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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
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older woman who is colorblind checking in here. sorry if its all a color mismatch. this was the only Halloween wig I could afford because I am very bald. 😭 but I looked at myself in the mirror and couldn't stop smiling. 😁 i love all of you!!!

i took my first dose of estradiol valerate and spironolactone this morning. i have unfortunately had a spike in blood pressure but i'm monitoring it.

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ThotDragon lemmy.blahaj.zone thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-04-24
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It's a good look!

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#3 · Quote Reply

It's a good look!

I'm just glad to finally have a dress and shoes to wear around my place and feel like myself in 😭

thank you so much for the compliment, everyone here is always so kind.

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bibluz4 lemmy.blahaj.zone bibluz4@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-09-06
#4 · Quote Reply

The hair and shoes look great con you! And the color of the dress is very pretty :D.

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Marty_TF lemmy.zip Marty_TF@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2023-12-12
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Bryllyg quokk.au Bryllyg@quokk.au
Joined: 2026-08-18
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I'm just glad to finally have a dress and shoes to wear around my place and feel like myself in 😭 thank you so much for the compliment, everyone here is always so kind.

I love that dress!!! Awesome floral pattern.

You got this, grats on day one!!

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
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I do love blues and I think it's the color I look best in because of my blue eyes! thank you for noticing! I'm still so bad at painting my nails lol

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BallShapedMan lemmy.world BallShapedMan@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-06
#8 · Quote Reply

You're killing it! 🔥🔥🔥

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Maeve kbin.earth Maeve@kbin.earth
Joined: 2024-06-16
#9 · Quote Reply

Love the dress, nails, and envy your tolerance for wigs! You look great! ❤️

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#10 · Quote Reply

Love the dress, nails, and envy your tolerance for wigs! You look great! ❤️

If I can handle this crummy wig, I can't wait to have an actual quality human hair wig, honestly.

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em2 lemmy.ml em2@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-05
#11 · Quote Reply

You look great! Looking forward to more pictures and seeing your smile grow 😊.

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#12 · Quote Reply

You look great! Looking forward to more pictures and seeing your smile grow 😊.

Thank you I still can't stop smiling and I only just noticed I managed to be so excitable that I uploaded the only photo I'm not smiling in lmao

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Malica lemmy.zip Malica@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-08-27
#13 · Quote Reply

You look great! I think the hot pink really suits you. Thank you for including us in your journey, I hope the blood pressure thing resolves quickly.

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Marty_TF lemmy.zip Marty_TF@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2023-12-12
#14 · Quote Reply

I do love blues and I think it's the color I look best in because of my blue eyes! thank you for noticing! I'm still so bad at painting my nails lol
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Maeve kbin.earth Maeve@kbin.earth
Joined: 2024-06-16
#15 · Quote Reply

If I can handle this crummy wig, I can't wait to have an actual quality human hair wig, honestly.

Have you ever tried one? They're hot and itchy. But if you can tolerate it, try a lace front.

When your money's right: https://govihair.com/what-is-a-lace-front-wig/

has good, basic information. Good luck!

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rowinxavier lemmy.world rowinxavier@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-09
#16 · Quote Reply

Congrats, mission accomplished, good job deciding what would make life better and pursuing it, it will continue getting better from here! Also, the hair is a hot pink and the dress is a mix of greyish greens and blues, so the hair really pops!

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thagoat lemmy.dbzer0.com thagoat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-03-28
#17 · Quote Reply

Slay Queen, go knock em dead.

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butwhyishischinabook anarchist.nexus butwhyishischinabook@anarchist.nexus
Joined: 2026-04-24
#18 · Quote Reply

Do you girl!

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ABCatMom lemmy.ca ABCatMom@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-07-26
#19 · Quote Reply

Everything is perfect! You look beautiful 💜

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MinnesotaGoddam lemmy.world HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-27
#20 · Quote Reply

I looked at myself in the mirror and couldn’t stop smiling

clothing has two primary purposes: the functional purpose (keeping you warm/dry), and the "does this clothing make me happy" purpose. sounds like you found a perfect outfit!

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° 。Juniper 。° piefed.zip Juniper@piefed.zip
Joined: 2026-09-17
#21 · Quote Reply

If you're ever wanting to match colors to something in the future, and you're okay with physically going into stores, you can bring the item and ask a sales person to help you. I worked in an accessory store ages ago, but my favorite task customers gave me was building a look around an item.

I love that silhouette on you, and I'm a little jealous of the freedom you gave with wigs :) Grats on your first doses!

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SpookyBogMonster lemmy.ml SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-02
#22 · Quote Reply

Holy shit, another colorblind trans girl?!

There are dozens of us!!! Dozens!!!!

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sunshine lemmy.ml sunshine@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-02
#23 · Quote Reply

let's go day 1! you are a golden goddess!!!

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Denfa lemmy.world Denfa@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-08-31
#24 · Quote Reply

Lovely dress and your feet & those look amazing!

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Dogiedog64 lemmy.world Dogiedog64@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-10-01
#25 · Quote Reply

Looking good. Keep it going.

