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decolo piefed.social decolo@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-06-29
#102 · Quote Reply

And you can't see how stupid this is?

I addressed this in a tasteful edit.

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Wildmimic anarchist.nexus Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus
Joined: 2025-09-05
#103 · Quote Reply

And a centralized database can be modified at will by whoever controls it. Just because you place no value on a distributed ledger that is censorship and fraud resistant doesn’t mean that configuration has no value. Centralized currencies are secured with violence. Blockchains are secured with math.

You can also apply cryptographic functions to make sure database entries are not modified - this is then an issue of transparency and not centralization.

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decolo piefed.social decolo@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-06-29
#104 · Quote Reply

How is that helpful if the categories are based on birthdays?

That part is dumb. I edited my comment now that I understand the confusion

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untorquer quokk.au untorquer@quokk.au
Joined: 2025-12-03
#105 · Quote Reply

It does say every straight man in the picture

The key is to be just a little gay, as a treat!

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Honytawk discuss.tchncs.de Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2026-02-20
#106 · Quote Reply

Of all the non-scientific things to believe in, astrology is one of the weirdest. Especially if you’re talking about ancient astrology, come on now… the sky has changed significantly in eg 2000 years, how could you make any conclusions based on that? Or the figures drawn from groups of stars, constellations, that are not even remotely close to each other if you look from another viewpoint? But ...

I just can't imagine how they can fit twins with completely different personalities in their world view.

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baguettefish discuss.tchncs.de baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2023-07-06
#107 · Quote Reply

how do you feel when it actively makes the world a worse place? because a lot of these folks believe in anti-vaccination and other crazy stuff that is actively harming other people and themselves.

then it's harmful and should probably be stopped. ideally you'd have empirically verified folk wisdom, but then it isn't folk wisdom anymore, just science.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#108 · Quote Reply

And that poor WHITE boy is still going to have more privelage than a poor black one. Gee, maybe it’s like, some sort of spectrum and not quite so… black and white.

right, because people's skin color is inherently how much power and priveldge they have...

and not actual power and privilege. because you know, we can't talk about that. we just attribute it to skin color. and that's not extremely racist at all...

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#109 · (edited) Quote Reply

More privelage than a black guy living in Louisiana.

really. so a middle-class black kid has less privilege than a poor white kid?

or maybe privilege is about money and power? and skin color has very little to do with that.

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whoisearth lemmy.ca whoisearth@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-07-03
#110 · Quote Reply

cool, go trade places with a poor white boy in louisana and see how much 'privilege' that life brings. I'm sure you will love the lack of education, economic opportunity, and the backwards culture you're brought up in that you can't escape. oh, you don't want ot make that trade? gee, maybe because you're more privileged than they are...

Clutch them pearls.

Anyone reading this. Make friends with black immigrants, specifically black women and then let's talk about privilege.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#111 · Quote Reply

Clutch them pearls. Anyone reading this. Make friends with black immigrants, specifically black women and then let's talk about privilege.

What if they are from millionaire families? Are they still underprivileged?

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CrimeIsLegalNow ani.social CrimeIsLegalNow@ani.social
Joined: 2026-09-09
#112 · Quote Reply

Star racism is still racism. I don't make fun of it, I simply reject it as esoteric bigotry.

I mean the word you want is prejudice but sure star racism is a lot catchier and race is a construct anyways.

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JigglySackles lemmy.world JigglySackles@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#113 · Quote Reply

Or just don't try to get laid with stupid people.

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whoisearth lemmy.ca whoisearth@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-07-03
#114 · Quote Reply

What if they are from millionaire families? Are they still underprivileged?

Clutch dem pearls harder.

Are you really going to tell everyone here a black poor person is equal to a white one?

Really? That's the hill you're going to die on?

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#115 · Quote Reply

then it's harmful and should probably be stopped. ideally you'd have empirically verified folk wisdom, but then it isn't folk wisdom anymore, just science.

the problem is people are willing to commit violence for beliefs.

not so much empirically verified science.

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athatet lemmy.zip athatet@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-09-12
#116 · Quote Reply

right, because people's skin color is inherently how much power and priveldge they have... and not actual power and privilege. because you know, we can't talk about that. we just attribute it to skin color. and that's not extremely racist at all...

right, because peoples skin color is inherently how much power and privilege they have…

Yes. Like, yeah bud. That’s how racism works. White people are going to have more privilege than black people.

That’s not to say that the poor white kid isn’t going to experience hardships but the poor black child is deffo gonna have it way worse.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#117 · (edited) Quote Reply

But being a Pisces doesn't mean anything, does it? It could both mean being someone who is afraid of risks and someone who is bold and takes chances. How is it easier?

it means what people want it to mean.

