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jordanlund lemmy.world jordanlund@lemmy.world
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Had the surgery 2/19 to remove the entire sigmoid colon and all the related lymph nodes.

Was in recovery 2/19 to 2/23 and released to go home!

The biopsy results came in late today and confirmed 0/12 lymph nodes were malignant. That's it! It's clean! No stage 3, no chemo required!

Follow up with the surgeon on 4/1 to talk about where we go from here, my guess is colonoscopies 2x a year for life now since it went from 0 to stage 2 in 6 months.

March is Colon Cancer Awareness Month, wear blue and get checked!

#βœ…UR:

Not sure when I'll be back modding, I still feel like someone slammed me in the gut with a baseball bat. Cricket bat for our international folks! Maybe another 2-3 weeks.

I still lurk and comment occasionally, just as my health allows!

Edit Bonus - Since my wife had her own medical event this year involving a massive infection, spinal intrusion and below knee amputation, we already hit the out of pocket maximum on our insurance for the year.

Sooo...

Get insurance guys, no, seriously, get insurance.

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choui4 lemmy.zip choui4@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-01-24
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Congrats, love you!

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siebentiger feddit.org siebentiger@feddit.org
Joined: 2025-03-28
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live long and prosper

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red_tomato lemmy.world red_tomato@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-12-30
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That’s some great world news! Congrats!

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Bonesince1997 lemmy.world Bonesince1997@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-12
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Wonderful news! Sorry to hear about your wife's issues though. It sounds like you guys have been through it! Hope it's calmer for you both now. Speedy recovery.

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thethrilloftime69 feddit.online thethrilloftime69@feddit.online
Joined: 2026-02-12
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Alhumdullilah brother amazing to hear!

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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Wonderful news! Sorry to hear about your wife's issues though. It sounds like you guys have been through it! Hope it's calmer for you both now. Speedy recovery.

2026 has been the longest year of our lives and it's FEBRUARY!

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vatlark lemmy.world vatlark@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-11
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So glad it was found early. Take time to heal and care for each other. That sounds really rough.

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Axolotl feddit.it Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it
Joined: 2025-10-10
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Congrats! So glad that it was found early;

it's crazy that you have to pay for these life-saver visits and operations btw...w

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venusaur lemmy.world venusaur@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-28
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Congratulations!

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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Congrats! So glad that it was found early; it's crazy that you have to pay for these life-saver visits and operations btw...w

America - for profit everything!

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abbadon420 sh.itjust.works abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-28
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Congrats! So glad that it was found early; it's crazy that you have to pay for these life-saver visits and operations btw...w

It's really anti-human.

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TheTechnician27 lemmy.world TheTechnician27@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-07-25
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Congrats, Jordan! Take as much time as you need. If things get out of hand here, there'll always be people ready to help.

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
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depending on your insurance, i recently had to switch ACA from state healthcare, trying to get back on state eventually as it covers everything, including dental. private is tricky since the subsidies has ended and you have to pay more for deductible/oop.

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adhd_traco piefed.social adhd_traco@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-10-23
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That's some really good news! Congrats!

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Grail multiverse.soulism.net Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-01-14
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This post breaks rule 1.

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Dremor lemmy.world Dremor@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-20
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It's really anti-human.

But, think about the capital...

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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This post breaks rule 1.

βœ…

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breakfastmtn piefed.ca breakfastmtn@piefed.ca
Joined: 2025-06-13
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Wow that's incredible news! Congrats! So glad you're back πŸŽ‰

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The Velour Fog lemmy.world Blackfeathr@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-12
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Congrats and fuck cancer!

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Admiral Patrick dubvee.org ptz@dubvee.org
Joined: 2023-06-06
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Dude! Awesome! On all fronts, awesome.

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lennybird lemmy.world lennybird@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
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Glad to hear! So sorry to both you and your wife for your medical ailments you've had to deal with. I wish you both speedy recoveries and better times ahead.

Everyone (edge-cases with health conditions aside) should be eating a high fiber, high probiotic diet, and cutting back on tobacco products and alcohol, while avoiding red meat. It took my siblings more than a year of trying to convince our high-risk dad to get his colonoscopy as his doctor wanted.

Edit: Thought I couldn't be more clear that high fiber diet is a preventative one for people not with preexisting conditions or already having major medical interventions or other unique health conditions, etc. This is pretty much implied for ANY dietary advice in any dietary article you ever read. If you're unsure, speak with your doctor of course.

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ChunkMcHorkle lemmy.world ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-15
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That is really great news! Hope you heal well and minimal pain. Best wishes to the both of you for a rapid end to this health rollercoaster and a smooth slide into your healthy new normal.

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xcutie linux.community xcutie@linux.community
Joined: 2023-08-19
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Long days and pleasant nights!

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MinnesotaGoddam lemmy.world HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-27
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Hey, glad to hear you're doing better, even though the long term outlook isn't the rosiest. Gastro surgery can be rough, and pain can impede the healing process so make sure to take care of yourself and take it easy.

