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Are you a 'do the good part first' or 'save the best part for last' sort of person?
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LillyPip lemmy.ca LillyPip@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-07-08
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Why? And does it matter what the thing/situation is?

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lowspeedchase lemmy.dbzer0.com lowspeedchase@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-03-21
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Evenly distribute the good with the bad type person, dinner, work, working-out, anything really.

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AskewLord piefed.social AskewLord@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-01-16
#3 · Quote Reply

I'm a 'I don't do false dichotomies' type of person.

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so_pitted_wabam lemmy.zip so_pitted_wabam@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-02-24
#4 · Quote Reply

I use the trail mix philosophy in most situations:

Eat the best item first and then all you’re left with is the best of what is left. Ie - eat all the m&ms first 🤣

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NegentropicBoy lemmy.world NegentropicBoy@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-29
#5 · Quote Reply

Mix it up sort of person. Eat some chips, then some fish, then some salad, circle back to chips, and so on.

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LillyPip lemmy.ca LillyPip@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-07-08
#6 · (edited) Quote Reply

Mix it up sort of person. Eat some chips, then some fish, then some salad, circle back to chips, and so on.

This is what I do. Some of the good stuff up first, then save the rest of the good stuff for last. Kind of a shit sandwich, but with the best bread.

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nicgentile lemmy.world nicgentile@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-22
#7 · (edited) Quote Reply

I grew up in a dictatorship. Because of shortage of nice things, we became ABC eaters. Best for last. My ex pointed it out one day. So if we got frenchfries and a sausage, french fries first, sausage last and the sausage was considered the best so it was always last. Over 4 decades later, its french fries, salad, then the burger.

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LillyPip lemmy.ca LillyPip@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-07-08
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I grew up in a dictatorship. Because of shortage of nice things, we became ABC eaters. Best for last. My ex pointed it out one day. So if we got frenchfries and a sausage, french fries first, sausage last and the sausage was considered the best so it was always last. Over 4 decades later, its french fries, salad, then the burger.

I am sorry you had to go through that growing up. It makes perfect sense that would influence your first/last desires.

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「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) sh.itjust.works DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-06-23
#9 · Quote Reply

Eat the best thing first so the rival sibling doesn't steal it.

Also if your food spills or somehow gets contaminated, at least you have the good things already inside you.

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thinkercharmercoderfarmer slrpnk.net thinkercharmercoderfarmer@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2025-10-14
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Eat the best thing first so the rival sibling doesn't steal it. Also if your food spills or somehow gets contaminated, at least you have the good things already inside you.

Eat the best thing first so the rival sibling doesn’t steal it.

lol fuckin real. Only the strongest get the good flavor from the variety pack.

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MrQuallzin lemmy.world MrQuallzin@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-09
#11 · Quote Reply

It's vibes based

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YiddishMcSquidish lemmy.today YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-03-10
#12 · Quote Reply

Depends if time makes the best part worse, like anything fried.

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Drusas fedia.io Drusas@fedia.io
Joined: 2024-08-16
#13 · Quote Reply

Last.

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EndlessNightmare reddthat.com EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com
Joined: 2024-03-24
#14 · Quote Reply

Definitely situational, but in a vacuum I'd save the best for last.

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Gonzako lemmy.world Gonzako@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-17
#15 · Quote Reply

Easy, good parts first so you then eat the good parts of the ones that choose later.

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nicgentile lemmy.world nicgentile@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-03-22
#16 · Quote Reply

I am sorry you had to go through that growing up. It makes perfect sense that would influence your first/last desires.

Such is life. The hardest part, and something I’m still actively unlearning, is how we were taught to eat in boarding school. You had under three minutes to finish your meal. If you didn’t, you threw it away. It was crappy barely cooked food. It was a terrible way to live. That was what my 4 years of high school taught me.

Years later, I was having lunch with my niece and nephews when one of them commented, “Look, Uncle eats like those guys in prison.” It stung, because it was true. And honestly, the time limit was only part of it. The worse lesson was that if you didn’t eat fast enough, bullies would finish first and grab your plate. So you learned to eat quickly while keeping your head up, always watching your back.

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JakoJakoJako13 piefed.social JakoJakoJako13@piefed.social
Joined: 2025-04-22
#17 · Quote Reply

Option 3. Load the fork up with everything all at once.

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Starya67 lemmy.world starlinguk@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-17
#18 · Quote Reply

Save the best part for last when my brothers aren't around to steal it. My family thought it was hilarious when they did that.

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yermaw sh.itjust.works yermaw@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2025-07-10
#19 · Quote Reply

Save the best part for last when my brothers aren't around to steal it. My family thought it was hilarious when they did that.

Do the best part immediately when they are around.

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AstroLightz lemmy.world AstroLightz@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-29
#20 · Quote Reply

Both? There's no real pattern to which I choose for what situation, just whatever I feel like doing in the moment.

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HobbitFoot thelemmy.club HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club
Joined: 2023-06-16
#21 · Quote Reply

I used to be a "save the best for last" kind of person, but that's changed over time as my total capacity to do certain things has diminished I want to focus first on the stuff I like the most.

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[object Object] lemmy.world SlurpingPus@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-11-03
#22 · (edited) Quote Reply

Eat the best thing first so the rival sibling doesn't steal it. Also if your food spills or somehow gets contaminated, at least you have the good things already inside you.

Take my share and then nibble at it for half an hour while the sibling looks at me, having eaten their portion in a minute.

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AA5B lemmy.world AA5B@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-09
#23 · Quote Reply

First. I’ve always been “save the best for last”, but I’ve spent my entire life regretting never getting to the good part. I deserve better

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LillyPip lemmy.ca LillyPip@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2023-07-08
#24 · Quote Reply

First. I’ve always been “save the best for last”, but I’ve spent my entire life regretting never getting to the good part. I deserve better

You do deserve better. I am glad you can see that now.

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