And that's why Astrology is so powerful. it's 100% projection and bias confirmation.

'take chances' is entirely relative. what is a bold risk for one person, is an afterthought for another person, but in astrology there is no specific context, just vague nonsense worded such that anyone can project onto it.

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foo feddit.uk foo@feddit.uk
Joined: 2024-05-07
#118 · Quote Reply

Hmm this gives me an idea... Ladies, who would like to invest in your sign? The of course you will have to compete for investments against the other birth signs I also represent...

And, just like that, Astrocoin was born.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#119 · (edited) Quote Reply

Glad my partner isn't into it, but I am a decent enough actor to have gone along with it with past partners

they really do like it when you play the part they want you to play.

and then they complain nobody is 'real' or 'honest' with them...

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ickplant lemmy.world ickplant@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#120 · (edited) Quote Reply

I like to think of astrology as a fine grained personality shorthand like Meyers Briggs. the magical star-assigned fixed personality is dumb. what's useful is being able to tell Becky to stop being such a Capricorn and come out and party, even if she is a cancer or whatever. it's just a memey way to reference behavioral traits if your friend group already knows what they mean. i don't know how ...

That argument falls flat to me simply because there are 13 zodiac signs, not 12, and ancient (and modern) astrologers simply ignore the 13th one (Ophiuchus) for convenience.

If you are going to claim the stars have influence over our personalities, at least be consistent with how you “read” said stars.

Not to mention, there is zero evidence that astrology works.

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ickplant lemmy.world ickplant@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#121 · Quote Reply

How do you "go" gay?

Sheer willpower.

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Gandalf the Gorsed feddit.org GandalftheBlack@feddit.org
Joined: 2024-06-27
#122 · Quote Reply

Solution: date an astronomer

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Honytawk discuss.tchncs.de Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2026-02-20
#123 · (edited) Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

At least those get laid.

You went to play for the other team because no girl wanted to fuck you, but now you're just a gay incel.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#124 · Quote Reply

right, because peoples skin color is inherently how much power and privilege they have… Yes. Like, yeah bud. That’s how racism works. White people are going to have more privilege than black people. That’s not to say that the poor white kid isn’t going to experience hardships but the poor black child is deffo gonna have it way worse.

Do you have any real world experience with underprivledged people, or is this all purely theoretical for you?

Plenty of white kids have it way worse than black kids, or any other race of kid, or mixed kids. But that would require learning about the circumstances of the individual, rather than treating their 'privledge' as a pure product of their skin color.

What if the black kid is Jewish? or Episcopalian? Did you know those religious groups have much higher incomes than Catholics or Baptists? or does skin color trump religion?

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boonhet sopuli.xyz boonhet@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2025-06-16
#125 · Quote Reply

Or just don't try to get laid with stupid people.

I mean calling half an entire gender stupid is pretty bold

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UnderpantsWeevil lemmy.world UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#126 · Quote Reply

Or just don't try to get laid with stupid people.

Dated a girl and, while we were walking through the park, she points up at the sky. "Oh look, Chemtrails". I absolutely bust up laughing, because I assume I've accidentally stepped into a relationship with a conspiracy theorist. She looks incredibly confused. I explain what chemtrails are. She gets even more confused. We whip out our phones for a minute. She says, "Omg I meant contrails"

She's a lawyer at a white shoe firm now and makes, like, twice as much as I do in IT. Also, absolutely incredible in the sack.

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decolo piefed.social decolo@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-06-29
#127 · Quote Reply

That argument falls flat to me simply because there are 13 zodiac signs, not 12, and ancient (and modern) astrologers simply ignore the 13th one (Ophiuchus) for convenience. If you are going to claim the stars have influence over our personalities, at least be consistent with how you “read” said stars. Not to mention, there is zero evidence that astrology works.

updated my comment lol

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Echo Dot feddit.uk echodot@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-07-26
#128 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Oh, a technical explanation

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athatet lemmy.zip athatet@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-09-12
#129 · Quote Reply

Do you have any real world experience with underprivledged people, or is this all purely theoretical for you? Plenty of white kids have it way worse than black kids, or any other race of kid, or mixed kids. But that would require learning about the circumstances of the individual, rather than treating their 'privledge' as a pure product of their skin color. What if the black kid is Jewish? or E...

Right. So now we are getting into what is called ‘intersectionality’. That’s where you look at all the different factors such as gender, race, sexuality, etc. Yes, some black people are going to have more privalage than some white people. We have to take all of this into account. Like I said, it really isn’t so black and white.