Do you have family in the area (besides your wife, who you mention is also ill) that you can rely on right now? Not to scare you, but If I remember it took about 6 weeks to three months to recover from the more major gastro surgeries I had (I got complications though). Sigmoidectomy is pretty major. Normal (heh what's that) might be sooner if you got laproscopic but I am a layperson.

Let me know if you need any Ilex or calmoseptine or don't know what they are (you will likely need both as your gut adjusts to its new length)

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MinnesotaGoddam lemmy.world HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-27
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Glad to hear! So sorry to both you and your wife for your medical ailments you've had to deal with. I wish you both speedy recoveries and better times ahead. Everyone (edge-cases with health conditions aside) should be eating a high fiber, high probiotic diet, and cutting back on tobacco products and alcohol, while avoiding red meat. It took my siblings more than a year of trying to convince ou...

Dude don't tell someone who just got gut resection to eat a high fiber diet. There is 30% chance that will send them to the hospital.

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pleksi sopuli.xyz pleksi@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2025-03-10
#27 · (edited) Quote Reply

Congrats! Sounds like an excellent prognonsis!

Also, Jesus fucking christ a 100000 dollars for a workup+surgery? A similar case is propably no more than 10-15k€ in northern europe (paid by the taxpayer of course).

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FlashMobOfOne lemmy.world FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-12
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Huzzah! Glad to hear of it.

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lennybird lemmy.world lennybird@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#29 · (edited) Quote Reply

Dude don't tell someone who just got gut resection to eat a high fiber diet. There is 30% chance that will send them to the hospital.
  1. I did not.

  2. I guarantee their discharge paperwork and instructions were clear on this.

  3. I explicitly noted noted, "edge cases with health conditions aside."

Yes, of course follow guidelines by your doctor(s) and for specialized procedures. I thought it was extremely obvious my suggestions were preventative in nature.

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pomegranatefern sh.itjust.works pomegranatefern@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-01-29
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Congratulations!

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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Hey, glad to hear you're doing better, even though the long term outlook isn't the rosiest. Gastro surgery can be rough, and pain can impede the healing process so make sure to take care of yourself and take it easy. Do you have family in the area (besides your wife, who you mention is also ill) that you can rely on right now? Not to scare you, but If I remember it took about 6 weeks to three m...

My pain scale is marred by other things I've had so this really is barely registering. If I peg the 10 at "Spinal Stenosis", so far this is like a 6, currently a 4. I didn't even need the oxy today except to go to sleep.

And yeah, was laparoscopic, so I have 4 small incision sites instead of one giant one like with the open heart surgery.

As far as other gastro problems go, I was pretty screwed up by the statins they put me on for the heart stuff. So being a little more "loose" than normal is nice compared to that:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3291011/

Hopefully the two will balance each other out!

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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Dude don't tell someone who just got gut resection to eat a high fiber diet. There is 30% chance that will send them to the hospital.

^ This I'm actually under orders for a LOW fiber diet for 2 weeks!

I know, counter intuitive. But the idea is to take the pressure off where they re-stitched the colon to the rectum.

Rectum? Damn near killed 'em!

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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Congrats! Sounds like an excellent prognonsis! Also, Jesus fucking christ a 100000 dollars for a workup+surgery? A similar case is propably no more than 10-15k€ in northern europe (paid by the taxpayer of course).

You can see, the doc himself was like $7,800, the bulk of it being "hospital fees". It will be interesting to see the breakdown on the UB-04 as to what those actual fees were. Probably tens of thousands for all the lab work every 3 hours and the heparin drip I was on.

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MinnesotaGoddam lemmy.world HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-27
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I did not. I guarantee their discharge paperwork and instructions were clear on this. I explicitly noted noted, "edge cases with health conditions aside." Yes, of course follow guidelines by your doctor(s) and for specialized procedures. I thought it was extremely obvious my suggestions were preventative in nature.

edge cases with health conditions aside.”

this is the edge case. which is why you dont fucking practice medicine online

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pleksi sopuli.xyz pleksi@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2025-03-10
#35 · (edited) Quote Reply

You can see, the doc himself was like $7,800, the bulk of it being "hospital fees". It will be interesting to see the breakdown on the UB-04 as to what those actual fees were. Probably tens of thousands for all the lab work every 3 hours and the heparin drip I was on.

Yea in get that, i was talking in terms of total costs.

E: actually looked it up, most likely the whole thing wouldve been max 10000euros to the taxpayer around here (Finland). Workup+surgery+hospital stay.

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HubertManne piefed.social HubertManne@piefed.social
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Congratulations. It went by so fast. For some reason I thought you were european. Due to my wifes medical issues a long time back paying max out of pocket every year became the new normal.

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CanadaPlus lemmy.sdf.org CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
Joined: 2023-06-12
#37 · (edited) Quote Reply

Nice!

Obviously you don't have to answer since it's personal, but I am curious: How does that effect your digestion? I always kinda wonder how much intestine you really need, because apparently it's not all of it.

