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Would it be hypocritical to cancel ‘cancel culture’?
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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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The definition of cancel culture: https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/cancel-culture

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slazer2au lemmy.world slazer2au@lemmy.world
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#2 · Quote Reply

Why should we stop calling out asshole behaviour or letting people experience the consequences of their actions?

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-09-06
#3 · (edited) Quote Reply

Why should we stop calling out asshole behaviour or letting people experience the consequences of their actions?

We shouldn’t, I agree we should call them out. But does cancel culture really achieve that, or does it just sort of ‘plaster’ over the issue by ignoring it, rather than addressing/fixing it (presuming it can be fixed)? And why not just call it out? Why do we have to turn our backs on them/their output and ignore, why does that become the consequence en masse? Are there no stronger consequences?

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slazer2au lemmy.world slazer2au@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-30
#4 · Quote Reply

We shouldn’t, I agree we should call them out. But does cancel culture really achieve that, or does it just sort of ‘plaster’ over the issue by ignoring it, rather than addressing/fixing it (presuming it can be fixed)? And why not just call it out? Why do we have to turn our backs on them/their output and ignore, why does that become the consequence en masse? Are there no stronger consequences?

Because people saying "Hey, that's a dick thing to do/say. don't do that." and then nothing else has zero consequences. its just another person that doesn't like them.

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#5 · (edited) Quote Reply

Because people saying "Hey, that's a dick thing to do/say. don't do that." and then nothing else has zero consequences. its just another person that doesn't like them.

I completely agree that saying those things isn’t effective, but does ignoring them really have a significantly higher effect? I guess what I’m asking is, are there no alternatives we could try that might be more effective?

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yesman lemmy.world yesman@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-06
#6 · Quote Reply

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPNZTtoQBmA

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Bev's Dad lemmy.ca BevsDad@lemmy.ca
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#7 · Quote Reply

I completely agree that saying those things isn’t effective, but does ignoring them really have a significantly higher effect? I guess what I’m asking is, are there no alternatives we could try that might be more effective?

Well, if they're dickish enough they go to prison or get put on a list.
Shunning is probably the oldest punishment in the book after Big Stick™.
These days it just doesn't guarantee the death of that person like it would have in the past.

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#8 · (edited) Quote Reply

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPNZTtoQBmA

Funny how conservatives are always griping that their voices are being stifled when their history is deeply rooted entwined with slavery, oppression, racism… have I missed anything?

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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Well, if they're dickish enough they go to prison or get put on a list. Shunning is probably the oldest punishment in the book after Big Stick™. These days it just doesn't guarantee the death of that person like it would have in the past.

That’s what I thought: people subject to it are evolving their methods against it, so is it really still that effective (then again, we still know of the name Herostratus, so was it ever that effective?)

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slazer2au lemmy.world slazer2au@lemmy.world
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I completely agree that saying those things isn’t effective, but does ignoring them really have a significantly higher effect? I guess what I’m asking is, are there no alternatives we could try that might be more effective?

Ignoring a problem never makes it go away, it only in trenches the problem. Look at the catholic church, ignoring sexual abuse hasn't made the problem go away. People who do it get promoted over time allowing those below them to do the same thing.

Same thing with media personalities, or sporting stars. All the open secrets about drug use, partner assault, match fixing. None of those have gone away by not watching a show or match.

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cattywampas lemmy.world cattywampas@lemmy.world
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Canceling is not a real thing. Next question.

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-09-06
#12 · Quote Reply

Ignoring a problem never makes it go away, it only in trenches the problem. Look at the catholic church, ignoring sexual abuse hasn't made the problem go away. People who do it get promoted over time allowing those below them to do the same thing. Same thing with media personalities, or sporting stars. All the open secrets about drug use, partner assault, match fixing. None of those have gone a...

Well that’s kind of the point I was trying to make: if it’s not working as it should or as well as it ought to, shouldn’t we look to alternative consequences? (And I don’t necessarily mean to completely replace the concept, but maybe to complement it or work alongside it to further punish dickheads)?

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#13 · Quote Reply

Canceling is not a real thing. Next question.

Ok. Where did you learn to spell cancelling?

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kbal fedia.io kbal@fedia.io
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#14 · (edited) Quote Reply

That's a pretty high skill level social media stunt, I don't think you have the ability for it. There aren't many who do.

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PeteWheeler lemmy.world PeteWheeler@lemmy.world
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#15 · Quote Reply

Define cancel culture.

Do you mean accountability, either socially or legally? Do you mean people complaining about someone and their behavior on the internet?

'cancel culture' is just a phrase like 'woke' is. No real definition behind it and only real use is to dogwhistle to others saying your 'in the group'.

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#16 · Quote Reply

That's a pretty high skill level social media stunt, I don't think you have the ability for it. There aren't many who do.

I’m not trying to, I’m just curious what people’s opinions on the concept of cancelling cancel culture is.

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#17 · Quote Reply

Define cancel culture. Do you mean accountability, either socially or legally? Do you mean people complaining about someone and their behavior on the internet? 'cancel culture' is just a phrase like 'woke' is. No real definition behind it and only real use is to dogwhistle to others saying your 'in the group'.

This is the definition: https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/cancel-culture

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Michael Douglass thelemmy.club MichaeleanDouglasse@thelemmy.club
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#18 · Quote Reply

Cancel culture is just boycotting wrapped in a demonizing term.

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TheOrcWhoWrites lemmy.world HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world
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#19 · Quote Reply

Cancel culture is just boycotting wrapped in a demonizing term.

This ^^^

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Michael Douglass thelemmy.club MichaeleanDouglasse@thelemmy.club
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#20 · Quote Reply

This ^^^

I'm honestly very surprised at how I've never seen anyone point this out in the millions of threads regarding the idea.