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ickplant lemmy.world ickplant@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#130 · Quote Reply

updated my comment lol

I can appreciate that view point as long as we are in agreement that there is no real science behind it. I can totally see how people use “I’m such a Pisces” to describe themselves as sensitive and emotional. I just wish they would say “I’m sensitive and emotional” instead, lol.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#131 · Quote Reply

Clutch dem pearls harder. Are you really going to tell everyone here a black poor person is equal to a white one? Really? That's the hill you're going to die on?

No, I'm telling you your belief is racist and ignorant, because of your assumption a black skin inherently makes one 'worse off' than white skin.

I'm someone who grew up in a poor mixed race community. But please tell me more about how my real life experience is wrong? I certainly get that a lot, especially whenever I'm around wealthy and privileged people.

What's funny is when I meet other people who grew up the way I did... they tend to be not dogmatic and way less racist/sexist, compared to the rich white/black folks. And the Asians... just don't care about any of that shit.

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UnderpantsWeevil lemmy.world UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#132 · (edited) Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

because like half of all women are into astrology

In the same way that half of all men are into video games, sure.

they get really really angry with you if you don’t take them seriously when they start lecturing you about it

I've definitely had girls explain it to me. And I've stepped in it when I teased one too hard, because she just read me as an obnoxious prick (which... in my early 20s... she wasn't wrong).

But I see astrology get the same treatment as veganism. You mention, in passing, that you're into a thing. People line up around the block to heckle you and argue with you and scream slurs at you. And for some reason this doesn't really change you opinion on The Thing You're Into. It just changes your opinion on dating or on talking to anyone outside your insulated The Thing community.

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CalypsoGirl lemmy.today CalypsoGirl@lemmy.today
Joined: 2026-08-15
#133 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

I've heard that a huge percentage of people have latent homosexual/ bisexual/pansexual leanings. So just lean into it I guess.

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UnderpantsWeevil lemmy.world UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-14
#134 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

I do kinda think there's a through-line between people into horoscopes and people who never want to make a decision.

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MithranArkanere lemmy.world MithranArkanere@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-02-01
#135 · Quote Reply

I'd rather not. That's a turnoff to me.

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JigglySackles lemmy.world JigglySackles@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-13
#136 · Quote Reply

Dated a girl and, while we were walking through the park, she points up at the sky. "Oh look, Chemtrails". I absolutely bust up laughing, because I assume I've accidentally stepped into a relationship with a conspiracy theorist. She looks incredibly confused. I explain what chemtrails are. She gets even more confused. We whip out our phones for a minute. She says, "Omg I meant contrails" She's ...

LOL that's a fantastic story.

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Vespair lemmy.zip Vespair@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-06-12
#137 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

I think we get into problems like this when we start trying to quantitate privilege like this.

They have different privilege.

Almost everyone benefits from some kind of privilege. Yes, some are more profound than others, but thinking of it in simple terms of quantity accomplishes nothing for anyone.

We benefit from learning to recognize and acknowledge the specific privileges from which we benefit, not from carrying guilt or burden over the concept of privilege itself.

Explaining to a poor white man that they have privilege just because they do teaches them nothing. Explaining to them that they dont have the privilege of wealth to shield them from certain circumstances, but do have the specific privilege of not having systemic racism as an additional hurdle to their already real existing problems allows them the space to feel seen and acknowledge while still having the distance to see the point.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#138 · Quote Reply

Right. So now we are getting into what is called ‘intersectionality’. That’s where you look at all the different factors such as gender, race, sexuality, etc. Yes, some black people are going to have more privalage than some white people. We have to take all of this into account. Like I said, it really isn’t so black and white.

Right, and now I roll my eyes because I went to a rich liberal arts school full of people who lectured everyone about such terms, and then tried to volunteer or do non-profit work, and got so mad and sad they couldn't save the world, and then got a job at daddy's law firm for 200K a year because life with a bag is a lot easier than trying to liberate people from the oppression of their... life circumstances.

How privileged are you? Have you assessed yourself and given yourself a nice little intersectional score of privilege? Or are you perpetually underprivledged?

Funny thing about everyone I know who uses the term intersectionality... they never identity as privileged, they always identify as underprivileged. Especially if they were born into millions of dollars... weird how that happens?

Funny how all the immigrant and poor kids at my school... didn't study that stuff... they had to get jobs and pay bills, which, as I understand from many things I've seen on here and social media 'is oppression'.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#139 · (edited) Quote Reply

Or just don't try to get laid with stupid people.

There are more stupid people than non-stupid people.

Getting laid is a numbers game. You vastly reduce your chances if you start getting picky.

