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Skullgrid lemmy.world Skullgrid@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
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does grindr have ads? ...

Shit , does OkCupid/Tinder? It's been years since I last used it

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beyoublahaj lemmy.world beyoublahaj@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-07-17
#3 · Quote Reply

this but unironically.

queer rights about to be way harder to 'afford'

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Tanis Nikana lemmy.world tanisnikana@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-19
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does grindr have ads? ... Shit , does OkCupid/Tinder? It's been years since I last used it

I met my wife with OK Cupid back in ‘14, back when someone could message someone else without being on some sort of premium bullshit.

I’m not sure that’s possible in ‘26. I don’t think we would have met today.

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Skullgrid lemmy.world Skullgrid@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
#5 · Quote Reply

I met my wife with OK Cupid back in ‘14, back when someone could message someone else without being on some sort of premium bullshit. I’m not sure that’s possible in ‘26. I don’t think we would have met today.

Nice, we're both in the "wife off OK Cupid" club.

It was ok in '19

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altphoto lemmy.today altphoto@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-04-14
#6 · Quote Reply

I got a weird relationship. My wife is basically the man and I go to work and also cook. I'm still a feminist no matter what.

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Tanis Nikana lemmy.world tanisnikana@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-19
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Nice, we're both in the "wife off OK Cupid" club. It was ok in '19

And now she’s in the room next to me, and she’s adorable and I miss her dearly. It’s been a decade. I still yearn for her. She’s right there, telling therapy to people, but I can’t even do much as look at her cause that would breach confidentiality.

I’ll have to wait until she’s done with work.

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X piefed.world X@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-10-20
#8 · Quote Reply

Nice, we're both in the "wife off OK Cupid" club. It was ok in '19

It was fairly controversial, when I first met my partner back in ‘05 on a different service. I remember match.com being a thing back then. I might be a progenitor, who knows

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X piefed.world X@piefed.world
Joined: 2025-10-20
#9 · Quote Reply

Uh, that’s LGBTQ Essentials, thank you

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ChaosCatWitch feddit.online ChaosCatWitch@feddit.online
Joined: 2025-06-24
#10 · Quote Reply

I'm in the LGBTQ+ community and this made me laugh...

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Th3D3k0y lemmy.world Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-28
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"Yeah, yeah, we'll get to the ass soon, but first let me talk to you about an amazing opportunity where you just need a couple friends... heck they can join in the whole event"

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Remember_the_tooth lemmy.world Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-01-23
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And now she’s in the room next to me, and she’s adorable and I miss her dearly. It’s been a decade. I still yearn for her. She’s right there, telling therapy to people, but I can’t even do much as look at her cause that would breach confidentiality. I’ll have to wait until she’s done with work.

If she's been in that room for a decade, I think it's okay to check on her now.

In all seriousness, thanks for sharing your experience. There are so many ugly things happening in the world right now. It's nice to stop and focus on one of the many bright sparks of light in the darkness. Brings a tear to my eye, sincerely.

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Tanis Nikana lemmy.world tanisnikana@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-19
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If she's been in that room for a decade, I think it's okay to check on her now. In all seriousness, thanks for sharing your experience. There are so many ugly things happening in the world right now. It's nice to stop and focus on one of the many bright sparks of light in the darkness. Brings a tear to my eye, sincerely.

She’s on the right.

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Cheebus lemmy.world Cheebus@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-26
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does grindr have ads? ... Shit , does OkCupid/Tinder? It's been years since I last used it

i’ll raid your shadow legends

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13readie piefed.social 13readie@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-02-27
#15 · Quote Reply

Uh, that’s LGBTQ Essentials, thank you

LGBTQ Basic, if you will

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jtrek startrek.website jtrek@startrek.website
Joined: 2026-02-22
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does grindr have ads? ... Shit , does OkCupid/Tinder? It's been years since I last used it

I think all the ones owned by match group (tinder, okcupid, hinge, match, more ..) have ads. Sometimes they'll show you ads for other services they own. It's real weird getting an ad for tinder on hinge.

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Remember_the_tooth lemmy.world Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-01-23
#17 · Quote Reply

She’s on the right.

So very lovely. You're lucky and I'm happy for you. Thanks for sharing your joy and reminding us all how beautiful the world can be.

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LeftReddit2 lemmy.world LeftReddit2@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-08-10
#18 · (edited) Quote Reply

I'm LGBT Basic edition as while I do love my government issued trans gf, I do force her to watch me stream Neon White and watch pirated movies with me.

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