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TheOrcWhoWrites lemmy.world HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world
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#21 · Quote Reply

Cancel culture only exists because of group peer pressure to scrutinize those who they believe should be censored. To cancel it, is like trying to cancel a protest. They are still going to get around it, somehow and cancel who they can. There is no cancellation of it. It has been around for hundreds of years just with a different term.

But to specifically answer your question: yes it is quite literally hypocritical.

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#22 · Quote Reply

Cancel culture is just boycotting wrapped in a demonizing term.

Well, you know what Shakespeare (should’ve) said: a shit by any other name would stink as fucked up

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#23 · Quote Reply

Cancel culture only exists because of group peer pressure to scrutinize those who they believe should be censored. To cancel it, is like trying to cancel a protest. They are still going to get around it, somehow and cancel who they can. There is no cancellation of it. It has been around for hundreds of years just with a different term. But to specifically answer your question: yes it is quite l...

Thanks for the straightforward answer

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cattywampas lemmy.world cattywampas@lemmy.world
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#24 · Quote Reply

Ok. Where did you learn to spell cancelling?

Both are correct.

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Michael Douglass thelemmy.club MichaeleanDouglasse@thelemmy.club
Joined: 2026-09-15
#25 · (edited) Quote Reply

Well, you know what Shakespeare (should’ve) said: a shit by any other name would stink as fucked up

Do you not appreciate the power of the disgruntled and slighted consumer to be able to affect change with their voice? This is a sincere and genuine question. What exactly would a world with no boycotts look like? Probably the biblical Egypt or U.S. during slavery.

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#26 · Quote Reply

Both are correct.

Fair enough. Quirk of being British ig

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#27 · (edited) Quote Reply

Do you not appreciate the power of the disgruntled and slighted consumer to be able to affect change with their voice? This is a sincere and genuine question. What exactly would a world with no boycotts look like? Probably the biblical Egypt or U.S. during slavery.

That’s not the point I was making. I’m all for boycotting (I think the Montgomery bus boycott was one of the most amazing events in history). The point I was making was people weaponise names to turn people against something: you call something a shit, and everyone becomes convinced they can smell it without thinking

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hot_mocha_decaf lemmy.cafe hot_mocha_decaf@lemmy.cafe
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#28 · Quote Reply

I just call it old fashion ostracism. Its a cultural universal.

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Michael Douglass thelemmy.club MichaeleanDouglasse@thelemmy.club
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#29 · Quote Reply

That’s not the point I was making. I’m all for boycotting (I think the Montgomery bus boycott was one of the most amazing events in history). The point I was making was people weaponise names to turn people against something: you call something a shit, and everyone becomes convinced they can smell it without thinking

Can you use a more clear example? I don't know exactly what you mean, and I feel this conversation needs me to know exactly what you mean.

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missingno fedia.io missingno@fedia.io
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#30 · Quote Reply

https://youtu.be/szybEhqUmVI

No one complains when someone they don't like gets into trouble for reasons that are obviously justified. The term "cancel culture" only gets invoked when someone on their side is in trouble for reasons they don't agree with, in order to spin it into a persecution complex. But that's all it is. And even the people who most loudly complain about "cancel culture" are always the first jump to cancel anyone on the opposing side - because they're obviously always in the right, so it's only "cancel culture" when the other side does it.

Even your dictionary link can't clearly define an actual line, because there isn't one.

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expletivedeleted lemmy.zip expletivedeleted@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-09-13
#31 · (edited) Quote Reply

Why should we stop calling out asshole behaviour or letting people experience the consequences of their actions?

I never understood the phrase "cancel culture".

Oh, was Hitler a victim of cancel culture? Well, sadly no; let me think of a better example.

Caligula. Certainly no one still looks upon his ass favorably, save for Kash Patel, as they both had fondness for horses.

"Those that work forces, are the same who fuck horses... killing in the name of"

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Zarobi aussie.zone Zarobi@aussie.zone
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#32 · Quote Reply

Because people saying "Hey, that's a dick thing to do/say. don't do that." and then nothing else has zero consequences. its just another person that doesn't like them.

Cancel culture is more than that. It has ties to doxxing, harassment, death threats, employment loss, assault, suicide, etc. It's like the full force of the internet has decided you are a problem and need to be eliminated; rather than your benign description. Pretending like it doesn't have problems is disingenuous.

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
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#33 · Quote Reply

https://youtu.be/szybEhqUmVI No one complains when someone they don't like gets into trouble for reasons that are obviously justified. The term "cancel culture" only gets invoked when someone on their side is in trouble for reasons they don't agree with, in order to spin it into a persecution complex. But that's all it is. And even the people who most loudly complain about "cancel culture" are ...

I think I like your explanation better than any others I’ve read so far

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-09-06
#34 · Quote Reply

Can you use a more clear example? I don't know exactly what you mean, and I feel this conversation needs me to know exactly what you mean.

Fair enough. Basically what I’m saying is, you’re right, it’s because people distort the meaning of something innocuous (I.e. a boycott) into something unpleasant sounding (e.g. cancel culture) for whatever purpose they have.

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Michael Douglass thelemmy.club MichaeleanDouglasse@thelemmy.club
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#35 · Quote Reply

Fair enough. Basically what I’m saying is, you’re right, it’s because people distort the meaning of something innocuous (I.e. a boycott) into something unpleasant sounding (e.g. cancel culture) for whatever purpose they have.

So you're anti-cancel culture as a term?

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Cyril Strobe sh.itjust.works ReconciliationTime22128@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-09-06
#36 · Quote Reply

So you're anti-cancel culture as a term?

I guess so. Sort of. I’m not against boycotting, if that’s what you’re asking. Then again, whether I am or I’m not is irrelevant to the debate at large, as a whole.

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