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decolo piefed.social decolo@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-06-29
#140 · Quote Reply

I can appreciate that view point as long as we are in agreement that there is no real science behind it. I can totally see how people use “I’m such a Pisces” to describe themselves as sensitive and emotional. I just wish they would say “I’m sensitive and emotional” instead, lol.

I tried to express that as clearly as I could, it's just like a more ethical version of Slytherin/gryffindor/etc, I tend to be friends with excessively referential people I guess.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#141 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

according to some folks, taking responsibility for your behavior is a shitty thing to do.

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athatet lemmy.zip athatet@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-09-12
#142 · Quote Reply

Right, and now I roll my eyes because I went to a rich liberal arts school full of people who lectured everyone about such terms, and then tried to volunteer or do non-profit work, and got so mad and sad they couldn't save the world, and then got a job at daddy's law firm for 200K a year because life with a bag is a lot easier than trying to liberate people from the oppression of their... life ...

God you are so close.

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musicalphysics discuss.online musicalphysics@discuss.online
Joined: 2026-01-12
#143 · Quote Reply

You can also apply cryptographic functions to make sure database entries are not modified - this is then an issue of transparency and not centralization.

Centralized powers can do whatever they want with the database. You are welcome to transparently watch them do whatever they want without recourse.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#144 · (edited) Quote Reply

Solution: date an astronomer

astrology believers is about 30% of the population. a few billion folks

astronomers are about 0.00016% of the population. (there are only 12,500 globally)

I went on a couple of dates with someone who had a Astronomy PhD, but worked in marketing. Not sure that counts. She did not believe in astrology, but made fun of me for working in research rather than industry.

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pega_sus lemmy.world pega_sus@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-03-08
#145 · Quote Reply

according to some folks, taking responsibility for your behavior is a shitty thing to do.

I shall say that I've both done that AND gotten laid

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Echo Dot feddit.uk echodot@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-07-26
#146 · (edited) Quote Reply

because like half of all women are into astrology In the same way that half of all men are into video games, sure. they get really really angry with you if you don’t take them seriously when they start lecturing you about it I've definitely had girls explain it to me. And I've stepped in it when I teased one too hard, because she just read me as an obnoxious prick (which... in my early 20s... s...

It's not a hobby though. Or a personal preference like veganism, it's a belief system based on an incredibly unimaginative fairy tail.

Somebody may very into collecting Yu-Gi-Oh cards but they would quite rightfully be called crazy if they started to insist that they really had magic powers. There is quite an important distinction between an interesting hobby that you kind of suspension of disbelief, believe in, versus an actual astrology theolog who insists that it's all real.

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chiliedogg lemmy.world chiliedogg@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-26
#147 · Quote Reply

astrology believers is about 30% of the population. a few billion folks astronomers are about 0.00016% of the population. (there are only 12,500 globally) I went on a couple of dates with someone who had a Astronomy PhD, but worked in marketing. Not sure that counts. She did not believe in astrology, but made fun of me for working in research rather than industry.

There's much more interest in science than there are careers in it.

I teach scuba and underwater photography at a major university as a side gig. I have dozens of former students with advanced degrees in aquatic biology who now work in retail.

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#148 · Quote Reply

I shall say that I've both done that AND gotten laid

yeah but you get laid more if you agree to blame nebulous abstract concepts for personal and social grievances.

or blame their parents.... that always works too.

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chiliedogg lemmy.world chiliedogg@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-26
#149 · Quote Reply

because like half of all women are into astrology In the same way that half of all men are into video games, sure. they get really really angry with you if you don’t take them seriously when they start lecturing you about it I've definitely had girls explain it to me. And I've stepped in it when I teased one too hard, because she just read me as an obnoxious prick (which... in my early 20s... s...

The way people treat vegans and vegetarians is so weird.

If someone doesn't smoke you don't smoke with them. If they don't drink you don't drink with them. If they abstain from sex you don't have sex with them. If they don't like sports you don't go to the game with them.

If they don't eat meat they're just an asshole.

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Passerine sopuli.xyz wh90b@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2026-04-29
#150 · Quote Reply

I almost forgot to hate women today thanks

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TubularTittyFrog lemmy.world TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-23
#151 · (edited) Quote Reply

There's much more interest in science than there are careers in it. I teach scuba and underwater photography at a major university as a side gig. I have dozens of former students with advanced degrees in aquatic biology who now work in retail.

Yeah, but how many of them come from a family where they were never expected to work or pay their own bills?

At least in my experience of a handful of folks in Marine Biology research... every single one of them.

Working low/minimal wage work isn't so bad if your folks are loaded and you'll just inherent their wealth. It's just a waiting game.

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