If they do...just roll with it

I like lemmy too, since I can have interactions like this, where there is communication failure, but we can figure it out. Keep writing, it is not selfish! There are always people like me, who enjoy reading the comments :)

"There are always people like me, who enjoy reading the comments"

I like that, even if you disagree or point out my flaws; it's all good. It's why I left reddit. It's refreshing to have someone point out things instead of just downboating you. I'll admit, if you read through my comments, the first thought is--you're full of shit, it doesn't surprise me. I like to write here, like a diary, of my experiences in life because the older I get the more I realize how abnormal my life was--is.

Egg?

Non-binary/egg-gender

You are a good dude. If you were fine with being an interloper you would have probably picked up on the vibe.

I don't understand I'm a braindead biker

Is sperm gender also a term that's used? Or only egg?

I have no idea

Someone who hasn't realized they're trans yet

That's true, my all girl friend group has a tendency to do that. And of course by lezzing out I mean snuggle up with our wives.

Yeah female is just the adjective form of woman. It's normal to use as an adjective, cringe as a noun

No.

Its a trans femme meme of "when am egg cracks a chick emrges".

Or so the legends I saw.

Basically, someone who hasn't quite realized they're not entirely cis yet. "I thought everyone had dreams of being a boy/girl." "I don't get all that upset when I'm mistaken for a guy/girl on the phone." "I don't really feel comfortable hanging out with other guys/girls. It feels boring."

Stuff like that. Other trans people can (usually) spot an egg a mile away. But like everything else in queerness, it's never cut-and-dry, black-and-white, easily defined. They could always just be comfortable enough in their birth-assigned gender to not give a shit, and that's valid.

It's considered rude to assign this trait to someone you know personally, and the topic is only broached if the person in question chooses to be vulnerable and ask you specific questions about gender. Otherwise, they are (as always) your friend first, and treating them with care and respect always comes first.

The typical protocol when one of your friends says or does something a little 'eggy' is to quietly notice it, treat it neutrally and passively, and not say anything for or against it. Let them figure things out on their own. If they are trans, they know they can ask you things. If they aren't, then they're just happy and comfortable being themself around you. In either case, it's not a bad thing.

Well when humans go through a trying time they turn into an egg.

6'1 eunuch

Wife's friends always requested that she bring me along even though none of the other husbands/partners were coming. When she'd ask why they would just tell her "he's fun". I assume, "without being a tiresome asshole" was the unmentioned part.

It’s refreshing to have someone point out things instead of just downboating you.

This is essentially, why I try to do it. I think there would be a lot less miscommunication, and overall better discussion athmosphere, if people just stopped to say, "hey, you sound like [this], maybe you did not mean it", instead of just downvoting - or worse, starting to hurl insults around. Nobody learns a thing, if there is no good feedback given. I know this sometimes just pisses people off, but I think it is still worth to try. Sometimes I get discussions like this one, afterall!

And I think I understand, what you mean with the difficulty, of conveying an unordinary life. I like to keep things more private here, but every time I explain the downward spiral of unfortunate things, and new and new chronic illnesses, my life has been so far, to someone, it sounds like a bad sitcom...

There are excersizes that you can still do in a limited space. Check some of these out:

https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/how-to-work-out-in-small-spaces-the-no-space-workout/

https://www.muscleandfitness.com/workouts/workout-tips/6-space-saving-exercises-do-when-gym-packed/

The main point about social hobbies is just pushing yourself to go out where people are and doing things with people. I don't know what to tell you because I don't know where you live, but I'm sure there's something you can do to get out and meet people.

I had turned into a biker at one point. It was about an eight mile ride to get this shot. Probably one of my favorite, and probably because riding all the way up there.

It sounds like you've had your fair share of struggles. Happy to have you here. I like a good chat and I don't take personally. And besides my writing style has been a bit of a mess, I know other languages and still am studying others--it's like a hobby at this point. I'm kind of interested in reading about your life with the last statement.

"One does not simply crack the egg" - Boromir

Thanks for my new ultrawide desktop background!

You're welcome! Thanks for using it!

I'll take that into account! Ty 🙏🤗

Thanks!

when am egg cracks a chick emrges

So obvious in hindsight. Thanks for sharing.

Is there a trans masc term or are they also eggs?

Suddenly Gattaca

Theyre also eggs, which is a little unfortunate there.

Egg

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