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inari
piefed.zip

inari@piefed.zip
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schipelblorp
sh.itjust.works
schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-16
#2 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Does anyone run into problem with their custom domain's emails being sent to other people's spam folders?

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username_1
discuss.tchncs.de
username_1@discuss.tchncs.de
Joined: 2026-06-01
#3 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Does anyone run into problem with their custom domain's emails being sent to other people's spam folders?

Almost everyone does.

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schipelblorp
sh.itjust.works
schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-16
#4 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Almost everyone does.
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SMillerNL
piefed.social
SMillerNL@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-01-03
#5 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Does anyone run into problem with their custom domain's emails being sent to other people's spam folders?

No, although I don’t host my own email so my “reputation” is bound to my email provider (soverin.net). I’ve found https://mxtoolbox.com/SuperTool.aspx to be useful when checking email sending at work, though

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thesystemisdown
lemmy.world
thesystemisdown@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-11-01
#6 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Does anyone run into problem with their custom domain's emails being sent to other people's spam folders?

Depending on how the hosting provider sets things up, you might have to create a few dns entries (spf, dkim, dmarc) to help your reputation. Also avoid using addresses historically reserved for admin stuff, like admin, mail, etc.

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Encrypt-Keeper
lemmy.world
EncryptKeeper@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#7 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Does anyone run into problem with their custom domain's emails being sent to other people's spam folders?

You need a DMARC policy, and then dkim or and spf record set up. Without these a lot of email providers will just assume your emails are spam.

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0x0
infosec.pub
0x0@infosec.pub
Joined: 2024-05-20
#8 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Does anyone run into problem with their custom domain's emails being sent to other people's spam folders?

https://kb.mailbox.org/en/private/custom-domains/spf-dkim-and-dmarc/

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0x0
infosec.pub
0x0@infosec.pub
Joined: 2024-05-20
#9 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Almost everyone does.

Thats not true at all

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Maestro
fedia.io

Maestro@fedia.io
Joined: 2024-03-17
#10 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

No, although I don’t host my own email so my “reputation” is bound to my email provider (soverin.net). I’ve found https://mxtoolbox.com/SuperTool.aspx to be useful when checking email sending at work, though

+1 for Soverin. They are a great provider. I have 4 domains and a dozen mailboxes with them.

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ExperimentalGuy
programming.dev
ExperimentalGuy@programming.dev
Joined: 2023-07-25
#11 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Is there a way to do this without signing up for another subscription?

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Zagorath
quokk.au
Zagorath@quokk.au
Joined: 2025-06-27
#12 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Is there a way to do this without signing up for another subscription?

A domain? No. You'll have to pay for your domain as long as you want to keep it. They're not very expensive though. A basic .com will usually run you about 10–15 dollars per year.

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urushitan 漆たん
kakera.kintsugi.moe

urushitan@kakera.kintsugi.moe
Joined: 2026-03-28
#13 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

You need a DMARC policy, and then dkim or and spf record set up. Without these a lot of email providers will just assume your emails are spam.

Even then, a lot of email is reputation based on ip blocks. You can have all of those things correct and still be sent to spam if you’re using a cloud provider or the like. If you want to avoid trying to get up reputation up, your best bet is to use a reputable mail sending system like resend or smtp2go

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Encrypt-Keeper
lemmy.world
EncryptKeeper@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-03
#14 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Even then, a lot of email is reputation based on ip blocks. You can have all of those things correct and still be sent to spam if you’re using a cloud provider or the like. If you want to avoid trying to get up reputation up, your best bet is to use a reputable mail sending system like resend or smtp2go

I wasn’t even thinking about self hosted email, but you’re right about that.

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frongt
lemmy.zip
frongt@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-07-31
#15 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Is there a way to do this without signing up for another subscription?

Yes, but you'll have to use an alternative DNS system that very few people use.

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some_guy
lemmy.sdf.org
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-06-26
#16 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Does anyone run into problem with their custom domain's emails being sent to other people's spam folders?

You can run email on a custom domain, but as other replies demonstrate, it's a huge challenge these days. (My primary email is on a custom domain, but I probably wouldn't do it again if I hadn't already been on it for two decades.)

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Mihies
programming.dev
Mihies@programming.dev
Joined: 2024-06-16
#17 Posted:   Subject: Re: I Bought a Custom Domain and So Should You Quote Reply

Even then, a lot of email is reputation based on ip blocks. You can have all of those things correct and still be sent to spam if you’re using a cloud provider or the like. If you want to avoid trying to get up reputation up, your best bet is to use a reputable mail sending system like resend or smtp2go

Yep, the big ones (MS, Google) don't give a shit about your self hosted e-mail server and throw all of your mail to spam. They don't do that with replies though.

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