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Lyya Lane lemmy.blahaj.zone lyya@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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vithigar lemmy.ca vithigar@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-06-26
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Do people actually enjoy receiving discord messages or being notified? I won't deny the sound has conditioned me, but it's my fight or flight response that's being triggered.

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rockSlayer lemmy.blahaj.zone rockSlayer@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-02-24
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Do people actually enjoy receiving discord messages or being notified? I won't deny the sound has conditioned me, but it's my fight or flight response that's being triggered.

I started using discord to organize workers into unionizing. I got conditioned to see discord messages as a sign that some corporate bullshit just happened

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Sundray lemmus.org sundray@lemmus.org
Joined: 2023-12-19
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If you click, I sit.

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nikki lemmy.blahaj.zone Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2023-12-27
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Do people actually enjoy receiving discord messages or being notified? I won't deny the sound has conditioned me, but it's my fight or flight response that's being triggered.

anyone I don't want to get messages from I just block so it makes a notification mean good things

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lessthanluigi lemmy.sdf.org lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2024-11-08
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Do people actually enjoy receiving discord messages or being notified? I won't deny the sound has conditioned me, but it's my fight or flight response that's being triggered.

When I first used discord in 2016, my life was falling apart and I was still having unprocessed grief. I have been conditioned to hear that noise to expect some self-hating demon is gonna ruin my week.

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Smaile lemmy.ca Smaile@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2026-01-28
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Are you sure? I think the responce Iv been trained to feel is a bit more negative then this persons here

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captain_spicard lemmy.world captain_spicard@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-08-10
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There's a special place in hell for youtubers who use this sound in their videos.

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Dagnet lemmy.world Dagnet@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-07
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I started using discord to organize workers into unionizing. I got conditioned to see discord messages as a sign that some corporate bullshit just happened

Based

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sp3ctr4l lemmy.dbzer0.com sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-10
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There's a special place in hell for youtubers who use this sound in their videos.

smoke detector beep

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n0xy (it/its) lemmy.dbzer0.com N0tTr0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2026-05-11
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Do people actually enjoy receiving discord messages or being notified? I won't deny the sound has conditioned me, but it's my fight or flight response that's being triggered.

I have everything mute. But ICQ sound still triggers ptsd

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Seralth piefed.seralth.com Seralth@piefed.seralth.com
Joined: 2026-10-04
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There's a special place in hell for youtubers who use this sound in their videos.

When it's in a song it's truly cancer...

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Seralth piefed.seralth.com Seralth@piefed.seralth.com
Joined: 2026-10-04
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smoke detector beep

Ahh yes the endangered hood cricket such an amazing animal

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tiramichu sh.itjust.works tiramichu@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-04
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Discord sounds = off

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Gonzako lemmy.world Gonzako@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-17
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If you click, I sit.

Good girl

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Axolotl.cpp lemmy.dbzer0.com Axolotl_cpp@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2026-10-01
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Do people actually enjoy receiving discord messages or being notified? I won't deny the sound has conditioned me, but it's my fight or flight response that's being triggered.

I just block whoever i don't like and if a scammer sends me a scam link, it means i can destroy their site or database, so I just see notifies as positive

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Sundray lemmus.org sundray@lemmus.org
Joined: 2023-12-19
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Good girl

:3

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psycholocomotor lemmy.world psycholocomotor@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-10-09
#18 · (edited) Quote Reply

I had a friend who would take really long to respond to my texts and I would have sent like three times the content because I would pour out my unfiltered thoughts a lot. They would only reply to the one topic they wanted to talk about. At first it made me feel a little nervous that they didn't want to hear about some stuff and weren't reacting to it, but they explained they were fine with it. So, I was basically given the go ahead by someone to say just whatever I was thinking. So whenever they did reply and I heard the notification sound they had found whatever I said interesting enough for them to want to start a conversation about it with me.

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Fluffy Kitty Cat slrpnk.net fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-01-27
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Do people actually enjoy receiving discord messages or being notified? I won't deny the sound has conditioned me, but it's my fight or flight response that's being triggered.

The discord notification sound still gives me anxiety after a had abusive crashout by a former friend

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Brahvim lemmy.zip Brahvim@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-06-09
#20 · (edited) Quote Reply

Mastodon notifications almost did this. Luckily I successfully cut off my INSANE posting rate after 9k posts that took me... 4 months to get to.
I got to 6k posts in the first two months alone.

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