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𝙈𝙞𝙖 quokk.au Quokka@quokk.au
Joined: 2025-06-09
#26 · Quote Reply

I love your outfit, it looks great for warm weather🩷

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Feathercrown lemmy.world Feathercrown@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-06
#27 · Quote Reply

Nice fit. The glare on the floor makes it look like you're floating lol

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Jo Miran lemmy.ml JoMiran@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-06-29
#28 · Quote Reply

I love the wig. Good eye.

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#29 · Quote Reply

Gentle does not depend on your looks.

Gentle depends on what Linux distro you are using.

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Hildegard (she/her) lemmy.blahaj.zone hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2024-12-07
#30 · Quote Reply

Hiiiiiii!!! Congrats on the HRT!!!!

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Vivian lemmy.blahaj.zone thestrike@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-02-11
#31 · Quote Reply

You look amazing! Welcome to the community :3

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neo2478 sh.itjust.works neo2478@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-07-02
#32 · Quote Reply

Love the hair and glasses combo!

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Domi lemmy.blahaj.zone Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-01-18
#33 · Quote Reply

Hey youre looking great and thats a great dress on you.

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That_Bitch_Is_Cily lemmy.blahaj.zone That_Bitch_Is_Cily@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-07-27
#34 · Quote Reply

Congratulations and I'm glad you're here! :)

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RoddyStiggs lemmy.blahaj.zone RoddyStiggs@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-03-16
#35 · Quote Reply

The dress suits you so well!!!

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SourDragon lemmy.world SourDragon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-07-21
#36 · Quote Reply

I wish I knew how to type out the onomatopoeia of the happy squeal I made

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#37 · Quote Reply

Nice fit. The glare on the floor makes it look like you're floating lol

Thank goodness for ugly 70s tiling! Thank you!

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#38 · Quote Reply

Looking good. Keep it going.

I kept it going so long I woke up on my bed and I had pulled the covers over myself, still wearing the dress.

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#39 · (edited) Quote Reply

I love the wig. Good eye.

lol, I mean, it's whatever, I do like the side-swept bangs look, though. I like bangs in general though. Thank you, though, I mean I do like it too, I just wish I had a better one.

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#40 · Quote Reply

I love your outfit, it looks great for warm weather🩷

must be why it was on sale since we're entering the winter months here lol. Thank you, I love it toooo! 🩷

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#41 · Quote Reply

Lovely dress and your feet & those look amazing!

I know that one of the main things I need to do is bring attention to my assets, so I'm going to spend a lot of time making sure my legs and feet are the center of attention.

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#42 · Quote Reply

If you're ever wanting to match colors to something in the future, and you're okay with physically going into stores, you can bring the item and ask a sales person to help you. I worked in an accessory store ages ago, but my favorite task customers gave me was building a look around an item. I love that silhouette on you, and I'm a little jealous of the freedom you gave with wigs :) Grats on yo...

I wish wigs felt like freedom, but I understand from my own experiences with my own hair when I still had it when I was young, sometimes it doesn't matter what you want to do with it, there's just no making it look how you want without having a different type of hair entirely, thickness, tensile strength, curliness, color all impact how hair is able to be styled.

Anyway, thank you for the tip on going in to stores. I don't live too far from more open minded areas, so I might be able to do that when I visit the west side of the state sometime.

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#43 · Quote Reply

I looked at myself in the mirror and couldn’t stop smiling clothing has two primary purposes: the functional purpose (keeping you warm/dry), and the "does this clothing make me happy" purpose. sounds like you found a perfect outfit!

Yes I did, thank you!

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#44 · Quote Reply

I wish I knew how to type out the onomatopoeia of the happy squeal I made

squeeeeee!

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#45 · Quote Reply

The dress suits you so well!!!

Thank you, and it's actually two sizes two big, I was able to get another cute one in the right size and shipping this one back to get replaced with the right size. I measured myself based on the size chart online and i guess it was off by a bit lol

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#46 · Quote Reply

Congratulations and I'm glad you're here! :)

Thank you I am so happy to be here!

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#47 · Quote Reply

You look great! I think the hot pink really suits you. Thank you for including us in your journey, I hope the blood pressure thing resolves quickly.

Thanks so much!

The great news is I am just a dingus who was using my blood pressure cuff wrong. Went to a welk-in clinic. Nurses tested twice and I was fine, just having a panic attack thinking I wasn't. So, it's resolved because it wasn't actually a think hooray! lol

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#48 · Quote Reply

Hey youre looking great and thats a great dress on you.

Thank you so much, I love it so much aaaaaahhhh!

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#49 · Quote Reply

You look amazing! Welcome to the community :3

Thank you all for such a warm welcome. I've been here on blahaj for years on a different account, but now I'm really here. 😭

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#50 · Quote Reply

Hiiiiiii!!! Congrats on the HRT!!!!

Heyyyyyyyy! Thanks, it's glorious already!

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Maya S. Trojan piefed.blahaj.zone maya_s_trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2026-10-12
#51 · Quote Reply

Love the hair and glasses combo!

Thank you so much, I was anxious about the glasses before all of this, because I got them as a man to suit a man and I was worried they couldn't pull double duty. But then I got put together and realized they're not that bad at all. I do wish my head wasn't so friggin wide so I could have some slightly more feminine frames but que sera sera

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