Update: both instances are now back online!
Stux on mstdn.social:
So little sum up;
After days of database imports for gram and pixey both failed with errors
Ive temp upgraded the server for more RAM, recreated the databases, moved the backup to internal and tuned the server for optimal import
Currently importing pixey first since that error seemed RAM related, the error in gram seems to be a duplicate row, working on fixing that
It's kinda been hell for the past days and I'm sorry about the downtime..