, often by accident.

Well, people used to be able to do that. Nowadays, IDK...

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njm1314 lemmy.world njm1314@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-21
#41 · Quote Reply

Yeah this one Cuts deep

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Boomer Humor Doomergod lemmy.world Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-15
#42 · Quote Reply

๐Ÿ”˜Iโ€™m in this meme and I donโ€™t like it

(Sorry for everything.)

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OnyxRex lemmy.dbzer0.com OnyxRex@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2026-05-04
#43 · Quote Reply

who are all wrong. Clearly I'm the most superior.

See, this is why I love Lemmy. The good parts are like everyone's grey beard uncles got together and are all trying to tell the best goofball jokes.

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aizakku sh.itjust.works aizakku@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-07-24
#44 · Quote Reply

I think there's two general kinds of people on the fediverse: Those who believe in whatever freedom, security, privacy, whatever, and the rest of us that came from somewhere else that went off the deep end of enshittification.

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Rhaedas fedia.io Rhaedas@fedia.io
Joined: 2024-03-03
#45 · Quote Reply

"I was there, Gandalf."

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krashmo lemmy.world krashmo@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#46 · Quote Reply

Yeah? Well I also have shit opinions.

I think mine are the best there is. I do have a problem with objective judgment though

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aizakku sh.itjust.works aizakku@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-07-24
#47 · Quote Reply

I don't regret it. I only regret letting the corporations stake their claim without greater pushback.

โ€œThe best time to join the fediverse is 10 years ago, second best time is today.โ€

  • Wayne Gretzky
  • Michael Scott
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krashmo lemmy.world krashmo@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#48 · Quote Reply

I think there's two general kinds of people on the fediverse: Those who believe in whatever freedom, security, privacy, whatever, and the rest of us that came from somewhere else that went off the deep end of enshittification.

I am bolth

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tal lemmy.today tal@lemmy.today
Joined: 2023-10-04
#49 · (edited) Quote Reply

I like the Web.

I don't like all of the websites out there and avoid using some, but I think that that was always going to be the case.

I guess that maybe it's a little surprising that there was the degree of consolidation that there was among the broader population into use of some specific websites. But...well, network effect applies to social media, so you'd expect at least some natural tendency in that direction.

considers

I guess that the degree of shift to social media as a whole is surprising to me. Like, most really important websites are social media websites. But, well, I'd always used social media myself, even prior to the term being coined, so the idea that others might want to use it doesn't seem that strange. BBSes, Usenet. I wasn't a user of The WELL, but there's another influential forum.

And a shift to Web-based social media was predicted. Those of us who were around probably remember use of the term "Web 2.0":

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Web_2.0

Web 2.0 (also known as participative, participatory,[1] web and social web)[2] refers to websites that emphasize user-generated content, ease of use, participatory culture, and interoperability (i.e., compatibility with other products, systems, and devices) for end users.

The term was coined by Darcy DiNucci in 1999[3] and later popularized by Tim O'Reilly and Dale Dougherty at the first Web 2.0 Conference in 2004.[4][5][6] Although the term mimics the numbering of software versions, it does not denote a formal change in the nature of the World Wide Web;[7] the term merely describes a general change that occurred during this period as interactive websites proliferated and came to overshadow the older, more static websites of the original Web.[2]

A Web 2.0 website allows users to interact and collaborate through social media dialogue as creators of user-generated content in a virtual community. This contrasts the first generation of Web 1.0-era websites where people were limited to passively viewing content. Examples of Web 2.0 features include social networking sites or social media sites (e.g., Facebook), blogs, wikis, folksonomies ("tagging" keywords on websites and links), video sharing sites (e.g., YouTube), image sharing sites (e.g., Flickr), hosted services, Web applications ("apps"), collaborative consumption platforms, and mashup applications.

Whether Web 2.0 is substantially different from prior Web technologies has been challenged by World Wide Web inventor Tim Berners-Lee, who describes the term as jargon.[8] His original vision of the Web was "a collaborative medium, a place where we [could] all meet and read and write".[9][10] On the other hand, the term Semantic Web (sometimes referred to as Web 3.0)[11] was coined by Berners-Lee to refer to a web of content where the meaning can be processed by machines.[12]

By Berners-Lee's statement there, he always expected the Web to have a social aspect.

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James R Kirk startrek.website Kirk@startrek.website
Joined: 2025-03-01
#50 · Quote Reply

Lemmy is under 25 and over 45 absolutely no in between

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Lovable Sidekick lemmy.world LovableSidekick@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-10-19
#51 · Quote Reply

Hopefully its design makes it resistant to enshittification.

Depends... if enshittification just means corporate control and advertising, I have high hopes for the design. If enshittification also includes things like personal insults, echo chambers and gatekeeping, those ships have already sailed as expected.

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