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lennybird lemmy.world lennybird@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
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edge cases with health conditions aside.” this is the edge case. which is why you dont fucking practice medicine online

Yes, I'm aware β€” hence why it's an exception to my advice. Is English not your first language? Because this sounds like trolling or gaslighting.

This is why reading comprehension is important.

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Feathercrown lemmy.world Feathercrown@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-06
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Congrats! Nice to see you again and I'm glad it's all working out! :D

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jballs sh.itjust.works jballs@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-13
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Glad to hear you're cancer free! My father in law just had colon cancer removed a few days ago and we're awaiting the biopsy results. Seriously: get checked, people!

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MinnesotaGoddam lemmy.world HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-27
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Yes, I'm aware β€” hence why it's an exception to my advice. Is English not your first language? Because this sounds like trolling or gaslighting. This is why reading comprehension is important.

i'm trying to pick this up: addressing a comment to everyone but the person to whom you are sending the comment to, that is not standard communication etiquette. that's why this appears to be more of a cover your ass type thing. Do Not Tell People What To Eat. Do Not Presume To Practice Medicine Over The Internet

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MinnesotaGoddam lemmy.world HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-27
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Glad to hear! So sorry to both you and your wife for your medical ailments you've had to deal with. I wish you both speedy recoveries and better times ahead. Everyone (edge-cases with health conditions aside) should be eating a high fiber, high probiotic diet, and cutting back on tobacco products and alcohol, while avoiding red meat. It took my siblings more than a year of trying to convince ou...

you're aware there are other health conditions besides colon cancer, right?

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lennybird lemmy.world lennybird@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#43 · (edited) Quote Reply

i'm trying to pick this up: addressing a comment to everyone but the person to whom you are sending the comment to, that is not standard communication etiquette. that's why this appears to be more of a cover your ass type thing. Do Not Tell People What To Eat. Do Not Presume To Practice Medicine Over The Internet

There is but no better thing to do than to reiterate that which was said for those who persist with fingers-in-ear denial without substantive refutation:

  1. I did not.

  2. I guarantee their discharge paperwork and instructions were clear on this.

  3. I explicitly noted noted, "edge cases with health conditions aside." (Ding Ding Ding)

Yes, of course follow guidelines by your doctor(s) and for specialized procedures. I thought it was extremely obvious my suggestions were preventative in nature.

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lennybird lemmy.world lennybird@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#44 · (edited) Quote Reply

you're aware there are other health conditions besides colon cancer, right?

Yep! Those would be what are called, "edge-cases with health conditions" as aforementioned. Were you unaware of this?

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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Nice! Obviously you don't have to answer since it's personal, but I am curious: How does that effect your digestion? I always kinda wonder how much intestine you really need, because apparently it's not all of it.

The colon is all about pulling water out of your stool to make poop, well... poop!

The sigmoid colon is the last line of that process. So without it, poop will still be poop, but maybe not necessarily as firm as it would be with it.

In my case, that works to my advantage, because I take statin drugs and statin drugs make me miserable. Having slightly looser stool might actually make me normal for a change!

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captainlezbian lemmy.world captainlezbian@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
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Congrats! Nothing better than being cancer free, except maybe being cancer free for free.

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fartographer lemmy.world fartographer@lemmy.world
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YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so happy for you! This was the post I've been hoping to see!

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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i'm trying to pick this up: addressing a comment to everyone but the person to whom you are sending the comment to, that is not standard communication etiquette. that's why this appears to be more of a cover your ass type thing. Do Not Tell People What To Eat. Do Not Presume To Practice Medicine Over The Internet

Guys, guys, it's all good. I got what they meant even if it may not have come across that way! We're all fine now, how are you? πŸ˜‰

They're right in that a normal, healthy person, not recovering from major surgery, should be on a diet rich in fiber.

Doesn't apply in my case because, recovering from major surgery, but you can bet once my 2 week low fiber limit expires, I'm increasing fiber. Have a plan all set and ready to go!

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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Congrats! Nothing better than being cancer free, except maybe being cancer free for free.

Cancer free without the whole "gutted like a fish" part.

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MinnesotaGoddam lemmy.world HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-27
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Guys, guys, it's all good. I got what they meant even if it may not have come across that way! We're all fine now, how are you? πŸ˜‰ They're right in that a normal, healthy person, not recovering from major surgery, should be on a diet rich in fiber. Doesn't apply in my case because, recovering from major surgery, but you can bet once my 2 week low fiber limit expires, I'm increasing fiber. Have a...

i think i need more coffee is what i am. apologies i think i am feeling a titch defensive of you since you had just a gut resection. i have here for you from my personal meme trove when i shared with my family i was getting a similar surgery. if you'd care for any practical advice or just to chat, i'm always here.

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jordanlund Moderator jordanlund@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-30
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i think i need more coffee is what i am. apologies i think i am feeling a titch defensive of you since you had just a gut resection. i have here for you from my personal meme trove when i shared with my family i was getting a similar surgery. if you'd care for any practical advice or just to chat, i'm always here.

This was mine following my 2nd heart attack:

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